FabSwingers.com forum: How many winks do you receive?

By *ustnosinghere OP Man
2 days ago

;)

How many do you receive in a day or week?

As a single male profile I receive very few, and that's fine. I get it 😅. But I do enjoy receiving them, I e got a huge thing for being desired so even a wink lights up that part of me.

Do you like getting winks or think they're kind of pointless?

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By *ib.Man
2 days ago

Hampshire

Zero.

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By *layfullsamMan
2 days ago

Solihull

Would love to receive a wink out of the blue, but alas it’s rarer than rocking horse 💩

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By *ack2backloadsMan
2 days ago

Loughborough

About 10 a day

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By *uitedGent.Man
2 days ago

Milton Keynes

Of all comms methods, winks is always the least.

I dont think women really see much purpose in the wink

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By *upra1Man
2 days ago

essex area

Non. But i dont normally check them

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By *ibblepilotMan
2 days ago

Preston

"About 10 a day "

Charlie big potatoes!

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By *ustnosinghere OP Man
2 days ago

;)

"Of all comms methods, winks is always the least.

I dont think women really see much purpose in the wink "

Yeah fair enough. I enjoy that lil bit of suspense to see who it is... Sad I know haha

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
2 days ago

Reading

Omg I stopped counting them

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By *uitedGent.Man
2 days ago

Milton Keynes

"Of all comms methods, winks is always the least.

I dont think women really see much purpose in the wink

Yeah fair enough. I enjoy that lil bit of suspense to see who it is... Sad I know haha"

Think 80% of people on here are the same mate, attention feels nice and people wanna be noticed. You’re no different.

Just don’t think much of it will come via that route from experience. And viewed me is a scam too because all the sneaks have stealth mode on 🥷 😅

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By *eadchefski1970Man
2 days ago

Heathrow

I don't get any! Used to but they have dried up, I must be getting old. Lol

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By *WANDTGCouple
2 days ago

Borough of Greenwich

1 or 2 a week, but we gave up responding to them. Found that people wink but won't reply to messages.

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By *hefoxesofpenCouple
2 days ago

chester

Pointless. I ask for people not bother. I'd much prefer a message. Ignored daily.

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By *radually_RetiringMan
2 days ago

Bury

Only ever get them from bi men.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
2 days ago

Bristol

Lots.

And I'm beginning to think they're pointless.

Interested? Just mail me.

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By *influenceCouple
2 days ago

Birmingham

We get probably 10-12 a day but we don't respond to them

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By *olteMan
2 days ago

Sutton

I’ve had winks though not many. Often get no reply to my response.

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By *emptme1993Man
2 days ago

manchester

I’ve had 4 in the last 7 days, 1 of them was from a forum game so not sure that counts

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By *umagain58Man
2 days ago

London

A few but one led to a lot more

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By *oss25Man
2 days ago

Flitwick and Fakenham

Just the odd one now and then

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By *gly duck cdTV/TS
2 days ago

Middlesbrough

For some reason quite a few , I don’t actually check them I just hit bulk delete, same with friends requests

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By *anielandSKCouple
2 days ago

Oxfordshire

3 winks and 5 messages... including a meet now request. Higher than usual, but we get a few days like this from time to time.

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By *d mirerMan
2 days ago

lost

Last wink was 4 weeks ago

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By *abcouple1403Couple
2 days ago

Newcastle

0️⃣

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By *.twigg1086SCMan
2 days ago

Dunstable

Oooo let me get the abacus 🧮 out for this one.........moves just a single piece for the entire time here🙌...begins to think the wink button is a myth😅

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By *ad Bod AdonisMan
2 days ago

Birmingham

It's a nice round number.

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By *ew year new nameWoman
2 days ago

Bolton

Very rarely check winks. Seems i had 6 today but about 50 over the weekend. Maybe I should start checking, since my last meet started with a wink and that would have been a shame to have missed out

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
2 days ago

Glasgow / London / Manchester

Winks? I’ve had a few.

But then again, too few to mention.

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By *heeky trucker100Man
2 days ago

barnsley

Surprised that i get any

But i do get a few

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By *hybeamMan
2 days ago

Whyteleafe

Not as many as I would like, but they have lead to good things

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By *exycpl4fun48Couple
2 days ago

Nottingham

Zero

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By *WB85Man
2 days ago

Staffordshire

I recieve a few here and there.

How many do you get that are even a suitable match?

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By *hicknCut01Man
2 days ago

Wakefield

Not enough I do like the interaction and to be desired

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By *arkJonesMan
2 days ago

Bangor

Zero!

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
2 days ago

Reading & Ignite & Kent

[Removed by poster at 20/04/26 23:44:57]

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
2 days ago

Home

Feck all

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
2 days ago

Reading & Ignite & Kent

"How many do you receive in a day or week?

As a single male profile I receive very few, and that's fine. I get it 😅. But I do enjoy receiving them, I e got a huge thing for being desired so even a wink lights up that part of me.

Do you like getting winks or think they're kind of pointless?"

About 15-20 a day, mainly from single guys, which we just delete because we state in our profile that we won’t respond to winks from them. Get a few from couples or the occasional single fem, which if we like we will wink back. We have had some great interactions from a wink

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By *ongjohnson99Man
2 days ago

Nearby to you

Pretty rare for me to be fair

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By *tlanshiaWoman
1 day ago

Chatham

I can’t say I’ve ever checked them lol

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By *YDB75Man
1 day ago

East Yorks

Very few but i always thank the person

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By *osephSamuel90Man
1 day ago

Warfield

0 from anyone Im actually interested in. Always from old gay guys

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By *ubzero116Man
1 day ago

London

Really not that much

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By *effdelightMan
1 day ago

Grimsby

Not many. 🤷🤣

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By *ertsman46Man
1 day ago

Hertfordshire

Probably had 4 since joining

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By *issFussyWoman
1 day ago

hitchin

1 or 2

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By *ndi LiteMan
1 day ago

Huby

Not that often tbh

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By *oingMan
1 day ago

Co. Antrim

Not too many

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By *rdnezzMan
1 day ago

Suffolk

I lost count at zero

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By *hinstrapMan
1 day ago

sheffield

Usually non. As above it has been said most people live a bit of winks or fabbing. It's always nice to be appreciated

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By *igan_bi_sviewMan
1 day ago

WIGAN

A couple and I'm happy to get those ....

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By *ornyguy666Man
1 day ago

Nottingham

About 50 from bi/gay guys and zero from women/couples

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By *est-Yorkshire-GentMan
1 day ago

Leeds

One or two a week usually

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By *osephSamuel90Man
1 day ago

Warfield

"About 50 from bi/gay guys and zero from women/couples "

Too relatable. See a notification saying you have a new wink, hopes go up, but no its just another guy with his cock in his hand as a profile pic

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By *nked199Man
1 day ago

Manchester

Not very many unfortunately

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By *iking_on_a_bikeMan
1 day ago

marlborough

I can receive winks!!??

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By *heelerMan
1 day ago

Northants

Wink wink

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By *ystery man 31Man
1 day ago

Bristol

I get a few now and then but it's by people I'm not even looking for as always cause nobody reads profiles apparently. But you will also notice alot of people don't actually like or want them once I read there bios and can't blame them. There always from people your not looking for or not interested in anyway.

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By *oiluvfunMan
1 day ago

Penrith

I can’t remember the last time I received a wink from a solo female.

I do get the occasional (and that would be single figures for the year) wink from couples.

Lots of winks from guys though 🤦‍♂️

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By *elboy1978Man
1 day ago

Jarrow

None

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By *aomilatteCouple
1 day ago

Midlands

An average of 10 per week, which all lead to....nothing 🙄

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By *omsarah73Couple
1 day ago

suffolk

Depends if we post anything can be 5 to 40 ish it depends.

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By *oiluvfunMan
1 day ago

Penrith

Thank you to the lady who winked me just now (presumably off the back of this thread) 🤩

You’ve just upped my average to one single female profile per year 😁👍

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By *avidbanksMan
1 day ago

leeds

Not one lol

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By *lack King DomMan
1 day ago

London

Between 3-5 a week

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By *aldaVelvetTV/TS
1 day ago

London

About 10-15 a day.

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By *orklad4funMan
1 day ago

York

Five a day never enough

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By *lkGuyMagic24Man
1 day ago

Kingswood

I get more profile views than winks

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By *agnar1980Man
1 day ago

Poole

Unfortunately not enough

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By *homas400Man
1 day ago

Carmarthen / Llandeilo

Winks are very few and far between unfortunately. I've had two over the past couple of weeks and probably won't get another in months.

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By *um n raisinWoman
1 day ago

taunton

too many i just mass delete daily and if a person keeps sending winks then he/she moves to the block list

winks really are pointless

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By *umagain58Man
1 day ago

London

"0️⃣"

You would if not blocked men. Totally understand though as when my wife on this site it was overwhelming

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By *hinstrapMan
1 day ago

sheffield

"Depends if we post anything can be 5 to 40 ish it depends."

No one likes a show off

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By *hinstrapMan
1 day ago

sheffield

"too many i just mass delete daily and if a person keeps sending winks then he/she moves to the block list

winks really are pointless"

Each to there own. I like them. It's a cheeky. Hello I'm here. I'm interested.

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By *orthampton jamesMan
1 day ago

Northampton

Few and far between I'm afraid, nice to get one now and then, especially from couple's or ladies

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By *aycambsMan
1 day ago

kettering

I don’t think the wink is the issue, rather the system. Personally sending a message is the best way, problem is that if the other person is not interested, very often no response or just a delete.

Maybe fab could consider some friendly alternatives with one click. (Pre-set message)

A: Thanks for your message, but no thank you.

B: Nice profile, but not right now thank you.

Option A could even automatically block the person sending another message

This way you could dispose of the wink, and time spent on your message may not feel a waste of time.

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By *umagain58Man
1 day ago

London

"I don’t think the wink is the issue, rather the system. Personally sending a message is the best way, problem is that if the other person is not interested, very often no response or just a delete.

Maybe fab could consider some friendly alternatives with one click. (Pre-set message)

A: Thanks for your message, but no thank you.

B: Nice profile, but not right now thank you.

Option A could even automatically block the person sending another message

This way you could dispose of the wink, and time spent on your message may not feel a waste of time.

Good points. Sometimes it’s easier to wink and can be fun although I do acknowledge not for all. In some ways it reminds me of school days when you too scared to directly chat to girl you fancied. Mates stepped in to tell them you fancied them. That did work a few times just like the winks can

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By *tanlee1512Man
1 day ago

Epsom

Always happy to receive any

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By *uitedGent.Man
1 day ago

Milton Keynes

I’ve had 32 just this morning 🤩

Although tbf, I think she had something in her eye and it was more of a series of blinks..

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By *um n raisinWoman
1 day ago

taunton

"0️⃣

You would if not blocked men. Totally understand though as when my wife on this site it was overwhelming "

i only meet men on fab so not going to block all when i can block individuals with the block button i have 1000s blocked and for many reasons and easy to do

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By *4ttMan
1 day ago

Cheltenham

One on a very good day

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By *imonleedsfunMan
1 day ago

Haworth

A big fat donut for me…0

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By *ill Hill FunseekersCouple
1 day ago

london

Not enough. 😥

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By *peedyGMan
1 day ago

Telford

I get a few now and again, sod all messages though!😂

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By *andsCouple
1 day ago

Edin

Quite a few but tbh would prefer a message

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By *ayskiMan
1 day ago

Huddersfield

Just the odd one now and again, nearly always from a bloke too.

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By *abulincsCouple
1 day ago

pe129 area

Never counted

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By *haringisCaring1208Couple
1 day ago

Lurgan

Never counted, but it varies, some days none, some days quite a few

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By *erPleasureHisRulesCouple
1 day ago

Barnsley

Lots, even though our profile says we don't respond to winks 🤷

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By *entlemanrogueMan
1 day ago

Motherwell

Maybe one or two per month.

Usually from men /couples

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By *heNepaliGuy110011Man
1 day ago

Leeds

One or two about every couple of months

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By *e and him 2021Couple
1 day ago

stoke on trent

We don’t get many probably 1 or 2 a week and messages that’s probably 1 or 2 a month.

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By *aked beachMan
1 day ago

small cave, behind the big cave.

Been on here 8 months, I have 1, 6 months ago. Fat fingers l’d imagine

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
1 day ago

Ryde

A couple a day. Never amount to anything, but the thought it there!

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By *ilfhunter1980Man
1 day ago

Milton Keynes

Zero

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By *earditallWoman
1 day ago

Lancaster

I use the wink feature if I get one and I find something that catches my eye I wink back usually leads to conversation.

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By *aryportmanMan
1 day ago

Whitehaven

About one a month lol

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By *oee25Man
1 day ago

Huddersfield

A couple a day if I’m online

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By *entakuruMan
1 day ago

Way less than I did before I blocked men and TV/TS. It's gone from a couple a day to maybe five a year.

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By *apua New GuineaMan
1 day ago

nearby

2/3 per calendar year.

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
1 day ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

2.5

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By *yclinghardMan
1 day ago

Winchester

You can get winks 😅

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By *evilinyouMan
1 day ago

Bristol

Today I got one. Bring my total for the week to... One 👍

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By *uitedGent.Man
1 day ago

Milton Keynes

"2.5"

Calling me half a man is the harshest insult yet..

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By *F25Man
1 day ago

kent

a fair few

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By *ingernuts52Man
1 day ago

cornwall

Not many !

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By *ick MastersMan
1 day ago

Birmingham

A few, but not that many

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By *uddling specialistMan
1 day ago

colchester

Maybe 1-3 a month

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By *omeotherguyMan
1 day ago

Sheffield/London/Derbyshire

It depends how active I am. I get a lot more messages than winks though.

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By *onin25Man
1 day ago

Durham

Generally zero, but 7 in the last 2 days which is a bit weird

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By *lairebear13Woman
1 day ago

fife

😉😉😉

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By *ieandteaseMan
1 day ago

Wiltshire

Usually a couple a week on average.

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By *ust want fun 888Man
1 day ago

nearby

I suppose, I do like winks as it shows that someone has looked at my profile and maybe interested, just wish I had more from women

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By *lex_RyanMan
1 day ago

Swindon

1 wink but then ghosted when trying to start a chat. must of hit the button by mistake? haha

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By *en3021Man
1 day ago

york

I wish I got more x

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By *ark4306Man
1 day ago

bolton

very rarely

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
1 day ago

Norwich

Few. Once a week is a high estimate.

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By *ushman500Man
1 day ago

Woking

It’s rare !

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By *ace400Man
1 day ago

my back yard

Not many now

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By *erbysGentMan
17 hours ago

Ilkeston

Lucky if once a month

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By *he MinionMan
17 hours ago

A couple a week at most.

I appreciate a wink. Sometimes messages and more come from them, sometimes not.

I do think they are a good way to start a conversation with somebody though who has shown some initial interest.

😉

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By *uicy_jones87Couple
17 hours ago

godalming

Zillions!

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By *neforutoMan
16 hours ago

Fantasy land in the SW

I get 1-2 per month and they are always from blokes.

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By *upersmoothMan
16 hours ago

Castle Donington

None

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By *ubikslongswordMan
16 hours ago

Rubiksville

Next to none

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By *wistedTooCouple
16 hours ago

Frimley

Had about 30 or so in the last hour or two.

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
10 hours ago

Motherwell

On average between 4 and 7 per week, if I post a meeting this can rise to per day. Generally they don't result in a meeting if taken no further as the winker does not message me first.

Mx 😈

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By *ifelover999Man
10 hours ago

Eastbourne

None🤣

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By *NMattMan
10 hours ago

Northampton

1 or 2 if I’m lucky lol

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By *orba69Man
10 hours ago

Doncaster

1 or 2 every couple of weeks, sadly most are from men rather than couples or women.

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By *om WxmMan
10 hours ago

Wrexham

"1 or 2 every couple of weeks, sadly most are from men rather than couples or women. "

Same here I'm sorry to say.

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By *aulgreen22Man
10 hours ago

English Riviera Torquay & Finchley

Very few just the odd one

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By *hinstrapMan
10 hours ago

sheffield

None today

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By *ricoupleCouple
6 hours ago

Groningen NL

A couple of winks a week, sometimes more if active in Forums visiting UK or on holiday. We have filters on and our profile is clear we only meet in clubs or on holiday.

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By *avrick180Man
6 hours ago

Pontypool

Lucky if I get one every now and again

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
6 hours ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

Only from single men who haven’t read our profile , or couples who then don’t reply when we say hi. Find them pointless.

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By *penminded7Man
6 hours ago

Ebbw Vale

Not many

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