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WHY NOT MORE OLDER LADIES

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By *woamigos OP   Couple
21 weeks ago

harrow

hi all.

we just wondered why there arent more older ladies on here. there are hundreds of older guys, many very nice and genuine but single.

is it that older ladies fear that their body isnt what it once was or do they fear being branded as a tart or a whore.

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By *litterbabeWoman
21 weeks ago

hiding from cock pics

I don't necessarily think it's that at all.

In my circle of friends from here there are plenty of older ladies, although I guess it depends what you feel is "older"

For some ladies....

Maybe they have very busy lives and aren't looking to add sexual encounters to their activities. Maybe they go to clubs more and don't find fab an effective use of their time.

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By *ornyguy666Man
21 weeks ago

Nottingham


"hi all.

we just wondered why there arent more older ladies on here. there are hundreds of older guys, many very nice and genuine but single.

is it that older ladies fear that their body isnt what it once was or do they fear being branded as a tart or a whore.

"
I try yo get older ladies but no success

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By *eeejayMan
21 weeks ago

Ramsgate

I love an older woman.. they need appreciating 🙌🏻

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By *woamigos OP   Couple
21 weeks ago

harrow

ok Glitterbabe, thanks for your reply. i guess that could be a reason. we have only been to a club once and there seemed to be more older guys than ladies there although i guess the ladies could have persuaded a friend to take them x

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By *naswingdressWoman
21 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Maybe they don't want to.

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By *woamigos OP   Couple
21 weeks ago

harrow

nice photos btw.....david xx

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By *rnoldZiffelMan
21 weeks ago

Leinster

I agree Glitterbabe & would add that the lasting effects of the menopause steals the sex drives of so many women sobinbtheir latter years, aging & menopause combined makes sex, let alone Fab, unappealing.

Also, as I'm sure you'll agree,there are many guys (not the majority thankfully) on Fab who treat the women on cam as if they are some kind of 'stripper' or 'performer'. Most women (mature/older) I know rightly wouldn't take kindly to that sort of treatment that was most likely disyed out to them at home or in the workplace in the 70's & 80's.

p.s. Glitterbabe, while I enjoy my wine, I like to pour rum over my pancakes, pop it in the microwave and then when it's steaming, put a scoop of ice cream in. Roll it up into a tube and enjoy.


"I don't necessarily think it's that at all.

In my circle of friends from here there are plenty of older ladies, although I guess it depends what you feel is "older"

For some ladies....

Maybe they have very busy lives and aren't looking to add sexual encounters to their activities. Maybe they go to clubs more and don't find fab an effective use of their time. "

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By *woamigos OP   Couple
21 weeks ago

harrow

of course they may not want to but most people like sex and there are hundreds of men on here without partners so we were wondering where all the ladies were x

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By *woamigos OP   Couple
21 weeks ago

harrow

agree Arnold, we have found that some men on here have no respect for women at all but Admin obviously cant remove them x

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By *osh bitch n hornyCouple
21 weeks ago

Warrington

How old do you want we are both 69

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By *arkJonesMan
21 weeks ago

Bangor


"How old do you want we are both 69"

Lovely age.

I'm just down the road in north Wales and love a daytime meet...

If you do find yourselves seeking a single guy...please say hello.

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By *rnoldZiffelMan
21 weeks ago

Leinster


"agree Arnold, we have found that some men on here have no respect for women at all but Admin obviously cant remove them x"

I think they get banned, re-register a new free account under a new name & continue on where they left off.

I'm sure Fab Admin have toyed with the idea of having Chatrooms solely for well verified couples & females or 'meet' verified users but if the had those I reckon there'd only be men & fake females/couples in the remaining rooms.

I dunno about you guys but there are fewer a d fewer ladies/couples on cam in recent years. Fab has suffered from competition from other sites, those with Gram & Graph in their names perhaps. I'm not a user of them myself but....

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By *lutsadieTV/TS
21 weeks ago

Hinckley

I love the very mature older ladies xxx especially if they are Dominant its wonderful being punnished by very very mature ladies xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
21 weeks ago

East Sussex

It's because we have excellent bull shit detectors and just can't be bothered with it all. Those of us who stick with it do so because we haven't quite given up hope

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By *om4384Man
21 weeks ago

Waterloo


"How old do you want we are both 69"
And you’re looking great for your age - very sexy couple 😉

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By *ill Hill FunseekersCouple
21 weeks ago

london

There seem to be plenty of them here. C

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By *rnoldZiffelMan
21 weeks ago

Leinster

My thoughts exactly.Many now 'Senior ladies', if I can use that term, lived through the male dominated workplaces in the 70's & 80's & know they don't have to put up with misogyny on Fab in the new millenium.


"It's because we have excellent bull shit detectors and just can't be bothered with it all. Those of us who stick with it do so because we haven't quite given up hope "

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By *ellinever70Woman
21 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I think there comes a point in a woman's life where she just cares no more for the incessant nonsense of men

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By *rnoldZiffelMan
21 weeks ago

Leinster

If ever there was a community [probably too grand a term for Fab] where females truly have the upper hand, it's Fab. That said, for me there's long been a need for the site owners to do something to control abuse of women, reduce the numbers of real females/couples leaving and instead make it an attractive place for new female/couples members.

One thing they might try is charging unverified members, make the verification process tight & offer free one year full membership to genuine females and couples possibly as soon as they are meet verified.

But I'm no accountant so what do I know.


"I think there comes a point in a woman's life where she just cares no more for the incessant nonsense of men"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
21 weeks ago

East Sussex


"If ever there was a community [probably too grand a term for Fab] where females truly have the upper hand, it's Fab. That said, for me there's long been a need for the site owners to do something to control abuse of women, reduce the numbers of real females/couples leaving and instead make it an attractive place for new female/couples members.

One thing they might try is charging unverified members, make the verification process tight & offer free one year full membership to genuine females and couples possibly as soon as they are meet verified.

But I'm no accountant so what do I know.

I think there comes a point in a woman's life where she just cares no more for the incessant nonsense of men"

I think controlling abuse lies firmly in the hands of the abusers.

The site has a report system in place and there are mail filters, FAQs, safer meets and sexual health links at the bottom of the home page

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By *rnoldZiffelMan
21 weeks ago

Leinster

Sure, you're 100% correct Nicecouple, those people should not engage in abusive behaviours and the - very overworked & unrewarded - Mods, like yourselves do a great job in firing out immediate bans & keeping an eye on what's being said

As I understand it though, on Fab, an individual can repeatedly leave or get banned but then return to open another account & continue their behaviour. I doubt that use of the "Report" option can solve that issue or does it?.

N.B. I am only commenting based on what others have said in various chatrooms to me over the years I've been on Fab. I'm not female so I've only experienced few & comparatively minor instances of aggressive behaviour (from both men & women).

I enjoy lots of things about Fab & that's why I renew my membership but other than adding an extra Chatroom & allowing videos, it hasn't improved very much over the 10+ years I've been on. That said, I appreciate that it is a victim of the trends seen on Social Media sites and most of them are far better resourced but can't solve it either.

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By *INKYLOVE69Couple
21 weeks ago

Chesterfield

I hope I've got a few more years left in me yet

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By *rnoldZiffelMan
21 weeks ago

Leinster

I'm sure you both do


"I hope I've got a few more years left in me yet "

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By *woamigos OP   Couple
21 weeks ago

harrow

from looking at your pics id say you have x

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By *he MinionMan
21 weeks ago

Surrey

I'm a fan of women in general. The age part doesnt come into my thinking. If we click, we click, regardless of age.

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
21 weeks ago

Somerset

My guess is because that there are a million and one better places for older women to meet single men ( or women)for sex than Fab. I believe it’s the same for single men too, but many believe signing up here will be easier than the real world or vanilla dating sites. Women know that finding someone to have sex with is simple, It’s the finding someone you want to have sex with that’s a bit trickier. What you won’t generally find in real life or vanilla dating apps is sex with couples or other more niche experiences. That’s where Fab is great.

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By *assyasspairCouple
21 weeks ago

the Staffordshire Moorlands


"It's because we have excellent bull shit detectors and just can't be bothered with it all. Those of us who stick with it do so because we haven't quite given up hope "

This LOL x

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By *andb69Couple
21 weeks ago

leeds

I'm an older woman, and I play with men of all ages. However I have no intention of fucking guys who have an age fetish. I want to be wanted because someone thinks I'm sexy or attractive, not because I'm old.

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By *vonCalling2022Couple
21 weeks ago

Whyteleafe


"I'm an older woman, and I play with men of all ages. However I have no intention of fucking guys who have an age fetish. I want to be wanted because someone thinks I'm sexy or attractive, not because I'm old."

This. Emma x

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By *he MinionMan
21 weeks ago

Surrey


"I'm an older woman, and I play with men of all ages. However I have no intention of fucking guys who have an age fetish. I want to be wanted because someone thinks I'm sexy or attractive, not because I'm old."

I find you attractive and very sexy 😇🤭

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By *aulgreen22Man
21 weeks ago

English Riviera Torquay & Finchley

Love older ladies

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By *ornyguy666Man
21 weeks ago

Nottingham

Been trying to find old mature ladies is like looking for needle in the haystack

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By *woamigos OP   Couple
21 weeks ago

harrow

thank you for saying.

we hope our post didnt come across wrongly. we wouldnt want to be with either a man or woman because of anything to do with age but because we fancy them and they fancy us.

we just wondered why there werent more older ladies on here when there are so many older men looking ....anna x

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By *woamigos OP   Couple
21 weeks ago

harrow

thank you for saying.

we hope our post didnt come across wrongly. we wouldnt want to be with either a man or woman because of anything to do with age but because we fancy them and they fancy us.

we just wondered why there werent more older ladies on here when there are so many older men looking ....anna x

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By *rnoldZiffelMan
21 weeks ago

Leinster

Very well said.


"My guess is because that there are a million and one better places for older women to meet single men ( or women)for sex than Fab. I believe it’s the same for single men too, but many believe signing up here will be easier than the real world or vanilla dating sites. Women know that finding someone to have sex with is simple, It’s the finding someone you want to have sex with that’s a bit trickier. What you won’t generally find in real life or vanilla dating apps is sex with couples or other more niche experiences. That’s where Fab is great. "

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By *rnoldZiffelMan
21 weeks ago

Leinster

It's a very good topic for discussion Anna and I think it's clear that there are very many reasons why the number of old ladies is less than thatbof 9lder men.


"thank you for saying.

we hope our post didnt come across wrongly. we wouldnt want to be with either a man or woman because of anything to do with age but because we fancy them and they fancy us.

we just wondered why there werent more older ladies on here when there are so many older men looking ....anna x "

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