FabSwingers.com forum: How was your first meet on fab and were you really nervous

By *un Gentlemen 777 OP Man
8 weeks ago

Petersfield

I was 💩 myself but it was so relaxing once we had said help and ended up as a regular she was great fun

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By *lackduffyMan
8 weeks ago

londres

Ok was too horny for nerves. It was off the chain. Beautiful French lady, posh country house in Surrey, literally drenched me in squirt. 😘

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By *uperstar76Woman
8 weeks ago

North Lanarkshire

Was shit, about 15 years ago spoke to this firefighter for about a week he came to my house one morning when he finished nightshift.. he was shorter than hed said grabbed my boob so hard that the skin underneath stretched so much that i thought hed ripped it off! I let out a scream then asked him to leave.. his excuse was that he was so horny he couldnt help himself

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By *lik and PaulCouple
8 weeks ago

cahoots

We've only had one through Fab but had many before that one over the years so not nervous at all. We used who's near while on holiday and sometimes wonder if we would have gravitated towards each other anyway.

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By *arried West End CoupleCouple
8 weeks ago

Glasgow

Good build up group chatting, nervous meeting up with him at the bar.

Back to his flat, the first time we both had ever had a threesome, it was amazing and has had us hooked since

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By *ennymoreCouple
8 weeks ago

staffordshire

We are yet to experience our first meet as a couple. We were both single members on here previously.

Both a little nervous for our first to be honest.

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By *un Gentlemen 777 OP Man
8 weeks ago

Petersfield

"We are yet to experience our first meet as a couple. We were both single members on here previously.

Both a little nervous for our first to be honest. "

Nervous in what way???

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By *ennymoreCouple
8 weeks ago

staffordshire

In the same way as walking into a club for the first time. Nothing in particular to be nervous about but it’s there.

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By *.hrisMan
8 weeks ago

Bath

Mine was great. I got invited over to their hotel for some MFM fun. I was very nervous walking through the hotel to find their room. But once they opened their door naked all the nerves were gone.

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By *ervert and TrollopCouple
8 weeks ago

Romford

Our first was at an empty campsite, three of us sitting at a bench under a tree in the 80’s Fahn when the guy said to Raine do you fancy a massage ! That walk across the field to our caravan we will never forget, nerves, excitement and the unknown made it perfect plus of course we had met a gentleman

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By *asual_WandererWoman
8 weeks ago

A spot you want me

Wasn't great, I think I reached a point of recognising I was sitting too long on the fear fence, then went the other way and just went with this meet.

It was in an exceptionally shoddy Holiday Inn somewhere off an A road, with a decidedly average bed partner, and I was like how have I found myself here 😂😂

Thankfully it's got much much better from there, and I'm still proudly enm 5yrs on

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By *orgetmeKnotCouple
8 weeks ago

Rainham, Kent

Yes we were incredibly nervous. We'd chatted for years about exploring the lifestyle and when we finally arranged our first meet it felt very scary, the guy that joined us was very respectful and made us feel relaxed. Of course, as soon as the fun kicked off all nerves vanished and we had an amazing evening.

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By *aandLoCouple
8 weeks ago

Southampton

We were incredibly nervous for the social. It was quite spontaneous, just a few messages and agreement to have a drink together a couple of nights later.

The guy was handsome, polite, intelligent and funny. It was such a good connection for us we weren't really nervous about the subsequent meet, just very excited. It's still the best meet to date.

We saw him once more and then he got a girlfriend. We still occasionally chat and his partner isn't interested in the scene sadly. But, I don't blame her for keeping him to herself. 🤣

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By *pleasure-on-u82Man
8 weeks ago

portsmouth

I’ll be honest I find it nervous every time I meet someone new. Over the years I have found regulars that i enjoy spending time with but life changes and you drift apart from those people. So being a single guy I find it extremely hard to find singles and couples. A lot of the time because of bad experiences with other single guy. So when you do meet someone new there’s always that risk of saying or doing wrong because these people rightly so have got their guards up because of poor experiences.

Unfortunate the bad ruined it for the genuine people

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By *eakgent53Man
8 weeks ago

buxton

When we had our couples profile the first meet we had was a bit damp, a guy joined us in our hotel one afternoon for mmf fun , he wasn't particularly good in bed and didn't really impress my wife , and after he finished he wanted to stay and talk for hours lol

Other than that each meet she had she thoroughly enjoyed

Only came off due to being followed home from a motorway service meet to our house

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By *izwo2ii2Man
8 weeks ago

Liscard

Yup, I was super nervous too. Thankfully they were SUPER near where I was living so it was like a 10 minute walk. Had a excellent time and would love for more meets to happen haha.

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By *nionbearMan
8 weeks ago

holmes chapel

My first taste of swinging was easy as it wasn't pre arranged , the first arranged meet I was an absolute bag of nerves , woke up early and had the long long wait of about 14 hours , I got even more nervous when they let me know they were running late ( at the time I was praying they'd cancel 😂) , when they arrived at my place they were as nervous as me and we all had a good laugh about it which settled the nerves , the grey goose helped too 😁

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By *ealitybitesMan
8 weeks ago

Belfast

I wasn't nervous at all beforehand but very nervous afterwards.

I've told the story often enough on here but the short version is that despite meeting twice socially before going to an hotel on the third meet she hadn't been honest with me and as soon as we were naked she punched me in the face and wanted me to retaliate because that was her kink.

I said fuck no and went to leave but she apologised and said she had been afraid to say anything before in case I didn't turn up.

An hour later as I walked out of the bathroom she drove her knee into my balls and at that point I got dressed and left even though it was my hotel room.

I left the site a few days later thinking everyone was as crazy as her and looking back on it I had no idea where I stood as even though she was half my size and I hadn't lifted a finger to her, there was only one way it would ever go if she had decided to report me.

It took a while before I was confident enough to come back on the site.

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By *ike_looking_forMan
8 weeks ago

Cumbria

First one was from another site many years ago that was more international - before it was overrun by bots....

Was recently single, travelling a lot, browsed the city I was flying to and sent some messages - clicked with a lass - we agreed to meet for a drink, finished that - went by the supermarket and grabbed some wine and nibbles before heading back to my hotel - slightly nervous in terms of it's not the flow of a normal date - got a lot more relaxed afer I poured some wine - sat down and she unprompted just unzipped me and started sucking me off!!

Met 10-12 times I think when I was working there - one time when my flight was cancelled - and first club meet with her

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By *hogun300Man
8 weeks ago

Dundee

Didnt really used to get nervous. First meet was after a week of being on and I was fine. Not so much these days as struggle to get in same mind set as then.

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By *anderingArtistMan
8 weeks ago

an abstract world

I'll be honest, I was nervous as shit.

Walking to her door my heart was going ten to a dozen but she stood before me in lingerie and everything else faded away. The rest of the evening is a soaked page in the history books..

That led to a couple of repeat meets so thankfully nerves didn't get the better of me the first time round.

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By *haringisCaring1208Couple
8 weeks ago

Lurgan

First meet was brilliant to be fair. Fella we met was experienced and a gent, so put us both at ease and we all had a lot of fun. So good we’ve met him a few times over the last year or 2.

We were both extremely nervous before it though, still get nerves before meets now. But they tend to go as soon as the play starts

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
8 weeks ago

near you...

Very nervous but luckily we had chatted loads beforehand and we didn't waste much time worrying about stuff. We were lucky that they were experienced and knew what they wanted.

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By *lueman3Man
8 weeks ago

North

My first pre dated fab was on another website

I was newly single and had some holiday and got talking to two people so I took a trip. First meet was terrible I was so nervous thankfully I was not the only one there was more a gangbang.

Next night was better if arranged to meet an older woman in wales and things went amazing clicked right away. Sex was great felt more relaxed one on one.

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By *avidNPMan
8 weeks ago

manchester

I was really nervous but she is now my gf

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By *parkle1974Woman
8 weeks ago

Leeds

It was brilliant, still friends even after all this time.

I was nervous as hell and still do get butterflies....I think if I didn’t then I'd stop meeting x

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By *urFantasy21Couple
8 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

We invited a man over for a quick blow and go. We were terrified but it was incredibly exhilarating. A great first step for us x

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By *r K and Mrs LCouple
8 weeks ago

Leicester

We were scared to death, but that being said we have been friends ever since and we have lots of different types of fun and go to different clubs with them and do vanilla nights too.x

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By *erdyguy45Man
8 weeks ago

Solihull/milton keynes & other

It was about 6 months ago. Was meant to just be a social and was so nervous.

1 drink in she invited me back to hers and 6 hours later I left very tired and extremely happy.

Couldn't have gone better tbh

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By *issmorganWoman
8 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I was nervous. It wasn't great to be honest.. He came and went so to speak.

I always do a social first, nowadays.

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By * MRS ShyButNotShy MRSCouple
8 weeks ago

Stoke

I was very nervous. First time with a woman (Mrs here) but ended up loving it

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By *orestHardWoodMan
8 weeks ago

Lymington

Nervous of course 1st time, but if you treat the people you meet with respect, listen to them and read the body language you wont go far wrong even if you dont hit it off.

My old boss told me as a lad if I was ever nervous meeting someone super rich or famous I should imagine them naked with all their foibles and insecurities - worked brilliantly however not sure that would work with FAB meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Incredibly nervous , but the lady was utterly delightful and I did tell her before we met

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By *ttmOutdoors.Man
8 weeks ago

Walsall

Oh god it was awful

Out door meet started pissin down he cudnt get it up cuz said too nervy and my ass was too sexy?! 🤣

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By *un Gentlemen 777 OP Man
8 weeks ago

Petersfield

It's still a bit weird meeting someone and within minutes you are both naked and having sex and I have been swinging over 10 years but i still get a bit nervous meeting up with someone new

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By *vonCalling2022Couple
8 weeks ago

Whyteleafe

Was very nervous. A stranger watching me and my husband make love. But he was very complimentary, squeezing my hand, telling me I was very sexy….as the tempo built it became less weird and scary and it seemed natural to unzip our handsome guest and take him into my mouth.

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By *vonCalling2022Couple
8 weeks ago

Whyteleafe

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By *mwirralMan
8 weeks ago

surrey

Slightly nervous, was going to be massage and hand job as she was a massuse, but ended up in bed and me giving her an orgasm too, sadly she is no longer on here

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By *isser44Man
8 weeks ago

fylde Coast

More apprehensive really, we'd chatted for a while then arranged to go round hers for a drink, we got on great she teased me with a short denim skirt and no knickers and kept flashing me so that was fun then we had a lovely snog and she offered to suck my cock, obviously I accepted the offer and it took her about 30 seconds to get a mouthful of cum hahaha I was so turned on! We met a few times after then and didn't feel nervous at all, I think after that first meet all the nerves were put to bed. I think i get more nervous these days going on a meet thats why it tend to prefer a social first then theres no pressure or expectations.

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By *un Gentlemen 777 OP Man
8 weeks ago

Petersfield

"I’ll be honest I find it nervous every time I meet someone new. Over the years I have found regulars that i enjoy spending time with but life changes and you drift apart from those people. So being a single guy I find it extremely hard to find singles and couples. A lot of the time because of bad experiences with other single guy. So when you do meet someone new there’s always that risk of saying or doing wrong because these people rightly so have got their guards up because of poor experiences.

Unfortunate the bad ruined it for the genuine people"

I feel that too especially when they tell you of an experience with an idiot and just how desperate they are to get a fuck

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By *gp_sub01Man
8 weeks ago

Dundee (Malaga)

Vary rarely get meets (I know I know, wah wah wah) but the first one was probably about 10 years ago now.

Met a couple as his wife liked the look of me. The guy wanted to meet me first in a pub though to make sure I was not a maniac I guess. So I was nervous meeting him, and then when he decided I was alright, I was nervous again going up to the hotel to meet his wife!

All good though, as soon as the clothes came off it all came together

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By *evonrobMan
8 weeks ago

Kingsbridge

My experience mirrors most on here, really nervous in advance but as soon as the clothes came off everything was fine - better than fine!

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By *un Gentlemen 777 OP Man
8 weeks ago

Petersfield

After my first meet it felt strange that I had just had sex with a complete stranger but a good strange feeling

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By *orthernMan1991Man
8 weeks ago

Seaburn

My first time was luckily with another amazing couple, was so nervous but loved every minute of the meet as they helped makes me comfortable.... then more

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By *ohn 66Man
8 weeks ago

South Birmingham

My first meet from here was with a couple. Not sure whether it was nerves or excitement, probably 50% of each.

We met for a social in a pub garden, and nerves soon disappeared as we chatted. Then, waiting a week to meet at theirs was 1% nerves, 99% excitement

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By *un Gentlemen 777 OP Man
4 weeks ago

Petersfield

"My first meet from here was with a couple. Not sure whether it was nerves or excitement, probably 50% of each.

We met for a social in a pub garden, and nerves soon disappeared as we chatted. Then, waiting a week to meet at theirs was 1% nerves, 99% excitement

I think having a social is always better than just jumping straight in it's nice to get comfortable with each other and see where the boundaries are

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By *hinstrapMan
4 weeks ago

sheffield

Yeah was nervous as hell. Soon became chilled when her clothes fell off

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Motherwell

I met a well hung French lecturer on holiday in Glasgow and performed my first ever proper deep throat it was heaven. Mx 😈🍆

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

On my old profile i was lucky to vibe with and meet some nice girls , i was as nervous as you would be on a normal date but both off us soon put each other at ease

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By *ONDONCOUPLE111Man
4 weeks ago

london

Our first meeting as a couple was planned as a soft meet my mrs wanted to just full around and have this guy we had been talking to watch and wank ... we got down to it and we'll long story short shell got fucked left right and centre by both of use

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By *izzmonkeysCouple
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

A bit nervous but they were a lovely couple and as soon as we got down to it the nerves went out the window

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By *fffunCouple
4 weeks ago

Somewhere just outside London

Still yet to have a fab meet...

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By *arpe_diem36Man
4 weeks ago

york

My first meet on fab was shit. I was so nervous that I get a blowjob and I cum that quickly without getting hard. I felt so small that time. What did just happen to me. She looked to my face and she said are you for real,that's it i didn't even get a chance to enjoyed my self.

I was so devastated. This is my first meeting and my heart was that fast and my legs shaking and I looked into her eyes and I want to say sorry but I couldn't

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By *ohnhomeMan
4 weeks ago

Carlisle

It was 20 year ago and I was on a join profile and my girlfriend at the time knew they have a couple so he wasn’t very nervous

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By *nked199Man
4 weeks ago

Manchester

First meet was fantastic,I got invited to her house, answered the door looking super hot

Lots of seriously horny fun was had

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By *WB85Man
4 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Let me tell you my story and how not to do it.

When we started we'd been married for 10 years so the prospect of someone new was scary.

However....I did that thing which men do. Appeared over confident, was having crazy chats of what I wanted to do with a certain lady.....

Got in a room....was nervous as fuck, found it incredibly difficult to get hard and couldnt do half of what I wanted.

It was still an amazing experience, but lets just say that my approach is very different now.

Apparently its called writing cheques that your body cant cash lol.

Learn from my foolish ways gents.

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By *inding nemo888Couple
4 weeks ago

travelling

Our first meet was terrible, it was a last minute thing. We when round to his place (big mistake) and he wanted to get straight to it, so he marched us upstairs and it last a massive 3 minutes before he cum (we didn't even touch his cock) after that he said he was done

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
4 weeks ago

easington were the sun dont shine

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By *BW_BiWoman
4 weeks ago

BIRMINGHAM

Not done a meet because I like a social before, got stood up twice lol

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By *entmike76Man
4 weeks ago

bury

Quite nervous but after a couple of drinks in the hotel bar and flirty fun me and his wife soon went to the room.

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By *arly_tv31Man
4 weeks ago

Wrexham

Yes very nervous had to have a drink first! After cple of scotch was still nervous but soon settled down and had a great time

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By *homas400Man
4 weeks ago

Carmarthen / Llandeilo

I was incredibly nervous driving to my first meet. It was during day and I couldn't have a drink to settle my nerves. The couple I met were really lovely and down earth.

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By *annydevonMan
4 weeks ago

Exeter

Before this, I had experiences with GFs and friends in groups, public, strangers watching etc. So felt fairly confident.

First invitation was a club and it was amazing how welcoming and fun people were. I was nervous of how I might be perceived as a single man. Took time to make friends and understand the unspoken rules.

The first couple I met privately we went for quick casual drink. Felt very natural. Said he just wanted to watch, which I enjoy. The only worry was he wanted to film. Just had to trust them not to share the video

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By *orgetmeKnotCouple
4 weeks ago

Rainham, Kent

We were shitting ourselves haha. Spent many years hyping ourselves up about what we wanted to explore and had many conversations on other sites that never resulted in anything. When we signed up here we decided to just go for it and pick someone that ticked the boxes without too much conversation. We were very nervous but fortunately for us he was a true gentleman and very understanding which put us at ease and we ended up having an amazing first experience.

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By *axonmanMan
4 weeks ago

bradford

I’m a foreigner, and on my first meeting I practically forgot how to speak English. There were a lot of misunderstandings because of the language barrier. It was also my first time meeting a British woman, and I was really stressed. She quickly placed her hand on my thigh, which helped ease my stress. My first meeting was very stressful, but later it became really enjoyable.

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By *un Gentlemen 777 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Petersfield

"Not done a meet because I like a social before, got stood up twice lol"

Sorry to hear this we are not all like that you will find some good eggs on fab Xx

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By *amster1210Man
3 weeks ago

Haslingden

Was a good first meeting and happened with in a few days of joining, less time wasters around then

I still meet the couple now but he doesn't join in now and I just fuck her and leave a load in her lovely wet pussy

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By *heElvingtonTwoCouple
3 weeks ago

elvington

Was pretty nervous I have to say. It was just a social meetup/vibe check and in the end they weren’t for us but they were super nice people

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By *omeotherguyMan
3 weeks ago

Sheffield/London/Derbyshire

That's a great question. My first meet on my old account was over 15 years ago, I genuinely don't recall who or when. I think I should, but the time was a blur.

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By *ypersoonMan
3 weeks ago

WHITCHURCH, Shropshire

Recently had my first meet outside a club setting through Fabbers, the MF couple in question were polite & friendly, I returned the same back & we had a lovely evening.

I can be self-critical of myself if I feel at fault on something but they were so considerate & understanding, we've left each other a open door for all parties to consider a 2nd meet

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By *ab_paulMan
3 weeks ago

Hitchin

I was pretty nervous but he was so considerate and such a gent. And his lovely big cock helped, too

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By *amster1210Man
3 weeks ago

Haslingden

Was a good first meeting and happened with in a few days of joining, less time wasters around then

I still meet the couple now but he doesn't join in now and I just fuck her and leave a load in her lovely wet pussy

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By *oleraine-coupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Coleraine

We were nervous leading up to the meeting but once we met the guy in the bar we were actually ok. I (F) surprised myself with my confidence and anti just go with it.

The guy was nervous but not his first meet. He was nice but finished very quickly and was then done. Still we fucked like rabbits for weeks afterwards and gave us the desire to do it again.

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By *ositivity99Man
3 weeks ago

Herts

There’s always butterflies. That’s natural. But all fabs meets have been everything that’s good about the site

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By *redtMan
3 weeks ago

Newton Abbott

Yes very nervous. But it was also spontaneous using the ‘who’s near’ function in a camp site at Silverstone with 20,000 campers. There were quite a few fab ETD and we met in a large tent and had a social. One couple wanted to show off to everyone so we watched and it then seemed normal to play in front of everyone so me and another solo chap were soon wanking and being given a helping hand

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By *un Gentlemen 777 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Petersfield

"There’s always butterflies. That’s natural. But all fabs meets have been everything that’s good about the site "

Yeah I agree this is how I find it to be

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By *oomerangboyMan
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

My first meet was about 12-13 years ago, was papping myself, just a social meet, but she was ace, second meet was awesome, for ten years we met up as often as we could ! Not seen her for a few years now,

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By *un Gentlemen 777 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Petersfield

"My first meet was about 12-13 years ago, was papping myself, just a social meet, but she was ace, second meet was awesome, for ten years we met up as often as we could ! Not seen her for a few years now, "

The sex becomes so much better with a regular playmate dont you think?

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