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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone think its wrong to tell someone you may meet how wonderful their meet was and how amazing the person was? For me its offputting and feel a tiny bit inadequate now. Im not the best at sex or adventurous but would like to be with the right guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt discuss it personally but thats just me. Never kiss and tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But anyone can read verifications unless you hide them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i wouldnt discuss it personally but thats just me. Never kiss and tell "
agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i wouldnt discuss it personally but thats just me. Never kiss and tell agree "
keep them guessing dont go into detail

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Only in the very vaguest and broadest terms. I'm discreet. I'm also discrete if I stand on my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont worry about them, just meet someone else instead. after meeting lots of people on here i know its important to only meet people i am realy sure about, and dont let it worry you so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone think its wrong to tell someone you may meet how wonderful their meet was and how amazing the person was? For me its offputting and feel a tiny bit inadequate now. Im not the best at sex or adventurous but would like to be with the right guy. "

Do you mean they were telling you about someone else they met? Sounds pretty crap to me. Indiscreet and all the rest. Don't let them make you feel bad. Meet someone nice instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i wouldnt discuss it personally but thats just me. Never kiss and tell "

Same....better left unsaid! !...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes had this happen a few times ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"dont worry about them, just meet someone else instead. after meeting lots of people on here i know its important to only meet people i am realy sure about, and dont let it worry you so much."
It didnt worry me, I just felt like it was the wrong thing to tell someone. I blocked and deleted him from here and my other chatroom. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does anyone think its wrong to tell someone you may meet how wonderful their meet was and how amazing the person was? For me its offputting and feel a tiny bit inadequate now. Im not the best at sex or adventurous but would like to be with the right guy.

Do you mean they were telling you about someone else they met? Sounds pretty crap to me. Indiscreet and all the rest. Don't let them make you feel bad. Meet someone nice instead. "
Yes he was. waxed lyrical about her. I wont say more about him but I didnt want to meet him anyway but I was happy to just chat to him. His loss maybe. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would put me off too for a number of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually quite like hearing about previous meets. So wouldn't have bothered me. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i have had a bad or a good meet i will have the laughs at a bad meet between me and friends and also discuss if it was good or not.

As for intimate details if sex has happened then no that's between me and them and i wouldn't be discussing it with someone else im meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually quite like hearing about previous meets. So wouldn't have bothered me. X"

Same here. We've discussed our experiences as singles before and during our time on fabs. Some of the stories have really been a turn on so it doesn't bother us.

Silk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think if you are now a couple on here and want to discuss prev single meets with each other, thats ok. If I was in that situation then I would prob do that too. But not if you potentially want to meet someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people like to brag.......in reality they're misguided by the thought that you may be impressed by their bragging and are normally a shit shag anyway xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people like to brag.......in reality they're misguided by the thought that you may be impressed by their bragging and are normally a shit shag anyway xx"
Id like to say more about him but will get banned again she seemed to like him judging by her veri so each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends in which context really. Some like hearing about other people's meets. Its a turn on for some. Others may share their experience in a friendship context - sharing what happened in their meet to a friend.

Personally, i wouldnt discuss a meet with someone i dont know and if i was to discuss it..i wouldnt mention names to maintain discretion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends in which context really. Some like hearing about other people's meets. Its a turn on for some. Others may share their experience in a friendship context - sharing what happened in their meet to a friend.

Personally, i wouldnt discuss a meet with someone i dont know and if i was to discuss it..i wouldnt mention names to maintain discretion.

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He was discreet in not mentioning her name

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyway Im ending this now, its boring I got the answers I was looking for. Thank you everybody

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I verify people I meet so people can go off that. If I don't enjoy the meet I say nothing we all diffrent someone else might enjoy it.

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