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By *john121 OP   Man
over a year ago

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just goes to show that fake profiles come in all shapes.

couple of days ago approached by a 'couple' who wanted to meet, prof stated along the lines of not into time wasters and pic collectors can spot them a mile off etc etc.

I though ok you want to be friends after receiving a couple of messages and me replying back and guess what? yes you've guessed they are now deleting all messages, so sent them a message saying along the lines of Hi, I'm now removing you as a friend as I believe you're a pic collector and received abuse back and blocked..what a surprise..

just wanted to vent my spleen at being caught out by con artists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So deleting messages makes them pic collectors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am genuinely confused how this makes them a 'con artist' or a 'pic collector'?

They/he/she has decided that actually they are not interested in you, They may have had a clear out of their inbox, (hence deleting all messages) or decided just to stop messaging instead of giving you a straight honest answer.

You then email in what I guess was seen as a somewhat accusatory 'I guess you don't want to be friends then' which they responded too badly, admitted, nothing warrants abuse.

But if they had been deleting your messages and not responding, you might have just deleted them and moved on, or left it some time (as people have lives and things come up) and then sent a 'how are things, it's been a while since we spoke' message.

I just do not understand with your post how they are con artists or pic collectors when they simply stopped messaging, or changed their minds

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I always clear out my old messages and just keep the most recent ones in there of who I am currently chatting to. I do tend to save the ones with face pics attached of the ones I fancy, but that's only so I remember what they look like if we ever did meet. Does that make me a pic collector? I am sure others 'collect' pics for the same reason and then delete them if they no longer need them or want them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So deleting messages makes them pic collectors "

friending someone is supposed to be about communication...

so yes, no chat..fuck off

or are cpls/fems exempt from the rules placed on single men?...are they fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't keep any messages and were bit con artists or pic collectors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its far more likely they changed there mind about you for some reason

Throwing accusations of fake and con artists is blowing something really simple out of all proportion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just goes to show that fake profiles come in all shapes.

couple of days ago approached by a 'couple' who wanted to meet, prof stated along the lines of not into time wasters and pic collectors can spot them a mile off etc etc.

I though ok you want to be friends after receiving a couple of messages and me replying back and guess what? yes you've guessed they are now deleting all messages, so sent them a message saying along the lines of Hi, I'm now removing you as a friend as I believe you're a pic collector and received abuse back and blocked..what a surprise..

just wanted to vent my spleen at being caught out by con artists

"

Maybe they saw your pics and decided you were not what they were looking for?

It happens x

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By *john121 OP   Man
over a year ago

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"just goes to show that fake profiles come in all shapes.

couple of days ago approached by a 'couple' who wanted to meet, prof stated along the lines of not into time wasters and pic collectors can spot them a mile off etc etc.

I though ok you want to be friends after receiving a couple of messages and me replying back and guess what? yes you've guessed they are now deleting all messages, so sent them a message saying along the lines of Hi, I'm now removing you as a friend as I believe you're a pic collector and received abuse back and blocked..what a surprise..

just wanted to vent my spleen at being caught out by con artists

Maybe they saw your pics and decided you were not what they were looking for?

It happens x"

would agree and not surprised by some responses but as they made all the running, were very happy with what they saw and read and suddenly going cold after viewing further private pics leads me to the conclusion and from all post read by peeps who have experienced the same situation has lead me to this conclusion.

seems reasonable, whats even more suspicious is they stated don't like pic collectors and can easily spot them..

should have followed my own instincts as they had one dubious pic and know verifs..

we live and learn and will again own follow my own rules and not be swayed by promises....

oh and now no longer on site...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi hope you don't mind my post

I just don't get the pic collector badge that people are given. Surely if a person wants to see naughty pics they just click on the hot new photos button

Really don't get why people go out of there way to save messages on purpose just because of the attachments.

Ps hope they are not local people who follow you round tesco or live across the road lol

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By *john121 OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Hi hope you don't mind my post

I just don't get the pic collector badge that people are given. Surely if a person wants to see naughty pics they just click on the hot new photos button

Really don't get why people go out of there way to save messages on purpose just because of the attachments.

Ps hope they are not local people who follow you round tesco or live across the road lol"

lol no not local, and they want to see your 'private pics' in the hope that they are more 'juicy'etc than your prof pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So deleting messages makes them pic collectors

friending someone is supposed to be about communication...

so yes, no chat..fuck off

or are cpls/fems exempt from the rules placed on single men?...are they fuck! "

Didnt know there were rules placed on single men.

We have been defenders of single guys in tons of threads on here and i think the tone of

Your reply is a bit much but there ya go

The op has since stated the couple have left the site so perhaps they were bullshitters, still doesnt make them collectors though.

My point still stands, how does deleting messages make one a pic collector?

Should we all max out the site by never deleting any for fear of being labelled as one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So deleting messages makes them pic collectors

friending someone is supposed to be about communication...

so yes, no chat..fuck off

or are cpls/fems exempt from the rules placed on single men?...are they fuck!

Didnt know there were rules placed on single men.

We have been defenders of single guys in tons of threads on here and i think the tone of

Your reply is a bit much but there ya go

The op has since stated the couple have left the site so perhaps they were bullshitters, still doesnt make them collectors though.

My point still stands, how does deleting messages make one a pic collector?

Should we all max out the site by never deleting any for fear of being labelled as one.

"

honestly, reverse the roles..as we see many times and there would be a difference

and as in my experience the pic collecting or sheer nosiness has come from verified cpls too(so it wasnt likely the type of fake profile the OP had)...so my point is to highlight that, even the couples (perhaps one half...), misbehave in such a manner...sending out friends invites, with no communication...yet stating in their priofiles the list of do's n donts.

I have nothing against cpls I have to point out lol...just not really interested in the ones that act like arseholes...like any other arsehole group on fab, they breed negativity which is never helpful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just goes to show that fake profiles come in all shapes.

couple of days ago approached by a 'couple' who wanted to meet, prof stated along the lines of not into time wasters and pic collectors can spot them a mile off etc etc.

I though ok you want to be friends after receiving a couple of messages and me replying back and guess what? yes you've guessed they are now deleting all messages, so sent them a message saying along the lines of Hi, I'm now removing you as a friend as I believe you're a pic collector and received abuse back and blocked..what a surprise..

just wanted to vent my spleen at being caught out by con artists

Maybe they saw your pics and decided you were not what they were looking for?

It happens x

would agree and not surprised by some responses but as they made all the running, were very happy with what they saw and read and suddenly going cold after viewing further private pics leads me to the conclusion and from all post read by peeps who have experienced the same situation has lead me to this conclusion.

seems reasonable, whats even more suspicious is they stated don't like pic collectors and can easily spot them..

should have followed my own instincts as they had one dubious pic and know verifs..

we live and learn and will again own follow my own rules and not be swayed by promises....

oh and now no longer on site..."

So they must be fake them, because real people don't have outside lives or arguments that would lead them to delete messages and leave the site.

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By *john121 OP   Man
over a year ago

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"just goes to show that fake profiles come in all shapes.

couple of days ago approached by a 'couple' who wanted to meet, prof stated along the lines of not into time wasters and pic collectors can spot them a mile off etc etc.

I though ok you want to be friends after receiving a couple of messages and me replying back and guess what? yes you've guessed they are now deleting all messages, so sent them a message saying along the lines of Hi, I'm now removing you as a friend as I believe you're a pic collector and received abuse back and blocked..what a surprise..

just wanted to vent my spleen at being caught out by con artists

Maybe they saw your pics and decided you were not what they were looking for?

It happens x

would agree and not surprised by some responses but as they made all the running, were very happy with what they saw and read and suddenly going cold after viewing further private pics leads me to the conclusion and from all post read by peeps who have experienced the same situation has lead me to this conclusion.

seems reasonable, whats even more suspicious is they stated don't like pic collectors and can easily spot them..

should have followed my own instincts as they had one dubious pic and know verifs..

we live and learn and will again own follow my own rules and not be swayed by promises....

oh and now no longer on site...

So they must be fake them, because real people don't have outside lives or arguments that would lead them to delete messages and leave the site. "

Hey say as I find, genuine people probably do..so if you're then a quick apol never heart and is prob a good idea, unless you just like to lead people on or give them the run around or never turn up for meets.

I suppose I'd have the courtesy to leave a message if I'm no longer interested, reminds of profiles that say if we've not spoken for ages and you're in my friends list you'll be deleted.

If there's also a misunderstanding I'd also leave an apology.

Still lots of fakes on here who clearly are just that....

How many profs say been here long enough to spot pic collectors and time wasters?

Dare say they'll be back doing it to others for the kick they get, each to their own...

On my other site yesterday in the chats where a single lady openly admitted to being a couple because she felt 'safer' chatting to guys and other couples...

Even though she claimed to having a cpl prof with a FB.

As I said live and learn...

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