FabSwingers.com forum: Friends

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do people bother making friends on here when they don't want friendships? I make it clear that I'm happy with any type of acquaintance shallow, purely sexual or sometimes ( rarely) friends. So I don't get why it's necessary to build a friendship you don't want and then treat a person badly, brush them off stand them up, make them give a shit and then when you give them a get out, they try and convince you you're friends. They is only so much that this cycle can go on for.

By *orflondonerMan
over a year ago

Wood Green

What if some of the people on your friends list are real friends,from outside of swinging? As is one on my friends list.

By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Such people do not last long with me. If I feel I'm being treated badly they're gone without so much as a backward glance. I deserve better.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Such people do not last long with me. If I feel I'm being treated badly they're gone without so much as a backward glance. I deserve better."
Unfortunately I'm not that tough with people I care about but you're right, I think I deserve better than that. It's sad but you can't keep hurting yourself the same way, that's just silly

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some gems on here but some nasty ones too, just like everyday life, I treat people as they treat mev

By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

"There are some gems on here but some nasty ones too, just like everyday life, I treat people as they treat mev"

If you don't like or intend on meeting again there is no point in being on the list but if you plan on seeing again and maybe again and again wether in party meets or individual/ couple meets then they stay. So if your on our list and we have not met yet. Work family commitments etc It is a struggle sometimes but we try lol

A few people wanting to meet us yet we went to Blackpool the other weekend and could we get a meet. Not a frickin chance. Had a couple of good nights out though