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By *erdyguy45 OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Solihull/milton keynes & other

I've only been on the scene for about 6 months and been lucky to have met a few people socially and for fun.

But I find myself constantly in ups and downs with it all, and second guessing whether its right for me.

Does that pass or is it a sign I should leave it?

Does anyone else feel the same?

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
24 weeks ago

Coventry

As a single guy I knew it was right for me. I really started enjoying the wider aspects of the scene as well as one on one experiences. I loved the freedom and the opportunity. I never looked back and feel very much the same 8 years into our relationship. To me swinging and the wider scene very much is a hobby that's part of my daily life. A box that once I've come out of I never want to go back.

Sounds like for you it's a take or leave thing which is fine. Just come and go as you please. Is it getting in the way of other things you'd like to do with your life?

Mr

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By *erdyguy45 OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Solihull/milton keynes & other


"As a single guy I knew it was right for me. I really started enjoying the wider aspects of the scene as well as one on one experiences. I loved the freedom and the opportunity. I never looked back and feel very much the same 8 years into our relationship. To me swinging and the wider scene very much is a hobby that's part of my daily life. A box that once I've come out of I never want to go back.

Sounds like for you it's a take or leave thing which is fine. Just come and go as you please. Is it getting in the way of other things you'd like to do with your life?

Mr"

It's not getting in the way of things I just sometimes don't "feel" it. Other times I do really enjoy it and I do enjoy the social side to as made some nice friends along the way. I think your right I could easily take or leave it though and that's what makes me wonder.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
24 weeks ago

Coventry


"As a single guy I knew it was right for me. I really started enjoying the wider aspects of the scene as well as one on one experiences. I loved the freedom and the opportunity. I never looked back and feel very much the same 8 years into our relationship. To me swinging and the wider scene very much is a hobby that's part of my daily life. A box that once I've come out of I never want to go back.

Sounds like for you it's a take or leave thing which is fine. Just come and go as you please. Is it getting in the way of other things you'd like to do with your life?

Mr

It's not getting in the way of things I just sometimes don't "feel" it. Other times I do really enjoy it and I do enjoy the social side to as made some nice friends along the way. I think your right I could easily take or leave it though and that's what makes me wonder."

Then simply dip in and out as you feel and enjoy

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By *icecouple561Couple
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24 weeks ago

East Sussex

If you can easily take it or leave it I think you have just the right attitude.

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By *erdyguy45 OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Solihull/milton keynes & other


"If you can easily take it or leave it I think you have just the right attitude. "

Really? I get ribbed about it with some of the social group that I cant stick with it (light banter only). Just made me think about it.

Thanks for positive opinion though

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By *icecouple561Couple
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24 weeks ago

East Sussex


"If you can easily take it or leave it I think you have just the right attitude.

Really? I get ribbed about it with some of the social group that I cant stick with it (light banter only). Just made me think about it.

Thanks for positive opinion though "

I have noticed that people who take it very seriously get frustrated quite easily.

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By *erdyguy45 OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Solihull/milton keynes & other


"If you can easily take it or leave it I think you have just the right attitude.

Really? I get ribbed about it with some of the social group that I cant stick with it (light banter only). Just made me think about it.

Thanks for positive opinion though

I have noticed that people who take it very seriously get frustrated quite easily. "

I suppose that makes sense based on a few observations.

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