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By *eekfreek00 OP   Man
17 weeks ago

Balbriggan

I've no attraction to men what so ever but I'm craving a cock in my ass. I have quite a large toy collection that sort of keeps me going, toys ranging from cock rings, flesh lights, vibrators, huge dildos, and a fuck machine lol...I just need a chick with a dick to take my anal virginity lol...any takers? X

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By *haggydogMan
17 weeks ago

Brooklands/London

You are definitely gay.

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By *encuckMan
17 weeks ago

edinburgh

I think about sucking bbc while they tell me how they would use my wife as they are looking at her pics

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
17 weeks ago

Home


"You are definitely gay."
probably bi and if he is that's his own business

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By *unhunter 71Man
17 weeks ago

Luton

Bi and l love a t-girl

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By *orkawayalotMan
17 weeks ago

love sex

Every one of us has thought about gay stuff at some point- if u say you havent your a liar. The same way we gave all looked at the urinals or in the gym showers etc.

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By *ound1Man
17 weeks ago

Blackpool

Agree

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By *he_13th_ghostWoman
17 weeks ago

Swindon

Wanting to fuck a t girl does t make you gay. T women are real women still

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By *ornyguy666Man
17 weeks ago

Nottingham


"You are definitely gay."
he is gay 100% no straight guy would want a guy to fuck him

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By *ovefist84Man
17 weeks ago

Oswestry


"You are definitely gay.he is gay 100% no straight guy would want a guy to fuck him"

I disagree. I think he is bisexual. I'm the same. I like a hard cock inside me, but also love pussy. It is hard for straight men to understand.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
17 weeks ago

cahoots


"Every one of us has thought about gay stuff at some point- if u say you havent your a liar. The same way we gave all looked at the urinals or in the gym showers etc."

That makes both of us liars then according to you.

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By *icki222TV/TS
17 weeks ago

Lincoln


"I've no attraction to men what so ever but I'm craving a cock in my ass. I have quite a large toy collection that sort of keeps me going, toys ranging from cock rings, flesh lights, vibrators, huge dildos, and a fuck machine lol...I just need a chick with a dick to take my anal virginity lol...any takers? X"

Why do we have to label everything? Just do what you’re comfortable with hunni. Oh and enjoy it to the max! 😋💋

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

"Not gay but..." is gayer than a gay...

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Chichester


"You are definitely gay.he is gay 100% no straight guy would want a guy to fuck him"

I take it bisexual people don’t exist then in your world. A woman into some pussy now and then is 100% lesbian right regardless if they are married

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By *appy-go- luckyMan
17 weeks ago

pothole city

Don’t worry about labels. Just do whatever makes you happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"I think about sucking bbc while they tell me how they would use my wife as they are looking at her pics"

A lot of men have this fantasy

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By *itrimmedMan
17 weeks ago

london

Go to a sauna. You’ll get as much cock as you want!

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By *ieandteaseMan
17 weeks ago

Wiltshire


"I think about sucking bbc while they tell me how they would use my wife as they are looking at her pics"

That's a good one

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By *earching01246Woman
17 weeks ago

Chesterfield


"Don’t worry about labels. Just do whatever makes you happy. "

I think it matters though. People expect honestly. Don’t be one of the fab straight gang.

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By *orthfieldsNickMan
17 weeks ago

West London

This doesn’t make you gay at all in my opinion. It makes you curious about experiencing a physical sexual sensation which is highly pleasurable for a lot of people.

For me homosexuality is about being physically, mentally and emotionally attracted to of the same sex. Individual acts which you’ve done or not done don’t change who or what you, that stuff just about sex and pleasure not identity

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By *eyeYCouple
17 weeks ago

Nr Leicester


"This doesn’t make you gay at all in my opinion. It makes you curious about experiencing a physical sexual sensation which is highly pleasurable for a lot of people.

For me homosexuality is about being physically, mentally and emotionally attracted to of the same sex. Individual acts which you’ve done or not done don’t change who or what you, that stuff just about sex and pleasure not identity "

Our opinion too, I'm attracted to women, so bi, D isn't attracted to men, we just put bi-curious for him, so as to upfront. But we're sure someone will correct us 😉

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
17 weeks ago

Leeds

Not gay but - definitely bi & definitely not straight.

Mrs

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By *issmorganWoman
17 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

You're bi op & that's fine.

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By *uliette500Woman
17 weeks ago

Hull

WOW.

The OP was brave enough to post what he wants and ask if anyone would like to meet him for this. All he gets is other people arguing about his sexuality and trying to label him.

He didnt ask for everyone else's opinion on what or who he is.

For a site that's supposed to open minded and accepting of others some on here can be very judgemental.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
17 weeks ago

Cheshire

Op, you decide your sexuality one same sex experience with someone isn’t an invitation to the next pride march.

People experiment, some at the spur of the moment, others after long periods of fantasy.

You’ve tried toys now you want to try the real thing, go ahead and if it doesn’t float your boat then that’s fine, if it does great just enjoy the experience.

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By *avidNPMan
17 weeks ago

manchester


"You are definitely gay."

He might be bi? Definitely not straight.

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By *avidNPMan
17 weeks ago

manchester


"You are definitely gay. probably bi and if he is that's his own business "

It is but he’s telling everyone about it so making it public.

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By *avidNPMan
17 weeks ago

manchester


"Wanting to fuck a t girl does t make you gay. T women are real women still "

I’d say it makes him bi if he’s playing with cock

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By *avidNPMan
17 weeks ago

manchester


"Every one of us has thought about gay stuff at some point- if u say you havent your a liar. The same way we gave all looked at the urinals or in the gym showers etc.

That makes both of us liars then according to you."

Think he’s trying to justify him having thoughts like what he suggested. If d dry one does it then it can’t be gay

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By *immers123Woman
17 weeks ago

South Molton

Sounds like you are bi curious? I don't have any desire to be with a woman as in a relationship, but I enjoy looking at boobs so I guess I'm bi curious. I enjoy lesbian porn but prefer the idea of actually having sex with men.

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By *teve64Man
17 weeks ago

sheffield

For me i am a human being. I like having sex with other human beings.

What is wrong with that and why do we need to label it?

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By *aandLoCouple
17 weeks ago

Southampton


"WOW.

The OP was brave enough to post what he wants and ask if anyone would like to meet him for this. All he gets is other people arguing about his sexuality and trying to label him.

He didnt ask for everyone else's opinion on what or who he is.

For a site that's supposed to open minded and accepting of others some on here can be very judgemental. "

There's so much to unpack in these comments isn't there? As you say for a supposed opened minded group of people too many insist on fixed labels, see everything as black and white, and love to judge other members.

For me it's important to read the content of a profile to understand someone's sexual preferences.

I started as straight and then changed it to bi-curious after playing with a few women. I don't consider myself bi as I'm not attracted to women, I don't even particularly fancy them in the traditional sense, but the sex is fun if I like the woman as a person. Is my label accurate? I have no idea and don't care. Read our profile, chat to us and let's see if we will enjoy sex together. 🤷

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By *avidNPMan
17 weeks ago

manchester

To be honest mate I don’t know why you are worried about what you are. Don’t label it and just go have your fun without being g bothered what everyone else thinks

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By *avidNPMan
17 weeks ago

manchester


"WOW.

The OP was brave enough to post what he wants and ask if anyone would like to meet him for this. All he gets is other people arguing about his sexuality and trying to label him.

He didnt ask for everyone else's opinion on what or who he is.

For a site that's supposed to open minded and accepting of others some on here can be very judgemental.

There's so much to unpack in these comments isn't there? As you say for a supposed opened minded group of people too many insist on fixed labels, see everything as black and white, and love to judge other members.

For me it's important to read the content of a profile to understand someone's sexual preferences.

I started as straight and then changed it to bi-curious after playing with a few women. I don't consider myself bi as I'm not attracted to women, I don't even particularly fancy them in the traditional sense, but the sex is fun if I like the woman as a person. Is my label accurate? I have no idea and don't care. Read our profile, chat to us and let's see if we will enjoy sex together. 🤷 "

Exactly why do be we all need to label things. Just be happy and be you.

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By *avidNPMan
17 weeks ago

manchester


"For me i am a human being. I like having sex with other human beings.

What is wrong with that and why do we need to label it?"

I’m

Pleased to hear you like having sex with human beings. Having sex with anything else is a bit wrong🤣

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By *ackandsashaCouple
17 weeks ago

West Dublin

Sex is just a physical thing. If you had a blindfold on and played with a couple, you would never know who is sucking your cock or licking your pussy. Would it feel any better or worse ?.

If you want to try something, try it. Maybe you'll like it, maybe you won't.

Also....btw.... the amount of incredibly tough guys who enjoy intimacy when in prison is well documented. Just saying.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
17 weeks ago

Norwich ish

Guarantee plenty of “straight” guys have gone to a club popped their member through the glory hole and been satisfied without knowing who did what to them the other side. In that moment did they even care? Probably not. Did they think about the label? Again probably not.

As others have said labels are unimportant, just do you and if anyone wants to judge you and label you, just ignore them.

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By *umblefunMan
17 weeks ago

East Devon and London

Let’s be honest. We are all judgemental and we all apply labels.

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By *avidNPMan
17 weeks ago

manchester


"Let’s be honest. We are all judgemental and we all apply labels. "

Not all I hate labels in this world

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By *umblefunMan
17 weeks ago

East Devon and London

Ahh, so you’re a label hater.

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By *avidNPMan
17 weeks ago

manchester


"Ahh, so you’re a label hater."

Not a hater as I don’t hate

Just choose not to use them

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By *avidNPMan
17 weeks ago

manchester


"Ahh, so you’re a label hater."

Even though I said I hate labels 🤣

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By *horskin!Man
17 weeks ago

your kink

Love to give the guys a video call to play for them 121 or a group of guys watching

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By * D 777Man
17 weeks ago

bathgate

Bi curious an dude at least your open to that hope it works out for you

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By *horskin!Man
17 weeks ago

your kink


"Bi curious an dude at least your open to that hope it works out for you "
its been going well so far

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
17 weeks ago

Perpignan and cap

Hey op, get on grinder you'll have suiters within an hour. Tell them what you want, where you are and where to meet. What you're looking for and turn down the ugly ones. Play safe and it'll all be over within a couple of hours. You can then make your own mind up if you liked it and what your sexuality is. Please don't forget to come back to this thread to tell us all about it. Sex is best experienced in the first person. Crack on pal and good luck. XX

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

In the general bi/pan cloud there areen who are heteexible or men who are heteroromantic and bisexual. A lot of these guys find solutions in swinging circles where they find other men who just enjoy fucking and coming together but there's no kissing and romantic actions.

I enjoyed having a mate who just enjoyed guy on guy fucking for years. I'm bi but he's just a straight-ish lad who likes the stimulation.

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By *on_20Couple
17 weeks ago

Manchester and Cardiff

I’m a bit lost. He said he wants a woman to peg him. So why are people saying he is gay/bi?

K (female)

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By *onto888Man
16 weeks ago

basildon

I love cock and fanny

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