FabSwingers.com forum: how you got started?

By *hocolateRod OP Man
1 day ago

London and over UK

am always intrigued how people got started in the fun world of fab

so will start the ball rolling - as younger guy, I answered a singles ad (was in the paper back then and pre internet) from what i thought was single lady. Chatted to her on the phone and she said she was married and looking for men to join her and her husband. I nearly fell off my chair. Well, I jumped at the chance ! Never looked back - lets just say there is certain hotel in London Victoria that when I pass - I smile to myself!

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By *hat.coupleCouple
1 day ago

Kent

Ive always been bi but never admitted it to myself or anyone else. About 5 years ago I came out to my husband, he wasnt shocked as he already knew! I thought I hid it well 🤣

In telling him he said he'd be ok with me exploring with women on my own as id never been with a woman before. He was very shocked when I told him I had a massive fantasy to have a 3 sum with him and another woman. After a while he agreed once the shock wore off. We joined fab and started going to swinger clubs, the rest is history.

Mrs x

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By *nvader2021Couple
1 day ago

Watford

It started as a joke and a tease but we both enjoy inviting others to join us. So openness, trust, communication and honesty leads to heady times

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
1 day ago

London and over UK

"It started as a joke and a tease but we both enjoy inviting others to join us. So openness, trust, communication and honesty leads to heady times"

how so - a joke? one of you was joking/teasing the other about inviting others into your sex lives?

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
1 day ago

London and over UK

"Ive always been bi but never admitted it to myself or anyone else. About 5 years ago I came out to my husband, he wasnt shocked as he already knew! I thought I hid it well 🤣

Wow - thats quite the story- am sure lots of husbands would sign up for MFF fun! great story

Mrs x"

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By *uxurycollectionCouple
1 day ago

Port Talbot

Talking about it on a night out and both getting turned on. Then on a holiday a couple of years back there was a club near our hotel and we dipped our toes in. Never looked back.

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By *ealitybitesMan
1 day ago

Belfast

This whole site and lifestyle as some refer to it was completely alien to me.

I knew nothing like this or had even a passing interest.

I reached the age of 50 with very little sexual experience but a couple of things happened around that time that changed my whole outlook on life in general.

I found myself on another site 2 years later almost by accident but it wasn't very user friendly and when looking for alternatives found this one.

It hasn't been something I've explored to any great degree and it's definitely not a lifestyle choice as far as I'm concerned. It's never been anything more than a hobby and one I could walk away from without looking back.

I haven't met anyone new since 2020 for various reasons but all my meets prior to that have been one to one so my experiences during 10 years here have been limited.

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
1 day ago

London and over UK

"Talking about it on a night out and both getting turned on. Then on a holiday a couple of years back there was a club near our hotel and we dipped our toes in. Never looked back. "

damn - good for you - interesting - how it starts with a chat and realisation that both are into swinging

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By *nvader2021Couple
1 day ago

Watford

"It started as a joke and a tease but we both enjoy inviting others to join us. So openness, trust, communication and honesty leads to heady times

how so - a joke? one of you was joking/teasing the other about inviting others into your sex lives?"

Exactly that

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
1 day ago

London and over UK

"It started as a joke and a tease but we both enjoy inviting others to join us. So openness, trust, communication and honesty leads to heady times

how so - a joke? one of you was joking/teasing the other about inviting others into your sex lives?

How did you go to the next step? go to a club?

Exactly that

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By *rankieiamMan
20 hours ago

reading

Fell into it on holiday with an ex

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By *tickler2000Man
19 hours ago

St Agnes

Got told about Fab by a cuck couple I've play with for many years.

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
19 hours ago

Ryde

My husband saw Fabswingers' web-address literally scrawled on the wall of a public toilet!

Not telling me, he signed us up as couple and checked the layout before gently broaching the subject about 2 years later. He just wanted me to have "the Rolls-Royce of fucks", and with empty-nest syndrome in full effect, I eventually plucked up the courage to let a relative stranger have sex with me.

Of course, all barriers came crashing down before long!

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By *haringisCaring1208Couple
19 hours ago

Lurgan

Long story short, D told me he had a fantasy of watching me with another man. Lot of talking later, with a bit of research, we found fab and decided to join to see if it was something we should try. 2 and a half years later, we are still having fun

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
9 hours ago

London and over UK

"My husband saw Fabswingers' web-address literally scrawled on the wall of a public toilet!

Of course, all barriers came crashing down before long!

Good for you! Thats quite the story !

Think a lot of husbands are excited about the thought of their wives with another man ...

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By *uHorny1Man
9 hours ago

Cannock

Visited a porn cinema. A couple visited and I was lucky that she decided she wanted to suck me off.

Afterwards, they asked for my Fab username. I'd never heard of Fab. I made an account and that started the ball rolling...

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
9 hours ago

London and over UK

"Visited a porn cinema. A couple visited and I was lucky that she decided she wanted to suck me off.

Afterwards, they asked for my Fab username. I'd never heard of Fab. I made an account and that started the ball rolling..."

Hi- good for you! i dont think I would be brave enough to go to a porn cinema - but good for you

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
8 hours ago

Rotherham

Started swinging after a d*unken unplanned threesome at a uni party, not long after turned from swinging to cuckold after meeting a hung Dom guy for a threesome , the rest is history as they say

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By *s2walesCouple
8 hours ago

Gwent...

Wife had a thing with her friend in uni years ago. Years later when we were together she told me about it. We contacted her and found out she and her husband were swingers....

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By *dultfun74Man
8 hours ago

playtown

Back in 2011 after divorce and enjoying the single life just missed the sex so had tried cam and chat group and found fab through there and had really good time.

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By *yan7777Man
8 hours ago

Motherwell

Was a very curious lad and we had ads in back of paper where you’d listen to other people’s voice ads and have your own. Put on an older sounding ad and trawled through.. eventually met a couple who were keen and picked me up in their van…

Sounds risky as hell now as I say it but back then, hot as!!!

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
7 hours ago

London and over UK

"Wife had a thing with her friend in uni years ago. Years later when we were together she told me about it. We contacted her and found out she and her husband were swingers...."

wow!

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By *otoncouple121Couple
7 hours ago

southampton

Found out she slept with a black guy before we met and also in the early stages of the relationship she asked how I felt about a mfm so many years later we joined here and had our first mfm and still have them every now and then

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By *xxMandLxxxCouple
7 hours ago

Southampton

Grew from beach nudism and exhibitionism for us. It seemed people liked seeing us naked so we dived in.

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
4 hours ago

London and over UK

"Found out she slept with a black guy before we met and also in the early stages of the relationship she asked how I felt about a mfm so many years later we joined here and had our first mfm and still have them every now and then

wow - love the fact you were turned on by her previous lover

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By *umagain58Man
4 hours ago

London

Mine was not planned. Was very long time back when a student and used to lodge with a couple. One morning the wife came on to me. I was really nervous but she taught me and introduced me to swinging world

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By *hilemupMan
2 hours ago

Liverpool

Long before I joined Fab I was offered a summer working in a friend's bar in Tenerife, I had the window seat on the flight and a couple in their 50's sat alongside me with the female in the middle seat.

Almost from the off we got chatting, she was very friendly and had a great sense of humour, she was also very tactile touching my arm and my leg as we chatted.

As we parted on the luggage carousel I thought that was it, but a couple of nights later they walked into my bar and we just started chatting like we had on the plane.

He went across the road to the bar opposite that was showing football leaving her to chat to me, she admitted that they'd scoured all the bars hoping to see me again, and just came out with it....she wanted me to join them at their hotel room for a threesome.

I had several nights with them before they went home, and even spent one afternoon fucking her while he went off golfing.

I was hooked.....

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
1 hour ago

London and over UK

"Long before I joined Fab I was offered a summer working in a friend's bar in Tenerife, I had the window seat on the flight and a couple in their 50's sat alongside me with the female in the middle seat.

Almost from the off we got chatting, she was very friendly and had a great sense of humour, she was also very tactile touching my arm and my leg as we chatted.

As we parted on the luggage carousel I thought that was it, but a couple of nights later they walked into my bar and we just started chatting like we had on the plane.

I had several nights with them before they went home, and even spent one afternoon fucking her while he went off golfing.

I was hooked....."

wow - thats a fantastic story! great holiday!

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By *uxuriantCouple
16 minutes ago

Cornwall

An amazing night, especially as it was unplanned and our first ever experience. Mrs Lux invited a girlfriend round. A visit to the pub and several bottles of wine later, the other girl started stroking Mrs L’s leg. I left them to it for a few minutes on the pretence of doing something in the kitchen, but watched through the doorway discreetly as they started kissing and removed each others tops and bras. At this point it seemed like a good idea to rejoin them. What followed set us off on our lifestyle journey all thanks to this lovely lady.

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