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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on here quite a while? I get ignored regular, but there's a few that reply.. and I want a meet but no one ever reply? Need some tips and advice on why it could be? Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the fact that you can't accommodate or travel puts people off?

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

The profile looks pretty neat actually. We don't look for single guys ourselves, but yours is pretty straight to the point. Also not a huge amount of cock pics, which would be a positive for us.

In the end though, you have only been on for 3 months and you are in the catergory that finds it hardest to meet. Single guys.

It's all about supply and demand. There are amazing numbers of single guys, there are less couples and less single women.

Which just means the greater the number of single guys, the less chance there is for them to meet.

There are couples and single women out there who are looking for single men, but the only thing you can do is keep trying, keep positive.

If I was to be hyper critical, whilst your profile is quite cheery and positive, some may find it lacks enough detail and is not picky enough. The fact you are open to a range of sizes and ages, may put some off as it may feel a bit like any hole is a goal and whilst we are all here for sex, there is nothing wrong with making someone feel good about picking you. Rather than that you would fuck anyone who moves.

I'm not trying to be negative, it's a nice profile but different people see different profiles differently.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I get ignored all the time despite good messages, good verifications and a keen attitude towards good sex.. People just miss out at the end of the day..

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Possibly your profile nae

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

What sort of things are you saying? You need to read profiles, be friendly, be patient...maybe go to a social or club near you. Don't worry about not meeting just join in in chat rooms or on here. Make sure your profile is well written and says about you and your personality and what you like and don't like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here quite a while? I get ignored regular, but there's a few that reply.. and I want a meet but no one ever reply? Need some tips and advice on why it could be? Thanks "

Profile is ok with some good pics, try to space the profile wording out and make it easier to read..

Get from behind the screen to meet others at socials and clubs if you can - best way to meet people is to get out there.

Get to know others - others get to know you and in turn you get on the radar.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Maybe the fact that you can't accommodate or travel puts people off?"

Aye: think you're right!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I get ignored all the time despite good messages, good verifications and a keen attitude towards good sex.. People just miss out at the end of the day.. "

Sorry, your username is off putting.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"I get ignored all the time despite good messages, good verifications and a keen attitude towards good sex.. People just miss out at the end of the day..

Sorry, your username is off putting."

saves me putting some prose together I suppose

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"What sort of things are you saying? You need to read profiles, be friendly, be patient...maybe go to a social or club near you. Don't worry about not meeting just join in in chat rooms or on here. Make sure your profile is well written and says about you and your personality and what you like and don't like."

I have 2 fbs so its not like I go without, just a bit frustrating when what messages I do send go for the most part unread it are deleted.

I'm by no means hid behind a computer, just a horn more than most.... by that I mean 13 days bacK to back were only stopped because of a cancellation... Back on it in the 14th - 19th as I remember

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My answer was for the OP.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Not a bad profile; could it be the messages you send, perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying yor not fussed what you meet makes you sound desperate! We all have limits

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"My answer was for the OP. "

Do you think forums, chat and socials increase chances of a meet? I've never been on socials and forums/chat hasn't gained any rewards over messaging people directly personally?

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