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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi I'm concerned that most people on this site like to talk sex rather than do it. I've been let down some what due to banter rather than wanting a meet

What do you think?

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By *athfindersCouple
over a year ago

Hull

The Mrs is very very particular about who we meet. She really takes her time to select the right people for us.

On 2 occasions we have thought we had found the right guys only to be let down by them. Total dreamers with every intention to meet until an actual date was set!

Even had one guy who cancelled a few hours before saying he needed to work! The worst think we were about to travel 40 miles to him.

Most people we have found are not bothered to meet if it is just for an initial social. Little do they realise that after the social it could turn to a regular thing if we got on!!

This site is very frustrating at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think everyone is diffrent and you must take it as it comes, a bit of talking sometimes leads places , as it gives a bit of a gague. We like to have fun messageing quite alot before we meet we dont mean any offence by this but thats part of the fun, but can understand peoples frustration on this matter xxx just remember this is a swinging site not a msg and get a shag there and then site so everyone has diffrent ways to play ( dont mean to sound harsh ) xxx But its massively different when they say there going to meet and not show thats just plane rude lol xx

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I find it easy to spot the talkers from the doers. I think the way I play makes it easier to spot as there are key words I look out for.

Some playmates ask to meet me socially several times before playing which is fine with me, they need to be able to trust me.

I also have a limited play area and social meet criteria. If they can't meet when I want, I know it's a dead end and stop contact. If they cancel a social meet, I don't reschedule as it's taken time to get to the social meet and I think dreamer!

I imagine it's frustrating, sadly, this site will attract all sorts!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"The Mrs is very very particular about who we meet. She really takes her time to select the right people for us.

On 2 occasions we have thought we had found the right guys only to be let down by them. Total dreamers with every intention to meet until an actual date was set!

Even had one guy who cancelled a few hours before saying he needed to work! The worst think we were about to travel 40 miles to him.

Most people we have found are not bothered to meet if it is just for an initial social. Little do they realise that after the social it could turn to a regular thing if we got on!!

This site is very frustrating at times"

If they don't want to meet socially and you do see it as a filter and don't waste any more time on them.

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