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By *ayleynBen OP   Couple
3 weeks ago

Burnley

Hey all,

Hayley has expressed and interest in a small gangbang (well 4 guys to be exact).

Im organising it...but any tips from the experienced?

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By *uffhandymanMan
3 weeks ago

selby

Try and find people that have done it before. Don’t go for all young, I find the younger ones are always the no shows!

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

See if you can find an established group of guys who know each other and have done it before together.

Or reach out to men you've previously met and know are reliable.

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By *ornyj37Man
3 weeks ago

Devon

Message me if you want some advice

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By *addyanddaddygirlCouple
3 weeks ago

Truro

Try and find a group it's easier that way.

Trying to arrange single guys is a nightmare we've had so many no shows....once invited 6 guys none turned up

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By *ayleynBen OP   Couple
3 weeks ago

Burnley

Thanks guys

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By *addyanddaddygirlCouple
3 weeks ago

Truro


"Thanks guys "

No worries happy to chat DM if you wish

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By *ornyj37Man
3 weeks ago

Devon

I have a group...

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By *ngelLordCouple
3 weeks ago

Newport

Enjoy it

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By *T2022Man
3 weeks ago

Manchester

My advice . is see if you can join a group who are interested in that sort of thing . there a few around. in northwest yorkshire . Dm if you want some advice

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By *ellhungvweMan
3 weeks ago

Cheltenham

You will need to invite a lot more guys (probably theee times the number) than you think you want. Most will not turn up despite swearing blind they will.

You will have more luck with people who have veris/experience from previous GBs - they know what to expect.

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By *T2022Man
3 weeks ago

Manchester

sorry mean , Lancs/ and west yorkshire

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
3 weeks ago

South East

Good idea to arrange it at a club rather than hotel etc as if some don’t show up then you’ll likely have lots more to choose from. Also less admin in terms of people arriving and leaving and being in a place where a mess can be easily cleaned up lol

Hope she has a brilliant experience

Lu xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Following... its something that's come up in our recent chats x

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By *outhleedschap86Man
3 weeks ago

leeds

Iv got one on 2nite and organised a fair few, i use a few discreet hotels, easy access, good parking etc. I normally use the same reliable guys who can perform in a group setting and are ok around other guys, alot of guys talk a great game the bottle it on the day.

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By *heekychap0661Man
3 weeks ago

margate

Love to be a clean up guy caged at onex

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By *od ThrusterMan
3 weeks ago

Newport Pagnell

I'd say that a club is probably your safest bet to get the numbers as the men will be there already. No shows can be a problem.

Perhaps you could contact men that you've met previously if you know they are reliable and fun?

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By *argoandjerry321Couple
3 weeks ago

derby

My husband is trying to organise one for our wedding anniversary!

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By *CExeCouple
3 weeks ago

Hong-Kong/Exeter

As other have said, find an established local group. Otherwise (as this thread shows) you'll have no shows, offers from folks hundreds of miles away and all sorts of other nonsense.

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By *ayleynBen OP   Couple
3 weeks ago

Burnley


"My husband is trying to organise one for our wedding anniversary!"

Nice! When? Let us know how it goes?

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By *ayleynBen OP   Couple
3 weeks ago

Burnley


"Iv got one on 2nite and organised a fair few, i use a few discreet hotels, easy access, good parking etc. I normally use the same reliable guys who can perform in a group setting and are ok around other guys, alot of guys talk a great game the bottle it on the day. "

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By *ayleynBen OP   Couple
3 weeks ago

Burnley


"Iv got one on 2nite and organised a fair few, i use a few discreet hotels, easy access, good parking etc. I normally use the same reliable guys who can perform in a group setting and are ok around other guys, alot of guys talk a great game the bottle it on the day. "

Ill pm you

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By *hahcfcMan
3 weeks ago

London Essex

Would like join x

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By *ing swing 71Man
3 weeks ago

Stretford

I've been to lots of gangbangs organised by a guy in Ellesmere Port. His user name is couplecouplecouple. Has a list of regular reliable guys and a nice apartment.

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By *tillsluttyWoman
3 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Invite 18 as 14 will bottle it or no show

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By *weetpea_123Couple
3 weeks ago

lancs

We had one in a club much easier, I ended up with 7 men and no one had to arrange it xx

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By *erbys_coupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Derby

You won’t be short of volunteers but saying is different to doing. Good luck with it.

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By *igspoonshaftMan
3 weeks ago

morley

👀 id volunteer my tip haha

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By *ooneyCouple
3 weeks ago

Chester

pm us for info x

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago


"Invite 18 as 14 will bottle it or no show "

What if all 18 turn up?

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By *exualPleasuresMan
3 weeks ago

yorkshire

Have arranged a few happy to share s as my insights that I can

Venue is always a key consideration, smaller numbers a hotel can work otherwise I’ve always tended to hire an apartment or house, but think about location and logistics of getting everyone there.

That for me then helps when thinking about who to invite, if it’s someone miles away or who doesn’t drive then it will limit them to certain places/venues.

When choosing guys I now nearly always select them based on recommendations from couples I know who’ve met them or I’ve met them at parties or have good recent verifications

Lastly good luck, it’s never easy, but when it comes off is well worth it

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By *ayleynBen OP   Couple
3 weeks ago

Burnley


"Invite 18 as 14 will bottle it or no show

What if all 18 turn up?"

Then you take all 18

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By *altercCouple
3 weeks ago

london

Our tip would be to invite us x

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By *each needs some creamWoman
3 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Except a lot of messages like ..

Can I come early?

Can I come after?

Will it be one in one?

Cant make it that day can I come another day?

How many guys will be there?

Will there be another woman there?

Will someone be filming it ?

Then near the time expect all the excuses for not being able to make it, if they bother to message as most won't.

Have to work.

Dog/cat/goldfish ill.

Car not working.

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By *ikeRac1Man
3 weeks ago

Newcastle

We are a four mature guys who have run a gangbang for a few ladies

Always have a known safe word or signal when you want to stop

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod

3 weeks ago

Central

Meet each of them in advance, to assess suitability and reliability. Consider using a club, as others there could be suitable standing, when you get sob story no shows or they don't even bother to communicate

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By *octor ProdMan
3 weeks ago

Constantly Travelling With Work

Go to a club; you will have a pool of men to pick from (you won't have no shows) and you have a venue designed for such things

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By *r.AverageMan
3 weeks ago

Hampshire

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By *r.AverageMan
3 weeks ago

Hampshire

*Put sheeting down to avoid stains

* Insist everyone is lubed head to in vaseline (just in case)

* Safety google are recommended

* A snack/refreshment table is always appreciated (some disposable gloves on the table help counter the vaseline)

* A guest book to sign on the way out is a touching souvenir to mark the occasion

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By *entmike76Man
3 weeks ago

bury

Invite twice as many

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By *r.AverageMan
3 weeks ago

Hampshire


"Invite twice as many"

That's a lot of snacks.

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By *reason69Couple
2 weeks ago

Blackburn

Always get more , unfortunately lots of guys don't turn up , happy to do a 2 girl gangbang with you

Xxx

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By *issrachieWoman
2 weeks ago

Hartlepool/hotel

It's soo hard to organise, I once rented out a air b and b for one and 3 guys showed up out of 10 that were invited x

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By *ery kinky gentMan
2 weeks ago

essex

Hey I arrange gangs in southeast if anyone needs one

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"It's soo hard to organise, I once rented out a air b and b for one and 3 guys showed up out of 10 that were invited x"

You got 3 though thats still fun x

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By *oyandJulieMan
2 weeks ago

blackburn

Please DM me and I'll tell you how I used to arrange small gangbangs for Julie. It always worked

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By *eekendVixenCouple
2 weeks ago

Leicester

We’ve done lots - see our vids

We prefer established groups and let them organise venue.

Get lots of strangers together is hard, like herding cats!

4 is about the optimal number for guys attending.

Amazing fun! Worth the effort.

Happy to discuss via message

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By *T2022Man
2 weeks ago

Manchester


"Always get more , unfortunately lots of guys don't turn up , happy to do a 2 girl gangbang with you

Xxx"

yep . so many guys just don't turn up ????. been to a few expecting like 7 guys and its only been a 3 some. shame on these guys .

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By *bbott24Man
2 weeks ago

Devizes

Me and a host organised one for my missus overbooked as we were expecting no shows .all pitched up she was fucked by 12 great night

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

not even in the north west

Stretch before and afterwards

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By *outhleedschap86Man
2 weeks ago

leeds

Organised one on friday for a lady, 5 of us. Her first GB. She loved it, all the guys where spot on and filthy. She is wanting another one already

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By *penminded7Man
2 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Always wanted one

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

As everyone said,

1 Invite 3-4x more guys than you want

2 only guys verified by real meets

3 I prefer guys 50+ as less likely to muck around.

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By *ig silverMan
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

Sandwiches and drinks.

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By *abooMan
2 weeks ago

Chester


"Hey all,

Hayley has expressed and interest in a small gangbang (well 4 guys to be exact).

Im organising it...but any tips from the experienced?

"

Top tip invite me 😉

Check out my profile and veris. Like a few other guys above have said go for established groups. I know of 4 hosts I’d recommend privately if you message me. One is already on this forum and another has contacted you I hope 😉

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By *ornyj37Man
2 weeks ago

Devon

Still happy to advise or arrange as a proven organiser x

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