FabSwingers.com forum: Separate profile for male of couple?

By *ickey and Minnie OP Couple
over a year ago

South of Bath

Hi guys

I (minnie) have a fantasy where mickey meets a single fem on his own then comes back and tells me all about it while giving me a good seeing to.

We have yet to make it reality as we believe all the lovely fems we contact probably think it's mickey playing away from home even though I am Happy to verify its genuine by a phone call.

Would this interest any of you lovely single ladies and do you think we would have more success if he had his own profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

married becomes single..welcome to our world lol

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By *ickey and Minnie OP Couple
over a year ago

South of Bath

Well that was constructive

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

I don't think it will make that much difference as people are always suspicious - particularly of single guys, Having said that, we also have separate profile for this very same reason. One thing it has highlighted for us though is the double standards at play.. more couples are willing to play with a single fem if she's attached without checking if she has permission from her other half than they are with men, In fact, whether he can be vouched for as genuinely playing with consent isn't even an issue, most run a mile! Strange that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've put on our profile that MissD doesn't me playing with other women without her being being involved (as long as she is present).

More than happy to verify ourselves on cam/phone. We've made some progress so far but i think it depends on the type of people you seek to attract. What are they into etc. Only then may you find the match you're looking for.

For instance looking at cuckold couples maybe a good place to start

Silk

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I personally think it looks and seems more genuine if you stay within a couple profile but stating you have permission to play alone, a single male profile, will look a bit like playing away!

And yes I do regularly see the male half of another couple from here, and they have always had a couple profile only, just my opinion x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've put on our profile that MissD doesn't me playing with other women without her being being involved (as long as she is present).

For instance looking at cuckold couples maybe a good place to start

Silk

Finding a cuckold couple is probably the way forward. If he starts his own profile he just enters the ocean with all the other married/single men looking for a single female on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've put on our profile that MissD doesn't me playing with other women without her being being involved (as long as she is present).

For instance looking at cuckold couples maybe a good place to start

Silk

Finding a cuckold couple is probably the way forward. If he starts his own profile he just enters the ocean with all the other married/single men looking for a single female on here"

Exactly, and they are enough men going for the same thing on here so it's stiff competition (no pun intended)

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Well that was constructive

.... in a sense it is.... because he is competing with guys who are truely single....

so it is a case of welcome to our world, because he will need a different mindset then if he was playing with you "as a couple"......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well that was constructive

.... in a sense it is.... because he is competing with guys who are truely single....

so it is a case of welcome to our world, because he will need a different mindset then if he was playing with you "as a couple"......"

in my opinion, lets say the other cpl agree..presto, great ..

the other couple, might just still be meeting the male just to eventually get the female half..

so what happens next?- the male half gets the meet..the cpl wait...and wait...and...wait!

Now send the female half over and say hubby will maybe come by next week...

think u understand where my logic comes from..just a realist lol

*in my opinion also,profile wise, singles should be singles cpls should be cpls..

I dont mind a cpl having a single profile stating its only for forums and chatrooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've put on our profile that MissD doesn't me playing with other women without her being being involved (as long as she is present).

For instance looking at cuckold couples maybe a good place to start

Silk

that's still meeting a couple tho so you wont have that problem of women thinking your playing away as your wife's there

Its kind of hard to convince people of your intentions on here as everyone's so bloody suspicious and one thing I have noticed is most people on here look for the bad in every comment written

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've put on our profile that MissD doesn't me playing with other women without her being being involved (as long as she is present).

For instance looking at cuckold couples maybe a good place to start

Silk

that's still meeting a couple tho so you wont have that problem of women thinking your playing away as your wife's there

Its kind of hard to convince people of your intentions on here as everyone's so bloody suspicious and one thing I have noticed is most people on here look for the bad in every comment written "

Agree with you on that statement.

The cynicism might stem from bad experiences of the past so they might tar other people with the same brush even if they are being genuine.

Others just tend to focus on the negative instead of the positive. All the fakes on this site do not help the situation for genuine couples with unconventional kinks/fantasies.

It's a shame because we're all meant to be more open minded and liberated on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have 2 couple profiles as we play together and alone has to be said I (the female) have many more meets than he does but it works for us x

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By *ickey and Minnie OP Couple
over a year ago

South of Bath

Thanks for all your input everyone

We are none the wiser so will just have to suck and see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As it's so easy for single men to meet single women on here, this is a great idea and cannot fail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A suggestion. How about asking any couples you've met if they have a similar fantasy with the female meeting a guy then telling the OH about it? Might be easier than trying to find a single lady who didn't think mickey is playing behind your back. I think sticking with couples profile is probably better as setting up a single male profile could look like he is cheating plus he's not actually single nevermind the issue of disappearing into the vast sea of other single men. Hope that helps and hope you fulfil the fantasy. Mr and I have done it with ladies we've met for mff, mfff etc and it's very horny!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Make up the single profile....

BOTH profiles be active on forums etc...

Let others get to know you both and it will be much easier for him...

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

John always gets the ladies to contact me first when he wants to meet/play with a lady on their own, We still like our joint profile but we do wonder what single profiles would be like sometime xx.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've put on our profile that MissD doesn't me playing with other women without her being being involved (as long as she is present).

For instance looking at cuckold couples maybe a good place to start

Silk

that's still meeting a couple tho so you wont have that problem of women thinking your playing away as your wife's there

Its kind of hard to convince people of your intentions on here as everyone's so bloody suspicious and one thing I have noticed is most people on here look for the bad in every comment written

Agree with you on that statement.

The cynicism might stem from bad experiences of the past so they might tar other people with the same brush even if they are being genuine.

Others just tend to focus on the negative instead of the positive. All the fakes on this site do not help the situation for genuine couples with unconventional kinks/fantasies.

It's a shame because we're all meant to be more open minded and liberated on here."

Totally agree with you here. I'm playing with wife's full permission. I used to have it on profile until recently, although I do tell prospective meets early on when messaging.

Met a lovely couple at a club recently, we are friends. However when we messaged after meeting, they declined me as I was married (I told them). I explained our situation & they are now ok it seems.

But it is difficult sometimes to get meets because of the 'no married playing alone' regardless of circumstances.

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