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By *eyeY OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Now while we're utterly aware of the unfortunate stigma regards bi guy's. Meaning many unfortunately (and this includes many who are part of a couple), do not publish the fact/curiousity on their profiles.

We hear stories of guys not respecting that the other is straight (deplorable) and witness many peoples orientation switching repeatedly either way..

So the question, is, how the hell do other bi couples ascertain sincerity?

We've enjoyed straight full swap, but no longer pursue it and want bi enjoyment as it's the only thing we can't give eachother, only it's a complete guessing game here.

Thank you for persevering with our ramblings and big love all! 😘

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By *ickylouCouple
2 weeks ago

birmingham

We talk with the people we play with quite a lot on here before we meet them.

Maybe move to telegram

We talk about everything. General life.

Work. What we are looking for.

What they are looking for. Fantasies we have. Fantasies they have

We then meet for a social. Discuss things face to face. Lay down some rules.

Then if all ok. Progress to play

Thing with us is we are not looking for one off’s

Hope this helps. X

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By *ecky and justCouple
2 weeks ago

Godalming

This is the only way really. Good communication.

Veri’s that show bi meets are a great help.

The challenge is in picking playmates where everyone is desired equally.

Fabulous fun when it happens.

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By *eyeY OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Appreciate your time, it's really about stated 'straight' guys becoming bi when we say we are only looking for bi and couple's a similar vein..

We've been avoided because we've been open about D's/our desire and have experienced 'wife stealing' tactics as well.

Neither scenario we wish to repeat and are upfront with any who contact us, just the feeling many will say anything while horny 🤷😉🤣

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By *eyeY OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Nr Leicester


"This is the only way really. Good communication.

Veri’s that show bi meets are a great help.

The challenge is in picking playmates where everyone is desired equally.

Fabulous fun when it happens. "

Knew you'd be an accurate voice of reason somehow 😉😘

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By *ecky and justCouple
2 weeks ago

Godalming

Sadly yes, many will admit to being bi when the prospect of a meet is there. Some may even attempt some bi involvement but the reality is that it’s for show.

It feels rubbish when it happens.

Some profiles have suggested a MM play date first, as a way to assess whether someone is truly bi. Just as challenging though when time is sparse.

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By *ecky and justCouple
2 weeks ago

Godalming


"This is the only way really. Good communication.

Veri’s that show bi meets are a great help.

The challenge is in picking playmates where everyone is desired equally.

Fabulous fun when it happens.

Knew you'd be an accurate voice of reason somehow 😉😘"

🤗😘

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By *eyeY OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Nr Leicester


"Sadly yes, many will admit to being bi when the prospect of a meet is there. Some may even attempt some bi involvement but the reality is that it’s for show.

It feels rubbish when it happens.

Some profiles have suggested a MM play date first, as a way to assess whether someone is truly bi. Just as challenging though when time is sparse.

"

Yup!

Not our style honestly, whilst D is fully engaged with another guy, his enjoyment is derived mentally from mine as well as the physical activity, we're just weird evidently! 🤣

But it's a fabmin headache 🤦😘

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

People with straight on their profile are usually more trouble than they're worth when they message to ask for a meet

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It's a minefield and from the other side, as a straight person, it's annoying as hell when they claim the woman of a couple is straight and she isn't.

Then they try for bi play with me, after we've explained we only do straight swaps etc.

I wish more people on here would be honest with themselves aswell as others. Not chop and change their sexuality to suit who they fancy or want to meet at the time.

My other half is orally bi, with the right people after discussions about it. It may put some off, but we'd much rather be upfront about it.

As someone else said, veries are a good indicator and some profile shots, but when it comes down to it, you're relying on people to be truthful and lots aren't.

Recommendations from others may be useful too, ie if they've met any of your citcle /friends and shown they are actually bi and look to play that way.

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By *ngelLordCouple
2 weeks ago

Newport

The worst is when everything right and u get to meet and straight away you have that feeling that something isn't happened a few times unfortunately they hope to get away with lies

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By *agiccasterMan
2 weeks ago

worksop

Love bi fun when I can

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By *agiccasterMan
2 weeks ago

worksop

Love bi fun when I can

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By *agiccasterMan
2 weeks ago

worksop

Love bi fun when I can

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By *iddle aged and chubbyMan
2 weeks ago

Shefford

my profile state's I'm bi, because I am as happy eating pussy as I am sucking cock

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By *e13guyMan
2 weeks ago

Lewisham

You can be a bit trigger happy. You blocked me for not being bi enough for you. Even when I'm always up for full sex with the male half while she just watches.

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By *ickylouCouple
2 weeks ago

birmingham

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By *ickylouCouple
2 weeks ago

birmingham

Tbh. If profile says straight we are not interested as we are looking for bi guys.

If they say they are bi after we tell them that.

we will not be interested as we are not looking for straight people or liars.

Total honesty x

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By *ab_paulMan
2 weeks ago

Hitchin


"Now while we're utterly aware of the unfortunate stigma regards bi guy's. Meaning many unfortunately (and this includes many who are part of a couple), do not publish the fact/curiousity on their profiles.

We hear stories of guys not respecting that the other is straight (deplorable) and witness many peoples orientation switching repeatedly either way..

So the question, is, how the hell do other bi couples ascertain sincerity?

We've enjoyed straight full swap, but no longer pursue it and want bi enjoyment as it's the only thing we can't give eachother, only it's a complete guessing game here.

Thank you for persevering with our ramblings and big love all! 😘

"
Sexy pair .... You could take note of guys whose pics/vids actually include bi fun?

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