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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

are there any on here who thought they were bisexual/curious, and had a go at fulfilling their fantasy, but then realised it wasn't for them, and how far did you go, how did you deal with the situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll say that I'm no where near as bi interested as I thought I was before we started playing. Still class myself as bi though.

Jane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of men and women think that all women must have a bi side to them, usually because they want to fulfil a fantasy themselves. When I have been at parties I am often encouraged to play with women as well as men, I dabbled a few times just because there was group fun going on but didn't enjoy it and ended up leaving with a couple of guys I'd been playing with during the night. I like MEN and that's just how it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I was bi and met a couple of guys for blowjobs witch I loved so I thought I would try sucking a cock but it wasn't for me but never mind I can say I have tryed it xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think there should be try before you bi

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Do you think there should be try before you bi "

Nice one!

I once met a guy for his first time and he had a bit of a panic attack during the meet. However, after he'd took a few pics of me and that he recovered and a good night was had by all. I now try and avoid bi virgins, though.

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

I usedto love an experienced bi guy or gay go down on me, now it's the other way round. I love sucking a good looking,trimmed or shaved cock. And it drives her wild.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of men and women think that all women must have a bi side to them, usually because they want to fulfil a fantasy themselves. When I have been at parties I am often encouraged to play with women as well as men, I dabbled a few times just because there was group fun going on but didn't enjoy it and ended up leaving with a couple of guys I'd been playing with during the night. I like MEN and that's just how it is. "

i too dabbled.mainly to plz.but its not really my thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usedto love an experienced bi guy or gay go down on me, now it's the other way round. I love sucking a good looking,trimmed or shaved cock. And it drives her wild."
fun I would love you to suck me off in front of juicy xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I class myself as bisexual as I have and still would spend time with a female in a group situation. However I MUCH prefer cock. Meeting females just doesn't hold the same thrill for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I class myself as bisexual as I have and still would spend time with a female in a group situation. However I MUCH prefer cock. Meeting females just doesn't hold the same thrill for me."
i totally agree I would prefer to meet women but if I meet a couple where the man is bi I would be happy to play with him aswell xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i too dabbled.mainly to plz.but its not really my thing. "

I think you have to do it for yourself, We've all done things for our partners(or ex's) and that's normal to, I started xdressing at the request of an ex and ended up enjoying it, a lot. So much so that it became a problem for her... If you don't try something you'll never know but you have to find the idea arousing in the first place or else it's not going to be enjoyable. We're all different and I would say if someone is pressurising you to try and be bi, you could ask them to do the same and see how they feel about going down that road when they don't find it to be an arousing idea...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i too dabbled.mainly to plz.but its not really my thing.

I think you have to do it for yourself, We've all done things for our partners(or ex's) and that's normal to, I started xdressing at the request of an ex and ended up enjoying it, a lot. So much so that it became a problem for her... If you don't try something you'll never know but you have to find the idea arousing in the first place or else it's not going to be enjoyable. We're all different and I would say if someone is pressurising you to try and be bi, you could ask them to do the same and see how they feel about going down that road when they don't find it to be an arousing idea..."

i am not sorry i tried it,as i was quite curious too.guess i just like cock too much.lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never thought i'd do bi when i was young, but as i got older and tired it, Im glad i have, It is so much nicer to have a bi mmf and we all play together, and i like meeting guys on their own to for anal fun

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

I find I love playing with another woman but there has to be a man involved for me... Fem play is just foreplay as far as I am concerned... In the end I need a jolly good rodgering my a masculine man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usedto love an experienced bi guy or gay go down on me, now it's the other way round. I love sucking a good looking,trimmed or shaved cock. And it drives her wild.fun I would love you to suck me off in front of juicy xx"

Yet your profile says you're straight?

It's really not for me. Haven't wanted to try it or even watch men do it, it just does nothing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are there any on here who thought they were bisexual/curious, and had a go at fulfilling their fantasy, but then realised it wasn't for them, and how far did you go, how did you deal with the situation.

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a old fb of mine played with my ex and we gave the fb a bj together and he couldn't get it up and he never did any bi stuff after that and worked out he is straight.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Well at least you tried, and that always gives "no thanks, I'm straight" more credibility.

Me? I am 100% bi and I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well at least you tried, and that always gives "no thanks, I'm straight" more credibility.

Me? I am 100% bi and I love it"

That's rubbish. I haven't had sex with a corpse, an animal or a child and I can say with 100% certainty that I have no desire to do any of those things either!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have NO interest in guys AT ALL, i dont want to meet them, look at them or hear from them but....in a mfm situation i quite like the idea of rubbing another guys cock over the womans boobs, nothing else just that...so not quite sure what to make of that....lol

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I am a strong believer that EVERYONE is bi.

It's just the level of biness that is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a strong believer that EVERYONE is bi.

It's just the level of biness that is different. "

not sure I agree with that

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I am a strong believer that EVERYONE is bi.

It's just the level of biness that is different.

not sure I agree with that "

Not a lot of people will, but that's what I and to an extent, Sigmund Freud believes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a strong believer that EVERYONE is bi.

It's just the level of biness that is different.

not sure I agree with that

Not a lot of people will, but that's what I and to an extent, Sigmund Freud believes"

oh well that's my mind changed

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Innate bisexuality (or predisposition to bisexuality) is a term introduced by Sigmund Freud (based on work by his associate Wilhelm Fliess), that expounds all humans are born bisexual but through psychological development (which includes both external and internal factors) most become monosexual while the bisexuality remains in a latent state.

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

I class myself as bi cur, I've had afew experiences (only oral at that) with some mf cpls that I've met with.

They've been awesome experiences but I don't actively go searching for bi 3sum play. I've been straight for 29yrs of my life, so I'd say that I'm always going to find a gorgeous naked female standing in front of me far more arousing. However if the the ppl and the situation feel right then I won't rule out any bi play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say the idea of meeting a guy on his own for mm fun repulses me.........however have enjoyed lots of close cock contact when playing with couples in DP and especially double bj. And deffo in right scenario I would like a guy to share my cock alongside his fem partner. Not sure what that makes me lol!!!

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By *oger690Man
over a year ago

Halton


"Have to say the idea of meeting a guy on his own for mm fun repulses me.........however have enjoyed lots of close cock contact when playing with couples in DP and especially double bj. And deffo in right scenario I would like a guy to share my cock alongside his fem partner. Not sure what that makes me lol!!! "

I've just posted on the hetro /homo scale have ago I'd guess you'd be at least a 1 on the scale. Give it a go just for a laugh at least.

Maybe far could introduce a matching sexuality scale instead of bi bi cur etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Similar to an earlier post I myself had always fantasized about enjoying a hot, fit guy but within the company of a hot, sexy lady.. The thought of sharing a hot guy with a lady really turns me on... the thought of us together giving him oral at the same time blows my mind!!

I always told myself the scenario would have to feel right at the time and with a particular lady not just with any lady..

I've been in the lifestyle for 12 years now and it's only recently my fantasy has become a real life experience...

I've had three bi experiences now... they get better eact time as my confidence is now growing..

I still enjoy hetro MFM sessions as I did before and the attraction of the female form will always come first for me.. I'm not of the mind to go looking for one to one meets with guys as that doesn't attract or interest me..

I've always classed myself as being a straight male.. I'm contradicting myself now so I must be classed as a bi now although it's only an occasional element to my lifestyle adventures..

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By *r Stagger LeeMan
over a year ago

torquay

I do class myself as bi, top mostly, but tend to only meet other guys in a mmf situation or unless it is particularly appeal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have had a lot of bi 3 somes or groups with biguys, most like me try bi later in life, wish id done it sooner, but when we have met a guy who is bi curiouse, we have played and in most cases, we have got him into bi anal sex too, and once they have tried it, want more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are there any on here who thought they were bisexual/curious, and had a go at fulfilling their fantasy, but then realised it wasn't for them, and how far did you go, how did you deal with the situation.

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There's quite a few that decide they are when signing up but then change there mind when couples won't meet them for being bi. "I must of ticked the wrong box thanks for letting me know" is the usual one we get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

male half here, I've enjoyed bum fun between me and my wife, and I have orgasmed from toys. I looked further, taking to bi and gay guys on fab, flirting and such, eventually arranged a meet with a nice guy. the chat went quiet, and that was the point I realised as much as I like the chat and flirt (made me feel really good) I wasnt actually attracted to him, or the idea of playing with another man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Innate bisexuality (or predisposition to bisexuality) is a term introduced by Sigmund Freud (based on work by his associate Wilhelm Fliess), that expounds all humans are born bisexual but through psychological development (which includes both external and internal factors) most become monosexual while the bisexuality remains in a latent state."

What........

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