FabSwingers.com forum: Is it silly season?

By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

I've had a string of messages with just 'hi' on them, several unsolicited, negative critiques of my profile and another which just said 'slag'.

I'm glad I've got you lot. I was going to say sane lot but that's taking things a bit too far.

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By *irty RascalMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

"I've had a string of messages with just 'hi' on them, several unsolicited, negative critiques of my profile and another which just said 'slag'.

I'm glad I've got you lot. I was going to say sane lot but that's taking things a bit too far. "

I reckon it's to do with the heat. Some are getting so horny and frustrated, that they've lost all patience when trying to set up meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a string of messages with just 'hi' on them, several unsolicited, negative critiques of my profile and another which just said 'slag'.

I'm glad I've got you lot. I was going to say sane lot but that's taking things a bit too far. "

My messages have got a bit mean at times lately also - someone asked me if I could really afford to be fussy a few days ago

I blame the heat also...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a string of messages with just 'hi' on them, several unsolicited, negative critiques of my profile and another which just said 'slag'.

I'm glad I've got you lot. I was going to say sane lot but that's taking things a bit too far.

My messages have got a bit mean at times lately also - someone asked me if I could really afford to be fussy a few days ago

I blame the heat also..."

cheeky fecker,what did u say to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a string of messages with just 'hi' on them, several unsolicited, negative critiques of my profile and another which just said 'slag'.

I'm glad I've got you lot. I was going to say sane lot but that's taking things a bit too far.

My messages have got a bit mean at times lately also - someone asked me if I could really afford to be fussy a few days ago

I blame the heat also...

cheeky fecker,what did u say to him

Nothing as mean as I wanted to say. Just "it certainly seems that way, doesn't it?" and a block..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a string of messages with just 'hi' on them, several unsolicited, negative critiques of my profile and another which just said 'slag'.

I'm glad I've got you lot. I was going to say sane lot but that's taking things a bit too far. "

Well having been on here before my second time has been somewhat frustrating, to the point where i was thinking if leaving. But I got a wink and a message from a lovely couple saying be patient and just be yourself

Have to say that has really perked me up , I know I would never be disrespectful to other users on here.. But it's nice when you get a response like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a string of messages with just 'hi' on them, several unsolicited, negative critiques of my profile and another which just said 'slag'.

I'm glad I've got you lot. I was going to say sane lot but that's taking things a bit too far.

My messages have got a bit mean at times lately also - someone asked me if I could really afford to be fussy a few days ago

I blame the heat also...

cheeky fecker,what did u say to him

Nothing as mean as I wanted to say. Just "it certainly seems that way, doesn't it?" and a block.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been here over a year in total. Never got mean or abusive messages til one day last week I got loads. First time I ever reported someone, then ended up reporting three in one evening.!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a string of messages with just 'hi' on them, several unsolicited, negative critiques of my profile and another which just said 'slag'.

I'm glad I've got you lot. I was going to say sane lot but that's taking things a bit too far.

My messages have got a bit mean at times lately also - someone asked me if I could really afford to be fussy a few days ago

I blame the heat also..."

I think your profile is great!! Your a very attractive and sexy woman, all you have done is detail what you want!!

That's what this site is about right!!

The guys are probably pissed off at looking at themselves in the mirror and not liking what they see and feel the need to abuse woman who are obviously out of their league!!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a string of messages with just 'hi' on them, several unsolicited, negative critiques of my profile and another which just said 'slag'.

I'm glad I've got you lot. I was going to say sane lot but that's taking things a bit too far.

My messages have got a bit mean at times lately also - someone asked me if I could really afford to be fussy a few days ago

I blame the heat also...

I think your profile is great!! Your a very attractive and sexy woman, all you have done is detail what you want!!

That's what this site is about right!!

The guys are probably pissed off at looking at themselves in the mirror and not liking what they see and feel the need to abuse woman who are obviously out of their league!!! Xx"

Thanks!

I just don't understand why people send abusive messages - there are plenty on here who aren't my type but that's fine, they don't need to hear about it...

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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago

truro

With a profile like yours the world is your oyster on this site. What most men seem to think is that you are hard up for cock. Guys that stand out for us are the ones that send interesting messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have not once had a bad message, even when I had a decent profile that was actively looking for single meets, and I'm a fat trout, I'm sure I should be greatful for all the sexy hunky men I've got to play with really

Have now found my mr perfect though so I don't care what the idiots think and ladies, they r idiots if they disrespect u ever as ur all lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't be searched as I have not indicated the type of person/people I am looking for.

I hide my verifications and friends list from Day 1 and it does not appear to have done me any harm.

I still get the odd messages, majority are crude one-liners, usually when I am using the phone to access FAB, and it is clear in the message that the sender has not read much of my profile if at all.

I just ignore, delete, block and move on.

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"I can't be searched as I have not indicated the type of person/people I am looking for.

I hide my verifications and friends list from Day 1 and it does not appear to have done me any harm.

I still get the odd messages, majority are crude one-liners, usually when I am using the phone to access FAB, and it is clear in the message that the sender has not read much of my profile if at all.

I just ignore, delete, block and move on.

Oh I do Pearl but sometimes it's nice to 'play' with the sender. KWIM?

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By *ecor atorMan
over a year ago

York

"I've had a string of messages with just 'hi' on them, several unsolicited, negative critiques of my profile and another which just said 'slag'.

I'm glad I've got you lot. I was going to say sane lot but that's taking things a bit too far. "

It astounds me that anyone would go to the effort of joining a site such as this and then deliberately message someone and slag them off.

It's just not normal behaviour.

I think your profile and pics are lovely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a message calling me all the names under the Sun. It told me how could I possibly want fun lookin how I do etc. Also how if it wasn't for this site I would still be a virgin.

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