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By *fterHoursTemptingTwosome OP   Couple
21 weeks ago

lincs

So, not sure if it’s just me/us. But is it actually difficult to find couples to chat to? I don’t know if I/we are doing something wrong? Our inbox is full of men just sending usual hey you’re tits are nice or similar🤣 I mean it’s nice to read I guess but not what we’re looking for.

Looking for chats with couples and then progression to socials etc but it just seems hard to come by 🤣🫠

What we doing wrong or what do we need to do 🤣

Xx Mrs xX

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By *ittlebirdWoman
21 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Hi OPs

I don’t think you’re doing anything wrong at all. But if you’re going to find single men yourselves then just filter them out and stop them messaging you. That will help to start with. Going to your first club night seems like a success from your veris so that’s a brilliant start. There’s no rush. The forums are a great place to make likeminded friends and being in Humberside, Hull has a lively swinging scene (I’m from Humberside) so you should be able to make friends as you go along.

I hope you enjoy every minute of your journey 🌈

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By *oupleforadventureCouple
21 weeks ago

ipswich

Hi! We find the same thing

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By *imzjimCouple
21 weeks ago

South Lakes, Cumbria

♂️same for us. Many thirsty men

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By *ittlebirdWoman
21 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I honestly would just block single men. It will help

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By *oozleMan
21 weeks ago

high wycombe


"I honestly would just block single men. It will help "

Oh no… don’t block me… I will be good!!

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By *andaloriansCouple
21 weeks ago

Malvern

We have this, just divvies and chancers sending dopey messeges. But, once in a while, we do get some decent messeges from people, it does happen!

S

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By *and12Couple
21 weeks ago

flint

We found it similar until we attended a couple of socials then it went from strength to strength people got to know us

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By *attooedlad445Couple
21 weeks ago

london

We only look for bigger older men 60+ massive cocks

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By *partharmonyCouple
21 weeks ago

Tonbridge

We love a chat. Unfortunately you're a bit far away to think about where it would go but we'll absolutely have a good old natter about all sorts of shiz.

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By *utts10Man
21 weeks ago

beddington

Not just you..

Having a great personality but major problems with the best way to get a reply from anyone 😕

🤣🤣🤣

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By *oulette 2Couple
21 weeks ago

solihull

We have a load of guys txt us all single they all won't pics can't have a decent conversion

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By *assion 4 lickingMan
21 weeks ago

Leeds

No im not having that issue but I am with single women and im very popular with the TS

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By *ornyguy666Man
21 weeks ago

Nottingham

Those rude disrespectful single males ruined it for everyone put all theladies and couples off please grow up

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By *issmorganWoman
21 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm half a couple and the lack of pics of the man, would put me off chatting, sorry.

It's something so many couples do, and it often takes ages for me to see the mam, that we no longer chat to couples where the man isn't v visible.

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By *issmorganWoman
21 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

The reason you're getting so many men Tbf, is because you're just showing the lady do much and a cock pic. So it doesn't look like a couple account.

Block men if you're not seeking them.

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By *ergus1622Man
21 weeks ago

Dundee

It's never easy to find what/who you're after and filtering out the tryhards

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By *r K and Mrs LCouple
21 weeks ago

Leicester

Same here OP…x

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By *ustus5555Woman
21 weeks ago

Nottingham

Your not doing anything wrong. Sadly most seem to think this place is a easy hook up site, but if your looking to make friends that also swing it's going to take quite a while. As ppl have said, going to a club is a great start, so you just keep doing you and the rest will follow. Best of luck. Xx

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
21 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

We have the exact same we can’t find couples at all and being in a small city doesn’t help

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By *nvader2021Couple
21 weeks ago

Watford

We’re having the same issue tbf….and we’ve got a few nice pictures of Mr.

Our main finding is that couples message, we message back and then hear nothing lol.

Oh well we’re still here for a social and have met a couple of nice end/single guys to boot.. xx

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