FabSwingers.com forum: What’s something newbies always get wrong?

By *ero5 OP Man
2 weeks ago

London

Be nice. If you can’t be nice at least be funny.

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By *izzy.Woman
2 weeks ago

Stoke area

Having a profile picture which is either a silhouette or a photo of their willy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

They don't always get the same thing wrong.

We assumed everyone was discreet, respectful and honest when we started out .

poor naive fools that we were

*Some* people have wildly unrealistic expectations when they start swinging which includes us I guess

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By *ero5 OP Man
2 weeks ago

London

"Having a profile picture which is either a silhouette or a photo of their willy.

😂😂

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By *ero5 OP Man
2 weeks ago

London

"They don't always get the same thing wrong.

We assumed everyone was discreet, respectful and honest when we started out .

poor naive fools that we were

*Some* people have wildly unrealistic expectations when they start swinging which includes us I guess "

So it’s more about managing expectations than anything else?

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By *he National ThrustMan
2 weeks ago

Out standing in my field, Sussex

Underpants on BEFORE trousers.

It used to catch me out every single time....

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By *ero5 OP Man
2 weeks ago

London

"Underpants on BEFORE trousers.

It used to catch me out every single time...."

Unless you’re a superhero.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

"They don't always get the same thing wrong.

We assumed everyone was discreet, respectful and honest when we started out .

poor naive fools that we were

*Some* people have wildly unrealistic expectations when they start swinging which includes us I guess

So it’s more about managing expectations than anything else? "

Yes I think so. We had unrealistic expectations which we soon adjusted. A lot of people expect it will be very easy to meet people for sex, a lot expect people to be exactly who they purport to be, a lot of people expect everyone to be truthful. A lot of people are disappointed

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Send cock pics, don't read profiles.

Couples looking for other couples, who only show the woman in their profile pics.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

Central

Apparently, they join the masses who expect almost instantaneous sex. wanted by everyone logged in, at any time of the day or night

A pic taken with the quality of the 1st phone cameras, of anything, should satisfy anyone

Copying and pasting several thousand words of disclaimers, more than your 'Fill in later' profile text, will prevent anything, even a nuclear apocalypse

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Round the bend

Expecting sex on tap the minute they join up

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By *layfullsamMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull

Thinking it’s instashag

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By *WB85Man
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Expectations set too high quite often.

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By *ero5 OP Man
2 weeks ago

London

"Thinking it’s instashag "

😂😂

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

Not following up on any solicited profile advice.

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By *ustus5555Woman
2 weeks ago

Nottingham

I agree with the instashag comments. Every Sunday morning there's 1000s of silhouette profiles that were hoping to get a shag in a Saturday night but didn't.

Always an instant block.

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By *harAndBryCouple
2 weeks ago

Downham Market

Thinking that swingers will have sex with all other swingers. There still has to be a physical attraction and most people don't fancy most people.

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By *ero5 OP Man
2 weeks ago

London

"Not following up on any solicited profile advice. "

Sometimes you gotta listen to learn pal.

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By *tr1990Man
2 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Very much a newbie so any advice is greatly appreciated guys and girls

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Very much a newbie so any advice is greatly appreciated guys and girls "

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My dear chap, the usual protocol is to create your own thread and ask for advice, as opposed to hijacking someone else's thread. The reason being other people might also start asking for advice and then we don't know whose advice is being offered to whom.

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By *tr1990Man
2 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"Very much a newbie so any advice is greatly appreciated guys and girls

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Ah very true my apologies all.

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Very much a newbie so any advice is greatly appreciated guys and girls

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Ah very true my apologies all. "

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No apologies necessary. ⚜️

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By *ero5 OP Man
2 weeks ago

London

"Very much a newbie so any advice is greatly appreciated guys and girls "

Im sure we can share mate.

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By *artorialMan
2 weeks ago

weymouth

Expecting this site is instant shagfest - well for few it maybe but most of us have to put the time in

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By *arzanandJane2016Couple
2 weeks ago

the big city

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By *r BloMan
2 weeks ago

Stourbridge

That everyone is nice, compatible and will be part of your journey...

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By *arzanandJane2016Couple
2 weeks ago

the big city

We thought this would be a walk in the park. We used a different platform before fab got photo sharked several times and then had a failed meet ghosted on the day.

Joined fab bombarded with dick pics and “want to fuck” messages filtered out the single men to get some breathing space and then its failed messages no responses or blocked

Swinging is a very difficult hobby 🤣

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By *ero5 OP Man
2 weeks ago

London

"We thought this would be a walk in the park. We used a different platform before fab got photo sharked several times and then had a failed meet ghosted on the day.

Joined fab bombarded with dick pics and “want to fuck” messages filtered out the single men to get some breathing space and then its failed messages no responses or blocked

Swinging is a very difficult hobby 🤣"

Sounds like you’ve been through the wars. I hope it gets easier for you.

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