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By *rhuges OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Cardiff

So I'll send a nicely worded message with pictures to a couple. They open it and then nothing.

Why don't they delete them if they are not interested??.

This isn't just a one off it's almost every time.

No criticism just curious as to what they are thinking

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By *ustus5555Woman
25 weeks ago

Nottingham

If your messaging a cpl , it's usually because one half has read it & left it for the other half to read.

Not always. But usually

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By *icecouple561Couple
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25 weeks ago

East Sussex

I think it's best for peace of mind to assume that everything other than an enthusiastic reply is a polite 'no thank you'. It stops the wondering

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25 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"So I'll send a nicely worded message with pictures to a couple. They open it and then nothing.

Why don't they delete them if they are not interested??.

This isn't just a one off it's almost every time.

No criticism just curious as to what they are thinking "

Who cares if they delete it or not? They didn’t respond either way.

If I were you I’d avoid checking if people have read your messages or not. Once something is sent just clear your mind and move on from it.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Chichester


"So I'll send a nicely worded message with pictures to a couple. They open it and then nothing.

Why don't they delete them if they are not interested??.

This isn't just a one off it's almost every time.

No criticism just curious as to what they are thinking "

I delete messages when I bulk delete I’ll save messages of interest and then just use my saved message list as primary

They are thinking nothing as it means nothing. It’s just random messages. Propose manage mail boxes differently.

Do yourself a favour and delete your sent messages after sending one. That way you won’t be tempted to read sent messages and get bent out of shape over if they get read / ignored etc

Fire and forget always the optimal approach

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By *rhuges OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Cardiff

Not when it's been read sitting there for 3 weeks

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

25 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Not when it's been read sitting there for 3 weeks"

Use the reply+quote button so we know who you're answering

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By *ockdownlickdownMan
25 weeks ago

paisley


"Not when it's been read sitting there for 3 weeks"

The question is either predicated on a misunderstanding or a sense of entitlement. Benefit of the doubt.... It's a misunderstanding. There is no benefit to my mind of deleting a received message, so I don't do it. You are attaching a meaning to this that is inappropriate.

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By *.S..Man
25 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Don’t get caught up of someone hasn’t replied back it’s ok

Move on

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