FabSwingers.com forum: Question to all fab members

By *upersonic48 OP Man
2 weeks ago

fareham

Do you love the excitement on this site or do you find it frustrating annoying and sometimes boring

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By *ilfhunter1980Man
2 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

Exciting at the prospect of what might happen & also frustrating at the same time as a single male that majority of the time nothing materialises.

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By *arand25Couple
2 weeks ago

Crowborough

The excitement of planned meets with single guys has been vastly outweighed by the disappointment of those guys cancelling at the last minute.

We've stopped looking now & just don't bother.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds

I’m finding it increasingly boring unfortunately

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By *upersonic48 OP Man
2 weeks ago

fareham

"The excitement of planned meets with single guys has been vastly outweighed by the disappointment of those guys cancelling at the last minute.

We've stopped looking now & just don't bother."

So many fakes in here isn’t there and time wasters x

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

A bit of both at times, if I'm honest.

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By *ellsOMan
2 weeks ago

hull

Yes to all of it, yet I'm still here

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By *upersonic48 OP Man
2 weeks ago

fareham

This can be iow a drug you try to stay away and back after a break to see what your missing x

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

Excitement rarely.

Boring, frequently.

Frustrating, never.

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By *heElvingtonTwoCouple
2 weeks ago

elvington

Mostly boring we only ever get interest from men but we’re looking for women so kinda pissing into the wind really

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By *omsarah73Couple
2 weeks ago

Suffolk

I find it exciting when we’ve got something happening on here, but when it’s over and done with I can take it or leave it.

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By *ecker30Man
2 weeks ago

Northwich

I find it hard and most of the time and it kills my interest. I've had 4 no shows from females and couples, 2 meets in 5 years which went OK. Sent hundreds of messages and only a few replies.

My membership runs out tomorrow. Do I renew?

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By *maginitivemindMan
2 weeks ago

notts

When it’s good it’s very good but frustrating when it’s quiet or your regular friends aren’t on line

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By *upersonic48 OP Man
2 weeks ago

fareham

Think we are all thinking the same on here x

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By *iredhand2Man
2 weeks ago

Sale

It’s best to temper your expectations where fab is concerned. Some seem to think it’s offering a guaranteed shag, but they aren’t the genuine swingers.

Unfortunately it’s those people that have sent genuine swingers running for the hills (or their nearest club) rather than submit themselves to the abuse they get from entitled people faced with rejection. The advent of AI isn’t likely to improve things either, and despite the site warning that AI images won’t be tolerated, I’m not convinced the filters are in place to prevent it. Apart from that it’s great! 😂

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By *r Secret FriendMan
2 weeks ago

Halifax / Huddersfield

Trying to find a local genuine lady for fun is very difficult imo.

When it does happen though it’s always well worth the effort !

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By *parkle1974Woman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

Lately it's been quite flat....same shit just a different day.

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By *CExeCouple
2 weeks ago

Hong-Kong/Exeter

It was better when it was mostly genuine swingers. Now the horndog men and the OF couples etc have made it a lot more difficult to find genuine and reliable folks. That said, we've been lucky and met some great people and had a lot of fun!

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By *arand25Couple
2 weeks ago

Crowborough

"The excitement of planned meets with single guys has been vastly outweighed by the disappointment of those guys cancelling at the last minute.

We've stopped looking now & just don't bother.

So many fakes in here isn’t there and time wasters x"

Absolutely crammed full of them, shame for the decent guys.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
2 weeks ago

London

I have recently returned after some time off and I’m finding it quite flat, if I’m being honest.

I am though in a different position now then I was before but still. Or maybe I’m still trying to find my way back.

Forums can be rather amusing at times, however.

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By *luebell888Woman
2 weeks ago

Glasgowish

The excitement wore off years ago, but I still find fab interesting and educational.

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By *maginitivemindMan
2 weeks ago

notts

"I have recently returned after some time off and I’m finding it quite flat, if I’m being honest.

I am though in a different position now then I was before but still. Or maybe I’m still trying to find my way back.

Forums can be rather amusing at times, however. "

I agree the forums nearly always put a smile on my face

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
2 weeks ago

Essex

It’s not particularly exciting it’s turned into a routine process of attempting to meet people. We don’t get excited anymore until plans are made and getting close

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By *VCouple123Couple
2 weeks ago

Bucks

Boring mostly, fab seems to have declined since we joined but very occasionally it throws up something fun

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By *rikki1967ukMan
2 weeks ago

peterborough

Same profiles.can be cliquey.lot of interest lately but when comes to meets just excuses and thit is from couples

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

There is no out-of-the-box excitement on this site. Any excitement that I've experienced has been on the back of effort, energy and patience.

I don't find it frustrating or annoying, nor even boring.

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By *all me FlikWoman
2 weeks ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

It's more like adult social media and I no longer look for meets from the site due to let downs. I just concentrate on clubs, holidays and time away.

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By *maginitivemindMan
2 weeks ago

notts

"It's more like adult social media and I no longer look for meets from the site due to let downs. I just concentrate on clubs, holidays and time away."

Good summary x

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By *oeBeansMan
2 weeks ago

Derby

I take the boring stuff as the base standard when it comes to the site and that way anything more just raises the level of excitement more than what it would've been

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By *lrightthenMan
2 weeks ago

Bradford

I find it boring. Absolutely no excitement. Because you get talking to someone, eventually, and get on really well, arrange a meet, suddenly they're unavailable on the day. No message, no excuse, nothing. Just a few days later, message to arrange a meet. No

Every time. It gets so old fast

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By *penminded7Man
2 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Its good fun. Matching and chatting to strangers, seeing where it goes.

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By *layToWin69Man
2 weeks ago

farnborough

The excitement when you’re on your way to meet someone for the first time that you’ve been flirting with for weeks is crazy sexy. When your sat at a bar flirting like crazy knowing that you want one another, the best feeling!

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By *ose and her beastCouple
2 weeks ago

Watford

The latter recently its got rather tedious lately some people on the site are amazing and actually have something to say but there are so many fantasists and flakes it's very frustrating and makes our guard go up alot

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By *ot_Rod43Man
2 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

A bit of both really. For a single guy to even get a message back is hard. But I do enjoy chatting to people and it fills in my spare time.

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By *ustus5555Woman
2 weeks ago

Nottingham

Boring mist of the time. Inky use it for forums or club meets now.

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By *ustus5555Woman
2 weeks ago

Nottingham

Wtf. I'm not dyslexic. Honest. 🙃

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By *hat.coupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Kent

It can be exciting and it can be annoying and frustrating too, but its just how it is on here. I put a lot of time and effort into finding ladies on here and getting to know them, seeing if we all get along. But, when it all goes well and we arrange a meet and have an amazing time its all worth it x

Mrs x

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By *ermite12ukMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull and Romford

Excitement? I'm on the edge of my seat. Jus sayin.

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By *maginitivemindMan
2 weeks ago

notts

"Wtf. I'm not dyslexic. Honest. 🙃"

Just feeling happy it’s not just me autocorrect catches out 😂😂

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By *ergus1622Man
2 weeks ago

Dundee

Its definitely a mixed bag of both but the fun times out weigh the bad.

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By *ercuryMikeMan
2 weeks ago

Newtown / Oswestry

If you get excited about what goes on the site I think you need t get out more.

Most of the time it’s just the same old repetitive nonsense.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Bedfuck

I'm a plodder, it's fine just plod along with it. No pressure, hassle free, fun, a late night distraction or change from boring tele.

A carer at the moment so social life has evaporated, so it helps to keep in touch with old friends.

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By *igBeardyDanMan
2 weeks ago

Bilston

Im on here mostly for the club updates and the forums and the occasional play in the cam rooms, i rarely send messages now.

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

not even in the north west

Lack lustre

Annoying

Boring

And that's just the forum users

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By *abulincsCouple
2 weeks ago

near a bridge

Mostly disappointing trying to filter out the time wasters and idiots that can’t read loads offers of meetings until such time we post a meeting then very little in way of response

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By *empted23Couple
2 weeks ago

countryside

It's mostly dull

Lots of idiots and time wasters

It's a catch 22 though

Your fairly sure the person that will fit what ever your looking for is on her though

So you drudge thinking it will be worth it when we find them.

Which really it is

But it seems harder than it should be to find them

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By *estinoMan
2 weeks ago

Southampton

From the month I’ve been on here it’s frustrating, you have fun online but when it comes to translate it to in person they pull out last minute & that’s even if you get a reply

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By *F25Man
2 weeks ago

kent

its a mixture

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By *ookingforhimWoman
2 weeks ago

Hampshire

"Do you love the excitement on this site or do you find it frustrating annoying and sometimes boring "

It’s a mixture of excitement and frustration. I think sometimes you get lulled into false hope and excitement once you have one or two meets, then it all drys up and you are left wondering what went wrong.

Have you actually managed any fab meets yet OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"Do you love the excitement on this site or do you find it frustrating annoying and sometimes boring

Have you actually managed any fab meets yet OP?"
couldn’t put it better myself

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By *hinstrapMan
2 weeks ago

sheffield

Defo a roller coaster of excitement and annoyance. Peaks and troughs.

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By *upersonic48 OP Man
2 weeks ago

fareham

Hello I’ve been on and off for many many years and some reason always come back

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By *mandamark99Couple
2 weeks ago

Bridgnorth

"Do you love the excitement on this site or do you find it frustrating annoying and sometimes boring "

All of the above

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By *rJandMrsJCouple
2 weeks ago

Tameside

As a couple we experience the best and worst of it.

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By *ap-scarCouple
2 weeks ago

Sleaford

Used to finding it exciting but it can be a little tedious at times

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By *ongueTwister87Man
2 weeks ago

Carshalton

Extremely frustrating & extremely disappointing. Beginning to see a clear pattern. Most single women/coupes (within my area at least) only seem to want to meet tall, gym fit, hung men. The impression that I am getting from Fab is that “average “ men aren’t desirable or wanted

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By *rectus HumongusMan
2 weeks ago

morecambe for the day

For me personally i do not get bothered by shows anymore it is irrirating thats all i keep my fab life and real life seperated

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
2 weeks ago

Tamworth

Been on here 10 years roughly.

Most of the time it’s been frustrating with the occasional bit of excitement.

Since lockdown ended find it extremely hard to make any form of connection with couples. Given up a long time ago with single ladies.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
2 weeks ago

Coventry

The site for us is more of a tool for finding out what on (scene wise), keeping in touch with freinds and perving.

We don't really use this site to search for potential play mates and we very rarely meet of here. For us the real excitement of the scene is in the psychical world, clubs, parties, random real life encounter. We love the frill of the unknown as we go out there to apply our charm. Real world interactions are so much hotter and effective without the frustration and time wasting.

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