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By *erbys_couple OP   Couple
21 weeks ago

Derby

Recently was told that our profile contains too many pictures of Mrs vs Mr.

Keen to hear other people’s thoughts on this. I thought people generally would rather see more of her than me.

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By *sWyldWoman
21 weeks ago

Edinburgh

In general if I was looking to meet a couple I want to see both

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By *inkShyWoman
21 weeks ago

near Windsor

If people want to meet a couple they generally want to see both parties equally.

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By *earditallWoman
21 weeks ago

Lancaster

I like to see some pics of the guys also but most pocs contain more of the lady,I like pics together also

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By *abulincsCouple
21 weeks ago

near a bridge

As it’s so difficult to meet couples and mainly meets guys as and when is our reason as im insignificant but do send pics of both of us if couples contact us

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By *r SproutMan
21 weeks ago

M54

As you’re looking for couples i understand that comment, 4 way attraction and all that. Your Mrs is the main, but not the only selling point of your profile to attract people you are looking for.

But I’m not what you’re looking for so my input isn’t important

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
21 weeks ago

South Wales

There are only pics of me on the profile but that’s because we’re mainly looking for single men…….if we were looking on here to meet couples we would add some pics of my husband but as yet it hasn’t been an issue xx 😘

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By *hunky GentMan
21 weeks ago

Market Deeping

A good variety of both of you would be best - imo.

So long as they're not just cock pics.

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By *vonne5exMan
21 weeks ago

Doncaster


"Recently was told that our profile contains too many pictures of Mrs vs Mr.

Keen to hear other people’s thoughts on this. I thought people generally would rather see more of her than me. "
It's the Mrs who attracts the interest

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By *partharmonyCouple
21 weeks ago

Tonbridge

It is true that there will be more interest in the woman in a couple than a man, but it is important to show both. Most don't. Attraction to him is relevant if he's hoping to be involved.

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By *uriousCouple20224Couple
21 weeks ago

nottingham


"Recently was told that our profile contains too many pictures of Mrs vs Mr.

Keen to hear other people’s thoughts on this. I thought people generally would rather see more of her than me. "

We don't mind seeing profiles that are heavily weighted to pics of one half of the couple.

What we see a lot of though is profiles where there is zero pictures of the Mr.

This is particularly frustrating when they have winked us or gone to the effort of messaging us..

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By *ellhungvweMan
21 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I think it depends on what you are looking for. I tend to see those couple profiles that are looking for a guy for her and, therefore, they tend to have more pictures of her. People looking for other things will have different picture ratios.

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By *uriousCouple20224Couple
21 weeks ago

nottingham


"There are only pics of me on the profile but that’s because we’re mainly looking for single men…….if we were looking on here to meet couples we would add some pics of my husband but as yet it hasn’t been an issue xx 😘 "

If couples are mainly after men and not other couples then that's totally understandable

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By *ornyguy666Man
21 weeks ago

Nottingham


"Recently was told that our profile contains too many pictures of Mrs vs Mr.

Keen to hear other people’s thoughts on this. I thought people generally would rather see more of her than me. "
more of Mrs please

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By *rightonsteveMan
21 weeks ago

Hove, mainly…

Mr is straight so no use to me so yeah, more Mrs pics please

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By *erald 1999Man
21 weeks ago

carmarthen

Never enough in my opinion

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By *orgetmeKnotCouple
21 weeks ago

Rainham, Kent

If you're a full swap couple then I think it's reasonable to want to see pictures of both. The idea that the female is the selling point only applies if you're predominantly after single men or bi woman play. We're a swap couple and J wouldn't be interested in meeting if she can't see the male half.

That being said, we of course expect many profiles to have more female photos than the male, but if there's so little that you have to scroll through pages of photos to get a glimpse of the male then it can be a little annoying.

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By *avidNPMan
21 weeks ago

manchester

If it’s a couples profile it’s nice to see you both.

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By *tarcrossed_SwingersCouple
21 weeks ago

Leicester

Yeah quite bluntly, you wouldnt be interested in another profile if it was all photos of the woman rather than the man...

As long as there are significant photos inbetween the masses of female ones, thats fine.

The problem is is when there's 100 of the woman and one obscured old photo of the man!

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21 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

As a couple profile if your wanting to meet and play with other couples then should have pictures of both but if your only looking to play with male or female then you have pictures of what ever appeals to that group of people.

As we’re a full swap couple , which we we like everyone to be involved , we want to see who we might be playing with and for them to see us x

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By *erbys_couple OP   Couple
21 weeks ago

Derby


"Yeah quite bluntly, you wouldnt be interested in another profile if it was all photos of the woman rather than the man...

As long as there are significant photos inbetween the masses of female ones, thats fine.

The problem is is when there's 100 of the woman and one obscured old photo of the man! "

Agreed, but our pictures aren’t just of the lady and certainly not 100/1. Your profile is approximately 5/1 in favour of the lady. Is that deemed an acceptable ratio if looking to meet couples too?

Being blunt is fine if that’s how you feel about it. This post was meant to invite honest opinions and constructive feedback, that’s all.

The private messages have been very positive and constructive so thank you.

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By *erbys_couple OP   Couple
21 weeks ago

Derby


"If you're a full swap couple then I think it's reasonable to want to see pictures of both. The idea that the female is the selling point only applies if you're predominantly after single men or bi woman play. We're a swap couple and J wouldn't be interested in meeting if she can't see the male half.

That being said, we of course expect many profiles to have more female photos than the male, but if there's so little that you have to scroll through pages of photos to get a glimpse of the male then it can be a little annoying. "

Understand that point and agree, but why does more pictures of the lady only apply if we are looking for singles. Surely our profile says what we are looking for? Or should people draw that from our pics?

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By *orgetmeKnotCouple
21 weeks ago

Rainham, Kent


"If you're a full swap couple then I think it's reasonable to want to see pictures of both. The idea that the female is the selling point only applies if you're predominantly after single men or bi woman play. We're a swap couple and J wouldn't be interested in meeting if she can't see the male half.

That being said, we of course expect many profiles to have more female photos than the male, but if there's so little that you have to scroll through pages of photos to get a glimpse of the male then it can be a little annoying.

Understand that point and agree, but why does more pictures of the lady only apply if we are looking for singles. Surely our profile says what we are looking for? Or should people draw that from our pics? "

I didn't say more female pictures only apply if looking for singles, I said the idea that the female is the selling point only applies if you're looking for single men and bi women...otherwise both should be the selling point (as it's a couple after all)

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By *andb69Couple
21 weeks ago

leeds


"Recently was told that our profile contains too many pictures of Mrs vs Mr.

Keen to hear other people’s thoughts on this. I thought people generally would rather see more of her than me. "

My thoughts on this are that you should use your profile exactly as YOU want to use it, and never mind what other people say. For every person that says they don't like it there are probably twenty that do. If it works for you that's all that matters.

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By *andb69Couple
21 weeks ago

leeds


"Recently was told that our profile contains too many pictures of Mrs vs Mr.

Keen to hear other people’s thoughts on this. I thought people generally would rather see more of her than me.

My thoughts on this are that you should use your profile exactly as YOU want to use it, and never mind what other people say. For every person that says they don't like it there are probably twenty that do. If it works for you that's all that matters. "

.....and P.S. given that you've had 37 verifications your profile clearly works!

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By *uperstar76Woman
21 weeks ago

North Lanarkshire

Its your profile you do as you wish on there, im also not looking to meet couples but its always amazed me that couples profiles always seem to be about the woman and just a few shots of the gent usually with his dick out

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
21 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It all depends on whom you're looking for. If it's people for you both to play with, then you need pics of you both on it.

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By *p4fun60Couple
21 weeks ago

Hampshire

As the female of the couple & the one that deals with all the fabmin, I dont think it really matters, the main profile pics are all of me for eye candy & to reel other couples in, if they like them & our profile attracts as well,then obviously we swap face pics, it is very difficult to get a 4 way attraction,but once the initial contact has been made then its the hard bit of getting 4 x diaries to align for a meet not having pics of hubbie on the profile as never caused an issue to be honest, roll with what you're comfortable with

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By *a LunaWoman
21 weeks ago

Wales

I think the pic of Mr shows all that needs to be seen

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By *eyeYCouple
21 weeks ago

Nr Leicester


"Recently was told that our profile contains too many pictures of Mrs vs Mr.

Keen to hear other people’s thoughts on this. I thought people generally would rather see more of her than me. "

Would agree with your feelings, Y gets infinitely more attention than I, but our thoughts are that we meet and play together so we should have a relatively equal presence.

But it's utterly your profile and your choice 👊

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By *osh bitch n hornyCouple
21 weeks ago

Warrington

We think it works both ways. Pictures of both men and ladies dressed semi dressed and naked

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By *ilts-warm-cplCouple
21 weeks ago

WARMINSTER


"There are only pics of me on the profile but that’s because we’re mainly looking for single men…….if we were looking on here to meet couples we would add some pics of my husband but as yet it hasn’t been an issue xx 😘 "

We are the same, until we actively seek other couples, we shall mainly post pictures of me.

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