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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't know about anybody else but I have suddenly gone into a phase of wanting to go for the older older lady, 45-65 it turns me on thinking about it if I'm honest lol p.s and women in this age range feel free to drop a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Psssst... I don't think ladies like to be called "older older"

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"I don't know about anybody else but I have suddenly gone into a phase of wanting to go for the older older lady, 45-65 it turns me on thinking about it if I'm honest lol p.s and women in this age range feel free to drop a message "
many women wont appreciate the older older older title at 45 my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Psssst... I don't think ladies like to be called "older older" "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They shouldn't take it to offence though, everybody grows older, and the fact it turns me on I don't think they should be taking offence

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

Holy crap....in 2 years I get to be classed as 'older older'

Pass the zimmer frame and pension book somebody I'm off for a lie down before bingo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know about anybody else but I have suddenly gone into a phase of wanting to go for the older older lady, 45-65 it turns me on thinking about it if I'm honest lol p.s and women in this age range feel free to drop a message many women wont appreciate the older older older title at 45 my friend "
We dont appreciate it at 49 mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Holy crap....in 2 years I get to be classed as 'older older'

Pass the zimmer frame and pension book somebody I'm off for a lie down before bingo "

It's just older older to me though not the world? And without trying to be funny I think if something is said with no menace and somebody want to take it the wrong way and get in a hissy fit then who's problem is that? Not mine!! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Holy crap....in 2 years I get to be classed as 'older older'

Pass the zimmer frame and pension book somebody I'm off for a lie down before bingo

It's just older older to me though not the world? And without trying to be funny I think if something is said with no menace and somebody want to take it the wrong way and get in a hissy fit then who's problem is that? Not mine!! Haha"

Here fella - borrow my stab vest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my goodness - that means that I'm nearly in the "older, older, older" class.....

But I'm probably still having more fun than the "younger, younger" ones.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you're just going to alienate the very people you're trying to attract using terminology like that. I know you meant it with good intentions and no malice but maybe think about a different choice of words. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Holy crap....in 2 years I get to be classed as 'older older'

Pass the zimmer frame and pension book somebody I'm off for a lie down before bingo

It's just older older to me though not the world? And without trying to be funny I think if something is said with no menace and somebody want to take it the wrong way and get in a hissy fit then who's problem is that? Not mine!! Haha"

Well it kinda is if it alienates those you are trying to attract

Talking of hissy fits, people having problems, haha etc also demonstrate a lack of either maturity or an an acceptance to recognise you could have worded your thread wrongly.

Taking it on the chin and apologising if you had upset anyone may have shown you in a better light.

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

I find the fact you think my post was a 'hissy fit' is quite amusing. If that had been the intention it would not of been worded as it was.

I would happily rewrite it to be more 'hissy' if you would prefer but due to my advancing old age I can't be arsed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Holy crap....in 2 years I get to be classed as 'older older'

Pass the zimmer frame and pension book somebody I'm off for a lie down before bingo "

Lucky you, wish I was still that age as I really don't want to be an older older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone hand that man a shovel!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Holy crap....in 2 years I get to be classed as 'older older'

Pass the zimmer frame and pension book somebody I'm off for a lie down before bingo

It's just older older to me though not the world? And without trying to be funny I think if something is said with no menace and somebody want to take it the wrong way and get in a hissy fit then who's problem is that? Not mine!! Haha"
Age doesnt bother me - its just a number but if you are looking for older or older older women, better not to word it that way. Dont think guys would like to be referred to in that way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Holy crap....in 2 years I get to be classed as 'older older'

Pass the zimmer frame and pension book somebody I'm off for a lie down before bingo

It's just older older to me though not the world? And without trying to be funny I think if something is said with no menace and somebody want to take it the wrong way and get in a hissy fit then who's problem is that? Not mine!! Haha"

No wonder us older ones get turned off by the younger ones with an attitude like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the fact you think my post was a 'hissy fit' is quite amusing. If that had been the intention it would not of been worded as it was.

I would happily rewrite it to be more 'hissy' if you would prefer but due to my advancing old age I can't be arsed "

lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn't mean it as you was having a hissy fit I just wrote it on the back of what other people said, nobody had a hissy fit I was just making sure people understood that by mean saying older older their was no harm in it? Plus on the gender of saying I'm sorry for wording things wrong wont happen, I'm not the type to suck up hoping people will like me, I love the attitude of take me or leave me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most people will take the attitude of leave you with an attitude like that. Sorry to be blunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus on the gender of saying I'm sorry for wording things wrong wont happen, I'm not the type to suck up hoping people will like me, I love the attitude of take me or leave me "

Keep it up cos arrogance is such a cool look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never thought of myself as the older..older lady until reading this...Thanks, maybe i need to take things a lot slower after all???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Holy crap....in 2 years I get to be classed as 'older older'

Pass the zimmer frame and pension book somebody I'm off for a lie down before bingo

It's just older older to me though not the world? And without trying to be funny I think if something is said with no menace and somebody want to take it the wrong way and get in a hissy fit then who's problem is that? Not mine!! Haha

No wonder us older ones get turned off by the younger ones with an attitude like that "

Some like it, some don't, it's life and just because you have a different opinion on 1 thing it don't mean you won't have other things in common with that person...

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By *antyfetishTV/TS
over a year ago

Collooney/Sligo/Dublin

i think the word he is looking for is mature and demure...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Digging yourself ever deeper mate stop now and run would be my advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Holy crap....in 2 years I get to be classed as 'older older'

Pass the zimmer frame and pension book somebody I'm off for a lie down before bingo

It's just older older to me though not the world? And without trying to be funny I think if something is said with no menace and somebody want to take it the wrong way and get in a hissy fit then who's problem is that? Not mine!! Haha

No wonder us older ones get turned off by the younger ones with an attitude like that

Some like it, some don't, it's life and just because you have a different opinion on 1 thing it don't mean you won't have other things in common with that person..."

Yes maybe but then overall, I have no interest in your age group

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think most people will take the attitude of leave you with an attitude like that. Sorry to be blunt."

And I don't mind that, you win some you lose some, but I'm not desperate so I'm sure I can still enjoy fab without the whole population loving me right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the " more mature " title would be appropriate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Holy crap....in 2 years I get to be classed as 'older older'

Pass the zimmer frame and pension book somebody I'm off for a lie down before bingo

It's just older older to me though not the world? And without trying to be funny I think if something is said with no menace and somebody want to take it the wrong way and get in a hissy fit then who's problem is that? Not mine!! Haha

No wonder us older ones get turned off by the younger ones with an attitude like that

Some like it, some don't, it's life and just because you have a different opinion on 1 thing it don't mean you won't have other things in common with that person...

Yes maybe but then overall, I have no interest in your age group"

Therefore maybe your missing out and maybe your not, everybody takes their own path in life and whatever their outcome as long as their happy within theirself then theirs nothing to worry about x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think the " more mature " title would be appropriate "

Yeah, maybe your right, but I just don't think people should be insecure about getting older, we all go through it and when I have my grey hairs I will be very proud of them because it shows the you have fought thought life an won x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What an amazing master-class in how to get yourself blocked by the women that you'd like to meet.....

I'm in awe.....

.... and laughing myself silly....

Keep going - this is sooo entertaining..!!!

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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago

truro

You did,nt half hit a raw nerve there.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"They shouldn't take it to offence though, everybody grows older, and the fact it turns me on I don't think they should be taking offence "

I'm 56 and haven't taken offence when I was your age I thought people my age had one foot in the grave because I was fairly immature compared to now and had limited life experience, just two of the reasons I tend to avoid younger men.

There are women who like very young men so I wish you luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of those threads where you really don't need to look at the profile to know the general age of the OP...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Think the " more mature " title would be appropriate

Yeah, maybe your right, but I just don't think people should be insecure about getting older, we all go through it and when I have my grey hairs I will be very proud of them because it shows the you have fought thought life an won x"

With respect Jordan you have no idea how you will feel when you're older. Being young isn't a crime you have a right to express your opinion and I think you're stating your case well but by now you must realise that women don't appreciate being defined by age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh the young whipper snapper, such alot to learn in their young lives

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By *arryJones1975Man
over a year ago

ely

Only upto 65? Hate to think how he would describe the octogenarian I once met dogging or my latest cinema partner lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I don't know about anybody else but I have suddenly gone into a phase of wanting to go for the older older lady, 45-65 it turns me on thinking about it if I'm honest lol p.s and women in this age range feel free to drop a message many women wont appreciate the older older older title at 45 my friend "

or 58 ........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Holy crap....in 2 years I get to be classed as 'older older'

Pass the zimmer frame and pension book somebody I'm off for a lie down before bingo

It's just older older to me though not the world? And without trying to be funny I think if something is said with no menace and somebody want to take it the wrong way and get in a hissy fit then who's problem is that? Not mine!! Haha

No wonder us older ones get turned off by the younger ones with an attitude like that

Some like it, some don't, it's life and just because you have a different opinion on 1 thing it don't mean you won't have other things in common with that person...

Yes maybe but then overall, I have no interest in your age group

Therefore maybe your missing out and maybe your not, everybody takes their own path in life and whatever their outcome as long as their happy within theirself then theirs nothing to worry about x"

Not missing out; I did once meet a 25 yr old but felt incredibly uncomfortable sat with someone half my age so wouldn't take it further, just really doesn't feel right at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know about anybody else but I have suddenly gone into a phase of wanting to go for the older older lady, 45-65 it turns me on thinking about it if I'm honest lol p.s and women in this age range feel free to drop a message "

You dirty sod 65 is old enough to be your nan

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm 52 and a world away from the 45 year old I was and no doubt the 65 year old I'm going to be.

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Omg I'm an older, older woman now. Think will go and ask my boss if I can take a nap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm classed in that bracket of 'older Older' but to a 22 year old I am Old. I've not taken offence at all. But because I'm old my prefrences are 30-50

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Ohhh, so wish we was moderators on here - would be lovely to get data on how much the "block function" has been activated within the last 40 mins lmao . Ohhh, you've just been blocked again mate...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

security shouldn't come into it on here , yep the grey bits an cracks appear lol but it's how you come across to other peeps , there's loads of the more mature people on here with a young attitude to life and we respect them all

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm classed in that bracket of 'older Older' but to a 22 year old I am Old. I've not taken offence at all. But because I'm old my prefrences are 30-50 "

Well put.

His youth is no more of a crime than our lack of it. No need for offence or patronising replies.

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By *antyfetishTV/TS
over a year ago

Collooney/Sligo/Dublin

last year i went out with a 89 year old lady and when i was leaving her house she said come back next year and the crack will be 90......lol

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By *icked kittyCouple
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Don't take it to heart young one. A gentle chiding is to be expected. If it is your wish to experience the mature experienced woman constructive criticism is par for the course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lighten up people! He's only 24 and I bet a lot of us 'older' ones used exactly the same words at his age. I don't have a problem with being called older - because I am!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP if you want people in that age range to message you then consider raising the upper limit on your profile as it's stating 40 at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lighten up people! He's only 24 and I bet a lot of us 'older' ones used exactly the same words at his age. I don't have a problem with being called older - because I am! "

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All this because he said 'older'lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just think people are offended by the word old..... It's a word, nothing more, and for all the people saying that they don't like the younger guys but yet hate the fact that they are older and get all uptight about it? I just think you women want to be young again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP if you want people in that age range to message you then consider raising the upper limit on your profile as it's stating 40 at the moment."

I know and I will do that, It's just a phase I have come into and I appreciate the reminder Hun thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP if you want people in that age range to message you then consider raising the upper limit on your profile as it's stating 40 at the moment."

I know and I will do that, It's just a phase I have come into and I appreciate the reminder Hun thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lighten up people! He's only 24 and I bet a lot of us 'older' ones used exactly the same words at his age. I don't have a problem with being called older - because I am! "

Finally some1 who loves the fact of who they are and doesn't try to hide away from it very sexy Hun

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"I'm classed in that bracket of 'older Older' but to a 22 year old I am Old. I've not taken offence at all. But because I'm old my prefrences are 30-50

Well put.

His youth is no more of a crime than our lack of it. No need for offence or patronising replies."

I totally agree. At 51, it's no revelation to be that I'm cracking on a bit (hell I have the grey hair - under the dye - and laughter lines to prove it) so why should I be offended?

To a guy in his 20s, a woman of 30 would be older. So it stands to reason that a woman in her 50s would be 'older older'. It's all relative isn't it? There are some on here referring to the OP as a 'whippersnapper' yet to an 18 year old he'd be 'older'.

There's really no need for the nasty responses. and I'm baffled at people who are finding it offensive. They must be hyper sensitive.

Good luck in your quest OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know about anybody else but I have suddenly gone into a phase of wanting to go for the older older lady, 45-65 it turns me on thinking about it if I'm honest lol p.s and women in this age range feel free to drop a message "

Cheeky shit that's not older older

If I was face to face with you'd get a slap and I mean it cheeky shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just think people are offended by the word old..... It's a word, nothing more, and for all the people saying that they don't like the younger guys but yet hate the fact that they are older and get all uptight about it? I just think you women want to be young again "

Expand the phrase "I just think..."

I (only) just (manage to) think.....

Is this some new sort of masochism..?

As in - sticking your head above the parapet to see how often it gets shot at...?

Maybe - I mean, just maybe, you could ask if your assumptions are right or not, and take an active interest in the answers....

But do keep going, this is such fun!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lighten up people! He's only 24 and I bet a lot of us 'older' ones used exactly the same words at his age. I don't have a problem with being called older - because I am!

Finally some1 who loves the fact of who they are and doesn't try to hide away from it very sexy Hun "

Thank you young man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm classed in that bracket of 'older Older' but to a 22 year old I am Old. I've not taken offence at all. But because I'm old my prefrences are 30-50

Well put.

His youth is no more of a crime than our lack of it. No need for offence or patronising replies.

I totally agree. At 51, it's no revelation to be that I'm cracking on a bit (hell I have the grey hair - under the dye - and laughter lines to prove it) so why should I be offended?

To a guy in his 20s, a woman of 30 would be older. So it stands to reason that a woman in her 50s would be 'older older'. It's all relative isn't it? There are some on here referring to the OP as a 'whippersnapper' yet to an 18 year old he'd be 'older'.

There's really no need for the nasty responses. and I'm baffled at people who are finding it offensive. They must be hyper sensitive.

Good luck in your quest OP "

Thanks a lot for that Hun, we all have our way of dealing with things and as many people have have their disagreements I have still had mails of ladies interested so it not for everyone but is for some but your right some people are overly sensitive xx

And for everyone else just 1 quick question...... Are you OLDER than me? That's all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know about anybody else but I have suddenly gone into a phase of wanting to go for the older older lady, 45-65 it turns me on thinking about it if I'm honest lol p.s and women in this age range feel free to drop a message

Cheeky shit that's not older older

If I was face to face with you'd get a slap and I mean it cheeky shit"

Are you older than me? Point proven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know about anybody else but I have suddenly gone into a phase of wanting to go for the older older lady, 45-65 it turns me on thinking about it if I'm honest lol p.s and women in this age range feel free to drop a message

Cheeky shit that's not older older

If I was face to face with you'd get a slap and I mean it cheeky shit"
Good for you. shall we form a queue?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know about anybody else but I have suddenly gone into a phase of wanting to go for the older older lady, 45-65 it turns me on thinking about it if I'm honest lol p.s and women in this age range feel free to drop a message

Cheeky shit that's not older older

If I was face to face with you'd get a slap and I mean it cheeky shitGood for you. shall we form a queue? "

If you would like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP if you want people in that age range to message you then consider raising the upper limit on your profile as it's stating 40 at the moment.

I know and I will do that, It's just a phase I have come into and I appreciate the reminder Hun thanks "

Hun?? Erm thanks for the compliment. Mr South Notts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

45 is a older older woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Help I've just turned 45 it's bad enough being called older but older older where's me zimmer frame lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"45 is a older older woman? "

Older older than the OP (as he keeps saying), but I am 46 and certainly don't feel old. Apart from after a bottle of shiraz.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"45 is a older older woman?

Older older than the OP (as he keeps saying), but I am 46 and certainly don't feel old. Apart from after a bottle of shiraz."

id better get shagging while in still only older and able

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I just think people are offended by the word old..... It's a word, nothing more, and for all the people saying that they don't like the younger guys but yet hate the fact that they are older and get all uptight about it? I just think you women want to be young again "

See now I had sympathy for you and was sticking up for you then you post a phrase like this "I just think you women want to be young again" that is patronising, lumping all women together and just plain rude and I would think the same if you were 19 or 90.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Holy crap....in 2 years I get to be classed as 'older older'

Pass the zimmer frame and pension book somebody I'm off for a lie down before bingo

It's just older older to me though not the world? And without trying to be funny I think if something is said with no menace and somebody want to take it the wrong way and get in a hissy fit then who's problem is that? Not mine!! Haha

No wonder us older ones get turned off by the younger ones with an attitude like that

Some like it, some don't, it's life and just because you have a different opinion on 1 thing it don't mean you won't have other things in common with that person...

Yes maybe but then overall, I have no interest in your age group

Therefore maybe your missing out and maybe your not, everybody takes their own path in life and whatever their outcome as long as their happy within theirself then theirs nothing to worry about x

Not missing out; I did once meet a 25 yr old but felt incredibly uncomfortable sat with someone half my age so wouldn't take it further, just really doesn't feel right at all"
what about a really good looking 40?? Hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just think people are offended by the word old..... It's a word, nothing more, and for all the people saying that they don't like the younger guys but yet hate the fact that they are older and get all uptight about it? I just think you women want to be young again "

don't talk daft as if any of us would want the body and the look we had when we was 21, whatever gave you that idea

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I just think people are offended by the word old..... It's a word, nothing more, and for all the people saying that they don't like the younger guys but yet hate the fact that they are older and get all uptight about it? I just think you women want to be young again

don't talk daft as if any of us would want the body and the look we had when we was 21, whatever gave you that idea "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm amazed the OP still has his testicles intact this far into the thread!!!

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By *icker2010Man
over a year ago

cambs/london/Norfolk

Such an entertaining thread with many good points ... It does highlight this extraordinary obsession some people have with age I love the profiles that are so specific in age range ... 25-37 ffs who can really tell if your 36, 37 , or 40 and is it so important .... Having said that Id gladly be any of thoses ages again ;+)

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"45 is a older older woman?

Older older than the OP (as he keeps saying), but I am 46 and certainly don't feel old. Apart from after a bottle of shiraz.

id better get shagging while in still only older and able "

Just watch those hips!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Psssst... I don't think ladies like to be called "older older" "

To be honest, I'd find it better than being called 'Cougar' or 'MILF'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Holy crap....in 2 years I get to be classed as 'older older'

Pass the zimmer frame and pension book somebody I'm off for a lie down before bingo

It's just older older to me though not the world? And without trying to be funny I think if something is said with no menace and somebody want to take it the wrong way and get in a hissy fit then who's problem is that? Not mine!! Haha

No wonder us older ones get turned off by the younger ones with an attitude like that

Some like it, some don't, it's life and just because you have a different opinion on 1 thing it don't mean you won't have other things in common with that person...

Yes maybe but then overall, I have no interest in your age group

Therefore maybe your missing out and maybe your not, everybody takes their own path in life and whatever their outcome as long as their happy within theirself then theirs nothing to worry about x

Not missing out; I did once meet a 25 yr old but felt incredibly uncomfortable sat with someone half my age so wouldn't take it further, just really doesn't feel right at all"
what about a really good looking 40?? Hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP

Why did you put I just love an old banger???

Maybe you would have got less stick LMFAO

But its been fun reading lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant believe he is still on his tread lol talk about 'give someone a long enough rope and they can do the rest.

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

It's funny how people seem to suddenly have a fetish for what I think they consider to be easy target... "The much larger lady or "the older older woman" lol! Never do they like the slim and trim with nice assets

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"It's funny how people seem to suddenly have a fetish for what I think they consider to be easy target... "The much larger lady or "the older older woman" lol! Never do they like the slim and trim with nice assets "

LOL if guys think I am an easy target just because I am over 40 they are going to be woefully disappointed. I am more discerning these days, not less!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's funny how people seem to suddenly have a fetish for what I think they consider to be easy target... "The much larger lady or "the older older woman" lol! Never do they like the slim and trim with nice assets "

Well I'm both and certainly not an easy target. I have no objection to being called a larger or older lady because that's what I am However, if anyone calls me a fat old 'whatever' and then the gloves are off lol

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"It's funny how people seem to suddenly have a fetish for what I think they consider to be easy target... "The much larger lady or "the older older woman" lol! Never do they like the slim and trim with nice assets

LOL if guys think I am an easy target just because I am over 40 they are going to be woefully disappointed. I am more discerning these days, not less!"
of course you're more discerning like most mature women but he obviously doesn't know that or thinks Fabs is an extension of hamster where young guys always get to fcuk the mature women

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

In my head I'm still in my 20's.

When someone sends me a message saying 'I like older women' I respond by saying 'best you go find one then'

Think through the things that may be sensitive... 'older', 'larger', etc. cause you can be damn sure no-one who gives me an opening line like 'I'm looking for Mrs Robinson' is ever gonna get a favourable response.

And using the same word twice at women from 45, you're on a hiding to nothing.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Lol@ older, older. First time I've ever been called that at 48.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the fact you think my post was a 'hissy fit' is quite amusing. If that had been the intention it would not of been worded as it was.

I would happily rewrite it to be more 'hissy' if you would prefer but due to my advancing old age I can't be arsed "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"They shouldn't take it to offence though, everybody grows older, and the fact it turns me on I don't think they should be taking offence "

Bless! I bet you think we should be grateful and chomping at the (your) bit hey?!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have enjoyed this talk with you all and I'm glad uv created such a difference in opinions but to all you older ladies, don't talk offence, be proud see you all soon xx

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm 52 and a world away from the 45 year old I was and no doubt the 65 year old I'm going to be. "

Couldn't agree more! Until the age of 45 I'd only had one sexual partner, my husband and I thought oral sex dirty. My mindset on things like religion, politics, sexuality were also rigid.

In seven short years I've turned into the antithesis of everything I was. Roll on the next seven!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even 65 isn't old now...

Why call ladies above a certain age 'old' when you could just keep it factual and say you like women double your age rather than making them feel like they should be down the Post Office picking up their pension already?!

crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's funny how people seem to suddenly have a fetish for what I think they consider to be easy target... "The much larger lady or "the older older woman" lol! Never do they like the slim and trim with nice assets "

seriously?

you never read the BBW threads when the fat bashers get on?

loads of people don't like older or bigger woman and quite happy to post their views on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No wonder us older ones get turned off by the younger ones with an attitude like that "

Agree totally, which is why I avoid he 'children's age group' of the op!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even 65 isn't old now...

Why call ladies above a certain age 'old' when you could just keep it factual and say you like women double your age rather than making them feel like they should be down the Post Office picking up their pension already?!

crystal"

To be fair to the OP he didn't call us old, he said 'older' - there is a difference! At 48 I'm 'older' than him but I don't class myself as old! I'm also a 'larger' lady but would take offence is someone was to call me fat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Holy crap....in 2 years I get to be classed as 'older older'

Pass the zimmer frame and pension book somebody I'm off for a lie down before bingo

It's just older older to me though not the world? And without trying to be funny I think if something is said with no menace and somebody want to take it the wrong way and get in a hissy fit then who's problem is that? Not mine!! Haha"

oops there was a post something like this a while back , a young guy calling us sexually experienced peeps old and he got hammered too, seems you young chaps don't have any decorum on here, and your not goin to get much experience of us older older peeps like that, if you want an experienced lady you have to work harder than that, little girls giggle when you mention cocks, mature ladys eyes light up and expect you to prove it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sorry i was laughing through this whole thread. I agree that your choice of words wasn't great. Its not like older women dont know that they are twice your age it's just the connotation and tone that comes accross when you write "older older" to describe your preference. Its like if a guy writes "all fattys contact me i love to grab your rolls"....yeah doesn't make me feel very sexy lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP has a brilliant way with words!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP has a brilliant way with words!!"

he's kinda cute tho, i'll be looking him up in 7 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LOL if guys think I am an easy target just because I am over 40 they are going to be woefully disappointed. I am more discerning these days, not less!of course you're more discerning like most mature women but he obviously doesn't know that or thinks Fabs is an extension of hamster where young guys always get to fcuk the mature women "

Yes they may get the chance to fuck a mature woman on X Hamster.

But how many make a decent job of it, many young guys on there can't seem to rise to the occasion when faced with the reality of a sexy mature woman.

Hell, when I was in my late teens or early twenties, given such a chance, you wouldn't have been able to get a sheet of tissue between my cock and my belly. R

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP has a brilliant way with words!!

he's kinda cute tho, i'll be looking him up in 7 years "

By then his "older older" category will be adjusted lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if this young boys mother knows that he thinks she's an older, older woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP has a brilliant way with words!!

he's kinda cute tho, i'll be looking him up in 7 years

By then his "older older" category will be adjusted lol"

shit, didn't think that one thro well did I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best get booked in for my blue rinse and get my zimmer out fgs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with a mature woman, the sexual confidence is wonderful and liberating, although there are also ladies of a younger age that also have peace with their sexuality and thier inner self. I prefer to take people on an individual basis.

Have you ever met a lady, with looks that you would not normally go for and you ust think WOW!? The sexual chemistry hits and you are in lust and awe? this is why I take every lady for thier self being and whom they, not just looks, body type or age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know about anybody else but I have suddenly gone into a phase of wanting to go for the older older lady, 45-65 it turns me on thinking about it if I'm honest lol p.s and women in this age range feel free to drop a message "

Oh out of the mouthes of babes!!! You have much to learn young skywalker. Older older ladies indeed. !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know about anybody else but I have suddenly gone into a phase of wanting to go for the older older lady, 45-65 it turns me on thinking about it if I'm honest lol p.s and women in this age range feel free to drop a message

Oh out of the mouthes of babes!!! You have much to learn young skywalker. Older older ladies indeed. !!!!!"

If Skywalker said that to a ladies face, i guess he would feel the force lol SLAP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just about to move my zimmer out the way to make room for my commode !!!!!! actually this "older older" woman is taking her saggy old ass clubbing tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just about to move my zimmer out the way to make room for my commode !!!!!! actually this "older older" woman is taking her saggy old ass clubbing tonight "

PMSL

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By *o 1Man
over a year ago

Ponteland / London

Take no notice of the forum gimps, there will always be someone waiting to pull your thread to bits regardless of how you word it. Good luck in your search fella and hope you get to bang aload of wrinklies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take no notice of the forum gimps, there will always be someone waiting to pull your thread to bits regardless of how you word it. Good luck in your search fella and hope you get to bang aload of wrinklies. "
... you will referred as the older older man soon buddy!! good luck then lol

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

From an older older woman...I'm depressed now...i only thought i was 21 + VAT)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take no notice of the forum gimps, there will always be someone waiting to pull your thread to bits regardless of how you word it. Good luck in your search fella and hope you get to bang aload of wrinklies. "

You have.one of the.funniest profiles.I have seen in ages!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take no notice of the forum gimps, there will always be someone waiting to pull your thread to bits regardless of how you word it. Good luck in your search fella and hope you get to bang aload of wrinklies.

You have.one of the.funniest profiles.I have seen in ages!! "

45 is the new 35

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U can't win my friend if u call them milfs/gilfs it's wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From an older older woman...I'm depressed now...i only thought i was 21 + VAT) "

A lot of VAT then

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"U can't win my friend if u call them milfs/gilfs it's wrong. "

Try calling them women.

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By *istoryman57Couple
over a year ago

burnley

i must be luck cos im married to a milf as id like to call a lady of a certain age..and its my birthday today..time for the pub..hic/hic hooray.!!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Take no notice of the forum gimps, there will always be someone waiting to pull your thread to bits regardless of how you word it. Good luck in your search fella and hope you get to bang aload of wrinklies. "

I dont care if im soon to be called an older older woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U can't win my friend if u call them milfs/gilfs it's wrong.

Try calling them women."

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I think it is clear that the op did not deliberately set out to offend anyone. He needs, however, to re-think how he addresses women.

This is, perhaps, an important lesson learned.

Good luck to him in finding what he wants.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I wish to say a huge "thank you " to the op for this thread. when younger young guys mail wanting to know why I have no interest in them ill send them a link right here ! . what a time saver !! x

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish to say a huge "thank you " to the op for this thread. when younger young guys mail wanting to know why I have no interest in them ill send them a link right here ! . what a time saver !! x"

Are you seriously suggesting you classify yourself as older older

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By *--Cinders---Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

I don't mind being called an older older woman, I don't take offence at that at all..When I was his age, I was out having fun as obviously computers and mobiles hadn't been invented, gosh now I feel old lol...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i like ladies round my age , also like younger ladies , its just a number .

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By *wencatWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Psssst... I don't think ladies like to be called "older older" "
nope us oldies dont like to be reminded lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What an amazing master-class in how to get yourself blocked by the women that you'd like to meet.....

I'm in awe.....

.... and laughing myself silly....

Keep going - this is sooo entertaining..!!!

Has made my Sunday ! Thankyou)

"

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

All I can say is ROFL at older older ladies being in their late 40's omg that comment is too funny.

good luk young man !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish to say a huge "thank you " to the op for this thread. when younger young guys mail wanting to know why I have no interest in them ill send them a link right here ! . what a time saver !! x"

I couldn't have said it better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish to say a huge "thank you " to the op for this thread. when younger young guys mail wanting to know why I have no interest in them ill send them a link right here ! . what a time saver !! x"

Ha! Fantastic idea!

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"I don't know about anybody else but I have suddenly gone into a phase of wanting to go for the older older lady, 45-65 it turns me on thinking about it if I'm honest lol p.s and women in this age range feel free to drop a message "

I was going to leave a comment, but the last time I left a comment on something similar it earned me a 3 day ban from the forums, so I'll stay silent. and just think it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually, I have always been far more attracted to women older than myself. Typically they are sexually more attractive, more independent, and more accomplished lovers than their younger counterparts. When I was 35, I was madly in love with a 62 year old woman in Chicago ... who was the most beautiful woman even to this day that I've ever been with in my life. We were lovers, day and night, for just under two years. So, go for it. And good luck to you.


"I don't know about anybody else but I have suddenly gone into a phase of wanting to go for the older older lady, 45-65 it turns me on thinking about it if I'm honest lol p.s and women in this age range feel free to drop a message "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know about anybody else but I have suddenly gone into a phase of wanting to go for the older older lady, 45-65 it turns me on thinking about it if I'm honest lol p.s and women in this age range feel free to drop a message

I was going to leave a comment, but the last time I left a comment on something similar it earned me a 3 day ban from the forums, so I'll stay silent. and just think it. "

OOOOOO you tease you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you get lucky young un...from an older older woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind being called an older older woman, I don't take offence at that at all..When I was his age, I was out having fun as obviously computers and mobiles hadn't been invented, gosh now I feel old lol..."

Dont you mean older older cinder,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an OLDER woman, I won't meet anyone younger than 30..

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Just curious whether the OP's terminology has ever worked on any older older or even older older older woman?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow I really have become infamous by 1 little topic I have had people talking on my behalf for over 24hours.... Not bad haha but at the end of the day I made a comment that had no menace behind it and had no intention to annoy people. at the same time I wouldn't ever apologise for saying what I said, the fact people are that sensitive over such a minor issue just shows me how much more 'grown up' and more 'mature' you are than me...

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Wow I really have become infamous by 1 little topic I have had people talking on my behalf for over 24hours.... Not bad haha but at the end of the day I made a comment that had no menace behind it and had no intention to annoy people. at the same time I wouldn't ever apologise for saying what I said, the fact people are that sensitive over such a minor issue just shows me how much more 'grown up' and more 'mature' you are than me... "

And sarcasm doesn't help. Really. Why not simply learn that many will be offended by being referred to as 'older older'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow I really have become infamous by 1 little topic I have had people talking on my behalf for over 24hours.... Not bad haha but at the end of the day I made a comment that had no menace behind it and had no intention to annoy people. at the same time I wouldn't ever apologise for saying what I said, the fact people are that sensitive over such a minor issue just shows me how much more 'grown up' and more 'mature' you are than me... "
Doesn't matter how old you are, it's how you feel inside - I don't mind being called 'older' - because I am older than I used to be lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow I really have become infamous by 1 little topic I have had people talking on my behalf for over 24hours.... Not bad haha but at the end of the day I made a comment that had no menace behind it and had no intention to annoy people. at the same time I wouldn't ever apologise for saying what I said, the fact people are that sensitive over such a minor issue just shows me how much more 'grown up' and more 'mature' you are than me...

And sarcasm doesn't help. Really. Why not simply learn that many will be offended by being referred to as 'older older'?"

Totally agree! Sarcasm won't get you a meet either, and shows more about you than us!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow I really have become infamous by 1 little topic I have had people talking on my behalf for over 24hours.... Not bad haha but at the end of the day I made a comment that had no menace behind it and had no intention to annoy people. at the same time I wouldn't ever apologise for saying what I said, the fact people are that sensitive over such a minor issue just shows me how much more 'grown up' and more 'mature' you are than me... "

Awww sweetie...I hate to break it to you, but it's really the subject and not you that's taken off...when someone posts something that generates such feeling, well it kind of makes the OP superfluous...congratulations on your irrelevance...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too would love to get with a mature lady ,a lady in her 60s would be my prefect choice,there isn't as many lady in there 60s on this site as I would like

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"I don't know about anybody else but I have suddenly gone into a phase of wanting to go for the older older lady, 45-65 it turns me on thinking about it if I'm honest lol p.s and women in this age range feel free to drop a message many women wont appreciate the older older older title at 45 my friend "

I don't appreciate it at 53!!! lol

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Crikey, seldom has one chap dug himself in so deep in front of so many people with so little effort

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