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By *horskin! OP   Man
19 weeks ago

your kink

Why do the gay guys hit on the straight guys

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By *xciter7169Man
19 weeks ago

The Midlands

Fab straight!

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By *horskin! OP   Man
19 weeks ago

your kink


"Fab straight!"
how do you mean

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By *ampireLoveMan
19 weeks ago

Essex

The same reason some guys continue to hit on women that are clearly not interested in them? 🤷🏽‍♂️

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By *horskin! OP   Man
19 weeks ago

your kink


"The same reason some guys continue to hit on women that are clearly not interested in them? 🤷🏽‍♂️"
I see that's very true,not thought of it like that

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By *sjrcMan
19 weeks ago

Glasgow

Some guys I think it’s all about the fantasy bordering on the delusional! Or just trying their luck.

Though it not one way, as a guy on the gayer side of bi, most messages I get on here seem to be from guys with ‘straight’ in their profile!

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By *horskin! OP   Man
19 weeks ago

your kink

I see, I have never started a conversation with another guy, but had loads of guys messaging me, now you mention it some of them did say straight in their bio but never thought about it

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By *irty DiamondsCouple
19 weeks ago

London - South East and West


"Why do the gay guys hit on the straight guys "

Does it give you the ick, OP..??

Mr DD.

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By *horskin! OP   Man
19 weeks ago

your kink

No I'm open to chatting with anyone it was just something I watched online the other day about gay guys chatting up straight guys i found interesting

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By *irty DiamondsCouple
19 weeks ago

London - South East and West


"No I'm open to chatting with anyone it was just something I watched online the other day about gay guys chatting up straight guys i found interesting "

Fair enough.

A guy came on to me close to Earls Court a few years ago, tried picking me up in the middle of the day. Obviously he was bowled over by my big Welsh presence but I had to let him down gently.

I took it as a compliment too.

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By *horskin! OP   Man
19 weeks ago

your kink

I agree I take it as a compliment just wondered if it was a kink or something

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By *andb69Couple
19 weeks ago

leeds

Because many gay and bi guys pathologically refuse to accept that there are some guys that are completely, utterly 100% straight. I guess like a some guys try it on with a gay woman - they really believe that they haven't yet met a "real" man.

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By *horskin! OP   Man
19 weeks ago

your kink

I am definitely learning something tonight

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
19 weeks ago

Home

Take it as a compliment and move on .

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By *ount905Man
19 weeks ago

Maybole


"Why do the gay guys hit on the straight guys

Does it give you the ick, OP..??

Mr DD."

very sexy couple both absolutely stunning people

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Hey everyone. I'm J. This isn't my first profile...

Great question...

I have this insane fantasy about being forced bi..

Anyone else have these thoughts?

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By *irty DiamondsCouple
19 weeks ago

London - South East and West


"Why do the gay guys hit on the straight guys

Does it give you the ick, OP..??

Mr DD.

very sexy couple both absolutely stunning people "

Thank you very much.

We’re both aging relatively well but our minds are usually found in the gutter 😈😂😈

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By *xciter7169Man
19 weeks ago

The Midlands


"Fab straight!how do you mean "

Says straight on there profile but there really bi-sexual

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By *ikerbttmguyMan
19 weeks ago

Huddersfield, Golcar

I might fab pics of a straight guy as it's nice to pay a complement

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By *otsociminMan
19 weeks ago

Walsall

I find it a compliment that they are even bothered to contact me to be honest

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By *illingToHelpMan
19 weeks ago

Meltham


"Why do the gay guys hit on the straight guys "

Because there are so many “straight” guys that aren’t that straight at all, sometimes it’s worth a shot.

Sometimes it’s a genuine mistake, and the gay guy has misread the signals, and sometimes the gay guy is just a dick, and tries it on anyway, like dick straight guys who persist in trying it on with uninterested women.

Now, if we’re talking about this happening on Fab, then all you need to know is that I have a profile on both FabGuys, and here on FabSwingers, and I definitely get more interest on FabSwingers than I do on FabGuys. I have unquestionably met more “straight” guys for sexy fun on here than I have gay, or bi guys.

With so much ambiguity, confusion and denial around sexual classification why wouldn’t a gay guy try it on with a straight guy? The key is communication. I’m sure if the straight guy wasn’t interested a simple “No thanks, I’m straight” would be sufficient to stop any further advances or embarrassment.

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By *loydyMan
19 weeks ago

British


"Why do the gay guys hit on the straight guys "
i think to a certain extent there's a bit of gay in everyone

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
19 weeks ago

Manchester


"Why do the gay guys hit on the straight guys i think to a certain extent there's a bit of gay in everyone "

Nonsense

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
19 weeks ago

Manchester


"Why do the gay guys hit on the straight guys "

The power of fantasy and self delusion

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By *rightonsteveMan
19 weeks ago

Hove, mainly…


"Why do the gay guys hit on the straight guys "

Because a lot of guys on here who describe themselves as straight are not, so they are chancing that they’re bi-curious at least. Confident hetero guys won’t mind.

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By * D 777Man
19 weeks ago

bathgate

On here ive never had gay gent chat me up just all nice compliments an a few horny messages , i dont mind at all just part of fab

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By *oe moonMan
19 weeks ago

Beverley

It’s a huge compliment

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By *horskin! OP   Man
19 weeks ago

your kink

It's always a compliment

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By *rickie-dickieMan
19 weeks ago

South Durham

I get messages and fabbed pics by guys with "straight" as their sexual preference on here. Quite often they have an account on fabguys too. The amount of straight guys who have TV/TS as a meet preference is quite surprising also.

I will chat with "straight" guys, often they're curious. I sometimes initiate a conversation, except if it says "not looking..." but not often. I always welcome chats with guys, curious, straight, fab straight or gay. Just be friendly.

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By *andb69Couple
19 weeks ago

leeds


"It's always a compliment "

No it isn't. When a bi guy promises to play straight and then makes a grab for my husband cock it is anything but a compliment and is borderline assault.

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By *horskin! OP   Man
19 weeks ago

your kink


"It's always a compliment

No it isn't. When a bi guy promises to play straight and then makes a grab for my husband cock it is anything but a compliment and is borderline assault. "

wow i can see the issue there, I was speaking more for myself, but getvthe confusion

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By *ealitybitesMan
19 weeks ago

Belfast


"Why do the gay guys hit on the straight guys i think to a certain extent there's a bit of gay in everyone "

Bullshit

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
19 weeks ago

London


"I get messages and fabbed pics by guys with "straight" as their sexual preference on here. Quite often they have an account on fabguys too. The amount of straight guys who have TV/TS as a meet preference is quite surprising also.

I will chat with "straight" guys, often they're curious. I sometimes initiate a conversation, except if it says "not looking..." but not often. I always welcome chats with guys, curious, straight, fab straight or gay. Just be friendly. "

Poster is absolutely correct. However, I often find that "straight" guys initiate the conversation.

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By *bwlover1971Man
19 weeks ago

Lowestoft

I’m a Bi guy and I’m constantly getting messages from so called ‘Straight’ guys asking to suck my cock or vice versa… bit odd that one 🤔🤣

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By *horskin! OP   Man
19 weeks ago

your kink


"I’m a Bi guy and I’m constantly getting messages from so called ‘Straight’ guys asking to suck my cock or vice versa… bit odd that one 🤔🤣"
very strange that one lol

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds


"Why do some gay guys hit on some straight guys "

FIFY

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By *aandLoCouple
19 weeks ago

Southampton


"Why do the gay guys hit on the straight guys i think to a certain extent there's a bit of gay in everyone "

Sexual desires are complex, and driven by lots of different things, but I don't agree everyone has a bit of "gay" in them.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds


"Why do some gay guys hit on some straight guys

FIFY "

* fixed it for you.

Some gay guys. Some straight guys.

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By *arolTVTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Norwich

I get lots of messages from supposed straight guys.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Chichester


"Why do the gay guys hit on the straight guys "

Because maybe the straight guy isn’t always straight. Why do men hit on women that are not interested in them type etc.

Chance. Nothing to lose

I get messages continuously 7 days a week from straight profiles on here. Some are very anti gay / trans profiles yet ask to meet me discreetly. lol why ?

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By *uriousKouplingCouple
19 weeks ago

Rushden

It's a challenge lol

Mrgets hit on every time we go out

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By *eroLondonMan
19 weeks ago

Mayfair


"...i think to a certain extent there's a bit of gay in everyone "

If that was true (it isn't) then every 50-something bisexual man would only possess one brain cell.

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By *smiaTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Ilkeston

Cant you ask the same why do straight guys hit on lesbians

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By *horskin! OP   Man
19 weeks ago

your kink


"Cant you ask the same why do straight guys hit on lesbians "
its not something I have ever done i but I get your point

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By *corcherMan
19 weeks ago

Loughborough

I think there's a gay fantasy of turning a straight male, much like men thinking they can turn a lesbian straight.

There's also the chance the recipient is actually bi, despite profile saying straight aka fab straight.

Fab is numbers game for some. You send enough messages maybe someone will bite.

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By *ssexboyxxxMan
18 weeks ago

Epping Essex

Straight here for gay to message

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By *horskin! OP   Man
18 weeks ago

your kink

I take it as a compliment, I have come accustomed to going on cam for guys now to watch me I guess it may be the look but can't touch that gets their blood pumping or so they tell me

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By *lut4str8Man
18 weeks ago

Flitwick

I think a part of it is wanting something you can’t have, but hopefully finding out you can. Something forbidden.

I guess a lot of people can relate to that in their own way.

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By *horskin! OP   Man
18 weeks ago

your kink

It's probably a bit of power play too, I'm a switch so when my dom side comes out

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By *r Mind CandyMan
18 weeks ago

Cheshire


"Cant you ask the same why do straight guys hit on lesbians "

Because I’m a lesbian trapped in a straight man’s body! ☺️

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By *smiaTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Ilkeston


"Cant you ask the same why do straight guys hit on lesbians

Because I’m a lesbian trapped in a straight man’s body! ☺️"

Oh i know how that one felt 🤭😂 welcome to the club

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By *usim05Man
16 weeks ago

cardiff

I'm waiting for gay guys to hit on me

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