FabSwingers.com forum: Clubs for first time single girls

By *uriousLarrykins OP Woman
3 weeks ago

Norwich

Morning x

so im interested in attending a club. I havent been to one in 20 years so I class myself as a first timer.

Im a girl on my own so safety is number 1. Im not 100% sure id participate for the first time either, I just want to see if its something I want to venture back into.

Im around the Norwich area so any suggestions would be great

Thank you.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Every club has security and so you'd be safe wherever you go.

You'd obviously get a lot of attention from guys, but as long as you're firm that needn't be a problem

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By *WB85Man
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Find a club that has a newbie event, or even a couples and single ladies event.

It has a much softer feel to it which can feel much more welcoming.

Lots of clubs have group chats on telegram or similar....it can help you make friends with people before attending.

I hope you find somewhere and have a great time.

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By *izzy.Woman
3 weeks ago

Stoke area

I dont know about clubs in your area, but you can check on the club review section and have a read through reviews.

If I go to a new club on my own, I tend to be shown around the club, to find the layout. I then sit near the bar and have a chat there, watching people coming in.

If there is a hot tub, that's a good place to chat.

Dont be frightened to chat to people, and if anyone asks you to play, and you aren't interested you can just say that its your first time there and you just want to check it out today.

If anyone is a pest, they shouldn't be, but if you are made to feel uncomfortable, report it to staff.

Have a fun, relaxed evening

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By *ispleasureonlyCouple
3 weeks ago

yeovil

I wanna go but scared to go alone! Haha

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By *issLickalottapusWoman
3 weeks ago

La La Land

"Find a club that has a newbie event, or even a couples and single ladies event.

It has a much softer feel to it which can feel much more welcoming.

Lots of clubs have group chats on telegram or similar....it can help you make friends with people before attending.

I hope you find somewhere and have a great time. "

This ☝🏻

I tend to go to clubs by myself, so I understand where you are coming from, but once you are through those doors the nerves will soon disappear

I hope you find somewhere and have a great time, I'm sure you won't regret it 🫶🏻

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By *harAndBryCouple
3 weeks ago

Downham Market

"Im around the Norwich area so any suggestions would be great"

Might be wrong, but don't think you have any clubs out there. Closest is probably The Annex near Kings Lynn - they do newbies nights and also open daytimes (daytimes at clubs are normally a bit more relaxed)

Oh...and it's only eleven minutes up the road from us if you wanted coffee 🤣

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By *uriousLarrykins OP Woman
3 weeks ago

Norwich

Thanks everyone xx I will consider a night in King's Lynn 😂

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By *lthomasMan
3 weeks ago

Blackpool

"Find a club that has a newbie event, or even a couples and single ladies event.

It has a much softer feel to it which can feel much more welcoming.

Lots of clubs have group chats on telegram or similar....it can help you make friends with people before attending.

I hope you find somewhere and have a great time.

This ☝🏻

I tend to go to clubs by myself, so I understand where you are coming from, but once you are through those doors the nerves will soon disappear

I hope you find somewhere and have a great time, I'm sure you won't regret it 🫶🏻"

Very little to add to what’s already been said.

Staff at most clubs look out for newbies & @ No3 where I go, the hosts will even introduce you to the nice people they now & trust.

In 20 years of attending clubs, I’ve never seen anything like an issue.

Safety is important to all.

Hope you enjoy your people watching

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By *iss DevilWoman
3 weeks ago

Bedford

I can thoroughly recommend Jaydees near St Neots. It's a very friendly club, and I'd feel safe there as a single lady. They are mostly open at weekends, but they do have the ever-popular Spa Day every Thursday. And their hot tub is to die for!

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