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By *ick272000 OP   Man
6 days ago

Barnsley

Tempted to de-activate soon, just cannot find a meet on here as a good looking young single guy, any advice..

I wonder what I’m doing wrong lol, also I’ve tried Tinder, and no luck there either.

Any older women looking for a Slim, handsome younger man for some fun?

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By *aomilatteCouple
6 days ago

Midlands

Some advice is to get rid of the photo with womens make up on the shelf, and get rid of the cock photos. Try some pics dressed smart/casual.

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By *agE97Couple
6 days ago

Gwynedd

"Hey, any local single women looking to fuck? like the porn ads LoL!"

Appologies to sound blunt, but that status is enough to put us right off!

Are you truly a swinger/lifestyler? To us you are a young 25yr old looking for sex. Nothing wrong with that at all, but like many single guys they are on this site thinking they're 100% guaranteed sex with a click of the fingers and crude talk...doesn't quite work like that I'm afraid.

But we don wish you luck x

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By *nigmatic PeachTV/TS
6 days ago

Huddersfield

These posts always have explanations to their questions in their profile 😂😂😂🙊🙈

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By *iss DevilWoman
6 days ago

Hiding

OP, have you followed any advice given on your previous posts? You are very young and from your current status update, you sound very porn-fuelled. Go out in the real world, not even necessarily to swingers clubs but to wherever young adults hang around these days, and try your luck in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 days ago

That’s actually a really good point. There is a difference between swinging and just having sex. Being on this site doesn’t make you a swinger. Indulging in wife swapping, orgies, arranging to swap with other people for your own and your partners enjoyment., that, is swinging. A huge percentage of men here just want one on one sex. That, isn’t swinging. That’s just sex. And this is a swingers site.

OP, your profile has little info, and men have to accept that it is 1000 men to 1 woman on here, so if you can’t handle a ‘no’, this isn’t the site for you.

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By *rightonsteveMan
6 days ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You say you’re handsome but still not getting meets?

A) maybe you’re not handsome after all or

B) it’s not enough

The fish ain’t gonna bite if the bait’s not right.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
6 days ago

Utero

Some guys are dying of thirst… 🌵🏜️

Some are drowning 🌊

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By *avidNPMan
6 days ago

manchester

😭😭😭😭😭

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By *oiluvfunMan
6 days ago

Penrith


"Tempted to de-activate soon, just cannot find a meet on here as a good looking young single guy, any advice..

I wonder what I’m doing wrong lol, also I’ve tried Tinder, and no luck there either.

Any older women looking for a Slim, handsome younger man for some fun?"

I have a mate who is meeting some seriously hot women through Tinder, and he is twice your age....

You are quite young to be in here my friend! You should get out to 'normal' clubs and bars, where THERE WILL ALWAYS BE MORE SINGLE LADIES THAN IN FAB!

I don't know the Barnsley area at all (although I did go out with a Barnsley lass when I was at college), but even your local Wetherspoons will have more ladies in it than the needle in a haystack 457 local lads in here will be also chasing....

Get out of here, ans experience some real life. Come back when you're 30+ if needs be. Good luck mate

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By *nigmatic PeachTV/TS
6 days ago

Huddersfield


"Tempted to de-activate soon, just cannot find a meet on here as a good looking young single guy, any advice..

I wonder what I’m doing wrong lol, also I’ve tried Tinder, and no luck there either.

Any older women looking for a Slim, handsome younger man for some fun?

I have a mate who is meeting some seriously hot women through Tinder, and he is twice your age....

You are quite young to be in here my friend! You should get out to 'normal' clubs and bars, where THERE WILL ALWAYS BE MORE SINGLE LADIES THAN IN FAB!

I don't know the Barnsley area at all (although I did go out with a Barnsley lass when I was at college), but even your local Wetherspoons will have more ladies in it than the needle in a haystack 457 local lads in here will be also chasing....

Get out of here, ans experience some real life. Come back when you're 30+ if needs be. Good luck mate "

That’s good advice 👏🏻

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By *eachbums40Couple
6 days ago

Midlands


"You say you’re handsome but still not getting meets?

A) maybe you’re not handsome after all or

B) it’s not enough

The fish ain’t gonna bite if the bait’s not right. "

Spot on.

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
6 days ago

Reading & Ignite & Kent


"Tempted to de-activate soon, just cannot find a meet on here as a good looking young single guy, any advice..

I wonder what I’m doing wrong lol, also I’ve tried Tinder, and no luck there either.

Any older women looking for a Slim, handsome younger man for some fun?"

I think your status is enough to make any women’s legs stay firmly crossed

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By *oxy-RedWoman
6 days ago

pink panther territory

Your status is a huge turn off

And like someone posted further up,go out to the bars etc your to young to be on fab

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By *oiluvfunMan
5 days ago

Penrith


"You say you’re handsome but still not getting meets?

A) maybe you’re not handsome after all or

B) it’s not enough

The fish ain’t gonna bite if the bait’s not right. "

C) the fish will bite, in a better stocked pond…

If you’re looking to meet women, you need to go places where women are

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By *otsossieMan
5 days ago

Chesterfield / Sheffield

I could meet men every day on here without trying.

If I liked men.

If you’re looking to meet women you’d be better off trying the usual mainstream option as suggested above.

One of my mates completed it.

If you’re interested in couples you need to take the advice already given about profile changes and attend some socials and be less thirsty.

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By *issmorganWoman
5 days ago

Calderdale innit


"Some advice is to get rid of the photo with womens make up on the shelf, and get rid of the cock photos. Try some pics dressed smart/casual."

Ooh good spot there.

If that's a womans stuff are you really single or is a flat mates, parents make up etc?.

Less cock pics needed, put a couple in friends pics or private.

The status puts me off, comes across very immature and as if you're just after a quick shag. Which is in keeping with other bits of your bio too tbh.

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By *ick272000 OP   Man
5 days ago

Barnsley

Hey, okay, this is fair advice, it’s probably time to go shopping for some smarter clothes in general, thanks for responding

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By *ick272000 OP   Man
5 days ago

Barnsley

I’m not a Swinger.. I am just looking for sex, I heard about this site so I gave it a try, tinder didn’t work for me, what else lol

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By *ick272000 OP   Man
5 days ago

Barnsley

Hey, I have followed some of the advice, and yes that would be correct to say I’m porn fueled, developed a bit of an addiction recently, so I’m on here looking for real sex and trying to change that..

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By *uddling specialistMan
5 days ago

colchester


"I’m not a Swinger.. I am just looking for sex, I heard about this site so I gave it a try, tinder didn’t work for me, what else lol"
try amsterdam i say. As just looking for a fuck on this site will get u exactly what u have got........ nothing

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By *ick272000 OP   Man
5 days ago

Barnsley

Damn it, I forgot to quote reply to posts, my bad

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By *ick272000 OP   Man
5 days ago

Barnsley


"Tempted to de-activate soon, just cannot find a meet on here as a good looking young single guy, any advice..

I wonder what I’m doing wrong lol, also I’ve tried Tinder, and no luck there either.

Any older women looking for a Slim, handsome younger man for some fun?

I have a mate who is meeting some seriously hot women through Tinder, and he is twice your age....

You are quite young to be in here my friend! You should get out to 'normal' clubs and bars, where THERE WILL ALWAYS BE MORE SINGLE LADIES THAN IN FAB!

I don't know the Barnsley area at all (although I did go out with a Barnsley lass when I was at college), but even your local Wetherspoons will have more ladies in it than the needle in a haystack 457 local lads in here will be also chasing....

Get out of here, ans experience some real life. Come back when you're 30+ if needs be. Good luck mate "

I may very try come back in 5 years or so like you say, but to be honest I barely go out, I don’t like to go to clubs or parties and I don’t drink.

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By *ick272000 OP   Man
5 days ago

Barnsley


"That’s actually a really good point. There is a difference between swinging and just having sex. Being on this site doesn’t make you a swinger. Indulging in wife swapping, orgies, arranging to swap with other people for your own and your partners enjoyment., that, is swinging. A huge percentage of men here just want one on one sex. That, isn’t swinging. That’s just sex. And this is a swingers site.

OP, your profile has little info, and men have to accept that it is 1000 men to 1 woman on here, so if you can’t handle a ‘no’, this isn’t the site for you."

I don’t even get rejected lol, I don’t even get a reply, most of the time I’d respect a rejection more then just being straight ignored, yeah if it’s really 1k to 1 then fuck that why should I bother lol.

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By *naswingdressWoman
5 days ago

Manchester (she/her)


"OP, have you followed any advice given on your previous posts? You are very young and from your current status update, you sound very porn-fuelled. Go out in the real world, not even necessarily to swingers clubs but to wherever young adults hang around these days, and try your luck in person. "

Agreed. Try all the advice you've had over the last several months.

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By *nlygirlzallowedWoman
4 days ago

NI/Bham

Another poor me single man post. Just block and ignore.

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By *oiluvfunMan
4 days ago

Penrith


"Tempted to de-activate soon, just cannot find a meet on here as a good looking young single guy, any advice..

I wonder what I’m doing wrong lol, also I’ve tried Tinder, and no luck there either.

Any older women looking for a Slim, handsome younger man for some fun?

I have a mate who is meeting some seriously hot women through Tinder, and he is twice your age....

You are quite young to be in here my friend! You should get out to 'normal' clubs and bars, where THERE WILL ALWAYS BE MORE SINGLE LADIES THAN IN FAB!

I don't know the Barnsley area at all (although I did go out with a Barnsley lass when I was at college), but even your local Wetherspoons will have more ladies in it than the needle in a haystack 457 local lads in here will be also chasing....

Get out of here, ans experience some real life. Come back when you're 30+ if needs be. Good luck mate

I may very try come back in 5 years or so like you say, but to be honest I barely go out, I don’t like to go to clubs or parties and I don’t drink."

It’s a very simple formula mate;

If you want to meet women, you need to put your self where women are…

I pulled at our local Parkrun recently 😎

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By *eachbums40Couple
2 days ago

Midlands


"Tempted to de-activate soon, just cannot find a meet on here as a good looking young single guy, any advice..

I wonder what I’m doing wrong lol, also I’ve tried Tinder, and no luck there either.

Any older women looking for a Slim, handsome younger man for some fun?"

Still here??

Bye now

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By *ovinglife!40Man
2 days ago

Hinckley


"I’m not a Swinger.. I am just looking for sex, I heard about this site so I gave it a try, tinder didn’t work for me, what else lol"

Not a swinger??

Then why are you on a swingers site??

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