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By *ongue-in-cheeks OP   Woman
6 weeks ago

Sunderland

From your experience? To me it seems it’s more couple-centred which is fine but not so good for a single girl trying to arrange it. I wonder why guys don’t seem are comfortable talking to their friends about double teaming these days in comparison to a few years ago. I hear these kind of meets still happen on stag do’s and sports teams or when guys work away together but not sure if this is true?

Advice would be appreciated I know I could down the club route but would rather find other alternatives first x

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By *abulincsCouple
6 weeks ago

near a bridge

We find it extremely difficult meeting one guy let alone multiple think our standards must be to high maybe

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By *unkissedYorkieMan
6 weeks ago

BRADFORD/LEEDS

Easy answer is that guys aren't as comfortable physically as women are.

Those scenarios usually happen around sports teams and people that are comfortable naked around other men.

In the every day world you don't get naked around other men. Closest might be changing in the work locker room. But that's just boxers.

The couples aspect of it is for the safety of the woman as the male can police it and make sure that the woman is safe.

Would you really want to be in the middle of 5 strangers where you don't know if they'll stick to your boundaries?

You say no anal and then your mouth is full and you're not able to move and then one guy sticks it in your ass. You can't do a lot really when you're surrounded and probably got someone on top of you

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By *ongue-in-cheeks OP   Woman
6 weeks ago

Sunderland


"Easy answer is that guys aren't as comfortable physically as women are.

Those scenarios usually happen around sports teams and people that are comfortable naked around other men.

In the every day world you don't get naked around other men. Closest might be changing in the work locker room. But that's just boxers.

The couples aspect of it is for the safety of the woman as the male can police it and make sure that the woman is safe.

Would you really want to be in the middle of 5 strangers where you don't know if they'll stick to your boundaries?

You say no anal and then your mouth is full and you're not able to move and then one guy sticks it in your ass. You can't do a lot really when you're surrounded and probably got someone on top of you "

Wow hahahaha not sure what I think about that either way but point well made x

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By *ongue-in-cheeks OP   Woman
6 weeks ago

Sunderland


"We find it extremely difficult meeting one guy let alone multiple think our standards must be to high maybe "

Yeah a lot of men seem to get cold feet for group meets

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By *ikiLoverMan
6 weeks ago

Brighton


"Easy answer is that guys aren't as comfortable physically as women are.

Those scenarios usually happen around sports teams and people that are comfortable naked around other men.

In the every day world you don't get naked around other men. Closest might be changing in the work locker room. But that's just boxers.

The couples aspect of it is for the safety of the woman as the male can police it and make sure that the woman is safe.

Would you really want to be in the middle of 5 strangers where you don't know if they'll stick to your boundaries?

You say no anal and then your mouth is full and you're not able to move and then one guy sticks it in your ass. You can't do a lot really when you're surrounded and probably got someone on top of you

Wow hahahaha not sure what I think about that either way but point well made x"

Your safest bet is probably going to a sex party/event where you can try to organically encourage lots of men to join in.

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By *haos-TheoremMan
6 weeks ago

Cleckheaton

I've organised a few in the past, they just take an awful lot of effort due to people being flakey. You either need to know a solid group of people or you have to go chasing people to make sure they'll actually turn up

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By *otwife_couple_hullCouple
6 weeks ago

Hull

In my bedroom lol.

But in reality men are SO flaky they are next to impossible to arrange. I believe the problem is that men reply when wanking, but when the cold reality of having to go somewhere and perform in a group setting hits, it's far too much for many.

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By *dible_KinkCouple
6 weeks ago

Aberdeen

It's a God damm nightmare to arrange a decent gang bang- we are forever arranging them, for them to end up being a threesome as the rest have bailed - which is infuriating having invested a lot of time and effort messaging the ghosts, thinking you've got dead certs.

When it goes right it's worth it, but we do find unless you keep using the same guys it's difficult, and of course you dont want to use the same guys all the time.

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By *addyanddaddygirlCouple
6 weeks ago

Truro

They are hard to arrange we arranged one once looked for 6 guys said yes to 10 hoping 5 would show up ended up with none ...we haven't lost hope though

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By *ocialablechapMan
6 weeks ago

Paphos and also SW UK


"Easy answer is that guys aren't as comfortable physically as women are.

Those scenarios usually happen around sports teams and people that are comfortable naked around other men.

In the every day world you don't get naked around other men. Closest might be changing in the work locker room. But that's just boxers.

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I agree with this part for sure. Adults of a certain age will have gone to school and played in teams where communal showers and baths would have been the norm. My kids don't have the same at school , all very private. On sports teams many of the youngsters won't shower / change after a sports match if it means being naked in a same sex group environment.

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By *ongue-in-cheeks OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Sunderland

Good points!

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By *evonrobMan
3 weeks ago

Kingsbridge

Exciting post. I’ve never been involved in a gangbang but if invited I think I’d try and get there. Even more so if it was all guys around my age!

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By *aldaVelvetTV/TS
3 weeks ago

London

My FWB went to a GB at an Airbnb in Croydon a couple of weeks ago. 1 F, 4 guys. The host was very much on the case regarding who was turning up.

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By *ad4ladys1973Man
3 weeks ago

Southport

Love to experience this one day!

Any going Southport way please let this hairybear dadbod know!!

Soon to be 53 and missing out on so much after ending a long sexless marriage last year

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By *ornyj37Man
3 weeks ago

Devon

I arrange them....

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By *oiluvfunMan
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

For me personally, joining a couple for a mfm threesome is just so much easier, as I’m only dealing with that one couple.

I’ve been part of a group of 5 guys locally, all Fab verified, team players from private group parties held in the past, and happy to buddy up to tag team, gangbang, a greedy girl to cock heaven. But it always fell down because the lady changed her mind at the last minute.

It’s not always single guys who are all talk….👍

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By *uffhandymanMan
3 weeks ago

selby

The last few I e organised have been in a local hotel. Always a good meeting place, especially if anyone is a little nervous

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By *ananabrumMan
3 weeks ago

castle bromwich

In my experience they tend to happen in only 4 places, clubs, cinemas, saunas and peoples imagination

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By *tlanshiaWoman
3 weeks ago

Chatham

I reccommend having someone there you trust. When I did it the amount who attempted to avoid protection was shocking.

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By *ongue-in-cheeks OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Sunderland


"I reccommend having someone there you trust. When I did it the amount who attempted to avoid protection was shocking. "

Thanks for advice x

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By *teve261970Man
3 weeks ago

Gateshead


"From your experience? To me it seems it’s more couple-centred which is fine but not so good for a single girl trying to arrange it. I wonder why guys don’t seem are comfortable talking to their friends about double teaming these days in comparison to a few years ago. I hear these kind of meets still happen on stag do’s and sports teams or when guys work away together but not sure if this is true?

Advice would be appreciated I know I could down the club route but would rather find other alternatives first x"

I've attended a couple of these in the past & as others have said, many don't turn up so ended up being Threesomes.

I know people from the clubs & have joined in GB's at the clubs but that's where I find most of them happening these days,

Are you still planning Benidorm this year? Xx

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By *lthomasMan
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

A greedy girl evening at a club can be a good place but as somebody else mentioned take somebody who trust to help look after you, that said most clubs will look after the greedy girl ladies most of the guys who attend are quite disciplined

I’ve done a couple of private houses where it’s been one lady before guys and another with two ladies with seven guys

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By *hittynameMan
3 weeks ago

just moved

They definitely seem to be free and far between now...

I've attended a couple before that were arranged in hotels by a guy who was known to arrange then for couples, but unfortunately he left the scene....

They were great though and the ladies certainly had a ball

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By *aandLoCouple
3 weeks ago

Southampton


"I reccommend having someone there you trust. When I did it the amount who attempted to avoid protection was shocking. "

I think that's often a problem in group scenarios. Guys prefer BB for the feel but also seen many a guy lose their hard on trying to get the condom on!

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By *evilinyouMan
3 weeks ago

Bristol

My imagination has had a few

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By *ornysquirtingcoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

somerset

We go to a regular house party where it's relaxed and has normal people. Its mostly a orgy but the odd GB does happen.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

Central

I think it helps to find and filter people from clubs, who you can assess for interaction. You can then keep in touch for future meetings. People you've met are more reliable than those you haven't

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By *outhleedschap86Man
3 weeks ago

leeds

Im hosting one on friday for a fuck buddy, 5 guys and her. I always use a few easy access hotels, busy hotels with function rooms where the lobby/bar is busy easier to blend in.

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By *ongue-in-cheeks OP   Woman
5 hours ago

Sunderland

People often to recommend greedy girls events at clubs think I might have to try one…

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By *tlanshiaWoman
5 hours ago

Chatham

Clubs are the best way to accidentally have a gangbang. The mood takes you and most men there are already walking around naked.

I ended up with more coxks than needed at a club lol

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By *ngelLordCouple
5 hours ago

Newport


"We go to a regular house party where it's relaxed and has normal people. Its mostly a orgy but the odd GB does happen."

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By *WB85Man
5 hours ago

Staffordshire

I know you'd rather find other alternatives, but a club is always the safest environment for this kind of meet.

You need to be sure you remain in control.

Good luck.

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By *ornyj37Man
4 hours ago

Devon

The ones I arrange are either at a discrete private house or hotel depending on the amount of attendees x

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By *uffhandymanMan
4 hours ago

selby

I always arrange them for hotels x

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