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By *yrdwoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've taken my 'looking for' preferences off as I have decided I get better meets by actually browsing for who I want to meet. I assume then that whoever messages me gets the 'this person is not looking for men/women/couples etc' warning message. So why has a guy just messaged me asking why he got the warning message? Could it be that I am not bloody looking for anyone at the mo?

Some right geniuses on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men pfft

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Why do people bother questioning someone else's preferences? I find it increbibly annoying and often quite rude.

Personally I turn my message filters on and off as I feel like it. Sometimes I'm in the mood to get messages from different people and other times I'm just happy to continue chatting to the people I am already chatting to without having to worry about getting a million cock pic messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha its like when I say just wink,so I get a wink then a message asking if ive got the wink they sent.......you can't help some people

Bless them all they make me smile

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By *yrdwoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

The only time I have ever ignored a warning message was when I was sending a marmalade recipe to a woman on here who wasn't looking for women. If I see the warning, I don't message!

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Sorry, but I don't understand what these warning messages are?

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By *yrdwoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Sorry, but I don't understand what these warning messages are?"

Try messaging me and see what happens :D

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"Sorry, but I don't understand what these warning messages are?

Try messaging me and see what happens :D"

Oh I see! Never seen that before!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Nothing happened??

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By *yrdwoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Nothing happened??"

We've swapped messages so it won't happen for you.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Nothing happened??

We've swapped messages so it won't happen for you."

So we have. And there was me thinking I was special

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By *yrdwoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Nothing happened??

We've swapped messages so it won't happen for you.

So we have. And there was me thinking I was special "

Awww, everyone is special on here. In various ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, but I don't understand what these warning messages are?

Try messaging me and see what happens :D"

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Haha its like when I say just wink,so I get a wink then a message asking if ive got the wink they sent.......you can't help some people

Bless them all they make me smile "

;-)

Did you get it

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"I've taken my 'looking for' preferences off as I have decided I get better meets by actually browsing for who I want to meet. I assume then that whoever messages me gets the 'this person is not looking for men/women/couples etc' warning message. So why has a guy just messaged me asking why he got the warning message? Could it be that I am not bloody looking for anyone at the mo?

Some right geniuses on here. "

Shame hear that but can i be sneaky and try to get a positive out of your rant??

I like the idea of removing what i'm looking for as then the onus is on me to look rather than wait for someone to find me. Sounds like a good way to actually get to know and meet the people you want to

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

As well as this I wasn't aware until a while ago that if you messaged someone that you have messaged previously and not recieved a reply then you get a message telling you that they didn't reply before!!! And I've still had people message me 3 or 4 times. Gotta give em credit for perseverance!! Lol x

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By *yrdwoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I've taken my 'looking for' preferences off as I have decided I get better meets by actually browsing for who I want to meet. I assume then that whoever messages me gets the 'this person is not looking for men/women/couples etc' warning message. So why has a guy just messaged me asking why he got the warning message? Could it be that I am not bloody looking for anyone at the mo?

Some right geniuses on here.

Shame hear that but can i be sneaky and try to get a positive out of your rant??

I like the idea of removing what i'm looking for as then the onus is on me to look rather than wait for someone to find me. Sounds like a good way to actually get to know and meet the people you want to "

Its working well for now.

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By *yrdwoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"As well as this I wasn't aware until a while ago that if you messaged someone that you have messaged previously and not recieved a reply then you get a message telling you that they didn't reply before!!! And I've still had people message me 3 or 4 times. Gotta give em credit for perseverance!! Lol x "

I mean, I would take the hint! But some don't.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"As well as this I wasn't aware until a while ago that if you messaged someone that you have messaged previously and not recieved a reply then you get a message telling you that they didn't reply before!!! And I've still had people message me 3 or 4 times. Gotta give em credit for perseverance!! Lol x

I mean, I would take the hint! But some don't."

So would I!! Haha. Thick skin! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha its like when I say just wink,so I get a wink then a message asking if ive got the wink they sent.......you can't help some people

Bless them all they make me smile

;-)

Did you get it "

Was it this one ""?

If it was then yes thanks

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Haha its like when I say just wink,so I get a wink then a message asking if ive got the wink they sent.......you can't help some people

Bless them all they make me smile

;-)

Did you get it

Was it this one ""?

If it was then yes thanks "

Woohoo!!! So when we meeting or do i have to message too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've taken my 'looking for' preferences off as I have decided I get better meets by actually browsing for who I want to meet. I assume then that whoever messages me gets the 'this person is not looking for men/women/couples etc' warning message. So why has a guy just messaged me asking why he got the warning message? Could it be that I am not bloody looking for anyone at the mo?

Some right geniuses on here. "

Yay! Welcome to the 'not looking for' club!

I didn't realise that people got a warning message. That's interesting, it means the ones that do bother mailing me are slightly deranged.

I do explain it on my profile why I have no 'looking for'.... But then I always thought people didn't read profiles anyway.

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