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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are blow jobs a big turn on/off for women?? Does it make you any more horny or is it just a weapon to please? Opinions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs loves them!

The messier the better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love them... i can get so into it that i start slavering (saliva) and guys love it trickling down onto their balls... mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to give a messy bj!

(Already have this morning...lol)

Susan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Throating is when it gets really fun, but I've yet to meet someone that can fit it down there when fully erect.

Doesn't stop her trying though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuinely love giving here

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Never met a woman in my life that doesn't like giving blowjobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"love them... i can get so into it that i start slavering (saliva) and guys love it trickling down onto their balls... mmmmm "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive turn on for me, could give Mr oral for hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big turn on for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn on if something is really turning a guy on how could you not be turned on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love love love giving them!!!

Massive turn on for me

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By *agicloveslaveMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

My girlfriend hates them. Which is why I haven't had one for months. I remember them being amazing. I think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Throating is when it gets really fun, but I've yet to meet someone that can fit it down there when fully erect.

Doesn't stop her trying though. "

you've not met me yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fiona love them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love them but as to be a smooth cock and balls and be a nice looking cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol "

Happy to swallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol "

I always swallow and can take it all the way, never been beaten yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sucking big thick cocks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they are clean ! Hygiene is the most important factor in my enjoyment ! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to do it.. with random guys I get more satisfaction from sucking their cocks than I would from them fucking me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

you've not met me yet "

lol Given the distance, not likely too either! :D

She can do it when not *totally* hard, but once it's rock hard it aint going anywhere. If you can thoat a 2" wide cock/dildo we'll be on the first train to wales we can get.

Theres just no give in it. I really aint the biggest guy around, but it has stumped all that tried so far.

Not too keen when peoples back teeth scratch it either. I like a little nibble every now and then, but I do wish people had flip-top heads sometimes.

One day eh?


"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... "

She loves me cumming right down her throat, feeling my cock twitch and pump, and I love the feeling of it clenching tight around my cock.

The messy bit comes from her trying to repeatedly fit it down there in the first place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm phil is quite a large guy and i take him all the way and have taken bigger too and never had a complaint except when sucking guys dry :P


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you've not met me yet

lol Given the distance, not likely too either! :D

She can do it when not *totally* hard, but once it's rock hard it aint going anywhere. If you can thoat a 2" wide cock/dildo we'll be on the first train to wales we can get.

Theres just no give in it. I really aint the biggest guy around, but it has stumped all that tried so far.

Not too keen when peoples back teeth scratch it either. I like a little nibble every now and then, but I do wish people had flip-top heads sometimes.

One day eh?

Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards....

She loves me cumming right down her throat, feeling my cock twitch and pump, and I love the feeling of it clenching tight around my cock.

The messy bit comes from her trying to repeatedly fit it down there in the first place! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love it and so does my fella hearing him moan with pleasure is fab.

never had a guy say no to a bj yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely giving pleasure to you sexual partner has to be a turn on? giving a blow job give me no physical pleasure, I don't have a g spot in my mouth after all, but to watch and hear the reaction of a man who is enjoying what im doing to him is a huge turn on and very mentally stimulating

I never get people who don't like giving pleasure, ive met a few guys who don't give oral, to me giving pleasure is just as enjoyable as receiving it, in some cases I get more turned on giving than receiving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn on if something is really turning a guy on how could you not be turned on."

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"Never met a woman in my life that doesn't like giving blowjobs. "

Oh, I have!

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"Surely giving pleasure to you sexual partner has to be a turn on? giving a blow job give me no physical pleasure, I don't have a g spot in my mouth after all, but to watch and hear the reaction of a man who is enjoying what im doing to him is a huge turn on and very mentally stimulating

I never get people who don't like giving pleasure, ive met a few guys who don't give oral, to me giving pleasure is just as enjoyable as receiving it, in some cases I get more turned on giving than receiving "

I completely agree. I would almost sacrifice receiving any pleasure at all just to see the look on a woman's face when I am pleasuring her, especially during oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol

I always swallow and can take it all the way, never been beaten yet "

oh yes you can lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol

Happy to swallow "

good on ya gal xx

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol

I always swallow and can take it all the way, never been beaten yet "

Is that a challenge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as they are clean ! Hygiene is the most important factor in my enjoyment ! X"

Speaking from the Bi perspective - bodily hygiene is a 100% must in all sex play for me and love taking cock deep throat - last thing i want down there is a smelly willy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bores the arse off me, quite frankly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to do it.. with random guys I get more satisfaction from sucking their cocks than I would from them fucking me. "

your a rare breed then and its sounds as if you can take men the whole way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol

I always swallow and can take it all the way, never been beaten yet

oh yes you can lol "

Largest guy i had was about 12" long and 21/2 -3" girth and i took him ALL the way to the root believe me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol

I always swallow and can take it all the way, never been beaten yet

Is that a challenge? "

Take it anyway you like it

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol

I always swallow and can take it all the way, never been beaten yet "

Ever tried the deep-throat challenge at Chams? Its there for the taking!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving head, it does turn me on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol "

Now that IS a turn on!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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"I love them but as to be a smooth cock and balls and be a nice looking cock "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol

I always swallow and can take it all the way, never been beaten yet

Ever tried the deep-throat challenge at Chams? Its there for the taking!! "

Nope not tried that yet!!! PHILLLLL!!!!!!! we need to take a trip baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"love them... i can get so into it that i start slavering (saliva) and guys love it trickling down onto their balls... mmmmm "

My kinda lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D loves giving them but she is so good most guys can't last very long!

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By *ovetobenakedMan
over a year ago

stotfold

I love bjs but no woman as of yet has made me come I last too long lol is an hour too long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are blow jobs a big turn on/off for women?? Does it make you any more horny or is it just a weapon to please? Opinions?"

They are what they are sometimes they are huge turn on others just fun it all depends on the person really.

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By *hristine and MarieCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Somewhere north of Spalding

I used to love giving them but since having lots of guys cum in my mouth without warning, walk off without thanking me, and using it as an excuse not to fuck me, I simply refuse to do it any more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

absolutely love giving blowjobs, could give them all day think ive starting tiring my partner out cause ive wanted to give him so many lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to love giving them but since having lots of guys cum in my mouth without warning, walk off without thanking me, and using it as an excuse not to fuck me, I simply refuse to do it any more!"

Agreed!! Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely looove giving oral haha, even more if I can control how hard the guy cums, if he cums and his reactions towards my bjs haha nom nom nom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely giving pleasure to you sexual partner has to be a turn on? giving a blow job give me no physical pleasure, I don't have a g spot in my mouth after all, but to watch and hear the reaction of a man who is enjoying what im doing to him is a huge turn on and very mentally stimulating

I never get people who don't like giving pleasure, ive met a few guys who don't give oral, to me giving pleasure is just as enjoyable as receiving it, in some cases I get more turned on giving than receiving "

Same with guys (well, speaking for myself of course).

Any act of giving that gets a positive response is the key to happiness. It's how that giving is reciprocated, and not just in the bedroom, that feeds the sensations and mental stimulation that's key to enjoying our own selves.

Anyone that doesn't get *any* pleasure from giving has issues with intimacy and selfishness.

That does not mean that anyone whom doesnt like blowjobs is selfish, before anyone takes this out of context and jumps on me! The two arn't mutually exclusive, as on some level with other things they no doubt do get pleasure from giving.

If anyone doubts that, then maybe having their partner 'playing dead' is thier thing? Fun for certain roleplays maybe, if that's your thing, but I couldn't imagine what it must be like to be intimate with someone who demonstrably wasn't enjoying it. Sack'o'spuds, anyone?

As with many things in life, the giving is ultimately more satisfying than taking. Cooking a nice meal, a birthday gift, doing a friend a favour, helping with chores, giving cunnilingus... whatever. Seeing thier reaction and thier faces light up is a joy unto itself.

Can't have 'give and take' without the giving part, and you just know that ultimately you'll be rewarded by them for it. Well, you should be anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My girlfriend hates them. Which is why I haven't had one for months. I remember them being amazing. I think!"

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

A blow job is not complete without a hand job....oil is key ...it goes on and on and on for my pleasure and his!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My girlfriend hates them. Which is why I haven't had one for months. I remember them being amazing. I think!

"

LOL!!

Ooops, sorry. Wasn't rubbing it in.

Sad face. Quick sad face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely giving pleasure to you sexual partner has to be a turn on? giving a blow job give me no physical pleasure, I don't have a g spot in my mouth after all, but to watch and hear the reaction of a man who is enjoying what im doing to him is a huge turn on and very mentally stimulating

I never get people who don't like giving pleasure, ive met a few guys who don't give oral, to me giving pleasure is just as enjoyable as receiving it, in some cases I get more turned on giving than receiving "

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

I do enjoy giving a bloke a BJ to completion as long as that isn't all there is to our encounter. I do like a bit of give and take, doesn't have to mean he HAS to go down on me, not many men can do it quite how I like, but I'm not there just so he can empty his sack down my throat.

Yes I do swallow

N

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love bjs but no woman as of yet has made me come I last too long lol is an hour too long "
Oh I say Bob! Didn't know you were a stayer

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I love giving them. I find turning him on turns me on.

I once met a guy who didn't like receiving bjs. I found that a bit odd

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By *ovetobenakedMan
over a year ago

stotfold


"I love bjs but no woman as of yet has made me come I last too long lol is an hour too long Oh I say Bob! Didn't know you were a stayer "
oh dee you never asked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm so glad I put this up.... After reading I am now a very hard man :D wouldn't mind having most women who have posted looking into my eyes so I could see the horny look in their face as they gag on it I'm a naughty man hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta be a blowjob...me sucking my guy off seeing him enjoy!...priceless! !...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Gotta be a blowjob...me sucking my guy off seeing him enjoy!...priceless! !..."

It is a shame you guys don't meet single guys haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women I have met seem to really enjoy giving a blowjob as much as I enjoy giving them oral but I have yet to experience an absolute mind blowing BJ and can struggle to cum from one alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gotta be a blowjob...me sucking my guy off seeing him enjoy!...priceless! !...

It is a shame you guys don't meet single guys haha "

Its a real shame mr smith!...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Gotta be a blowjob...me sucking my guy off seeing him enjoy!...priceless! !...

It is a shame you guys don't meet single guys haha

Its a real shame mr smith!...

"

You could push boundaries a little hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"love them... i can get so into it that i start slavering (saliva) and guys love it trickling down onto their balls... mmmmm

My kinda lady"

thank you kind sir!!

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By *agicloveslaveMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"My girlfriend hates them. Which is why I haven't had one for months. I remember them being amazing. I think!

LOL!!

Ooops, sorry. Wasn't rubbing it in.

Sad face. Quick sad face.

"

I have a sad face

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By *andykissesWoman
over a year ago

laugharne

Oh i love sucking a nice clean smooth cock and balls. Mouth watering now just thinking abt it mmm

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over a year ago

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By *DandPokeCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I love sucking cock, it's awesome. The look on the guys face, like he's in heaven lol really turns me on giving so much pleasure.. Really need to learn how to deep throat tho. Anyone wanna teach me? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love them, love seeing the effect I have and it turns me on.

Win win.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"I love sucking cock, it's awesome. The look on the guys face, like he's in heaven lol really turns me on giving so much pleasure.. Really need to learn how to deep throat tho. Anyone wanna teach me? lol "

Ditto. The ultimate turn on

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"love them... i can get so into it that i start slavering (saliva) and guys love it trickling down onto their balls... mmmmm "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking as a Man and Bi one at that - In my experience, whilst most women are fantastic at giving BJ's, few are good at taking it all the way, and even less at swallowing afterwards.... as for messy ....these things happen when a man just cant hold t in and shots everywhere lol "

I must just have been lucky then cos most of the ladies who have given me blow jobs have swallowed and seemed rather good at it.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Doesn't do a lot for me tbh ... I get bored if it goes on and on and on. I prefer to give a well lubed hand job.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

my wife is always happy to suck my cock, but always stops when she tastes my precum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex didn't like giving them.. Now is it shallow to say that things won't work if they don't do it. I'm not forceful enough to say I want one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your my kinda girl

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