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By *iveshowcouple2 OP   Couple
24 weeks ago

glasgow

When we first joined this site maybe 17 years ago we got heaps of messages from couples in their twenties. About 10 years ago we got heaps of message from couples in their thirties.

Now we are lucky if we get noticed by anyone under 60. lol

The march of time is cruel.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
24 weeks ago

norwich ish

Guess that’s why actually going to clubs is better.

At a recent link club event we chatted to a couple in their 30’s teaching them a bit about rope. They later found us on the other site and were a bit shocked by our ages having assumed we were the same age as them.

Flattering but also showing that it’s just a number.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

You still look great if that helps. Internet vs. real world is always a different beast.

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By *hades Of GreyMan
24 weeks ago

Leeds

Perhaps you'd get more messages if you reduce your block list.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
24 weeks ago

East Sussex

Yeah same but that might be because our filters start at 55

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By *ellyAndYammiTV/TS
24 weeks ago

eastbourne

Think online so impersonal that sometimes numbers matter to much to people, when you get along with people in person things matter a lot less.

I mean I am 35 and had people in 20s not notice my age and then think that I’m too old for em lol. So isn’t any safety from being ostracised for numbers lol. Think it’s natural to want people around age when on impersonal online thingies. But we find age ranges of hookups are way bigger in real life at socials when chemistry can actually come into play. Pretty hard to connect via text and a few pictures as much.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I worked as a night club doorman up until recently

Joined this site originally it’s conception and was good for first 5 years or so

Then I found age got in the way, nobody in here really wants to shag a guy over 50

Yet I worked 4 nights a week on the door and was propositioned by women ranging from 16- 80 right up until last year when I retired

I am about to turn 65 and can get more luck the old fashioned organic way than online

Age is in the eye of the beholder

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By *oucancallmeAlMan
24 weeks ago

ipswich

Older, bolder and cheaper car insurance

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By *avexxMan
24 weeks ago

cheshire

its a bugger isnt it,, big group hug for us oldies

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By *ngelLordCouple
24 weeks ago

Newport

What matters u still enjoy yourselves

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By *ustus5555Woman
24 weeks ago

Nottingham

On our last club meet hubby was amazed that a woman in her late twenties wanted him all to herself. He politely explained that we don't play that way & all she said was " oh she can watch if she wants but your my kind of kink"

He's never had it happen before & I was in hysterics.

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By *ealitybitesMan
24 weeks ago

Belfast


"I worked as a night club doorman up until recently

Joined this site originally it’s conception and was good for first 5 years or so

Then I found age got in the way, nobody in here really wants to shag a guy over 50

Yet I worked 4 nights a week on the door and was propositioned by women ranging from 16- 80 right up until last year when I retired

I am about to turn 65 and can get more luck the old fashioned organic way than online

Age is in the eye of the beholder "

My experience is the complete opposite. I've rarely been propositioned anywhere but here.

I was almost 52 when I signed up here and never once had a conversation about my age and it has never stopped me from meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

wow liveshow, stunning, and yes I feel it too, getting old is no fun it seems, chat to plenty on here, always courteous and friendly but maybe it's being too nice lol or maybe it's being over 50 that's holding me back, or maybe it's me thinking my age is a barrier, after all who wants an old (albeit in decent shape) fogey.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I get it when I started 20 years ago I was always too young for people now here I am lucky to get noticed and now I’m too old, or so you guys think 😉😂😂

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
24 weeks ago

caterham

We do get a lot of younger guys messaging us

Bur wife dont want a guy in his 20s

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By *ax6593Man
24 weeks ago

tyneside

Feel

Free to message lol 👿

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By *nvader2021Couple
24 weeks ago

Watford

Yep interesting how it works… we still get msgs from guys in their 20’s & 30’s and tend to politely say no. 40’s guys are Mrs favoured… We know about filters but don’t employ them for anything or anyone due to treating people at face value…. luckily we’re told we look 10 years younger than we do, definitely don’t act our ages, and guess this day and age with so much good information, diet, exercise regimes and skincare, etc. it’s easier to stay young than previous generations

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By *mpeyeMan
24 weeks ago

Worthing

It's paticularly harsh when you have a birthday & find yourself now out of someone's age range....

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By *iveshowcouple2 OP   Couple
24 weeks ago

glasgow


"It's paticularly harsh when you have a birthday & find yourself now out of someone's age range...."

On the other hand it’s better to be told you are too old than be told you are pig ugly. lol

It’s the easier of two rejections

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By *anenkamCouple
24 weeks ago

manchester

Just an observation but guys generally will fuck anything with a pulse

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By *ancingDuo666Couple
24 weeks ago

milton keynes

Myself and hubby have just said we just want to age disgracefully and enjoy ourselves 😂 one thing I definitely can’t stand is text speak it makes me want to pour bleach in my eyes especially from younger men 🤦🏻‍♂️😂

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
24 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)


"It's paticularly harsh when you have a birthday & find yourself now out of someone's age range...."

It’s even harder when one of you is outside of the age range and one of you isn’t means we both get treated the same

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By *JustfunxxxMan
24 weeks ago

Charing


"Guess that’s why actually going to clubs is better.

At a recent link club event we chatted to a couple in their 30’s teaching them a bit about rope. They later found us on the other site and were a bit shocked by our ages having assumed we were the same age as them.

Flattering but also showing that it’s just a number."

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By *JustfunxxxMan
24 weeks ago

Charing


"Guess that’s why actually going to clubs is better.

At a recent link club event we chatted to a couple in their 30’s teaching them a bit about rope. They later found us on the other site and were a bit shocked by our ages having assumed we were the same age as them.

What other site do you use?

Flattering but also showing that it’s just a number."

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
24 weeks ago

Around the Midlands


"Yep interesting how it works… we still get msgs from guys in their 20’s & 30’s and tend to politely say no. 40’s guys are Mrs favoured… We know about filters but don’t employ them for anything or anyone due to treating people at face value…. luckily we’re told we look 10 years younger than we do, definitely don’t act our ages, and guess this day and age with so much good information, diet, exercise regimes and skincare, etc. it’s easier to stay young than previous generations

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⬆️ This for us too!

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By *layfull pairingCouple
24 weeks ago

Bristol

We are now out of many people’s age ranges on here but have found that in clubs it makes no odds at all.... we hit it off with all ages then, including a much younger crowd.. Online can be very fickle.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
24 weeks ago

norwich ish


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What other site do you use?

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Ones more aimed at kink

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By *nvader2021Couple
24 weeks ago

Watford

Looking at the couple profiles on this thread and have to say they all very attractive

Conclusion, could be age is just a number…

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By *he MinionMan
24 weeks ago

Surrey


"When we first joined this site maybe 17 years ago we got heaps of messages from couples in their twenties. About 10 years ago we got heaps of message from couples in their thirties.

Now we are lucky if we get noticed by anyone under 60. lol

The march of time is cruel. "

You look great to me but ironically, I'm too old for you !

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By *eroLondonMan
24 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Just an observation but guys generally will fuck anything with a pulse "

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Equally so, most women will permit themselves to be bonked by any mediocre man, without an air of discernment.

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By *moothshaftMan
24 weeks ago

Coventry


"Perhaps you'd get more messages if you reduce your block list. "

Was about to type the same thing!

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
24 weeks ago

Coventry


"Guess that’s why actually going to clubs is better.

At a recent link club event we chatted to a couple in their 30’s teaching them a bit about rope. They later found us on the other site and were a bit shocked by our ages having assumed we were the same age as them.

Flattering but also showing that it’s just a number."

Clubs are an ageless place. It's not like people generally go around asking age. If you fancy them and chemistry is there that's all you need to know. We've played with a fairly wide age range because if you're hot you're hot. Generally you sort of know how old people are ish. However likewise We've found out people ages after when they've left a verification or profile details and been very surprised at their age (in both directions).

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By *hisIsMe58Man
24 weeks ago

Winchester

As time catches up with us, I think we all find it harder to find those who will engage with us and chat. There are still those that will, but maybe from a diminished pool.

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By *ev_1Couple
24 weeks ago

Bickliegh


"When we first joined this site maybe 17 years ago we got heaps of messages from couples in their twenties. About 10 years ago we got heaps of message from couples in their thirties.

Now we are lucky if we get noticed by anyone under 60. lol

The march of time is cruel. "
HELLO

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By *ltra72Man
24 weeks ago

edinburgh


"On our last club meet hubby was amazed that a woman in her late twenties wanted him all to herself. He politely explained that we don't play that way & all she said was " oh she can watch if she wants but your my kind of kink"

He's never had it happen before & I was in hysterics. "

So did you watch

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By *iveshowcouple2 OP   Couple
24 weeks ago

glasgow

I think it’s important on this issue not to be self delusional. Looking at the mirror and imagining that you remain youthful, pert and sexy.

Of course some lucky people can hold back the tide for a while. Good genes and healthy diet etc.

But only for a while then fab can become a very cruel place for a sensitive person.

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