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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How much strange behaviour have you encountered on here? Some people baffle me at the best of times, but there's been one person on here that has really confused me.

I got a wink and friend invite off said member. I politely accepted, and sent a message saying thank you for the wink, and general chat in the message. When I looked, it had been deleted with no reply. I left it for a while and thought nothing of it, and sent another message because said person was online asking for people to contact them because they were bored... Message deleted with no reply. I assumed that this person wasn't interested in any way, so removed them from my friends list. No harm done. A short while later, I had another friends request off the same person. Being a nice person, I decided to give her another go, again, sending a message to thank and general chat... Message deleted, no reply. I blocked her in the end...

That to me is just weird, why would you want someone on your friends list that you've got no intention of talking to, let alone meeting them...

Share your stories, spread the wealth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a guy with a fake profile (yes, you do get one or two on here) wanting to see your private pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like a guy with a fake profile (yes, you do get one or two on here) wanting to see your private pics."

Agreed, and I'm thinking they winked you hoping you'd reply with a friends invite - this is why I'm extremely picky in who I accept them from and send them to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps it was a lady and she is only interested in collecting friends so that newly uploaded pics get fabbed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just looked, and it's a verified user, but I suppose that doesn't mean much, does it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps it was a lady and she is only interested in collecting friends so that newly uploaded pics get fabbed."

From what I remember, there wasn't any recent pics....

Good theory though, I like it!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've had a couple who winked and then nothing - no answer to my email. Don't know why they winked. Fat fingers on iPhone I think! Also had a wink and friendship request off a lady who hasn't contacted me at all. People are strange.

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

There does appear to be alot of people who can't read. Strange for a text based medium lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to be immune from

This behaviour, as I don't get any friends invite or winks . I do get mails of gay /bi fellas but they just get deleted they must be to lazy to read the profile

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed posts. If someone is abusive in a message please report it to Admin. If someone sends you a message you don't like then please just block them rather than posting about it in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know where to start with some of the strangeness ive come across on here

Mostly it makes me smile and realise that im saner than I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find accepting a random friends request with no prior contact, once - let alone twice, pretty strange behaviour!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't know where to start with some of the strangeness ive come across on here

Mostly it makes me smile and realise that im saner than I thought "

It's always a good thing when you realise how sane you are, isn't it....

Or...

Are we the insane ones and the insane (to us) are sane?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find accepting a random friends request with no prior contact, once - let alone twice, pretty strange behaviour! "

I've got no problem with people sending me a friend invite, that's what the button is there for. I'm all for being friends with people and talking etc.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't accept random friend requests without at least a chat first. Saves lots of confusion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't accept random friend requests without at least a chat first. Saves lots of confusion."

Agree with you on that one .. Most doing that will be wanting access to private pics

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I find it strange that some people find it necessary to send an abusive message because I didn't reply to their message and just deleted it. I'm not doing it to be rude, I just wish people would understand how many messages us single girls can get in a day and we really just don't have the time to reply to all of them!

I don't get offended if someone doesn't reply to me and why anyone would bother to tell another person off for it is beyond me.

Anyone ever done this or had it done to them? Are you offended by it? Am I just a rude cow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it strange that some people find it necessary to send an abusive message because I didn't reply to their message and just deleted it. I'm not doing it to be rude, I just wish people would understand how many messages us single girls can get in a day and we really just don't have the time to reply to all of them!

I don't get offended if someone doesn't reply to me and why anyone would bother to tell another person off for it is beyond me.

Anyone ever done this or had it done to them? Are you offended by it? Am I just a rude cow? "

I just think its politeness to respond to a wink or mail it only takes a minute to say no thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it strange that some people find it necessary to send an abusive message because I didn't reply to their message and just deleted it. I'm not doing it to be rude, I just wish people would understand how many messages us single girls can get in a day and we really just don't have the time to reply to all of them!

I don't get offended if someone doesn't reply to me and why anyone would bother to tell another person off for it is beyond me.

Anyone ever done this or had it done to them? Are you offended by it? Am I just a rude cow?

I just think its politeness to respond to a wink or mail it only takes a minute to say no thanks "

Not responding is a no thank you to me...

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"I find it strange that some people find it necessary to send an abusive message because I didn't reply to their message and just deleted it. I'm not doing it to be rude, I just wish people would understand how many messages us single girls can get in a day and we really just don't have the time to reply to all of them!

I don't get offended if someone doesn't reply to me and why anyone would bother to tell another person off for it is beyond me.

Anyone ever done this or had it done to them? Are you offended by it? Am I just a rude cow?

I just think its politeness to respond to a wink or mail it only takes a minute to say no thanks "

Curved, in less than 24 hours I have received over 100 messages. So no, it will not just 'take a minute' to respond to all of them. This is the reality of being a single girl on here. The other reality is that single guys need to have a pretty thick skin in this scene if they're going to get anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it strange that some people find it necessary to send an abusive message because I didn't reply to their message and just deleted it. I'm not doing it to be rude, I just wish people would understand how many messages us single girls can get in a day and we really just don't have the time to reply to all of them!

I don't get offended if someone doesn't reply to me and why anyone would bother to tell another person off for it is beyond me.

Anyone ever done this or had it done to them? Are you offended by it? Am I just a rude cow?

I just think its politeness to respond to a wink or mail it only takes a minute to say no thanks

Curved, in less than 24 hours I have received over 100 messages. So no, it will not just 'take a minute' to respond to all of them. This is the reality of being a single girl on here. The other reality is that single guys need to have a pretty thick skin in this scene if they're going to get anywhere."

Keep your knickers on I was only stating what most people would do, in your scenario if your getting 100 + messages you can't be expected to respond to each one

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"I find it strange that some people find it necessary to send an abusive message because I didn't reply to their message and just deleted it. I'm not doing it to be rude, I just wish people would understand how many messages us single girls can get in a day and we really just don't have the time to reply to all of them!

I don't get offended if someone doesn't reply to me and why anyone would bother to tell another person off for it is beyond me.

Anyone ever done this or had it done to them? Are you offended by it? Am I just a rude cow?

I just think its politeness to respond to a wink or mail it only takes a minute to say no thanks

Curved, in less than 24 hours I have received over 100 messages. So no, it will not just 'take a minute' to respond to all of them. This is the reality of being a single girl on here. The other reality is that single guys need to have a pretty thick skin in this scene if they're going to get anywhere.

Keep your knickers on I was only stating what most people would do, in your scenario if your getting 100 + messages you can't be expected to respond to each one "

How do you know I'm even wearing any knickers?

I do respond to the few nice ones I get even if they're not my type. I'm happy to chat to pretty much anyone if they're friendly and respectful and can make an effort. The messages like "wanna fuck tonight here's my number" and "I can please you with my thick 8" cock" do just get deleted (which make up 99.9% of my messages unfortunately) even if I wouldn't mind a fuck tonight and I am not exactly averse to an 8" cock either But seriously.

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside


"I find it strange that some people find it necessary to send an abusive message because I didn't reply to their message and just deleted it. I'm not doing it to be rude, I just wish people would understand how many messages us single girls can get in a day and we really just don't have the time to reply to all of them!

I don't get offended if someone doesn't reply to me and why anyone would bother to tell another person off for it is beyond me.

Anyone ever done this or had it done to them? Are you offended by it? Am I just a rude cow?

I just think its politeness to respond to a wink or mail it only takes a minute to say no thanks "

I used to send no thank replies but got so fed up with the why not brigade I have given up. If someone hasn't bothered to read my profile why should I bother responding to their unasked for messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it strange that some people find it necessary to send an abusive message because I didn't reply to their message and just deleted it. I'm not doing it to be rude, I just wish people would understand how many messages us single girls can get in a day and we really just don't have the time to reply to all of them!

I don't get offended if someone doesn't reply to me and why anyone would bother to tell another person off for it is beyond me.

Anyone ever done this or had it done to them? Are you offended by it? Am I just a rude cow?

I just think its politeness to respond to a wink or mail it only takes a minute to say no thanks

Curved, in less than 24 hours I have received over 100 messages. So no, it will not just 'take a minute' to respond to all of them. This is the reality of being a single girl on here. The other reality is that single guys need to have a pretty thick skin in this scene if they're going to get anywhere.

Keep your knickers on I was only stating what most people would do, in your scenario if your getting 100 + messages you can't be expected to respond to each one

How do you know I'm even wearing any knickers?

I do respond to the few nice ones I get even if they're not my type. I'm happy to chat to pretty much anyone if they're friendly and respectful and can make an effort. The messages like "wanna fuck tonight here's my number" and "I can please you with my thick 8" cock" do just get deleted (which make up 99.9% of my messages unfortunately) even if I wouldn't mind a fuck tonight and I am not exactly averse to an 8" cock either But seriously."

No knickers now there is a thought

Well I would never even contemplate composing an email with "wanna fuck or is my dick big enough , you know the patter lol . I want to get to know the person what her likes dislikes are who knows she might actually like me and then the fun can start

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