FabSwingers.com forum: Standards

By *r pipes1 OP Man
7 weeks ago

notts

This is a sex site but why do men feel like they can’t treat or speak to women disrespectfully knowing they wouldn’t even muster up the confidence to say hello in real life…it baffles me

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By *inkPomPomWoman
7 weeks ago

Isle of Man

They can do it from behind a keyboard, zero accountability and every so often maybe a women likes that approach

Some like the reaction

Some really don't respect women

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By *r pipes1 OP Man
7 weeks ago

notts

Absolutely mind blowing manners and curtsy cost nothing

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By *herrybakewellCouple
7 weeks ago

Staffordshire

You know what though.....I hope they keep doing it.

Its the best filter ever for finding new people. When they act or speak like a dick....they get blocked.

Mrs. X

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By *hips and chainsCouple
7 weeks ago

manchester

Easily spotted in clubs wondering around, with zero communication, often referred to as the wanking zombies, now they have progressed and learned to type in dirty pigeon.

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By *r pipes1 OP Man
7 weeks ago

notts

And then they make new profiles and try again

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By *r pipes1 OP Man
7 weeks ago

notts

Keyboard warriors

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By *ypersoonMan
7 weeks ago

WHITCHURCH, Shropshire

I always try my best to be sociable & polite but have always aware of others' concerns on single guys practically since I first dipped my toe in these waters a few years ago ☺️

When I'm at Club Alchemy (my local club), I always like to have a game or 2 on the pool table as my ice breaker to strike up a conversation & socialise while heavily limiting my wandering of the play areas to avoid the "wanking dead" tag.

Also if I message someone, it's kept polite & open as possible. If I get no answer or polite refusal, I just respect it & move on.

It helps being polite & sociable as possible though as I found when having my first-ever non-club meet with a couple who left a good impression on with my manners & respectful treatment of them. It pays to be polite & sociable ❤️👍

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By *eroLondonMan
7 weeks ago

Mayfair

These 'men', that you speak of, they should be shackled, traipsed around the courtyard of The Tower before being hung, drawn and quartered by the venerated Yeoman of the Guard.

Or guillotined, I tell thee!

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By *tlanshiaWoman
7 weeks ago

Chatham

Because theyre insecure.

I've always said being on these site as a woman is like Schroedinger's cat. We are both the sexiest woman alive and the fattest depending on if we are interested in them.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

Because of the type of site it is they can't accept that Not everyone wants to drop their pants for everyone. People have preferences and standards and unfortunately their little egos cant accept rejection.

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By *r pipes1 OP Man
7 weeks ago

notts

"Because of the type of site it is they can't accept that Not everyone wants to drop their pants for everyone. People have preferences and standards and unfortunately their little egos cant accept rejection."

Exactly then the abuse comes out and it’s like wow this is your true colours

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
7 weeks ago

East Sussex

A lot of couples are disrespectful to women and men.

I can't tell you the number of times a couple has expected me as a straight woman in this couple to turn up to a meet without once seeing the guy. They think I'm going to have sex with somebody I've never set eyes on 🤷‍♀️ because he's not as photogenic as his wife. Then there are the couples who completely disrespect the fact that I'm straight.

Lots of couples attitude towards single men is abhorrent too.

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By *idlander134Man
7 weeks ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

As a bi sub, I have nothing but respect for you all.

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By *odgerMooreMan
7 weeks ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

I find you get what you give - stay true to who you are and you will find your crowd… you will annoy some people … others won’t be interested and others will naturally be drawn to your amazing wit charm personality and stunning good looks. Nothing puts people off faster than being fake… no one finds that attractive … my inbox is still open for unsolicited pics of smashing boobs.. in case you’re at a loose end…

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
7 weeks ago

East Sussex

Not to mention the rough ride a single guy will get on the forum if he has the temerity to ask a question that shows a little naivety or lack of knowledge of the swinging world

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By *issmorganWoman
7 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Because some people are knobbers who can't accept that they won't be for everyone. None of us will be.

This is why, when I say no thanks now, I also block now too. It saves any abuse or why nots, what's wrong with me etc.

Years ago, when single. I had a bloke who kept trying to meet me.

When I got a new veri one day,he decided to start telling me he was much better looking than the man I'd met etc and why didn't I meet him etc.

I just told him the other man might not be good looking to him, but I liked him and he'd been lovely and respectful to me.unlike him & to maybe try and work on himself. Then blocked him,no need.

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By *r pipes1 OP Man
7 weeks ago

notts

"A lot of couples are disrespectful to women and men.

Lots of couples attitude towards single men is abhorrent too. "

Very true also

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