FabSwingers.com forum: first message

By *anting funXXX OP Couple
8 weeks ago

Liverpool

we came here for nothing but filth because we are filth.

we generally come online when we are horny and needing anyone to join us.

how do you all go about first messages because we tend to dive in the deep end with filthy messages and don't seem to have much luck. But end of the day, that is why we are here. Is this bad practice are people more after a chat and get to know or are we all here to try and hook up?

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By *eductiveSecretsWoman
8 weeks ago

Birmingham

I think most people prefer to be addressed as a person before getting into the filthy stuff. We aren't all here for the same thing and certainly not to be at a beck and call to satisfy others needs immediately.

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By *ukaMan
8 weeks ago

Chester

There normally needs to be some sort of planning, although spur of the moment is what most of us crave when we're horny. It's just too difficult to find someone else who's ready at the same time.

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By *harAndBryCouple
8 weeks ago

Downham Market

When we get a message from a couple that dives straight on with gory details, we (maybe wrongly) assume it's the guy on his own and she knows nothing about it and when he's spaffed, the messages will stop.

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By *uriousCpl91Couple
8 weeks ago

Stockport

Yeah we wouldnt respond to straight in to filth like yes we are swingers and like sex but if getting to know us is a bit of an ask then we prob aint the right people for you

I know chatting aint everyones thing but i think it is a good indicator if the people who messaged you are compatible with your view of swinging

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By *eroLondonMan
8 weeks ago

Mayfair

"But end of the day, that is why we are here."

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Yes. No. Perhaps.

It's not Pot Noodle where you just add water and, hey presto, Instant Shag.

There are many sex-positive and libidinous folk on here, all looking to meet and enrich their sexual experiences...but most are looking for a connection, chemistry and something with substance. Diving straight into 'sex talk' is going to put most people off because some people are looking for those who can handle a conversation and not just handle a cock from the first message.

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By *anting funXXX OP Couple
8 weeks ago

Liverpool

thanks for replies i jist can't help myself on here hahah i am sure most girls i message think that it is him but we are both just pure filth and nearly 247 like that match made in heaven but finding a third in our league is a struggle night have to tone it down abit after seeing these comments

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By *reg CMan
8 weeks ago

Wiltshire

"thanks for replies i jist can't help myself on here hahah i am sure most girls i message think that it is him but we are both just pure filth and nearly 247 like that match made in heaven but finding a third in our league is a struggle night have to tone it down abit after seeing these comments

God don’t be toning it down! Love your profile, and the way you fuck! Especially how you ride, got me proper hard here!!

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