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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ladies what the quickes a guys has cum when have sex? And what your up take on this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they love it. the quicker the better. even better if you don't even get it all the way in and then cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy walked in drop his trousers, told me to put my lips round it, promtply came, zipped up and left!!

Then a few weeks later asked to meet me again.. Bloody cheek lol

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Oh I've had what I refer to as "two pumps and a squirt" a couple of times. But that was a long time ago when I was very young and inexperienced and so were they. So I have now forgiven them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A guy walked in drop his trousers, told me to put my lips round it, promtply came, zipped up and left!!

Then a few weeks later asked to meet me again.. Bloody cheek lol"

I know! Look how long he stayed away from another two seconds?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh I've had what I refer to as "two pumps and a squirt" a couple of times. But that was a long time ago when I was very young and inexperienced and so were they. So I have now forgiven them

I can't stand it when the mayonnaise bottle does that

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

"Oh I've had what I refer to as "two pumps and a squirt" a couple of times. But that was a long time ago when I was very young and inexperienced and so were they. So I have now forgiven them

I can't stand it when the mayonnaise bottle does that

I know. Like when you think it's just not gonna come out so you give it a little shake and then it just comes out and squirts all over you and goes up the wall and then ruins your sarnie.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A guy walked in drop his trousers, told me to put my lips round it, promtply came, zipped up and left!!

Then a few weeks later asked to meet me again.. Bloody cheek lol"

Now that's a bit too quick! I prefer a girl to make cum with a BJ then give her a good seeing too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh I've had what I refer to as "two pumps and a squirt" a couple of times. But that was a long time ago when I was very young and inexperienced and so were they. So I have now forgiven them

I can't stand it when the mayonnaise bottle does that

I know. Like when you think it's just not gonna come out so you give it a little shake and then it just comes out and squirts all over you and goes up the wall and then ruins your sarnie."

Exactly! You tap it, pat it, look directly at the opening to see if it's working...then think... "am I doing something wrong here?".... Then splash!

All over the burger, all over those buns...all over the....over the....over.....mmmm

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

"Oh I've had what I refer to as "two pumps and a squirt" a couple of times. But that was a long time ago when I was very young and inexperienced and so were they. So I have now forgiven them

I can't stand it when the mayonnaise bottle does that

I know. Like when you think it's just not gonna come out so you give it a little shake and then it just comes out and squirts all over you and goes up the wall and then ruins your sarnie.

Exactly! You tap it, pat it, look directly at the opening to see if it's working...then think... "am I doing something wrong here?".... Then splash!

All over the burger, all over those buns...all over the....over the....over.....mmmm

Your mind wandered off from the mayonnaise there... I can tell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one guy literally cum and go within five minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to a social at a club and kept an eye on fab whilst there . At ten o click we had a message from a guy who was staying at a hotel not far from the club , he sent his pic and we said we would pop in on the way home .

Twenty minutes later we arrived and knocked on the door , he opened it and within seconds Sabrina and he were stripping each others clothes off and getting down to it .

Well the thrill and obvious horniness clearly got to us all , and four minutes later he and I both covered Sabrinas face , we washed and dressed and left six minutes after arriving !

What did Sabrina think ? Undoubtably one if our best meets , we shagged again when we got home and still fondly remember the six minute hotel meet to this day

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We went to a social at a club and kept an eye on fab whilst there . At ten o click we had a message from a guy who was staying at a hotel not far from the club , he sent his pic and we said we would pop in on the way home .

Twenty minutes later we arrived and knocked on the door , he opened it and within seconds Sabrina and he were stripping each others clothes off and getting down to it .

Well the thrill and obvious horniness clearly got to us all , and four minutes later he and I both covered Sabrinas face , we washed and dressed and left six minutes after arriving !

What did Sabrina think ? Undoubtably one if our best meets , we shagged again when we got home and still fondly remember the six minute hotel meet to this day

Sounded like a horny meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going by people's verifications and remarks on and even off the website. 10-20 minutes is their version of a quickie otherwise a few hours or an all nighter is the only way to completely satisfy a woman. Not sure if they are lying, living in a dream world or they have high standards that some people can reach.

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By *hisisrandonWoman
over a year ago

London

Met this chap once who came really quickly after I was giving him head and then rolled over to go to sleep. I wasn't having that so thrust my vibrator in his hand and told him to please me with it!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i sometimes cum quickly... sometimes i stay hard and carry on ... i always say the first one does not count anyway if it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Met this chap once who came really quickly after I was giving him head and then rolled over to go to sleep. I wasn't having that so thrust my vibrator in his hand and told him to please me with it!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i sometimes cum quickly... sometimes i stay hard and carry on ... i always say the first one does not count anyway if it happens "

....WE call that " THE SELFISH ONE" lol

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By *ixplayMan
over a year ago

tamworth & Edinburgh

I think the lady should always cum first or at the very least at the same time & the longer the fun lasts the more pleasurable it is & it lasts longer in the memory

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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago

oldham

Seriously lol? Well they must be easily pleased. I wouldn't have the guts to even admit it!

Won't be any good to me if they can't last a few hrs.

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

Not sure about a couple of hours Leslie is very happy with what she gets and if I lasted that long I would be finishing my self off as she gets sore otherwise pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about the women that cum quick too?? Although we love that lol

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I don't mind a guy cumming quick as long as that's not the end of the fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less than 5 minutes. Not good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't mind a guy cumming quick as long as that's not the end of the fun lol "

Agree with you lol I like a repeater x

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By *r TieMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I personally don't get what the deal is. Sure, if it's just a one time deal then I'd imagine it can be frustrating for a lady but ideally, both parties would have the time to enjoy it. As long as you're happy to carry on, no harm no foul. See, I can quite happily fool around, have sex, carry on fooling around thus keeping the lady on that edge while I have a 5 min breather then carry on. Plus it's fun to switch it around. A bit of time on oral, move onto some toys, on to sex, back to some toys with oral, maybe grab a spot of food... After a few hours worth of attention and several orgasms, I doubt many women will moan how fast you came when you first stuck it in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do renember when i was about 18 there was a girl i had fancied for a age . I finally got to go to her house she stripped off and i dont even think i got the tip in and i cum ..Most embarrasing moment of my life . Then she told all my mates

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By *r TieMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Harsh bit*h.

That's how it goes sometimes. Even today at 30, if i'm with what I call a 'smoking hottie' and there has been a bit of flirtatious build up to the evening, it's quite possible I ain't gonna' last too long straight off the bat. But you know what I've learned, it's not about the falling over, it's about the getting back up and crackin' on. As long as you leave on your feet and she leaves on all fours, job's a good one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally don't get what the deal is. Sure, if it's just a one time deal then I'd imagine it can be frustrating for a lady but ideally, both parties would have the time to enjoy it. As long as you're happy to carry on, no harm no foul. See, I can quite happily fool around, have sex, carry on fooling around thus keeping the lady on that edge while I have a 5 min breather then carry on. Plus it's fun to switch it around. A bit of time on oral, move onto some toys, on to sex, back to some toys with oral, maybe grab a spot of food... After a few hours worth of attention and several orgasms, I doubt many women will moan how fast you came when you first stuck it in. "

The problem is a lot of people only meet once so for it to happen makes it more inexcusable in some peoples eyes. Plus not everyone can repeat

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By *r TieMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Fair comment. That being the case, women need to be more understanding about the issue, and for the guys who have issues, they need to be more upfront with it being a possibility. It's a no win situation otherwise. :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Harsh bit*h.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"who is harsh b***ch?"

I believe that would be toshn's girlfriend when he was 18

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair comment. That being the case, women need to be more understanding about the issue, and for the guys who have issues, they need to be more upfront with it being a possibility. It's a no win situation otherwise. :/"

I think we are back to the whole selling yourself point here.

Basically its each for their own. I dont think women or couples can be expected to be too sympathetic to a bloke with performance issues. In a relationship yes but on a sex site no.

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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago

oldham

Yes who is the harsh bitch?

As for being understanding, not many men understand that a women takes a lot longer to be satisfied then them, plus a lot of guys think it's game over when they cum. Half an hour for me is a warm up, and everyone who knows me done know that.

How would you guys feel if a lady cum, then put her clothes back on and left? I did that with a few guys, just to see there reaction as they had done it to me in the past. They knew before hand I wanted a good licking and fingering until I cum, and I was going to even touch there cock! They mush have though I was joking, and would have the urge to jump on them, but I walked out the room, and found me another guy in the club. They did look a ' little ' gutted, but at least I was honest lol.

Girl power!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

My ex would come within 5 minutes then go to sleep. I have actually trained myself to cum within 5 minutes because of this, which a lot of guys seem to like.

It's a toughy really. Someone who goes on for hours would be boring, but a one pump chump would be disappointing. I guess that's why I like my FB so much. He gets it out of the way quickly, then we can play for hours. Love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So long as the gent knows how to please a lady after he has climaxed, then I don't care how quickly he cums!

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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago

oldham

"My ex would come within 5 minutes then go to sleep. I have actually trained myself to cum within 5 minutes because of this, which a lot of guys seem to like.

Wow! I don't know how you coped with that. A lady shouldn't feel like they have to be rushed.

If a guy carries on pleasing you, or they can get it back up i'm not going to diss them with that.

I like to take my time when having sex. Why rush the whole experience? I like to play and be played with. So many things you can do in the bedroom. It's not all about intercourse and cumming. I like a long build up, being teased to fuck and having my body stroked all over. Tease a guys cock, licking gently up and down, but not letting him have my whole mouth round it just yet!

Love giving the ladies the same treatment, have a long sensual kissing session, kissing all down her ears and neck, run my nails down her back, licking gently round the outside of her pussy making her so wet it driving her crazy! I can't wait myself do get right in there and munch on her clit and tonging her hole. A long teasing session leads me to an explosive finish you will hear miles away.

Is this not more exciting to guys or would you prefer 5 mins lol?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies what the quickes a guys has cum when have sex? And what your up take on this? "

like 3 seconds, once I touched him to get him in me and he came. never saw him again after that, my choice hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes when I'm really horny and not cum for a few days my cock drips when having oral and I have to go slow with sex otherwise I burst but I then use my tongue to make sure the lady is satisfied then after a bit of caressing I'm hard again so it's all good . Never have I cum first and left the lady unpleased .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The vast majority of men I've met are very quick off the line. I consider it a good meet if I manage to get past oral without them loosing their mess!

Thats why I'm not so keen on single guy 1on1 meets anymore. Most just want a quickie on the way home to the Mrs. Never much in it for me.

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

According to a study by the NHS, the average time for men between insertion & ejaculation is 5.5 mins. This gets as low as 3.8 mins in some other studies I've seen.

With such numbers, I wonder why most people, swingers included, continue to pay more attention to performance rather than pleasure when it comes to sex.

Add that to the fact that only about a fifth of women regularly orgasm everytime they have sex, you see why the performance expecation on men is all the more puzzling. Most women achieve orgasm through oral stimulation & toys a lot more than they do from penetrative sex.

Hence it makes sense that sex partners should introduce more into their sex sessions rather than getting too fixated on the man pumping away for hours.

When it comes to swinging most guys use pills & similar aids to keep their erections & stamina up for longer, to meet the performance expecation of their playmates. They however keep it quiet because a good number of the same girls & couples that expect the guys to stay hard for hours will think less of them if they knew they'd just taken a pill before the meet.

I'm not saying girls should settle for 5 mins of penetrative sex. Far from it. They should however manage their expectations & sex sessions, bearing in mind the reality of the performance expectation on men when it comes to penetrative sex. Studs & pumping machines that go on for hours are far from the norm.

There's a lot to be said for foreplay, role play, sex toys, oral sex, etc etc etc. Introducing such and similar will be a more realistic path to sexual satisfaction. If you must insist on penetrative sex performance, then be more accepting of the fact that guys will use pills. Or better still have a supply of viagara alongside your condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the above is very true. However, I dont like guys on viagra as they just pump away til you're sore with no happy ending.

I'd like a guy who is happy to stick around for a while after he's cum quickly, recover and then go again. That's the dream, yet to meet one though.

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

If I meet a new guy and he comes too quickly, I don't see him again. No point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I cum quick during sex sometimes I dont cum at all!!! I always try to make my partner cum first with foreplay. I very rarly cum from foreplay alone. But if I do cum quick thats never the end of the fun, it then time to go down for some oral fun till im hard again, it dont take long and your also building her orgasm at the same time. But you cant just cum and roll away.

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"All the above is very true. However, I dont like guys on viagra as they just pump away til you're sore with no happy ending.

I'd like a guy who is happy to stick around for a while after he's cum quickly, recover and then go again. That's the dream, yet to meet one though."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh I've had what I refer to as "two pumps and a squirt" a couple of times. But that was a long time ago when I was very young and inexperienced and so were they. So I have now forgiven them

I used to work with a guy years ago who went by the name of "two stroke"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy that came in my hand once didnt even get to fuck him .was really dissapointed .booo.poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I meet a new guy and he comes too quickly, I don't see him again. No point.

Heartbreaker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a guy that came in my hand once didnt even get to fuck him .was really dissapointed .booo.poppyxx"

Ive been asked by one lady to come within 10 seconds of her shouting my name. Its surprisingly difficult to do so on request

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"If I meet a new guy and he comes too quickly, I don't see him again. No point.

I wonder to what degree the man Cumming quick can be attributed to the woman not being sensitive enough to the situation x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like I was right all along.

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

"A guy walked in drop his trousers, told me to put my lips round it, promtply came, zipped up and left!!

Then a few weeks later asked to meet me again.. Bloody cheek lol"

Perfect lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with that, foreplay is so underrated or underused in the dash to have penetrative sex. In another forum I said I love having my ears and neck nibbled with lots if kissing and exploring, by doing this you naturally let you body relax and should last longer than the figures suggest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

See if I cum quick I can keep my self hard if I'm very horny which is great!

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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago

oldham

Totally agree with you there

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Met a few guys who could 'talk the talk' but couldn't 'walk the walk'! Soooo disappointing and frustrating when you think to yourself 'well, was that it??'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get me half cut and I can pump away all night without cumming.

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Bump xx

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Had a few guys that have cum literally after putting their cock in or from me rubbing their cock.

I don't make a big deal out of it as they have a tongue and fingers they can use. Sex is not just about penetration.

The only time I got annoyed was when one man pulled up his trousers and literally just walked out and left.

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Had a few guys that have cum literally after putting their cock in or from me rubbing their cock.

I don't make a big deal out of it as they have a tongue and fingers they can use. Sex is not just about penetration.

The only time I got annoyed was when one man pulled up his trousers and literally just walked out and left. "

Most inconsiderate and improper. I trust he's been struck of your list of playmates and won't be invited back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely that is not possible. 2 pumps and cum? Does that really happen?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Surely that is not possible. 2 pumps and cum? Does that really happen?

I had one pump and cum once. Didn't meet him again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely that is not possible. 2 pumps and cum? Does that really happen?

Met up with an old fwb who hadn't been looked after by his ex girlfriend, got inside me and almost instantly shot his load. Apparently I'm tight.

Felt sorry for him but know that he usually has staying power.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they love it. the quicker the better. even better if you don't even get it all the way in and then cum"

Stop boasting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone who cum when I met.. him at hotel door..unless he fucked someone else ten mins before..he laughed saying he had bolted his load lol..nette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were once in the cinema at chams. We walked in and it was full of blokes with towels and stonk ons.

We sat near the back and waited for the inevitable chap to come and try it on. This skinny guy came and sat next to us. He wasn't terribly well endowed. She waited for the guy nervously to start touching her. Well she reached out for his cock and the milli second she touched it....... ping it exploded. The moment was totally lost. We nearly died.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hubby can cum in seconds but then will play with me till he is ready again then he can fuck me properly

i have known him to cum 3 times in one session

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

I dont come at all on meets.ive met a few so far n all have been good long sessions, some all nighters, and i still havent come yet.not that I mind n the girls certainly dont

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I dont come at all on meets.ive met a few so far n all have been good long sessions, some all nighters, and i still havent come yet.not that I mind n the girls certainly dont

And may I ask what pleasure you get from these meets if there never is a happy release?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely that is not possible. 2 pumps and cum? Does that really happen?

I had one pump and cum once. Didn't meet him again!

Bloodu hell - i can't get my head around this. I think i am rather naive.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"I dont come at all on meets.ive met a few so far n all have been good long sessions, some all nighters, and i still havent come yet.not that I mind n the girls certainly dont

And may I ask what pleasure you get from these meets if there never is a happy release?"

Having sex is pleasurable.I dont have to cum to feel satisfied.I usually stop from exhaustion or if I feel shes getting bored

Its not by choice just way I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first met the mrs I have to admit to being a quick shot and a slow reloader but over the years I've learned to control myself and can go for a good nine minutes (only joking) our sessions can go on for hours and are amazing with quite a few orgasms between us.

Meets are totally different for us, single men meets are for shar to be fucked not made love to so are fast and furious and a bit of a race to see who can come first , though not as fast as some people experienced

Couple meets and the fabled single woman meets are totally different again, we try to transfer our own intimacy with each other into these and hope that they get as much pleasure out of us as we do of them

Oops waffled on a bit there but most people will know what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never been able to go on for anywhere near the times that are being thrown around on here :s Many guys that I play football with have a similar sexual stamina and use V-pills to improve performance. I have never had problems satisfying my partners and also make them cum 9/10 times which I thought was average. I personally think that there are guy who are not quite being honest with themselves

shame on you!!! As for cumming quickly, it happens to us all throughout our lives. I had sex with a lady a few months back which lasted an hour and a half inclusive of foreplay and a bit of rough play

but then a week later with the same girl, I couldn't contain myself for anywhere near that time frame

The moral is...just because a guy struggled to contain his excitment on 1 occasion, it doesn't mean he cannot please you another time. It can really affect a guy if women are not understanding of this fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive never cum quickl......argghhhhhh ooooooooo........fuck!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A guy walked in drop his trousers, told me to put my lips round it, promtply came, zipped up and left!!

Then a few weeks later asked to meet me again.. Bloody cheek lol"

was it any better the second time?

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

wat the point in bolting your load after 2mins

not enjoyable for either woman or guy surley

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I have had men tell me honestly that they cum quite quickly. Which is not an issue for me as long as we can enjoy each other's bodies in other ways.

There is a lot of pressure on men to perform. Too much in fact. Some of the best sex I have had did not include penetration at all.

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over a year ago

"I have never been able to go on for anywhere near the times that are being thrown around on here :s Many guys that I play football with have a similar sexual stamina and use V-pills to improve performance. I have never had problems satisfying my partners and also make them cum 9/10 times which I thought was average. I personally think that there are guy who are not quite being honest with themselves

but then a week later with the same girl, I couldn't contain myself for anywhere near that time frame

...sometimes i think you just have to go with the mood...

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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago

oldham

"I dont come at all on meets.ive met a few so far n all have been good long sessions, some all nighters, and i still havent come yet.not that I mind n the girls certainly dont

And may I ask what pleasure you get from these meets if there never is a happy release?

Having sex is pleasurable.I dont have to cum to feel satisfied.I usually stop from exhaustion or if I feel shes getting bored

Its not by choice just way I am."

I totally get what you mean. I have played for hours on some occasions, and not cum. It doesn't bother me as I enjoyed the pleasure!

I would prefer to be pleasured for hours without cumming, then to cum in 5 mins, even though I will still have more after!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never come in under 20minutes even with my own HJ's. However, for me its not about me cumming, its about the shared pleasure of enjoying each other. Its not even about the lady cumming, although that is very enjoyable. I am not sure goal setting of cumming is a great idea.

I took my Fwb to meet a couple, he came in two pumps and intended to leave. She was used to such treatment and wanted same from me, we just left....

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By *otandhottererCouple
over a year ago

dursley

Quicker the better its a massive turn on aslong as they can go again xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quicker the better its a massive turn on aslong as they can go again xx"

we all have had moments where it just happens so quick (haven't we???) but hey give me a minute or two and lets go again x there is something very satisfying about wanting or be wanted so much it just happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once met a local guy for a outdoor meet. I got his winkle out and hard in seconds, got down on allfors, and he slid his cock in me and one pump and he cum in my ass. I didn't even get chance to enjoy the feeling of his cock in my ass before he was up and saying good night. Needless to say I didn't bother meeting him again lol.

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over a year ago

"I once met a local guy for a outdoor meet. I got his winkle out and hard in seconds, got down on allfors, and he slid his cock in me and one pump and he cum in my ass. I didn't even get chance to enjoy the feeling of his cock in my ass before he was up and saying good night. Needless to say I didn't bother meeting him again lol.

ooops was it me

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By *otandhottererCouple
over a year ago

dursley

"Quicker the better its a massive turn on aslong as they can go again xx

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over a year ago

"Quicker the better its a massive turn on aslong as they can go again xx

absolutely.. sometimes you have to get that quick hard fast frenzy out of the way to really enjoy each other x

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I think the issue for some is that they cum and go.

Then being quick is not good.

As long as more is on offer. Then it doesn't matter.

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By *otandhottererCouple
over a year ago

dursley

"I think the issue for some is that they cum and go.

Then being quick is not good.

As long as more is on offer. Then it doesn't matter. "
agreed xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the issue for some is that they cum and go.

Then being quick is not good.

As long as more is on offer. Then it doesn't matter. "

Cum and go sucks.. cum and stay now theres a novel idea

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"If I meet a new guy and he comes too quickly, I don't see him again. No point.

I wonder to what degree the man Cumming quick can be attributed to the woman not being sensitive enough to the situation x"

Ok, let's be clear on this .. I'll often get a guy all hot and bothered and 'encourage' the cum out of him pretty quickly, to get that first blast out of the way. I'm very sensitive to my lovers needs. But when a guy blasts off once and then pulls up his pants and leaves, I've had my time wasted and my snatch unfulfilled. THEY are the guys I won't see again. The ones who look a bit sheepish but hang around to chat for a while and then carry on to bone me most thoroughly over and over, THOSE I'll have in my bed again. Simples!

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By *cite6662002Couple
over a year ago

glos

well mr xcite can cum in 3mins if not had a bit for a time.

but then he is up and runing 15 mins later .

did give him a bj and he cum in 1 min

but i did not stop hr then cum 2 mins after that then gave me a good shaging 30mins later. lol he did last 15mins then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still remember my very first time , just managed to get the condom on , and with a little helping hand from the girl I eventually got it inside her , and then I came !!! I still cringe with embarrassment to this day . She dumped me within days . The reality is that the more experienced you become the better you get with sex. I think it's sad if guys my age are still having this problem , because it's an easy one to sort out in my view .

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By *exystargirlWoman
over a year ago

Warrington

you think it's bad on a meet, thats nothing.

last week went out in town, met a yummy lad and before meeting up with my mates went for some alone time. started fab, slow kissing, hand slowly moving up and down then gentle rubbing, which at that point i was dripping lol.

i get his cock out, spit on it, then lick before softly sucking. What happens he pulls it out of my mouth and shoots it over the left side of my face, check, ear and HAIR to make even worse it was like a fucking fire hose.

Even tho i cleaned myself up, best i could as the dark would hide it. As soon as we get into the taxi, light comes on and my mates are laughing their heads off, while texting what happened to others.

looking back, i'd rather that happen and laugh it off and delete any facebook messages, than have blurter come to my house. As it'd probability turn into a counciling session, hearing all the silly reasons for it happening, while trying to nud them closer to the door lol

I sadly like to have long sessions not many can live up to the hype sadly. I know one oldish guy and with a pill he's rock hard for hours and only cums at the end, when i'm begging for it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a few seconds, i dont mind though if there has been lots of foreplay first though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we had a young guy around a few weeks back, he was down to his boxers and having a kiss with Miss C, she goes to feel his cock through his boxers and yep you guessed it, he'd shot his load

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women moan guys come quick. Why can't women take it as a compliment in either they look so good or they are doing a great job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we had a young guy around a few weeks back, he was down to his boxers and having a kiss with Miss C, she goes to feel his cock through his boxers and yep you guessed it, he'd shot his load

That's way too quick even at 13 I'd managed at least half an hour before cumming lol

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cum after 4mins the first time, but I can get hard within 5mins and go many times over. The second time I take 10min every other time about 20min. I only shoot the 1st and 2nd time though.

Is this a turn off for you women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no issue with men cumming quickly as the lady stated above it's when they pull up their pants and piss off straight after, I've had a few meets who have cum quickly, it's expected sometimes with the anticipation and build up prior to a meet, I do however expect them to stick round and continue to play, luckily most do and are more than welcome back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've no issue with men cumming quickly as the lady stated above it's when they pull up their pants and piss off straight after, I've had a few meets who have cum quickly, it's expected sometimes with the anticipation and build up prior to a meet, I do however expect them to stick round and continue to play, luckily most do and are more than welcome back "

Spoken like a true lady

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"Ladies what the quickes a guys has cum when have sex? And what your up take on this? "

i bring a stop watch with me and try to beat my personal best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reminds me of the phrase...."a strategic wank"

You know your meeting someone and that it's going very probably to end in sex......so you pull one off an hour before so you don't come so quick...

Not that I'd ever do it!

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Quite so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this quite interesting as a lady who has never been able to cum herself. I'm pretty used to having people cum before me and maybe I have no issue with that because I just can't seem to get off before them. I'm self conscious about the fact I can't cum than when a man cums quickly. I feel like I'm unfulfilling their expectations of me.

I have to have a lot of foreplay before penetration as it is, and I find that as satisfying as I can possibly find it. (Often I find it too intense and I am the one that needs a break to calm down) and then the sex is good, often great, but I feel satisfies his needs more than my own, as often or not, I'm getting sore by then anyway. So i really have no issue with quick cummers so long as we've gotten to enjoy touching each other for a good while first. Oh and I like a cuddle or a lie down after with someone I've connected with. Call me old fashioned huh?

How would other men feel if it was sort of reversed and they knew they were meeting a woman who hasn't/can't cum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cum after 4mins the first time, but I can get hard within 5mins and go many times over. The second time I take 10min every other time about 20min. I only shoot the 1st and 2nd time though.

Is this a turn off for you women? "

I would not have a problem with this as long as you were able to sustain a rock hard erection after ejaculating and still felt horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I could fuck for 2hrs without cumming I'd go to the doctors!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once went to a policeman's house. I put his cock in my mouth and he came

Never called him again..

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By *n need of helpCouple
over a year ago

hull

at least you know his number

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over a year ago

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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago

oldham

"If I could fuck for 2hrs without cumming I'd go to the doctors!"

I know quite a few guys who can fuck for more then two hours and not cum. They say they can control it, and choose if/when to cum.

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By *unwithus2.Couple
over a year ago

south kent

that becomes a little selfish when a guy holds back as with my wife she hats a guy holding back as it makes her sore for the rest of the evening

and spoils the moment,

she much prefers a guy that will cum naturally

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over a year ago

"If I could fuck for 2hrs without cumming I'd go to the doctors!

I know quite a few guys who can fuck for more then two hours and not cum. They say they can control it, and choose if/when to cum.

Everyone has this ability tho it is affected by mood, life experience, daily grid etc. The woman that expects performance regardless is no woman and definitely not a lady. Good women make for good sex, patience and input gets very satisfying results. A womans structure and physics can outdo any one guy so to get more.....give more

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over a year ago

"If I could fuck for 2hrs without cumming I'd go to the doctors!"

Have managed 6hrs in the past, was certainly welcome and the relief was incredible!

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

First ever gangbang at a cinema and not one of them lasted more than a few mins (really, max was less than 5 mins), one or 2 guys literally put it in and withdrew after 1 stroke they came so fast.

The most me and my man have done was at a hotel where we arrived early afternoon and went for food after midnight and we'd been at it since we closed the room door ... 8 hours +. We weren't married then so maybe that's why he lasted so long

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

After many years of cumming. Sometimes faster than I'd like. I soon learned to spend time giving pleasure before risking cumming to quickly. We can't always help it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I could fuck for 2hrs without cumming I'd go to the doctors!

I know quite a few guys who can fuck for more then two hours and not cum. They say they can control it, and choose if/when to cum.

I like to cum a few times in a session, these guys must practice something I've never heads of!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I could fuck for 2hrs without cumming I'd go to the doctors!

Have managed 6hrs in the past, was certainly welcome and the relief was incredible!

What, just straight fucking or was foreplay and other stimulation going on in between?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I could fuck for 2hrs without cumming I'd go to the doctors!"

I had medication for about 12 months that did this to me. It drove us completely mad. It was seriously not funny.

Luckily it resolved immediately I stopped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I could fuck for 2hrs without cumming I'd go to the doctors!"

I've had a friend who has had to! Ok by himself but struggles with a girl. I haven't spoke in detail to him but he has been given some exercises by his doctor. Clearly a reason for the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thinking it would probably hurt wouldn't it if you just couldn't cum?

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

I vary. If I am touched too quickly, I am liable to cum straight away, so I try to avoid being touched and do all the giving (oral) first. Once I am stiff, I can carry on for a while but, once I've cum, that's it for an hour or so. If I take a little blue pill, I can get an erection again almost straight away and can keep going for much longer, or until I'm worn out! Even if I haven't cum, the pleasure of giving is enough to make it all satisfying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol looks like the op cummed to quick and left the site.

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By *hocolate WhopperMan
over a year ago

dagenham

"Sometimes I cum quick during sex sometimes I dont cum at all!!! I always try to make my partner cum first with foreplay. I very rarly cum from foreplay alone. But if I do cum quick thats never the end of the fun, it then time to go down for some oral fun till im hard again, it dont take long and your also building her orgasm at the same time. But you cant just cum and roll away."

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

What's wrong with cumming in 2 mins!! People lead busy lives and have shit to do. If I come in 2 mins and the lady hasn't come, I say to her ,"what you waiting for? Time is money"

I lead a busy lifestyle and have things to do.

Lol!!! Just kidding.

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"A guy walked in drop his trousers, told me to put my lips round it, promtply came, zipped up and left!!

Then a few weeks later asked to meet me again.. Bloody cheek lol"

Yeah I've had that, I mean I knew he was busy but that was ridiculous, I felt really used, quite humiliating. He didn't contact me again though...

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Once I put on the music my sexy partner did the full sexy jamaican dancing in our living room with her hot juicy arse in a corset tights and suspenders etc, when she finally mounted me on the sofa, she just moved up and down a couple of times and I literally exploded like mount vesuvius! I think she was happy, she loves turning me on like that, she gets it back in spades!

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