FabSwingers.com forum: Is our dynamic of what we want strange ?

By *eautyandthebeast86 OP Couple
16 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

We have had lots of people tell us that they don’t understand our dynamic and we would love feedback if you think it’s strange?

Don’t get me wrong we will never change what we do or how we do it as it works for us but just want to know opinions ?

We don’t like single men to join us in a MMF, my fella doesn’t like sharing me unless he has another female present, he feels he’s giving the man me but not getting anything back from the man. It’s not swapping etc..

More than happy to see me with a man in MFMF situation as to us it’s a proper swap.

It’s the fact he doesn’t mind MMMFF that people say is strange because there are more men than women in play?

His logic is that in that situation he’s still getting another female other than me to play with so is happy to share me?

Is this wierd to others ? Or do you feel it makes sense ?

Won’t be offended with any answers just curious and if others are the same

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By *all me FlikWoman
16 weeks ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

Makes total sense to me...enjoy

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
16 weeks ago

Norwich ish

I think the best advice here is “you do you” and forget whatever anyone else thinks is strange or not.

Everyone has their own limits/preferences/wants. If you two have discussed what you want and have agreed to it then doesn’t really matter what anyone else thinks.

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By *otCouple3737Couple
16 weeks ago

York/Hull

We have a dynamic thats strange to some. We love MMF, MMMF, MMMMF but in a MFMF scenario we are only soft swing which can often put couples off meeting us

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By *lthomasMan
16 weeks ago

Wigan

Makes total sense, he’d like another woman to play with while a guy played with you but doesn’t mind if the other couple bring an extra guy

Don’t see anything wrong with that at all

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By *ocialablechapMan
16 weeks ago

Paphos and also SW UK

"I think the best advice here is “you do you” and forget whatever anyone else thinks is strange or not.

Everyone has their own limits/preferences/wants. If you two have discussed what you want and have agreed to it then doesn’t really matter what anyone else thinks."

This.

As long you you've agreed what you like and don't like them don't worry about others. It may make reduce the potential pool size but that is less important.

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By *ockforplay66Man
16 weeks ago

Southampton/isle of wight/ everywhere

It makes complete sense. The important thing is that it works for you and my philosophy is that this lifestyle should be about what works best for us individually, not about fitting other people’s views, opinions or expectations. Have fun!!

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By *appyChap91Man
16 weeks ago

Hull

I see his logic of if you have a threesome and its MFF then you both enjoy the other person involved, whereas if it was MMF only the F would enjoy both the others involved but M would only enjoy F.

Don't think its that weird and ultimately its about what you both want

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