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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is a small cock a turn off??

Honest answers please.

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By *iss__KittyWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in Cornwall

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My honest opinion is, and i must stress i cam only speak from my own experiences

i have always found men with small cocks better at oral, i have found men with big cocks tend to think that's all they need to bring to the party and put very little effort into pleasing me as they think their big cock is enough to do that, where as guys with small cocks know they are small so tend to make up for it in other departments and i for one would sooner have a good tongue than a big cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My honest opinion is, and i must stress i cam only speak from my own experiences

i have always found men with small cocks better at oral, i have found men with big cocks tend to think that's all they need to bring to the party and put very little effort into pleasing me as they think their big cock is enough to do that, where as guys with small cocks know they are small so tend to make up for it in other departments and i for one would sooner have a good tongue than a big cock "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes"

brutal lol

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Depends how small??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends how small?? "

I am 5 inches erect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends how small?? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My honest opinion is, and i must stress i cam only speak from my own experiences

i have always found men with small cocks better at oral, i have found men with big cocks tend to think that's all they need to bring to the party and put very little effort into pleasing me as they think their big cock is enough to do that, where as guys with small cocks know they are small so tend to make up for it in other departments and i for one would sooner have a good tongue than a big cock "

same as

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you class as small but i will answer honestly and say acorns are a turn off me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But on the other hand absolutely massive cocks are a turn off also some positions can be painful id rather have average with good skills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ur average mate. wouldnt worry about it

most will be ok with ur size i imagine. just give those looking for VWE a miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends how small??

I am 5 inches erect "

5 inches isn't that small but it will seem pale in comparison with the "look at my big knob" brigade...

A lot of the women I know are looking for a more rounded package of sexual skills not just a huge dick and as someone has already pointed out, guys with big cocks often seem to think that's all they have to bring to the table...

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Depends how small??

I am 5 inches erect "

That's not tiny small. I've seen much MUCH smaller on here! And obviously a lot bigger. Just make sure your shit hot with your fingers and tongue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends how small??

I am 5 inches erect "

5Inches is fine, i enjoy fingers and tongues so size isnt that important xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your are pretty close to me nurse DD,

Would love to show you my tongue and finger skills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its what you do with it that counts

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By *issmekate xxxWoman
over a year ago

Non Vanilla Land

Have to agree with previous posters ... it is ALL down to personal preference ... but I have to say I would much rather have a variety of skills over a large appendage any day of the week !!! And yes ... although it is a gross generalisation ... those with a large cock seem to think that they do not have to try too hard at anything else !!! Wrong !! Wrong !! Wrong !!

Hope this helps xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My honest opinion is, and i must stress i cam only speak from my own experiences

i have always found men with small cocks better at oral, i have found men with big cocks tend to think that's all they need to bring to the party and put very little effort into pleasing me as they think their big cock is enough to do that, where as guys with small cocks know they are small so tend to make up for it in other departments and i for one would sooner have a good tongue than a big cock "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My honest opinion is, and i must stress i cam only speak from my own experiences

i have always found men with small cocks better at oral, i have found men with big cocks tend to think that's all they need to bring to the party and put very little effort into pleasing me as they think their big cock is enough too do that, where as guys with small cocks know they are small so tend to make up for it in other departments and i for one would sooner have a good tongue than a big cock "

i agree ive noticed this in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fail to understand this whole 'small cock/good tongue' argument that keep cropping up, as though enjoyment of cunnilingus is somehow a prerequisite for being a good lover? Personally, I'm not a huge fan of going down on a woman, though I don't rule it out (depending on my mood), however I'm not the sort of guy who thinks just because he has a big cock means her can pound away and everything's fine and dandy either. If a well endowed guy is one who enjoys taking a relaxed, sensitive and gentle approach to sex, then the entire act of sex itself becomes the pleasurable part rather than just the specific sexual acts, and his big cock is the icing on the cake.

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By *cEvil and BlueangelCouple
over a year ago

Co Durham

My ex husband was a member of the VWE party.

I agree with a previous poster....sometimes they rely to heavily on the biggun and havnt much else in their repertoire.

Only my 2 cents worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fail to understand this whole 'small cock/good tongue' argument that keep cropping up, as though enjoyment of cunnilingus is somehow a prerequisite for being a good lover? Personally, I'm not a huge fan of going down on a woman, though I don't rule it out (depending on my mood), however I'm not the sort of guy who thinks just because he has a big cock means her can pound away and everything's fine and dandy either. If a well endowed guy is one who enjoys taking a relaxed, sensitive and gentle approach to sex, then the entire act of sex itself becomes the pleasurable part rather than just the specific sexual acts, and his big cock is the icing on the cake."

I rather suspect the fact you don't like going down on a woman is why you don't understand the argument

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"My honest opinion is, and i must stress i cam only speak from my own experiences

i have always found men with small cocks better at oral, i have found men with big cocks tend to think that's all they need to bring to the party and put very little effort into pleasing me as they think their big cock is enough to do that, where as guys with small cocks know they are small so tend to make up for it in other departments and i for one would sooner have a good tongue than a big cock "

And yet I have found the opposite. Well-endowed guys have good oral and fingering skills as they know they have to prepare a woman well. Smaller guys I've been with have generally not been as skilled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I If a well endowed guy is

one who enjoys taking a relaxed, sensitive and gentle approach to sex, then the entire act of sex itself becomes the pleasurable part rather than just the specific sexual acts, and his big cock is the icing on the cake."

If ANY man takes such an approach thenthe size of his cock is surely immaterial...

And I'm afraid that by describing a big cock as icing on a cake like it was some kind of bonus, is just utterly contradicting what was in essence a reasonable point...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer nice girth rather than length

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

The bigger the better for Nick, the search goes on.............

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it all really depends on what you like

I prefer oral to full sex, and im not over keen on big cocks, personally I would sooner have someone average or slightly below with a good tongue than a big guy who's not a fan of giving oral, I can only come thro oral so a guy who didn't give oral wouldn't do it for me and I certainly wouldn't re meet a guy who didn't give, tho cumming every time isn't the be all and end all I wouldn't keep meeting a guy who never made me cum

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

No....

Its about having FUN and that can be achieved regardless of cock size...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No....

Its about having FUN and that can be achieved regardless of cock size..."

I ageee and perfect for Anal

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By *oasterCockbumMan
over a year ago

Highway 61

Diz it no depend oan whether yer gonny hoy it inty a muckle gapin chasm or no ?? ........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I If a well endowed guy is

one who enjoys taking a relaxed, sensitive and gentle approach to sex, then the entire act of sex itself becomes the pleasurable part rather than just the specific sexual acts, and his big cock is the icing on the cake.

If ANY man takes such an approach thenthe size of his cock is surely immaterial..."

But you'd be wrong, as it doesn't matter how gentle and affection a guy is, if his cock doesn't reach the right spots then penetration from him isn't going to be particularly pleasurable - fingers and tongue can be nice, but I'd imagine that when most women refer to 'sex', they're not talking about being penetrated by someones digits.


"

And I'm afraid that by describing a big cock as icing on a cake like it was some kind of bonus, is just utterly contradicting what was in essence a reasonable point..."

See my previous point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I If a well endowed guy is

one who enjoys taking a relaxed, sensitive and gentle approach to sex, then the entire act of sex itself becomes the pleasurable part rather than just the specific sexual acts, and his big cock is the icing on the cake.

If ANY man takes such an approach thenthe size of his cock is surely immaterial...

But you'd be wrong, as it doesn't matter how gentle and affection a guy is, if his cock doesn't reach the right spots then penetration from him isn't going to be particularly pleasurable - fingers and tongue can be nice, but I'd imagine that when most women refer to 'sex', they're not talking about being penetrated by someones digits.

And I'm afraid that by describing a big cock as icing on a cake like it was some kind of bonus, is just utterly contradicting what was in essence a reasonable point...

See my previous point."

Actually, only the first couple of inches inside the vagina have any nerve endings...mostly linked to the deeper nerve fibres leading from the clitoris...do you know they generally run through almost the entire pelvic region including down the thighs? Your cock ain't going to reachthe majority of those now is it? Meh...all that A and P during my training comes in handy for something...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I If a well endowed guy is

one who enjoys taking a relaxed, sensitive and gentle approach to sex, then the entire act of sex itself becomes the pleasurable part rather than just the specific sexual acts, and his big cock is the icing on the cake.

If ANY man takes such an approach thenthe size of his cock is surely immaterial...

But you'd be wrong, as it doesn't matter how gentle and affection a guy is, if his cock doesn't reach the right spots then penetration from him isn't going to be particularly pleasurable - fingers and tongue can be nice, but I'd imagine that when most women refer to 'sex', they're not talking about being penetrated by someones digits.

And I'm afraid that by describing a big cock as icing on a cake like it was some kind of bonus, is just utterly contradicting what was in essence a reasonable point...

See my previous point.

Actually, only the first couple of inches inside the vagina have any nerve endings...mostly linked to the deeper nerve fibres leading from the clitoris...do you know they generally run through almost the entire pelvic region including down the thighs? Your cock ain't going to reachthe majority of those now is it? Meh...all that A and P during my training comes in handy for something...

"

Uh huh - and I'm sure this is why womens dildos are never any longer than two inches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, small doesn't do anything.. I prefer 6"+.. But saying that, it's how a man handles himself is what matters most. Sex isn't all about the cock, so don't sweat it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is a small cock a turn off??

Honest answers please."

What's your definition of small? Under 5 to 6 inches then yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I If a well endowed guy is

one who enjoys taking a relaxed, sensitive and gentle approach to sex, then the entire act of sex itself becomes the pleasurable part rather than just the specific sexual acts, and his big cock is the icing on the cake.

If ANY man takes such an approach thenthe size of his cock is surely immaterial...

But you'd be wrong, as it doesn't matter how gentle and affection a guy is, if his cock doesn't reach the right spots then penetration from him isn't going to be particularly pleasurable - fingers and tongue can be nice, but I'd imagine that when most women refer to 'sex', they're not talking about being penetrated by someones digits.

And I'm afraid that by describing a big cock as icing on a cake like it was some kind of bonus, is just utterly contradicting what was in essence a reasonable point...

See my previous point.

Actually, only the first couple of inches inside the vagina have any nerve endings...mostly linked to the deeper nerve fibres leading from the clitoris...do you know they generally run through almost the entire pelvic region including down the thighs? Your cock ain't going to reachthe majority of those now is it? Meh...all that A and P during my training comes in handy for something...

Uh huh - and I'm sure this is why womens dildos are never any longer than two inches "

It's very likely why women seem to prefer girth to length...still, who am I to argue? I' m only the one with the vagina...ckearly you're far better qualified than me to comment...

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

It's a good job we are all different or life would be boring ! I am 7 inches and thick and I am very happy with it. I have never had a complaint on my skills or size but I always listen to my partners and adjust my technique accordingly I also love to tease till they scream at me to stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I If a well endowed guy is

one who enjoys taking a relaxed, sensitive and gentle approach to sex, then the entire act of sex itself becomes the pleasurable part rather than just the specific sexual acts, and his big cock is the icing on the cake.

If ANY man takes such an approach thenthe size of his cock is surely immaterial...

But you'd be wrong, as it doesn't matter how gentle and affection a guy is, if his cock doesn't reach the right spots then penetration from him isn't going to be particularly pleasurable - fingers and tongue can be nice, but I'd imagine that when most women refer to 'sex', they're not talking about being penetrated by someones digits.

"

Again it depends from woman to women, full sex for me isn't that great no matter what size cock they have got and ive been with men of all sizes, from 'is it in yet' to 'get the fuck of me your hurting' I love the intimacy and closeness from having full sex but the actual sensation isn't that great, I have never cum from penetration

some women prefer penetration some oral

I could and would quite happily skip the penetration for an attentive lover who loves all the kissing, licking and sucking as much as I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My honest opinion is, and i must stress i cam only speak from my own experiences

i have always found men with small cocks better at oral, i have found men with big cocks tend to think that's all they need to bring to the party and put very little effort into pleasing me as they think their big cock is enough to do that, where as guys with small cocks know they are small so tend to make up for it in other departments and i for one would sooner have a good tongue than a big cock "

Seriously seconded on all counts.

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