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By *rniceguy81 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

durham

Has anyone got close to somebody on here who they have met, talked to and sent loads of normal face pics to, thought they felt the same after they tell you how crazy they are about you to then go to reply to their last message about not being able to meet as something has come up to then find out you have been blocked.

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By *ertsman46Man
3 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

I have had that on another site

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By *rniceguy81 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

durham

I would have completley understood because she has a family that things can get a bit risky and not wanting to get caught that thats the reason she couldn't meet but to then tell me she may have to come off here for a bit then just block me without letting me reply and yet is still on all the time.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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3 weeks ago

East Sussex

You've been hurt and I'm sorry for that.

I think it's wise to guard your feelings on fab or anywhere on the internet until you've actually met someone several times. Easier said than done I know but being vulnerable with someone who you can't be 100% sure is who they say they are can lead to intense disappointment .

Lick your wounds op and live to fight another day

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

3 weeks ago

East Sussex

Also to avoid being tempted to look at what she's doing block her. Pull the plaster off

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By *iss DevilWoman
3 weeks ago

Bedford


"You've been hurt and I'm sorry for that.

I think it's wise to guard your feelings on fab or anywhere on the internet until you've actually met someone several times. Easier said than done I know but being vulnerable with someone who you can't be 100% sure is who they say they are can lead to intense disappointment .

Lick your wounds op and live to fight another day "

Exactly this, OP.

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By *rniceguy81 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

durham


"You've been hurt and I'm sorry for that.

I think it's wise to guard your feelings on fab or anywhere on the internet until you've actually met someone several times. Easier said than done I know but being vulnerable with someone who you can't be 100% sure is who they say they are can lead to intense disappointment .

Lick your wounds op and live to fight another day "

Yeah i know and over the years ive had my gaurd up to not feel like this with someone. I know this feeling will pass and i will be ok

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By *rniceguy81 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

durham


"Also to avoid being tempted to look at what she's doing block her. Pull the plaster off "

I keep going to do that but then i feel myself saying no just wait she might come back on and unblock me to explain

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

3 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Also to avoid being tempted to look at what she's doing block her. Pull the plaster off

I keep going to do that but then i feel myself saying no just wait she might come back on and unblock me to explain"

Do you want to wait for crumbs from her table?

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By *rniceguy81 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

durham


"Also to avoid being tempted to look at what she's doing block her. Pull the plaster off

I keep going to do that but then i feel myself saying no just wait she might come back on and unblock me to explain

Do you want to wait for crumbs from her table? "

No i dont

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

3 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Also to avoid being tempted to look at what she's doing block her. Pull the plaster off

I keep going to do that but then i feel myself saying no just wait she might come back on and unblock me to explain

Do you want to wait for crumbs from her table?

No i dont"

I know I sound harsh but she's for whatever reason, moved on. You're worth more than waiting in case she changes her mind

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By *rniceguy81 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

durham


"Also to avoid being tempted to look at what she's doing block her. Pull the plaster off

I keep going to do that but then i feel myself saying no just wait she might come back on and unblock me to explain

Do you want to wait for crumbs from her table?

No i dont

I know I sound harsh but she's for whatever reason, moved on. You're worth more than waiting in case she changes her mind "

Yeah i know your right and as i say i know the feeling of hurt will pass just got to try and keep busy and forget

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By *herrybakewellCouple
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Some people in this lifestyle can be very impulsive and brutal.

I'd say you get hardened to it, but I refuse to change who I am.

It just encourages me to have a slower approach and be more selective.

Mr.

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By *rniceguy81 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

durham


"Some people in this lifestyle can be very impulsive and brutal.

I'd say you get hardened to it, but I refuse to change who I am.

It just encourages me to have a slower approach and be more selective.

Mr. "

Im definatley going to be more careful in the future and try not go with what my head is saying and not my heart

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