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By *idingsolo13 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

I couldn't believe it. Went to meet last night. Only when I get there the guy says, shes allergic to rubber so IF you want to fuck her it has to be bareback (nothing mentioned on profile about this). We started to play and then he said do you want to fuck her. I said id love to but I don't do bareback, nothing personal just one of my rules and wont break it for anyone. All of a sudden he goes we have to go and said its unfair to tease her if I wont end it with a fuck. I said fair enough got in my car and left. When I go to check my messages I see that I've been blocked the moment I left. The cheek of some people.

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Well that's a bit rude, and it is something they absolutely should have brought up with you beforehand.

I suspect she may be allergic to latex, as a friend of mine is, but you can get non-latex condoms. But that's not the point though.

Expecting bareback in this day and age is just stupid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good on you for sticking to your principles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had the same about 1yr ago!

She wanted bareback, NO WAY!!!

I told the guy that he could fuck her as muc as he wanted bb, but there was no way that I would do that, he then asked if he could fuck me bb, YOU MUST BE JOKING, I said, he went nuts!

Some very odd people out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

better to be blocked than to catch an STD hun well done x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe u should have not entered into play, to them uve basically said it was ok..then backed out

*not suggesting u were right or wrong, after all uve protected urself doing something u didnt want to do

was there no mention of using latexfree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always carry latex free, I have no allergies but figure this is the easiest option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always carry latex free, I have no allergies but figure this is the easiest option. "

Same here, but its when people that you have chatted to on the phone before hand and never mentioned that they wanted bb, then demand it! WTF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always carry latex free, I have no allergies but figure this is the easiest option. "

did u just sneeze snot in a latexfree condom?!..or is it cum

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Why didn't you discuss this before meet and why start play with them?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always carry latex free, I have no allergies but figure this is the easiest option.

did u just sneeze snot in a latexfree condom?!..or is it cum"

My towels are all latex free

but I do find it odd. I guess my boundaries are clearly set ahead of time,

Onwards and upwards, another learning curve

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

we always discuss this in advance and point out that we only use latex free (always have our own) but we're constantly amazed at the people who honestly think we're just saying it and when it comes to it will just go ahead and bareback.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Fair enough that OP started play....

Not all fun ends in penetration....

Maybe they thought he would just go ahead with it once he got started....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't believe it. Went to meet last night. Only when I get there the guy says, shes allergic to rubber so IF you want to fuck her it has to be bareback (nothing mentioned on profile about this). We started to play and then he said do you want to fuck her. I said id love to but I don't do bareback, nothing personal just one of my rules and wont break it for anyone. All of a sudden he goes we have to go and said its unfair to tease her if I wont end it with a fuck. I said fair enough got in my car and left. When I go to check my messages I see that I've been blocked the moment I left. The cheek of some people."
bitches be cray, good on you why the fuck should you take a chance sound like utter nutters.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

When I'm in a club, I get guys wanting to BB, I offer them condoms & they refuse.....so my legs stay shut! It's not worth the risk.

Well done for going home, & as a previous poster said, it's better to be blocked than to get a STD.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit naughty to spring that on you last minute but why start playing if you knew you wasn't going any further?

You were right to walk away but I think you should have done so from the beginning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't believe it. Went to meet last night. Only when I get there the guy says, shes allergic to rubber so IF you want to fuck her it has to be bareback (nothing mentioned on profile about this). We started to play and then he said do you want to fuck her. I said id love to but I don't do bareback, nothing personal just one of my rules and wont break it for anyone. All of a sudden he goes we have to go and said its unfair to tease her if I wont end it with a fuck. I said fair enough got in my car and left. When I go to check my messages I see that I've been blocked the moment I left. The cheek of some people."

Hmm, don't you carry condoms standard or latex ? Or is protection the responsibility of those you arrange to meet ?

You said he says "we have to go" but it's you that leaves ? This looks like one of those "oh woe is me threads" and just in case I'm wrong, you should have made VERY CLEAR from the outset that no condom, means no fucking !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"better to be blocked than to catch an STD hun well done x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't believe it. Went to meet last night. Only when I get there the guy says, shes allergic to rubber so IF you want to fuck her it has to be bareback (nothing mentioned on profile about this). We started to play and then he said do you want to fuck her. I said id love to but I don't do bareback, nothing personal just one of my rules and wont break it for anyone. All of a sudden he goes we have to go and said its unfair to tease her if I wont end it with a fuck. I said fair enough got in my car and left. When I go to check my messages I see that I've been blocked the moment I left. The cheek of some people."

Good for you for sticking to your guns

Very naughty of them not to mention it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did you expect to happen when presented with the opportunity to have penetrative sex with someone, fully in the knowledge that they wished to play bareback and you didnt?

What outcome were you, or they, expecting when there was evidently no meeting of minds?

Personally, I think all parties were at fault here for starting to play when there was such a fundamental difference in expected outcomes.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

being blocked isn't the worst thing that could have happened though is it OP and to be honest after what happened did you expect anything else, neither of you would want to meet again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for walking away. Ive got my own condoms, not latexfree, but at the mo it doesnt matter either way, latex or no latex, but they should have told you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't believe it. Went to meet last night. Only when I get there the guy says, shes allergic to rubber so IF you want to fuck her it has to be bareback (nothing mentioned on profile about this). We started to play and then he said do you want to fuck her. I said id love to but I don't do bareback, nothing personal just one of my rules and wont break it for anyone. All of a sudden he goes we have to go and said its unfair to tease her if I wont end it with a fuck. I said fair enough got in my car and left. When I go to check my messages I see that I've been blocked the moment I left. The cheek of some people."

I experienced a similar situation a few weeks ago.. Nothing to do with the lady being allergic to rubber though..

Following exchange of messages and chatting on cam two times I met up with the young couple for a social.. All going well until the bombshell!! It's bareback only or nothing.. A count to ten moment as there was no discussion of bareback at all in our chats and they even display 'safesex' on their profile!! I was so angry!! I told them a few home truths.. Playing Russian Roulette was mentioned Grrrr Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

probably wanted you to get her pregnant..

seems popular..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about an empty crisp packet and an elastic band? It's not latex, and might give a more "unusual" sensation. Just don't use Prawn Cocktail flavour.

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"probably wanted you to get her pregnant..

seems popular.. "

Erm, WHAAAAT?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about an empty crisp packet and an elastic band? It's not latex, and might give a more "unusual" sensation. Just don't use Prawn Cocktail flavour.

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By *lipperyWhenWet!Couple
over a year ago

Rochester


"Fair enough that OP started play....

Not all fun ends in penetration....

Maybe they thought he would just go ahead with it once he got started...."

Can agree with this, there's a lot of pressure put on single guys at times like this, and to draw the line and stick to it, not getting pushed into something, puts you one up as far as we are concerned.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"probably wanted you to get her pregnant..

seems popular..

Erm, WHAAAAT?"

Lol just my thinking! Lmao

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