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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How long have you got to be fucking somebody before they become your fuck buddy?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

4-10 hours

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

There is no time frame..Its whether you want to see them again for them to become your bed buddy... I hate the term fuck buddy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been with mine 8 months lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer FWB and like Cheeky said, depends how many times you see them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well after the 3rd meet we knew we were hooked! Since then I would say we were friends with massive benefits, I think it's when u decide u click with a person on a level other than just sex!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"There is no time frame...I hate the term fuck buddy..."

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

How long? Is there a specific time frame?

Could be after one meet, a couple or several - but you'll most likely have talked about the idea, realised you enjoy the same kind of fun and think that approaching it together could be an addition to your life on site - rather than a replacement for your previous activities.

FB's leave themselves the option of both playing together but also continuing to enjoy their fun apart too. Otherwise - if you decide to only play together and abandon activity alone - then surely you become a couple?

A good FB is priceless - so long as you can stick to any agreements re 'rules', boundaries and expectancies. And if it ever becomes more complicated than originally planned, one party changes their views, needs or wants, or it stops being fun - then that's the time to move on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry didnt mean to offend anyone I'm meeting the same woman for the 3ed time tomorrow and was just thinking is she my fwb x

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I don't like the term FB, I always think of Facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are fb's but we prefer to use the term lovers now.we have been together over 2 years now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah that's true its meant to be fun

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Sorry didnt mean to offend anyone I'm meeting the same woman for the 3ed time tomorrow and was just thinking is she my fwb x "

You need to have the conversation with her..We can't answer that one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was with my "friend" for two and a half years.. Miss her like mad

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Sorry didnt mean to offend anyone I'm meeting the same woman for the 3ed time tomorrow and was just thinking is she my fwb x

You need to have the conversation with her..We can't answer that one... "

If its only your 3rd - I wouldnt discuss it at all for fear shed run for the hills.

3 is not that many times at all to be fbs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally make the lady agree to being FWB before I untie them and let them go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to all of you you have been very helpfull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discuss it from the start we did and we have been together for over two yrs.

We started as fbs then after a year we were fwbs as we are became good friends with the benefits of fun sex........ mmmmmm

To make it work as fwbs u have to be honest from the start to gain trust to be more adventurous with sex. Lots of pleasurable sex too mmmmm!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

We are FB's who meet a lot and always have

I (Fox) always referred to his lordship as my 'regular guy' and it was only recently - after approx 5 months - that I started calling him a FB

It depends on each 'couple' and their situations on when you would class yourselves any title - you just have to talk about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long have you got to be fucking somebody before they become your fuck buddy? "

My FBs have always been FBs from our first meet, in that we were individuals looking for sexually like-minded partners, so that we could enjoy swinging as a "couple". As "singles", swinging is restricted, but as a FB couple ... there are so many more opportunities available. Whilst I've always enjoyed 121 sex with my FBs .. thats just normal sex. With my Fbs, we've retained our independence to swing singly, as well as swinging together. Just agree the "rules of engagement" with your FB ... and have fun

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By *dynlisaCouple
over a year ago

Notts

We are trying to find one local to us

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

I just love it when someone asks the exact things I want to know in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

231 minutes in total.

It is usually acceptable to stop at this time for a quick high five before continuing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good question

for me it don't matter if its a first meet or a 10th meet they are just a guy im meeting for sex

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I have the privilege to have a fb and we have an agreement so we know what the expectations and boundaries are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry didnt mean to offend anyone I'm meeting the same woman for the 3ed time tomorrow and was just thinking is she my fwb x "

Maybe ask her?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

how about playmate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think .. some ( and I do mean some) of these ' couples' always have one half who want MORE than the other

Its easy to read and see sometimes

Be careful of raising expectations with the other party - I hate to see heartache

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how about playmate "
I prefer playmate too... Les vulgar than FB and less serious than lovers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have yet had the pleasure to find a 'friend with benefits' but still on the look out lol. Just take things as they come and maybe find someone who enjoys the same things as me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have yet had the pleasure to find a 'friend with benefits' but still on the look out lol. Just take things as they come and maybe find someone who enjoys the same things as me "

I'm sure I will like most of them hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have yet had the pleasure to find a 'friend with benefits' but still on the look out lol. Just take things as they come and maybe find someone who enjoys the same things as me "

U will find an fwb just have patience. Took me cpl yrs before met gio. We have been fwbs for over 2yrs now. We chatted for while via msn about what we were wanting and fantasies. Realised that had a connection so arranged social meet. We have honesty n trust wont work otherwise as need to have that to let each other explore more.

We know exactly what buttons to press to make each other horny because we talk filth all time especially before meeting up. The anticipation of a meet gets us really horny.

U have to remember though with an fwb that its nsa fun only!

Love having fun with gio mmmm he knows exactly how to pleasure me !

Luci

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really matter? Hate the FB term anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U have to remember though with an fwb that its nsa fun only!"

Oh? Who says so??

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

my bed buddy and I were buddies for 15months, he was in relationship so we had boundaries...but was really good fun...nothing serious, but we didn't sleep around with others...

im now in relationship and we called it a day...we're still friends though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fwb and I are only just getting started, but enjoying each other a lot.

When we are together it's an escape from reality x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Personally I think .. some ( and I do mean some) of these ' couples' always have one half who want MORE than the other

Its easy to read and see sometimes

Be careful of raising expectations with the other party - I hate to see heartache"

Yes, it's obvious to see. I maybe cynical but it comes across in most cases as the woman wanting more and the man using the "couple" status to more pussy!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"My fwb and I are only just getting started, but enjoying each other a lot.

When we are together it's an escape from reality x"

What happens when he goes soggy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until the roofie wears off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when Im going with a lady and we meet more than once and intend to meet up, that is when we call it fwb,,, but if Im meeting a guy who I intend to meet again and again, then he's a fuck buddy,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had one for 3 years and we both decided from the outset we would just be FBs...nothing has changed in all that time. We only meet for sex even though we are very good friends, he has a partner and we both have separate private lives.

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