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By *andyboyuk OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Bedford

I love the idea of having a male straight mate who I can hang out with and do regular things, but also talk to them about sex, maybe sometimes wank to porn together and find women to have fun with together. All my long term mates aren’t that open about sex, so would be cool to find someone new. Does anyone else have this kind of mate already, or would like one?

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By *obby999Man
11 weeks ago

Bristol

I'd love a mate like that

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By *rl444Man
11 weeks ago

sliema

@Dan_0676

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By *ustardormarmiteMan
11 weeks ago

norwich

Always up for this

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By *amb_ManMan
11 weeks ago

Peterborough and Wiesbaden, Germany

I used to host straight porn and wank sessions. A lot of work because of the no shows but when it works it’s great. Always so erotic to sit, watch porn and stroke whale talking to friends.

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By *fineMan
11 weeks ago

preston


"I used to host straight porn and wank sessions. A lot of work because of the no shows but when it works it’s great. Always so erotic to sit, watch porn and stroke whale talking to friends. "
we’re there many no shows ? Was worth doing ?

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By *rhugesMan
11 weeks ago

Cardiff

I used to have a mate like that. Sadly he got a bit out of hand and I no longer see him

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By *aseyjones7Man
11 weeks ago

leicestershire


"I used to host straight porn and wank sessions. A lot of work because of the no shows but when it works it’s great. Always so erotic to sit, watch porn and stroke whale talking to friends. "

That does sound fun

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By *HandyManMan
11 weeks ago

margate


"I used to host straight porn and wank sessions. A lot of work because of the no shows but when it works it’s great. Always so erotic to sit, watch porn and stroke whale talking to friends.

That does sound fun "

I would love to have mate like this of phone w@nk buddy and share stories and pictures

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By *ypersoonMan
11 weeks ago

WHITCHURCH, Shropshire

Would love a friend like this, so discreet about this site that I don't talk around vanilla friends about it

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By *eyouandher85Man
11 weeks ago

dhrham

This would be good

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By *ain and sortedMan
11 weeks ago

Old Harlow Essex

Sounds a great way to have fun , all naked, porn on, story telling wanking away

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By *andyboyuk OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Bedford


"I used to have a mate like that. Sadly he got a bit out of hand and I no longer see him"

This is one worry I have about doing it. What did he do?

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By *andyboyuk OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Bedford

If anyone is interested just send me a DM and we can discuss further.

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By *radually_RetiringMan
11 weeks ago

Bury

No mates, let alone one to discuss anything sexual. Can't even imagine that.

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By *un couple 2Couple
11 weeks ago

Tynemouth.

Love that idea.

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
11 weeks ago

belfast

Used to be a few of us watched porn and wanked

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By *fcman1993Man
11 weeks ago

Wirral

Sounds like a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Had in late teens mates . We hung about when to films, pub nd clubs, meals nd picnics out but all scattered to uni

Pal or mate doesnt have the same bonding today.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago


"I love the idea of having a male straight mate who I can hang out with and do regular things, but also talk to them about sex, maybe sometimes wank to porn together and find women to have fun with together. All my long term mates aren’t that open about sex, so would be cool to find someone new. Does anyone else have this kind of mate already, or would like one?"
Would be cool but I have no mates 🤣🤣🤣

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By *pertureTV/TS
11 weeks ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

had a mate like that growing up he was the kind that always seemed to get the girl on nights out, but on nights in, well ..............

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By *lumber53Man
11 weeks ago

brean

Be awesome

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By *rightonsteveMan
11 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’m looking for such a guy so I can talk openly about sex and do other stuff. Someone like me, in fact.

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By *ornyguy666Man
11 weeks ago

Nottingham


"I love the idea of having a male straight mate who I can hang out with and do regular things, but also talk to them about sex, maybe sometimes wank to porn together and find women to have fun with together. All my long term mates aren’t that open about sex, so would be cool to find someone new. Does anyone else have this kind of mate already, or would like one?"
yes deffo

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By *lackpoolguyukMan
11 weeks ago

blackpool

Yeah

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By *idland1010Man
11 weeks ago

Kingsbridge

Sounds like a good idea

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By *ustardormarmiteMan
11 weeks ago

norwich

Wingman needed

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By *CFun22Couple
11 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Love the idea of that x

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By *hrisrobertsuk09Man
11 weeks ago

Cambridge

If ever someone in the Cambridgeshire area

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By *andyboyuk OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Bedford

Good to see I’m not the only one.

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By *ansduoCouple
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

Like the idea of this and then introducing my wife to the dynamic.

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By *lemfandango99Man
11 weeks ago

Stockport

Im part of a group of guys setting up a wabking group

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By *andyboyuk OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Bedford


"Like the idea of this and then introducing my wife to the dynamic. "

This sounds amazing.

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By *nkm112Couple
11 weeks ago

Manchester

This sounds like fun, my inbox is open x

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By *ightbuttlooseMan
11 weeks ago

Warminster

I do have a friend like this. We do meet up regularly and wank off to porn.

Good fun really

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Yeah this sounds a great idea also good to have as for when a lady or couple asks for a couple of guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago


"I love the idea of having a male straight mate who I can hang out with and do regular things, but also talk to them about sex, maybe sometimes wank to porn together and find women to have fun with together. All my long term mates aren’t that open about sex, so would be cool to find someone new. Does anyone else have this kind of mate already, or would like one?"

Yeah I have a few friends like that. Isn’t it just a normal part of being a man?

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By *omRachCouple
11 weeks ago

Wirral

I am very lucky to have one such mate and for some time he was our MFM mate also.

The 3some has now long died but we are still the best of mates who quite often still has pervy/horny chats with me

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By *woamigosCouple
11 weeks ago

harrow

Most guys would like one mate

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
11 weeks ago

London

Who wouldn't like a mate like that?

Strangely, I do have a couple of female mates who I can discuss sex with and be very open about it. Very liberating

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By *ick rossMan
11 weeks ago

Midlands

Open to “mates”

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By *unguysamMan
11 weeks ago

suffolk

Definitely up for this

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By *oss.ossMan
11 weeks ago

Newport

I need one of these too. Just moved into area so in double need

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By *aughty2yorksCouple
11 weeks ago

Leeds

It would be a nice thing, but most chats seem to fizzle out early or they’re miles away

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By *andyboyuk OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Bedford

Some lucky guys here then who have actually found this offline

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By *ngelLordCouple
11 weeks ago

Newport

It's always great to have a few mates like 👍

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By *oss.ossMan
11 weeks ago

Newport


"It's always great to have a few mates like 👍 "

Thought I had dropped lucky and realised you're the other Newport

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By *avidNPMan
11 weeks ago

manchester


"I love the idea of having a male straight mate who I can hang out with and do regular things, but also talk to them about sex, maybe sometimes wank to porn together and find women to have fun with together. All my long term mates aren’t that open about sex, so would be cool to find someone new. Does anyone else have this kind of mate already, or would like one?"

Doesn’t sound very straight to me

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By *amon.dMan
11 weeks ago

antrim

Interested in finding a married wank bud.

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By *obin444Man
11 weeks ago

Windsor

Would definitely like one of those

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By *ain and sortedMan
11 weeks ago

Old Harlow Essex

Bic way to relax, naked wanking with others

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By *DerryMan
11 weeks ago

Dublin/Derry/Belfast

Sounds fun

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By *igfun4allMan
11 weeks ago

Portglenone

Any Northern Ireland lads up for this?

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By *eyouandher85Man
11 weeks ago

dhrham

This would be good

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By *l3sumCouple
11 weeks ago

Dartford

Got a mate like this. Always open to having another!

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By *avidNPMan
11 weeks ago

manchester

If your wanking with another guy you are not straight

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By *rightonsteveMan
11 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I’m looking for such a guy so I can talk openly about sex and do other stuff. Someone like me, in fact. "

No one is interested. I must be a very niche person.

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By *an SummersMan
11 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"I used to host straight porn and wank sessions. A lot of work because of the no shows but when it works it’s great. Always so erotic to sit, watch porn and stroke whale talking to friends. "

Is it just me, or does sitting in a room with a load of blokes, cocks out and wanking not sound very straight 🤷🏼‍♂️

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By *andyboyuk OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Bedford


"I love the idea of having a male straight mate who I can hang out with and do regular things, but also talk to them about sex, maybe sometimes wank to porn together and find women to have fun with together. All my long term mates aren’t that open about sex, so would be cool to find someone new. Does anyone else have this kind of mate already, or would like one?

Doesn’t sound very straight to me "

Oh no guys, the sexuality police have entered the chat.

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By *ain and sortedMan
11 weeks ago

Old Harlow Essex


"I love the idea of having a male straight mate who I can hang out with and do regular things, but also talk to them about sex, maybe sometimes wank to porn together and find women to have fun with together. All my long term mates aren’t that open about sex, so would be cool to find someone new. Does anyone else have this kind of mate already, or would like one?

Doesn’t sound very straight to me

Oh no guys, the sexuality police have entered the chat. "

Oh NO the truncheons cum out

Strange people have to comment about sexuality when we are in a swingers site

If not inclined why comment?

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By *an SummersMan
11 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"I love the idea of having a male straight mate who I can hang out with and do regular things, but also talk to them about sex, maybe sometimes wank to porn together and find women to have fun with together. All my long term mates aren’t that open about sex, so would be cool to find someone new. Does anyone else have this kind of mate already, or would like one?

Doesn’t sound very straight to me

Oh no guys, the sexuality police have entered the chat. "

Or the people who have a valid point?

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By *iscreetguy16Man
11 weeks ago

durham

Love the idea

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By *andyboyuk OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Bedford


"I love the idea of having a male straight mate who I can hang out with and do regular things, but also talk to them about sex, maybe sometimes wank to porn together and find women to have fun with together. All my long term mates aren’t that open about sex, so would be cool to find someone new. Does anyone else have this kind of mate already, or would like one?

Doesn’t sound very straight to me

Oh no guys, the sexuality police have entered the chat.

Or the people who have a valid point? "

Nobody asked for a sexuality debate though, there are plenty of other threads for that if that’s your thing. If what’s in this thread isn’t your thing stop coming back in it and commenting, and let the people who are looking for what’s been mentioned talk about that.

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By *andyh78Man
10 weeks ago

manchester

There are a few guys who I chat to occasionally on here but it isn’t the same as saying it out loud. I have had a few telephone conversations recently with a guy and it felt completely different to typing it.

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By *andyboyuk OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Bedford


"There are a few guys who I chat to occasionally on here but it isn’t the same as saying it out loud. I have had a few telephone conversations recently with a guy and it felt completely different to typing it. "

What did it feel like to say it out loud?

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By *ound1Man
9 weeks ago

Blackpool

Lots looking for wank buddies

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By *fineMan
9 weeks ago

preston

Always difficult finding someone who can accommodate

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By *DerryMan
9 weeks ago

Dublin/Derry/Belfast

Happy to chat to anyone straight guy here

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By *an SummersMan
9 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"I love the idea of having a male straight mate who I can hang out with and do regular things, but also talk to them about sex, maybe sometimes wank to porn together and find women to have fun with together. All my long term mates aren’t that open about sex, so would be cool to find someone new. Does anyone else have this kind of mate already, or would like one?

Doesn’t sound very straight to me

Oh no guys, the sexuality police have entered the chat.

Or the people who have a valid point?

Nobody asked for a sexuality debate though, there are plenty of other threads for that if that’s your thing. If what’s in this thread isn’t your thing stop coming back in it and commenting, and let the people who are looking for what’s been mentioned talk about that. "

Nobody asked you to tell other people what they can and can’t do either, but there we go, it’s happened. The joys of an open platform.

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By *heeky trucker100Man
9 weeks ago

barnsley

Best m8 we used to chat about wives all the time

Was great then one day i said I need to wank he said get it out

Next min two cocks out wanking

Cum everywhere 2 mins later

Did it for years

Told him I was bi he let me suck him off

Then he just stopped

Gutted

Though we are still best m8s no wife talk or wanking and its never mentioned

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By *loketimeMan
9 weeks ago

Wales, shropshire, herefordshire

Looking here too

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By *hesubtlegentMan
9 weeks ago

surrey

Straight mates don’t have wanking parties…

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By *eguyukMan
9 weeks ago

Manchester

I do enjoy mutual wank fun

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By *lthomasMan
9 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

A mutual wank over our hot wives can be fun

Straight guy who enjoys this type of chat with like minded

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By *imber373Man
9 weeks ago

MK

Plenty of guys looking for this sort of male bonding: having a mate they can share experiences, let off some steam and experiment with

Labels are irrelevant, bi, straight, flexible…who cares it’s 2026 ffs

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By *S_71Man
9 weeks ago

leeds

Im into this

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By *eyouandher85Man
9 weeks ago

dhrham

Sounds fun

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By *orruptionandliesMan
9 weeks ago

leeds / clevedon

Why not

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By *andyboyuk OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Bedford


"Plenty of guys looking for this sort of male bonding: having a mate they can share experiences, let off some steam and experiment with

Labels are irrelevant, bi, straight, flexible…who cares it’s 2026 ffs"

Thank you.

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By *ay19720Man
9 weeks ago

Ashford kent

Everyone here should message the ppl on here and become buddys..lots of ppl use to have pen pals . Dont be lonely reach out it just takes..hi.

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By *dventurerclimberMan
9 weeks ago

Bridgend


"Plenty of guys looking for this sort of male bonding: having a mate they can share experiences, let off some steam and experiment with

Labels are irrelevant, bi, straight, flexible…who cares it’s 2026 ffs

Thank you. "

All good with me . I enjoy it

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By *oss.ossMan
7 weeks ago

Newport


"Everyone here should message the ppl on here and become buddys..lots of ppl use to have pen pals . Dont be lonely reach out it just takes..hi. "

I'd be open to that. Just moved to a new area so I don't even know anybody locally outside of work or family. Sometimes you just need a bit of male bonding. Have a bit of bromance going on with hubby of wife's work colleague so I love it when they catch up socially

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By *ricd321Man
7 weeks ago

Carlisle

Yeah always wanted a straight mate to chat & perv my wife with

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By *un couple 2Couple
7 weeks ago

Tynemouth.

love the idea of a mate coming to mine for drinks, to share my wifes photos and videos with. chill and relax.

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By *KBIMALE2025Man
7 weeks ago

Wednesfield, Wolverhampton

Would definitely be up for that

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
6 weeks ago

Manchester


"I love the idea of having a male straight mate who I can hang out with and do regular things, but also talk to them about sex, maybe sometimes wank to porn together and find women to have fun with together. All my long term mates aren’t that open about sex, so would be cool to find someone new. Does anyone else have this kind of mate already, or would like one?

Doesn’t sound very straight to me "

Yea I wonder why the op is specifically looking for straight guys!

Perhaps the issue with his long term straight mates is exactly that. They are straight.

Personally I have no issues with wanking and talking about sex with a female but cringe at the thought of doing the same with another bloke.

Perhaps the op should try concentrating on the bi and gay community.

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By *ornyguy666Man
6 weeks ago

Nottingham


"I love the idea of having a male straight mate who I can hang out with and do regular things, but also talk to them about sex, maybe sometimes wank to porn together and find women to have fun with together. All my long term mates aren’t that open about sex, so would be cool to find someone new. Does anyone else have this kind of mate already, or would like one?"
Yes love a guy don't want my cock

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By *ister1Man
6 weeks ago

north west

Sounds good x

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By *alsaman15Man
6 weeks ago

Market Drayton


"Would love a friend like this, so discreet about this site that I don't talk around vanilla friends about it"
I've done this before if you'd be interested in chatting and seeing if we get on

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By *rdive87Man
6 weeks ago

St helens

Can chat on telegram about mates wifes. Tg= _rdive87

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By *tickler2000Man
6 weeks ago

St Agnes

Sounds interesting. I have no mates that I could sit in a pub and chat about such things or team up for a meet with a lady or couple.

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By *ixenandstag123Couple
6 weeks ago

Somewhere

Being able to chat with others openly about sexual fantasies and experiences etc alongside normal mate stuff does sound good. Real life banter would be great, but even some online mates like this would be good too. Feel free to message if interested

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By *orkshire500Man
6 weeks ago

Hull

Sounds interesting

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By *ddfellowMan
6 weeks ago

New ferry wirral

I can pass quite easily as straight, if a little odd.

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By *nlyme74Man
6 weeks ago

Newcastle

Sounds like fun.

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
6 weeks ago

belfast

Had a gay mate a few years agi. Was interesting.

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By *loketimeMan
6 weeks ago

Wales, shropshire, herefordshire

Sounds good, any smokers up for it

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By *avidNPMan
6 weeks ago

manchester

If you do anything sexual with a guy mate and your make you ain’t straight

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By *andyboyuk OP   Man
7 days ago

Bedford

Bump

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