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By *ick_Ryder OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Blackpool

Everyone knows (or should) that hard no's are limits that you won't go past; things that you will not do, under any circumstance, no matter what.

But has anyone ever thought about hard yes's?

These are the things that you expect others to accept that you want to do, and will do, no matter what.

Examples would be: You are going to wear a condom for every sexual encounter. You will always use odourising liquids when receiving anal sex. You will always give oral before any other sexual activity.

You get the idea.

So, what are some hard yes's that you have that you will not give up, no matter who is asking/telling you to?

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By *issLickalottapusWoman
2 weeks ago

La La Land

Kissing

Each to there own, but this is a hard yes for me.

I have to have kissing as a part of foreplay 💋 I just can't imagine being intimate with someone without kissing 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *ookieMonsterMan
2 weeks ago

B’stoke

Conversation and eye contact!! Before play

And not shy to take control during play !!

What else could a man ask for 😇

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By *aughtytwosome1000Couple
2 weeks ago

didsbury

Kissing is a must for us xx

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By *issLickalottapusWoman
2 weeks ago

La La Land


"Conversation and eye contact!! Before play

And not shy to take control during play !!

What else could a man ask for 😇"

You want people to talk before play? FFS

And is there too much eye contact?

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

funky town

Kissing. Proper sensual snogging and tongue sucking. Yes please

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

not even in the north west

Put his hand on my throat while he fucks me

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By *ick_Ryder OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Blackpool

Kissing, for me, is quite an intimate act, and not strictly a hard yes, more of a soft yes, but I can see why others would think that it is a hard line that everyone else must cross to get into play with them.

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By *ick_Ryder OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Blackpool


"Put his hand on my throat while he fucks me"

That's a good one.

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By *enninemarkMan
2 weeks ago

huddersfield/manchester

So glad kissing is high on the list, it's such a sexy and erotic activity. Definitely gets me going!

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By *ntercouplemaCouple
2 weeks ago

Here, for a bit

Definitely kissing

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