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"Could you not have a later lunch? Or include ‘dinner’ in the meet? Maybe a lighter dinner? " Thing is my partner is in a meeting and they all go for a lunch together and by the time he’s back it’s gone 6/7 . Lots of people don’t want to meet for dinner in fact they just want to come fuck us and go but we prefer less rushed meets. My partner is a massive foodie so if I suggested a lighter dinner I don’t think it would go down well lol x | |||
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"Pull a sickie and have a wild night , break the bed etc 😂 go down for breakfast in a proper state whilst doing the walk of shame . " We only here for 2 days for some very important meetings that is far more important that finding some fun lol but I like the idea haha ! | |||
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"Was gonna suggest do the meeting via zoom but don't think that's a goer either 😁" Sadly not he does all his meetings on zoom when he’s back home the whole point of us travelling to here is that he has face to face meetings with the team, be very pointless to travel 4/5 hours in a car to a hotel room just to do a zoom call than can be done from his house. I guess it’s just frustrating because there some lovely people down here we would love to meet x | |||
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"I don’t know about anyone else an it’s probably worse for couples as it takes longer for two people to get ready etc. We find when we work and stay away in hotels that there is never time to have a meet, by the time we have got in from the office to the hotel, both showered and got ready, gone out for dinner and then come back it’s gone 9-9.30 and by that point we winding down ready for bed as up early again next morning. It’s a shame because there are so many people that we would love to play with in different parts of the country but just don’t have the time and have to tell them no even though we want to ? " You need to adjust your plans. Why would you go out for dinner if you want to have a meet? Just have a big lunch. Go home, freshen up. Have your meet. Then go out for dinner or food after if you want. | |||
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"I don’t know about anyone else an it’s probably worse for couples as it takes longer for two people to get ready etc. We find when we work and stay away in hotels that there is never time to have a meet, by the time we have got in from the office to the hotel, both showered and got ready, gone out for dinner and then come back it’s gone 9-9.30 and by that point we winding down ready for bed as up early again next morning. It’s a shame because there are so many people that we would love to play with in different parts of the country but just don’t have the time and have to tell them no even though we want to ? You need to adjust your plans. Why would you go out for dinner if you want to have a meet? Just have a big lunch. Go home, freshen up. Have your meet. Then go out for dinner or food after if you want." By that comment you are assuming we want a quick hook up fuck and then get on with our evening , firstly we require a social first if it’s a new person or couple AND partner but more importantly we want long sensual play with lots of foreplay and hours of fun, beast gets hangry so no way he would be up for playing before his dinner ! | |||
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"I don’t know about anyone else an it’s probably worse for couples as it takes longer for two people to get ready etc. We find when we work and stay away in hotels that there is never time to have a meet, by the time we have got in from the office to the hotel, both showered and got ready, gone out for dinner and then come back it’s gone 9-9.30 and by that point we winding down ready for bed as up early again next morning. It’s a shame because there are so many people that we would love to play with in different parts of the country but just don’t have the time and have to tell them no even though we want to ? You need to adjust your plans. Why would you go out for dinner if you want to have a meet? Just have a big lunch. Go home, freshen up. Have your meet. Then go out for dinner or food after if you want. By that comment you are assuming we want a quick hook up fuck and then get on with our evening , firstly we require a social first if it’s a new person or couple AND partner but more importantly we want long sensual play with lots of foreplay and hours of fun, beast gets hangry so no way he would be up for playing before his dinner ! " I must admit it seem like an answer to your problem is difficult then. Do you often return fairly frequently to the same areas? If so you may need to break things down a little. For example a social one night and arrange a play meet for a night in the future when you're back in that part of the world. It is difficult to find people who want to start their night off at 9pm on a week night and be on a date till the sun comes up. I guess it is what it is. | |||
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"I don’t know about anyone else an it’s probably worse for couples as it takes longer for two people to get ready etc. We find when we work and stay away in hotels that there is never time to have a meet, by the time we have got in from the office to the hotel, both showered and got ready, gone out for dinner and then come back it’s gone 9-9.30 and by that point we winding down ready for bed as up early again next morning. It’s a shame because there are so many people that we would love to play with in different parts of the country but just don’t have the time and have to tell them no even though we want to ? You need to adjust your plans. Why would you go out for dinner if you want to have a meet? Just have a big lunch. Go home, freshen up. Have your meet. Then go out for dinner or food after if you want. By that comment you are assuming we want a quick hook up fuck and then get on with our evening , firstly we require a social first if it’s a new person or couple AND partner but more importantly we want long sensual play with lots of foreplay and hours of fun, beast gets hangry so no way he would be up for playing before his dinner ! I must admit it seem like an answer to your problem is difficult then. Do you often return fairly frequently to the same areas? If so you may need to break things down a little. For example a social one night and arrange a play meet for a night in the future when you're back in that part of the world. It is difficult to find people who want to start their night off at 9pm on a week night and be on a date till the sun comes up. I guess it is what it is. " That’s a good idea  thank you | |||
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"I stay in hotels regularly and would love socials and more if we click Lots don’t meet visitors to an area sadly " We always refuse the messages like 'at a hotel now, fancy a drink at the bar and coming back to my room?' But would consider someone on business in the area if they'd messaged us a few days before and we'd had enough of a chat to determine a) they're not a travelling murdering nutter and b) there's a spark of attraction to explore. OP, if you're dead set on having dinner, I think you'll have to concede to either a shorter playtime or less sleep. But the suggestion of meeting for a social on one visit and then playtime the next time you're in the area is good. If someone invited us on that basis we'd be up for it. | |||
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"I stay in hotels regularly and would love socials and more if we click Lots don’t meet visitors to an area sadly We always refuse the messages like 'at a hotel now, fancy a drink at the bar and coming back to my room?' But would consider someone on business in the area if they'd messaged us a few days before and we'd had enough of a chat to determine a) they're not a travelling murdering nutter and b) there's a spark of attraction to explore. OP, if you're dead set on having dinner, I think you'll have to concede to either a shorter playtime or less sleep. But the suggestion of meeting for a social on one visit and then playtime the next time you're in the area is good. If someone invited us on that basis we'd be up for it. " Totally agree re trying to arrange a social in advance, the in a hotel now isn’t me tbh | |||
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"I stay in hotels regularly and would love socials and more if we click Lots don’t meet visitors to an area sadly We always refuse the messages like 'at a hotel now, fancy a drink at the bar and coming back to my room?' But would consider someone on business in the area if they'd messaged us a few days before and we'd had enough of a chat to determine a) they're not a travelling murdering nutter and b) there's a spark of attraction to explore. OP, if you're dead set on having dinner, I think you'll have to concede to either a shorter playtime or less sleep. But the suggestion of meeting for a social on one visit and then playtime the next time you're in the area is good. If someone invited us on that basis we'd be up for it. " Yeah I think we have to rethink it and we are the same when someone’s in our area and expects us to drop everything so we get it, we will reassess how we go about things , thanks for all the comments and advice x | |||
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"I don’t know about anyone else an it’s probably worse for couples as it takes longer for two people to get ready etc. We find when we work and stay away in hotels that there is never time to have a meet, by the time we have got in from the office to the hotel, both showered and got ready, gone out for dinner and then come back it’s gone 9-9.30 and by that point we winding down ready for bed as up early again next morning. It’s a shame because there are so many people that we would love to play with in different parts of the country but just don’t have the time and have to tell them no even though we want to ? " The trick is to book a hotel near the office, and finish work early. I find the reverse true, more happens when I'm in hotels | |||
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"You need to decide if food or sex is your priority. " what would be your priority lol x | |||
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"... if they'd messaged us a few days before and we'd had enough of a chat to determine a) they're not a travelling murdering nutter and b) there's a spark of attraction..." ...good idea, but isn't "I'm not a travelling murdering nutter" exactly what a travelling murdering nutter would tell you...?  | |||
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