FabSwingers.com forum: Age limits

By *mpeye OP Man
7 weeks ago

Worthing

A girl posted a profile recently.

It was just about exactly what im looking for & I fitted her ideal perfectly except.....

Im 6 months over her age limit!

Now, I get why people use them.

But once you get over a certain age, it just becomes a number doesn't it?

If im out now, I couldn't tell you the difference between someone who is 43 & 53.

Obviously in some cases you can but you know.

Some of us are look & act younger than what it says on our birth certificates ...

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By *morousCouple8Couple
7 weeks ago

Cumbria

A line has to be drawn somewhere.

So you weren’t her perfect fit.

You were older than that.

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By *ookieMonsterMan
7 weeks ago

B’stoke

6 months or 1 day - a line is a line not to be crossed.

Kapish ?

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By *tlanshiaWoman
7 weeks ago

Chatham

I often get men trying to skirt my age limits, and they often say an age is just a number but as others have said. It has to be drawn somewhere.

I have zero interest in younger men, younger than me is a limit I won't cross. I like older men, and perhaps it's my parents fault for having me young but if they're old enough to be my parents I'm also out.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
7 weeks ago

East Sussex

Next time you're searching for profiles tick the ' I'm the age they're looking for' box

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
7 weeks ago

East Sussex

You didn't fit her ideal perfectly, you're over her upper age limit. You need to accept that

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
7 weeks ago

Central

Each person has had a lifetime of getting to know their own tastes and preferences. They are their own best expert and should have this respected.

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By *ad4ladys1973Man
7 weeks ago

Southport

Amazing how many age limits are always 51 and I’m 52!! So when I get to 53 on Star Wars day (hint!) I bet the age limits i find will be 52!!

Don’t quite understand having a specific number set? Each to their own I guess!

Happy to play with any age woman (legal obviously!!)

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By *WB85Man
7 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Its their preference and thats it really.

However, its where clubs can be beneficial, as if you were attracted to someone, would you get the preference tick list out.

Saying that....I fucking hate clubs lol.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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7 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Amazing how many age limits are always 51 and I’m 52!! So when I get to 53 on Star Wars day (hint!) I bet the age limits i find will be 52!!

Don’t quite understand having a specific number set? Each to their own I guess!

Happy to play with any age woman (legal obviously!!) "

You've got a specific number set. You don't want to meet anyone over 70.

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By *ealitybitesMan
7 weeks ago

Belfast

"Amazing how many age limits are always 51 and I’m 52!! So when I get to 53 on Star Wars day (hint!) I bet the age limits i find will be 52!!

Don’t quite understand having a specific number set? Each to their own I guess!

Happy to play with any age woman (legal obviously!!) "

I have zero interest in young women in their 20s and 30s and because my daughters are all in their early to middle 30s I set my lower age filter to exactly 10 years above that and that's how it will stay. I adjust it upwards every year to maintain that 10 year buffer.

If someone feels aggrieved by that it's not my issue.

I am outside many people's age filters but it hasn't bothered me in the slightest or stopped me from meeting people and I've never once had a conversation about my age in all the years I've been here.

The age is just a number adage in regards to fab is usually thrown up by people who don't seem to understand why filters are set in the first place and it's a lazy comment.

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By *earditallWoman
7 weeks ago

Lancaster

I recently changed my older limit as I've got older,but they are there as I haven't ever really been that attracted to someone who is a lot older than myself and wouldn't want anyone around my kids ages,so no point in conversing with them.

Apart from Dave I quite fancy Dave

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By *gly duck cdTV/TS
7 weeks ago

middlesbrough

I adjust mine as I age , and use message filters to uphold it as it’s my personal preference and saves the messages saying age is irrelevant and just a number

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By *rhugesMan
7 weeks ago

Cardiff

It's when the age limit says 99 and they say they are looking for someone younger.

I now check veris to see what age is like in there

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By *urvytattedprincessWoman
7 weeks ago

Pentney

I typically go younger but have my parameters set slightly higher because there are rare exceptions 🤷🏼‍♀️ its just personal preference.

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
7 weeks ago

Norwich

Age dosnt seem so relevent in club fun, as old as you look lol

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By *ornyguy666Man
7 weeks ago

Nottingham

Age just a number 18 to 88

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