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By *livia_K OP   Woman
over a year ago

South London

... any of your non Fab friends that you're on Fab? I have nearly let it slip a few times over the years as I am not really sure what they would think of my extra curricular activities!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and never will.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Nope! Not a one and we don't plan to. If we came across any of them on here we'd probably send a wink but otherwise its something we enjoy just between ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope! Not a one and we don't plan to. If we came across any of them on here we'd probably send a wink but otherwise its something we enjoy just between ourselves. "
don't you worry about them seeing your profile pics?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Most of my friends know, and they're mostly accepting of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I've never kept my extra curricula activities a secret

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Nope! Not a one and we don't plan to. If we came across any of them on here we'd probably send a wink but otherwise its something we enjoy just between ourselves. don't you worry about them seeing your profile pics?"

well as far as we know we haven't come across any of our friends yet on here (except the one guy I work with who we quickly blocked when he contacted us) but we'd assume that our friends would have profile pictures too. Or are you saying that our pictures are so awful we would be ashamed

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By *DandPokeCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Noooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... any of your non Fab friends that you're on Fab? I have nearly let it slip a few times over the years as I am not really sure what they would think of my extra curricular activities! "

I nearly let it slip at work the other day

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Only my son knows.. he knows everything about me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope! Not a one and we don't plan to. If we came across any of them on here we'd probably send a wink but otherwise its something we enjoy just between ourselves. don't you worry about them seeing your profile pics?

well as far as we know we haven't come across any of our friends yet on here (except the one guy I work with who we quickly blocked when he contacted us) but we'd assume that our friends would have profile pictures too. Or are you saying that our pictures are so awful we would be ashamed "
Not at all there great, just saying if friends or family stumbled across your pics, would be awkward lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect that some might know, i've seen people on fab I know, so maybe same could have happened to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

The friends I could tell who wouldn't be judgmental in anyway are also the type of people who think it would be acceptable to talk about casually infront of people who would be less understanding.

Everyone needs their little secrets anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooo it's our 'dirty' little secret we don't want to share!! Lol

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By *livia_K OP   Woman
over a year ago

South London


"No.

The friends I could tell who wouldn't be judgmental in anyway are also the type of people who think it would be acceptable to talk about casually infront of people who would be less understanding.

Everyone needs their little secrets anyway."

These are my thoughts exactly.

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

no and I try to stay that way although it is possible some may find out somehow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One. Nearly two. Very nearly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, most of my friends know and some of my family too. Its a case of take me as I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One. This week, but she's on here anyhow I found ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a coupel of close friends know.. they wouldnt be my close friends if they thought bad of me in anyway XD

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By *DandPokeCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Anyone heard that song 'dirty little secret' by the all American rejects? That's sums it up for me lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone heard that song 'dirty little secret' by the all American rejects? That's sums it up for me lol xxx "

Really? There's this advert that advises cheap getaways for the night. It's called "secret escapes". Every time that advert comes on I think of this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both our kids know and some of our closest friends know also...

But while we were still in the Army, it was a bit more difficult.. again some really close friends knew (or guessed), but we did have one time when on another site we were contacted with a "Hi, we know you as you are on out street"... we nearly died.. lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Nope! Not a one and we don't plan to. If we came across any of them on here we'd probably send a wink but otherwise its something we enjoy just between ourselves. don't you worry about them seeing your profile pics?

well as far as we know we haven't come across any of our friends yet on here (except the one guy I work with who we quickly blocked when he contacted us) but we'd assume that our friends would have profile pictures too. Or are you saying that our pictures are so awful we would be ashamed Not at all there great, just saying if friends or family stumbled across your pics, would be awkward lol"

Family is different that would be awkward, friends hmmm I suppose that latte in Costa could be interesting if they'd seen us naked in the woods lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both our kids know and some of our closest friends know also...

But while we were still in the Army, it was a bit more difficult.. again some really close friends knew (or guessed), but we did have one time when on another site we were contacted with a "Hi, we know you as you are on out street"... we nearly died.. lol"
How old were youkids when you told them and what was their reaction?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope! Not a one and we don't plan to. If we came across any of them on here we'd probably send a wink but otherwise its something we enjoy just between ourselves. don't you worry about them seeing your profile pics?

well as far as we know we haven't come across any of our friends yet on here (except the one guy I work with who we quickly blocked when he contacted us) but we'd assume that our friends would have profile pictures too. Or are you saying that our pictures are so awful we would be ashamed Not at all there great, just saying if friends or family stumbled across your pics, would be awkward lol

Family is different that would be awkward, friends hmmm I suppose that latte in Costa could be interesting if they'd seen us naked in the woods lol"
I met a women on here, who found out her brother had been looking at her page lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a women on here, who found out her brother had been looking at her page lol."

I now have tea all over my keyboard.

Thanks.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Most of my closest friends know as they often are my security back up and none of them judge if in fact some are a little envious but they're all happily married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a women on here, who found out her brother had been looking at her page lol.

I now have tea all over my keyboard.

Thanks."
That is true.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Nope! Not a one and we don't plan to. If we came across any of them on here we'd probably send a wink but otherwise its something we enjoy just between ourselves. don't you worry about them seeing your profile pics?

well as far as we know we haven't come across any of our friends yet on here (except the one guy I work with who we quickly blocked when he contacted us) but we'd assume that our friends would have profile pictures too. Or are you saying that our pictures are so awful we would be ashamed Not at all there great, just saying if friends or family stumbled across your pics, would be awkward lol

Family is different that would be awkward, friends hmmm I suppose that latte in Costa could be interesting if they'd seen us naked in the woods lol I met a women on here, who found out her brother had been looking at her page lol."

Now that would be awkward. It was a bit of a shock when a colleague of mine contacted us and I can't look him in the eye now.

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By *DandPokeCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Anyone heard that song 'dirty little secret' by the all American rejects? That's sums it up for me lol xxx

Really? There's this advert that advises cheap getaways for the night. It's called "secret escapes". Every time that advert comes on I think of this site "
i don't watch adverts, that's what ff is for

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By *livia_K OP   Woman
over a year ago

South London


"Nope! Not a one and we don't plan to. If we came across any of them on here we'd probably send a wink but otherwise its something we enjoy just between ourselves. don't you worry about them seeing your profile pics?

well as far as we know we haven't come across any of our friends yet on here (except the one guy I work with who we quickly blocked when he contacted us) but we'd assume that our friends would have profile pictures too. Or are you saying that our pictures are so awful we would be ashamed Not at all there great, just saying if friends or family stumbled across your pics, would be awkward lol

Family is different that would be awkward, friends hmmm I suppose that latte in Costa could be interesting if they'd seen us naked in the woods lol I met a women on here, who found out her brother had been looking at her page lol."

OMG I would DIE!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone heard that song 'dirty little secret' by the all American rejects? That's sums it up for me lol xxx

Really? There's this advert that advises cheap getaways for the night. It's called "secret escapes". Every time that advert comes on I think of this site i don't watch adverts, that's what ff is for "

I agree. Beauty of sky plus . Bit difficult though when on the rare occasion someone else has the remote control

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By *DandPokeCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

If my daughter found out what I was doing she would probably disown me! Everyone's entitled to a few secrets in life are they not!

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By *DandPokeCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"... any of your non Fab friends that you're on Fab? I have nearly let it slip a few times over the years as I am not really sure what they would think of my extra curricular activities! "

Nobody's business but mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way! This is my secret life and that's how I want it to stay. I don't send out my face pic until I'm confident that the person I'm talking to is extremely discreet. I think one of my closest friend guesses what I'm up to but has never asked me point blank and never would. She will ask about my sex life now and again and calls me the naughty sexy one lol

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

My best mate knows and he knows that I dress, too; having seen a few pics. He's fascinated by it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of my closest friends know as they often are my security back up and none of them judge if in fact some are a little envious but they're all happily married. "

ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few of my friends know and some of silks to. I guess we're pretty open about our lifestyle choices. Most of our friends are very intrigued and it had also broadened there knowledge on a scene they thought would be very sleazy.

MissD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *corpi0stingMan
over a year ago

london

I only told one friend I've known for a very long time as a girl I'd met from here wanted a mmf and I had an epiphany and thought of him, sensing it would work.. it being my first mmf, it took some edge off as I knew them both, and it was a lot of fun! We set up a MM profile to explore it further but then he moved away (unrelated! ) Other than him, I've told one or two girls that I know from other more 'normal' dating sites, whatever that means..

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Nope. I've talked about a few things from the forum with my best friend but I just say "I read it on the internet"

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Four of my friends know - one is an ordained member of the clergy!

One is my safety friend so always knows when I'm getting up to naughties with new people, and frequently delights in using me as an example that there's nowt so queer as horny straight (she being gay) so Ihave a fair old rep in the local lesbian community!

A third friend doesn't judge but does refer to fab as my pervert site and clubs as pervert site clubs. How am I so certain she doesn't judge? Because she's joining me on a pervert camping trip cos I've been ill and need a little extra help to be able to attend. She's also told her mum who thinks it's great that I can be so comfortable with my choices and that being part of the swinging community seems to make me happy.

I love my girlie mates and knowing that they know me and there is no lying is fab.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"... any of your non Fab friends that you're on Fab? I have nearly let it slip a few times over the years as I am not really sure what they would think of my extra curricular activities! "

I've not told friends I'm on a website looking for property in France, or a site looking for plus size lingerie either.

I don't feel the need to share the minutiae of my *private* life with those around me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. I've talked about a few things from the forum with my best friend but I just say "I read it on the internet" "

I do that as well (Lynne). Andy never reads the forums anyway.

For singles I don't think it would be frowned upon so much if friends realised you were on here. But as a couple the first thing people would ask is what's wrong with your sex life to want to involve others, that's when it would probably get complicated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... any of your non Fab friends that you're on Fab? I have nearly let it slip a few times over the years as I am not really sure what they would think of my extra curricular activities!

I've not told friends I'm on a website looking for property in France, or a site looking for plus size lingerie either.

I don't feel the need to share the minutiae of my *private* life with those around me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both our kids know and some of our closest friends know also...

But while we were still in the Army, it was a bit more difficult.. again some really close friends knew (or guessed), but we did have one time when on another site we were contacted with a "Hi, we know you as you are on out street"... we nearly died.. lol How old were youkids when you told them and what was their reaction?"

18 & 16 and they weren't bothered lol but even though they now know. we don't discuss swinging topics if they are around ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If my daughter found out what I was doing she would probably disown me! Everyone's entitled to a few secrets in life are they not! "

True, but isn't life simpler without them??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite a few of my friends know and some of silks to. I guess we're pretty open about our lifestyle choices. Most of our friends are very intrigued and it had also broadened there knowledge on a scene they thought would be very sleazy.

MissD"

we found that with a lot of out friends that we served with - dispelling the keys in a bowl myth was quite refreshing!! Lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If my daughter found out what I was doing she would probably disown me! Everyone's entitled to a few secrets in life are they not!

True, but isn't life simpler without them?? "

We don't think of it as a secret if a friend found out we would be open about it but as with all other aspects of our sex life we choose not to discuss it with people who aren't directly involved in it. It's the way we choose to conduct our life but we respect that other people like to be more open.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ny cloeset friends now about me bein on here and that is only if I need to be picked up from somewhere if it didn't go to plan xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of my friends know, but one of my superiors at work knows, as he approached me and asked outright, privately, at a works night out. Although I didn't deny it, I didn't say anything to contradict him. He looked as if he'd won a watch when I said to him 'you know where I am if you need me'.

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

A few of my open minded friends know, I even took one to a club as she was curious lol! There are of course some friends I know that just wouldn't get it, so would never mention it. But I do. consider myself lucky to have some that know and I can always let them know If I am meeting someone new and they act as a get out clause too if I need it, which to be fair I have been very lucky so far and not needed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our kids know and most of our friend,, we gave up trying to hide meeting new couples and guys, and making up excuses where we met them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way. My life is exactly that my own.

Daughters whilst grown up prob thinks dads too old anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... any of your non Fab friends that you're on Fab? I have nearly let it slip a few times over the years as I am not really sure what they would think of my extra curricular activities! "

most of my friends and adult family know about my lifestyle.

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