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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all

Quite new to the scene and currently finding my feet, but ive never been to a club before and just wanted to know if theres a social side to it aswell as the physical side.

As it would be my first time going i wouldnt want to jump in straight into the deep end, would prefer to take it slow have a drink and a chat with different people, kind of one step at a time type thing.

So finally my question lol Does this happen at the clubs can i just go and enjoy the social side of things aswell as the physical??

thanks all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And yes ive just realised i should have posted this in the swingers club section lol

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In most clubs there are social areas and play areas, There is no pressure to do anything. I play if I find someone I want to play with and don't play if I don't fancy it. Being based where you are, there is a wealth of clubs locally, and you could go and see.

You could also have a look round and watch people playing, or make use of facilities (sauna, jacuzzi's etc) There should never be a pressure to have sex for males or females, just the facilities, should you decide to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats good to hear Think its more nerves then anything, not having been to a club before id prefer to have a few drinks and chat to some people take the edge off it all, find out the in's and out's and the do's and dont's before taking the next step.

i know theres chams from the people off here but other then that i do not have a clue lol

thanks for the response was a big help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here, 'clubs', skip right down to the bottom for 'west mid's' and they are listed there, with websites for individual rules/times/prices/membership/gallery and what not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ill have a look at that thanks

Id prefer to go with someone sort of a person who i felt comfortable with rather then take the plunge on my own and help settle the old nerves lol, but glad to hear i can go there on my own and socialise first so thats good.

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By *andy2Man
over a year ago

Uxbridge/Oxford

There is a huge social side to the clubs. Most are about 90% chat I'd say. Sometimes I just go with a friend for the social side.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I tend to go socially, chill in the jacuzzi and sauna. If there's any fun then it's a bonus!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats the type of thing im looking to do. Go there socially have a drink and a chat make some new friends and then if it leads to anything its a bonus if not ill have still had a good night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will find most people are quite friendly and sociable on the club scene and will engage with you in conversation for a lenghty time even when there is no attraction.. You will find people are just happy in being able to talk openly about the lifestyle..

The more you mingle the more your confidence will grow and sometimes you will really hit it off with people, this eventually leading to play..

Try arranging to meet people at a club before going..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know this sounds harsh,, but can u imagine out of the thousands of people that attend clubs over the UK at not being remotely social?

I think all clubs have areas where people dont normally play.. the worst thing thatll happen if ur just wanting the social side is someone suggesting u come for a play

as I'd say to the single men worrying about going to clubs etc...man UP ffs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first time I went to a club I walked past the door 3 times before plucking up the courage to go in! But, as others have said, there should be no pressure to play. I was soon put at ease by the owners and then by an experienced couple who literally "took me in hand"

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