FabSwingers.com forum: Unexpected rejection

By *rdnezz OP Man
3 days ago

Suffolk

Over the past four days, I’d been having a really good conversation with someone. It flowed naturally—I was polite, a bit flirty, but always respectful. She told me she was attracted to me and genuinely interested, and since we live fairly close to each other, it all felt quite realistic.

We’d already exchanged face pictures and the attraction seemed mutual. Things became a bit more playful, and we shared some more intimate photos, which she said she enjoyed. Overall, it felt like we were building a good rapport and there was potential for something there.

Then, completely out of the blue today, I found I’d been blocked with no explanation.

I understand that’s entirely her prerogative, and I can accept rejection—but it’s the lack of any reason that’s hard to make sense of. Part of me wonders if it was accidental, though I’m not holding out much hope for that

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By *ogisticalBigManMan
3 days ago

Sheffield

Could have been any reason to be fair. As crap as it is, best not to dwell on it and leave them to it. Plenty more out there seemingly

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By *key1980Man
3 days ago

Okehampton

It was probably a man!!

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By *rdnezz OP Man
3 days ago

Suffolk

I’d like to hear a woman’s perspective—curious how it comes across from your side

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By *ustforfun1759Couple
3 days ago

IRVINE

Could have been a guy at it mrs

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By *ornyguy666Man
3 days ago

Nottingham

Don't take it personally it probably a bloke

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By *key1980Man
3 days ago

Okehampton

What was the profile name?

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By *rdnezz OP Man
3 days ago

Suffolk

"What was the profile name?"

I’m not here to name and try to shame them, I’m more respectful than that.

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By *est-Yorkshire-GentMan
3 days ago

Leeds

It just happens on here unfortunately. So many fake profiles and time wasters but there’s still so many genuine fabbers on here. Onwards and upwards!

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By *rdnezz OP Man
3 days ago

Suffolk

"Could have been a guy at it mrs"

It wasn’t a couple profile, it was a single female, if they was a guy pretending to be a woman then they were very convincing.

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By *key1980Man
3 days ago

Okehampton

"What was the profile name?

I’m not here to name and try to shame them, I’m more respectful than that. "
thats totally understandable

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By *key1980Man
3 days ago

Okehampton

See other forum post!!

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By *tlanshiaWoman
3 days ago

Chatham

It could be a man.

Was the profile photo verified? Although that’s not always a good indicator now.

Any meet veris?!!

As a woman looking for woman, I always ask for some sort of video call or voice note exchange just to prove it’s a woman.

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By *rdnezz OP Man
3 days ago

Suffolk

"It could be a man.

Was the profile photo verified? Although that’s not always a good indicator now.

Any meet veris?!!

As a woman looking for woman, I always ask for some sort of video call or voice note exchange just to prove it’s a woman. "

The profile was only 2 days old when we initially started talking and unverified, so maybe I have been a little naive

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By *oci2199Man
3 days ago

Manchester

"It could be a man.

Was the profile photo verified? Although that’s not always a good indicator now.

Any meet veris?!!

As a woman looking for woman, I always ask for some sort of video call or voice note exchange just to prove it’s a woman.

The profile was only 2 days old when we initially started talking and unverified, so maybe I have been a little naive"

Yeah I think it's this, probably a little naive.

Either a fake profile, possibly a man.

She was very new, just testing the water and got cold feet.

She's married and just enjoys the online flirting/banter and decided it got that one step too far and had no real intentions to actually take it further, so blocking was the easy way out.

She or he enjoys stringing people along for their own kicks.

Or something else.

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By *WB85Man
3 days ago

Staffordshire

It happens op, you may say something that seems insignificant, but to others it can be a huge red flag and thats the end of it.

I made a tongue in cheek comment once to a longer term fwb and it really killed the mood.

We all have different boundaries and opinions of red flags, its very difficult to navigate.

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