FabSwingers.com forum: friend invites without contact

By *bw queen of spades OP Woman
over a year ago

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hey guys iv noticed a huge stream of friend requests without even messaging me lately and was curious what others feel should be the protocol for friend requests (not advice I delete them)

more when my fellow fabers feel its time to send request? im curious to see diff peoples opinions regarding this

there is no 1 answer to this just curious

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

We don't accept as a rule, we will have a nosey at their private gallery if they have pics on it.

Like a lot on here pics and camming don't interest other than to possibly see sincerity of profile,chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just block, have wrote just that on my profile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless we have met, we ignor them.

we dont accept or delete - just leave them, that way we cant be bothered by serial friend requesters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We feel that its rather rude to be honest.

We were getting them from all over the globe from guys who clearly had not read our profile & who would never meet us.

We politely mentioned that we were not interested in unsolicited requests & it made no difference so now we simply block.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I just ignore them, do a block delete whenever I get around to it

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I think people are so used to "friending" on social media sites they automatically send friend requests.

As I have my face pic set to private, if I wanted all and sundry to see me I'd set it as my avatar. I'm not swayed by pic collecters: hot wives and babes are everywhere. I just bulk delete and forget them.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"I just ignore them, do a block delete whenever I get around to it"

and that should have been a 'bulk' not a 'block'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only accept friends invites if we been chatting for a while or if we met/meeting up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the public pic you have doesn't give any idea of what you look like, you then have 10 images for friends only.

Maybe if you swapped out your public image with something showing a bit more of you, or even had a few more public images, then possibly there'd be less friend requests, as people could make a decision based on what they see without asking for more up front.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only accept invites from those I've met / agreed to meet. It's a very short list! I have my face pic in my friends gallery and it also states on my profile 'if I'm not meeting you, I'm not adding you' but still they keep sending. If you just leave the invites there, they can't send you another one for 30 days (I think) which is a good thing. Some people treat this site as Facebook by just sending invites out willynilly but I cant see how you can be friends with anyone you're not meeting or even spoken to. I get very p'd off with the 'add me babe ' type of messages too. That's my little rant of the day lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it quite rude too.

I only accept friend requests from guys I've met. It also states this on my profile. Most seem to read it but lots don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as you can see from my profile I have a fairly relaxed attitude to this......NOT!!

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By *bw queen of spades OP Woman
over a year ago

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lol thanks for all the answers but its the other side of the coin that im most curiouse about tbh as when u think its the rite time to ask for a friend invite

as I believe like others myslf its rude to ask without contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hey guys iv noticed a huge stream of friend requests without even messaging me lately and was curious what others feel should be the protocol for friend requests (not advice I delete them)

more when my fellow fabers feel its time to send request? im curious to see diff peoples opinions regarding this

there is no 1 answer to this just curious

I don't accept ever so I'd advise you to do the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't usually accept friend requests without a message or at least a wink. However, it can change. Depends who's doing it and if I'm interested. Sometimes it works out, sometimes I'll have a cheeky look at private pics and delete.

If you send a request without contact, you do so at your peril! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't bother me in the slightest. At the end of the day, it's all about making friends!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont add any 1 ever till i have spoken to them n seen them on cam an maybe met on a social

any other request will get ignored

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By *bw queen of spades OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I think the public pic you have doesn't give any idea of what you look like, you then have 10 images for friends only.

exept the point of having a pic like that is not to show more of me unless I want sum1 to see it lol

I have a very small and accurate window of what im looking for in a meet yet 90% ignore it wink message and add as friend nedless to say I delete the friend requests and winks and reply simply no thank you to the messages as tbh I don't stress about it its just to me funny the amount of people who think they will get accepted when even to lazy to even write a message introducing themselves to me even then I accept in all honesty less than 1% and usually then cos there's a fem I like :P x

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By *bw queen of spades OP Woman
over a year ago

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"i dont add any 1 ever till i have spoken to them n seen them on cam an maybe met on a social

any other request will get ignored"

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By *cEvil and BlueangelCouple
over a year ago

Co Durham

As a previous poster said...its the 'friending frenzy' a lot of the time.

Or people want to perv private pics.

I agree that I think its bad manners to send random requests....I just ignore them

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