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"I was in one in my uni days, I don’t think they’re all that common though and for good reason. For starters it’s three people with three separate sets of needs and desires, each person needs to be on the same page emotionally. It can be easy for one person to feel left out or not attended to as much as the others. I think if you enter into it seriously it can be a wonderful thing." Yes I can see that but even if it was a semi poly thing ie something really regular 2/3 Times a week where we could all have a sleep over, food, hot sex, net flix, football. All stuff we enjoy as a 2 but instead as a 3 | |||
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"I was in one in my uni days, I don’t think they’re all that common though and for good reason. For starters it’s three people with three separate sets of needs and desires, each person needs to be on the same page emotionally. It can be easy for one person to feel left out or not attended to as much as the others. I think if you enter into it seriously it can be a wonderful thing. Yes I can see that but even if it was a semi poly thing ie something really regular 2/3 Times a week where we could all have a sleep over, food, hot sex, net flix, football. All stuff we enjoy as a 2 but instead as a 3" Sounds amazing if you can find that person! | |||
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"I was in one in my uni days, I don’t think they’re all that common though and for good reason. For starters it’s three people with three separate sets of needs and desires, each person needs to be on the same page emotionally. It can be easy for one person to feel left out or not attended to as much as the others. I think if you enter into it seriously it can be a wonderful thing. Let’s see if anything comes from the post fingers crossed Yes I can see that but even if it was a semi poly thing ie something really regular 2/3 Times a week where we could all have a sleep over, food, hot sex, net flix, football. All stuff we enjoy as a 2 but instead as a 3 Sounds amazing if you can find that person! " | |||
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"Thought this post would have gained momentum. " It sounds like the perfect scenario, you would all know what eachother liked and wanted at different times, and even just a quick phonecall to say "I'm popping round" could be a mid afternoon norm. Days out and holidays would be good too. I'm imagining a chateau in rural France. | |||
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"Thought this post would have gained momentum. It sounds like the perfect scenario, you would all know what eachother liked and wanted at different times, and even just a quick phonecall to say "I'm popping round" could be a mid afternoon norm. Days out and holidays would be good too. I'm imagining a chateau in rural France." Anywhere warm would do we think  | |||
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"Sounds amazing, especially for someone who’s ’in between relationships’ by choice and not sure I’m ready to 100% commit to a person 365 days a year… but misses the closeness from those weekends together and holidays/restaurants activities together etc Shame you guys are so far away! " Story of our lives! | |||
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"Is there any MFM throuples on here? We love the idea but would like it to be discrete from friends and family. Would love to meet another local guy who would respect that but we could have holidays and weekends away as well as dates a little out of town in public. Maybe attend clubs together too. Ideally who has their own place. Would be good to build that relationship. Behind closed doors would be really good to throuple properly. Obviously, attraction, single and local is the key for us to make it work." I think it would work if you laid out the boundary’s properly and say it how it is and how you want it to work. I can imagine lads and men are pushy when it comes to a mfm. Personally, even meeting singles, everything is on the ladies or couples turn. Always respect the lady or couple your joining as I see it as they are allowing you into their life so to speak | |||
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"Is there any MFM throuples on here? We love the idea but would like it to be discrete from friends and family. Would love to meet another local guy who would respect that but we could have holidays and weekends away as well as dates a little out of town in public. Maybe attend clubs together too. Ideally who has their own place. Would be good to build that relationship. Behind closed doors would be really good to throuple properly. Obviously, attraction, single and local is the key for us to make it work." Being the third in a MFM throuple like this is something that I've always hoped to find on here or elsewhere. I'm not really the type for 1 on 1 dating, and I'm not even sure if I want to be a in a completely monogamous relationship, but I do sometimes feel like I miss out on the intimacy of a regular relationship so if I can get that from an already established couple who are looking for someone to join them that would be amazing I've become quite close with a couple I've met on here and we do talk about potentially making more of things between us all so hopefully that becomes something like this, but so far we only see eachother every few months and I'd want more than that Good luck to everyone looking for something similar, fingers crossed we can find what we're looking for | |||
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"Whilst it wasn’t a throuple, we had a gent friends with benefits that we’d spend weekends with and C had pretty much 2 boyfriends for the weekend. We’d go out socially too and go to clubs. It worked well whilst it lasted. K" That would work just as well for us, sounds perfect xx | |||
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"Sam was seeing the same guy for over 12yrs if that can be classed as a throuple,she grew quite attached too him." Love this xx | |||
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"I was in a sort of unofficial MFM throuple for a few months and it worked really well for us. My limited free time means dating is really hard so me being able to still get the intimacy of a relationship without the big time commitment was amazing. We had a couple of nights out together as a throuple too and that was good fun. We didn’t set out for that to be the situation though. She was a hotwife and that’s just what it progressed into. If you can find someone who ticks the boxes, I’m sure you’ll love it "Sounds lots of fun x | |||
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"Whilst it wasn’t a throuple, we had a gent friends with benefits that we’d spend weekends with and C had pretty much 2 boyfriends for the weekend. We’d go out socially too and go to clubs. It worked well whilst it lasted. K That would work just as well for us, sounds perfect xx" It lasted for over a year and mainly we’d play together but sometimes C would go in and wake him up nicely or go and surprise him at his work and take lunch (he worked alone). We actually went to Townhouse a few times together. | |||
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"Is there any MFM throuples on here? We love the idea but would like it to be discrete from friends and family. Would love to meet another local guy who would respect that but we could have holidays and weekends away as well as dates a little out of town in public. Maybe attend clubs together too. Ideally who has their own place. Would be good to build that relationship. Behind closed doors would be really good to throuple properly. Obviously, attraction, single and local is the key for us to make it work." We're looking for pritymuch the same here. | |||
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"Is there any MFM throuples on here? We love the idea but would like it to be discrete from friends and family. Would love to meet another local guy who would respect that but we could have holidays and weekends away as well as dates a little out of town in public. Maybe attend clubs together too. Ideally who has their own place. Would be good to build that relationship. Behind closed doors would be really good to throuple properly. Obviously, attraction, single and local is the key for us to make it work." Mmm living the dream, aslong as all three are open to more wider play I can see it working well | |||
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"Is there any MFM throuples on here? We love the idea but would like it to be discrete from friends and family. Would love to meet another local guy who would respect that but we could have holidays and weekends away as well as dates a little out of town in public. Maybe attend clubs together too. Ideally who has their own place. Would be good to build that relationship. Behind closed doors would be really good to throuple properly. Obviously, attraction, single and local is the key for us to make it work." I have some good friends, which I don’t consider. We are in a throuple however we have over the last almost 20 years had lots of weekends away lots of holidays together not gone on dates as such but happily enjoyed a lunch date with her while he was at work and yes, I think it can work I think it can be enjoyed and it can be very satisfying. I have no desire for a permanent person in my life but I definitely miss intimacy closeness and the warm body in my bed occasionally, but I am older and fewer people are interested in guys of my age. | |||
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"Is there any MFM throuples on here? We love the idea but would like it to be discrete from friends and family. Would love to meet another local guy who would respect that but we could have holidays and weekends away as well as dates a little out of town in public. Maybe attend clubs together too. Ideally who has their own place. Would be good to build that relationship. Behind closed doors would be really good to throuple properly. Obviously, attraction, single and local is the key for us to make it work." Re: OP My understanding of a Throuple is where three people are within a relationship with each other. I think your looking for a MFM Vee or hinge relationship, where the two men are NOT romantically linked. Anyway, good luck it's a big step. | |||
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"I've been wanting to build something as a throuple. Having often lived as a three household with friends for many years I miss the closeness and bonds we built albeit without the sex whilst being very close. And relationship wise I've never been satisfied with monogamy always yearning for a different dynamic. Still looking for a proper throuple to be a part of. " We feel ya | |||
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"Is there any MFM throuples on here? We love the idea but would like it to be discrete from friends and family. Would love to meet another local guy who would respect that but we could have holidays and weekends away as well as dates a little out of town in public. Maybe attend clubs together too. Ideally who has their own place. Would be good to build that relationship. Behind closed doors would be really good to throuple properly. Obviously, attraction, single and local is the key for us to make it work." If you find him and he has a local, older brother send him my way! | |||
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"Is there any MFM throuples on here? We love the idea but would like it to be discrete from friends and family. Would love to meet another local guy who would respect that but we could have holidays and weekends away as well as dates a little out of town in public. Maybe attend clubs together too. Ideally who has their own place. Would be good to build that relationship. Behind closed doors would be really good to throuple properly. Obviously, attraction, single and local is the key for us to make it work. If you find him and he has a local, older brother send him my way! " Haha and vice versa xx | |||
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"Apparently rarer than hen’s teeth" It really is, but don't give up. I've recently gotten this dynamic mostly sorted and it's great. We've played at home, been out for food, had a movie day at ours, it's working out. It's not a weekly thing. More like something we'll do once a month or so because we are all so busy, but when it does happen we're talking a whole day and night of shenanigans. We're planning a weekend away together too. I had to go out of the age range I thought I wanted, he's way younger (24) but thats why it works, because of where he's at in life. I'd thought no younger than 30, but everyone in that age group was usually playing away from their relationship, or trying to get me on my own all the time, honestly, nightmare, you'll find (understandably) you will mostly be second pick to a single woman/hotwife and there's not many blokes who are genuinely into MFM, especially a more regular arrangement rather than a one off where your situation serves someone elses bucket list. It's like searching for diamonds in a swamp. Don't forget to come up for air and wash off the stink of pond life regularly. Give your head a rest and settle with the fact it takes time. 98% effort for 2% gain. Best of luck love, it's not impossible, just difficult. Xx | |||
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"Apparently rarer than hen’s teeth It really is, but don't give up. I've recently gotten this dynamic mostly sorted and it's great. We've played at home, been out for food, had a movie day at ours, it's working out. It's not a weekly thing. More like something we'll do once a month or so because we are all so busy, but when it does happen we're talking a whole day and night of shenanigans. We're planning a weekend away together too. I had to go out of the age range I thought I wanted, he's way younger (24) but thats why it works, because of where he's at in life. I'd thought no younger than 30, but everyone in that age group was usually playing away from their relationship, or trying to get me on my own all the time, honestly, nightmare, you'll find (understandably) you will mostly be second pick to a single woman/hotwife and there's not many blokes who are genuinely into MFM, especially a more regular arrangement rather than a one off where your situation serves someone elses bucket list. It's like searching for diamonds in a swamp. Don't forget to come up for air and wash off the stink of pond life regularly. Give your head a rest and settle with the fact it takes time. 98% effort for 2% gain. Best of luck love, it's not impossible, just difficult. Xx " Wow, good for you, glad to hear this is possible and to be honest, a fit 24 year old with stamina sounds ideal ;-) | |||
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"Apparently rarer than hen’s teeth It really is, but don't give up. I've recently gotten this dynamic mostly sorted and it's great. We've played at home, been out for food, had a movie day at ours, it's working out. It's not a weekly thing. More like something we'll do once a month or so because we are all so busy, but when it does happen we're talking a whole day and night of shenanigans. We're planning a weekend away together too. I had to go out of the age range I thought I wanted, he's way younger (24) but thats why it works, because of where he's at in life. I'd thought no younger than 30, but everyone in that age group was usually playing away from their relationship, or trying to get me on my own all the time, honestly, nightmare, you'll find (understandably) you will mostly be second pick to a single woman/hotwife and there's not many blokes who are genuinely into MFM, especially a more regular arrangement rather than a one off where your situation serves someone elses bucket list. It's like searching for diamonds in a swamp. Don't forget to come up for air and wash off the stink of pond life regularly. Give your head a rest and settle with the fact it takes time. 98% effort for 2% gain. Best of luck love, it's not impossible, just difficult. Xx Wow, good for you, glad to hear this is possible and to be honest, a fit 24 year old with stamina sounds ideal ;-)" The stamina is not to be underestimated...nor is being thrown about for 8 hours straight 😈 | |||
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"We have been looking for a thruple relationship with a single guy for the last 5 years but sadly no luck. ☹️" Yes it’s hard x | |||
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"Apparently rarer than hen’s teeth It really is, but don't give up. I've recently gotten this dynamic mostly sorted and it's great. We've played at home, been out for food, had a movie day at ours, it's working out. It's not a weekly thing. More like something we'll do once a month or so because we are all so busy, but when it does happen we're talking a whole day and night of shenanigans. We're planning a weekend away together too. I had to go out of the age range I thought I wanted, he's way younger (24) but thats why it works, because of where he's at in life. I'd thought no younger than 30, but everyone in that age group was usually playing away from their relationship, or trying to get me on my own all the time, honestly, nightmare, you'll find (understandably) you will mostly be second pick to a single woman/hotwife and there's not many blokes who are genuinely into MFM, especially a more regular arrangement rather than a one off where your situation serves someone elses bucket list. It's like searching for diamonds in a swamp. Don't forget to come up for air and wash off the stink of pond life regularly. Give your head a rest and settle with the fact it takes time. 98% effort for 2% gain. Best of luck love, it's not impossible, just difficult. Xx Wow, good for you, glad to hear this is possible and to be honest, a fit 24 year old with stamina sounds ideal ;-) The stamina is not to be underestimated...nor is being thrown about for 8 hours straight 😈" Ok now we are extra jealous xx | |||
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" The stamina is not to be underestimated...nor is being thrown about for 8 hours straight 😈 Ok now we are extra jealous xx" At least you know it's possible. It might be easier for you than us, because I need a dominant to boot. Someone to stalk me through the woods,tie me to a tree and ruin me, so not just a unicorn, a diamond studded primal unicorn! You'll find the right one babe, just a matter of time and licking a few toads along the way. 🙏 | |||
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If it develops this way we’re not averse either so evening meal or breakfast as a three at the hotel would be pretty cool | |||
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"We love mfm, husband joins in. We approach it one meet at a time but very open to meeting the same right guy again and again
If it develops this way we’re not averse either so evening meal or breakfast as a three at the hotel would be pretty cool"This sounds perfect | |||
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