FabSwingers.com forum: Exploring boundaries

By *G Lana OP TV/TS
21 weeks ago

Gosport

I have alway been nervous about trying out sensory play and light bandage, partly because I have never been in a situation I have felt safe to do so. A couple of weeks ago I attended an event where I was introduced to some gentle sensory play and now I am eager to explore this area further but with the proviso that it has to be done somewhere that there are others around for ensuring safety and boundaries are respected.

I would love to hear what boundaries are you interested in exploring.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
21 weeks ago

norwich ish

Good to hear you were in a safe space when exploring a new kink/play.

It is so important if not playing within a trusted relationship to have good people around, the kink scene is pretty good for self monitoring and any play partners should be happy to refer you to others who have played with them for assurances.

I’m not sure there are any areas we particularly want to explore but maybe locations. We have for the last year been looking to do some rope work in the great outdoors preferably with suspension. Hopefully we can make that happen this year.

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By *ogerroger69Man
21 weeks ago

West Yorks

Sexual boundaries often become quickly eroded in the heat of the moment x

Agreed?

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By *ensualMan
21 weeks ago

Sutton

"I have alway been nervous about trying out sensory play and light bandage, partly because I have never been in a situation I have felt safe to do so. A couple of weeks ago I attended an event where I was introduced to some gentle sensory play and now I am eager to explore this area further but with the proviso that it has to be done somewhere that there are others around for ensuring safety and boundaries are respected.

I would love to hear what boundaries are you interested in exploring."

Have you heard of Peer Rope Events? These are monthly vanilla, non-sexual inclusive events open to all where people go to tie and be tied and practise their skills. Where you are, you have about 3 events within an hour of you.

For me boundaries are boundaries and they are in place. The real interest for me is reaction and surrender to the rope, which is not surrender to sex, but the person being tied surrender to the process of being tied.

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By *WANDTGCouple
21 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

"Sexual boundaries often become quickly eroded in the heat of the moment x

Agreed?"

Incorrect, that's not how you play, hence a safe word, if they ever ignore that safe word then all trust has gone. If you are restrained and gagged then there are other options. A ball or bich of keys in your hand that you drop if you can't speak. So there are no reasons to cross boundaries.

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