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A compliment leading to a block.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
24 weeks ago

Why is it a genuine compliment sometimes leads to a block?

I love a compliment. So struggling to understand why someone would block when they receive one.

Thoughts?

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
24 weeks ago

Essex

Without any context of what you’ve said will just say even though you mean it as a compliment it may not be perceived as a compliment. Fab isn’t for the sensitive being blocked by people who aren’t interested happens to us all.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Was it the first message or the last in a long line that weren't answered before it?

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By *hwellwhynotCouple
24 weeks ago

London

Perhaps they arnt interested in married guys ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
24 weeks ago


"Was it the first message or the last in a long line that weren't answered before it?"

First message. I don’t bombard with repeated messages like some on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
24 weeks ago


"Perhaps they arnt interested in married guys ?"

Fair point.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I used to reply to compliments.no more. Too many experiences of getting them from people I state on the profile no interest in and they send one any how. Fair enough

However, they then use my thank you reply as an indicator to try and generate a conversation and can get abusive when I shut them down.

Additionally, if I put up the filter for no messages from men (which I do occasionally) if I've replied to them they can bypass that filter.

Hence, it's just easier not to reply, and I feel a genuine genuine compliment shouldn't expect one either.

A compliment is just that.

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By *oundtightCouple
24 weeks ago

Manchester

Complaining is unattractive

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By *ustus5555Woman
24 weeks ago

Nottingham

Because if its done in the forum's ,its then taken as a invite into my inbox. That will then result in a block. Simples. 🤷

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
24 weeks ago


"Complaining is unattractive"

That’s an opinion based comment.

In your opinion I’m “complaining”

In your opinion “complaining” is “unattractive”

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By *lofeldMan
24 weeks ago

Redhill

It's pretty simple I would imagine, in that the person is not interested. And they are not wanting any further messages as some people are so entitled that they think they deserve a response.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
24 weeks ago


"It's pretty simple I would imagine, in that the person is not interested. And they are not wanting any further messages as some people are so entitled that they think they deserve a response."

Cheers. BTW I never mentioned a response. I don’t expect a response. My point was about being blocked what I view as a positive.

But we’re all entitled to have our own opinions

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