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"For single males.... So why is that?" It’s a swingers site not a hook up site… | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that? It’s a swingers site not a hook up site…" It's a whatever you want it to be site. There's 100s of men to each woman. Simple maths, I'm afraid 🤓🥷 | |||
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"But singles can join. Why?" Because it CAN be used to find casual sex with women or couples however it was originally meant for like minded couples etc, single men are normally irritating to the females and couples but not all and one person can ruin it for all the men on here as we have spoken to and met at clubs lots of lovely gents, you need to be patient and remember to read profiles  | |||
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"Because single men aren't swingers...they're shaggers, and most of the single guys literally shag anything. We don't hard swap but if i did I'd rather it be with a guy in a couple"  | |||
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"Because single men aren't swingers...they're shaggers, and most of the single guys literally shag anything. We don't hard swap but if i did I'd rather it be with a guy in a couple" I’m glad you said “most” I’m not here for numbers and I can class everyone I’ve met as a genuine friend. | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that?" you really are not going to like the answers you are about to get for this thread. also, if you thought you were not getting much attention for your profile. you just rated it to ZERO sorry, but that is the way it is. | |||
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"Because single men aren't swingers...they're shaggers, and most of the single guys literally shag anything. We don't hard swap but if i did I'd rather it be with a guy in a couple" If a single guy is looking to meet a couple it makes him a swinger doesn’t it? I agree that someone only looking for 121 isn’t regardless of gender. | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that? It’s a swingers site not a hook up site… It's a whatever you want it to be site. There's 100s of men to each woman. Simple maths, I'm afraid 🤓🥷" That's why it should be called Flab Swingers  | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that?" Are you speaking for all men? Because I know many men who have a great time here. | |||
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"Many are saying it's a swingers site. " Maybe that's why it's called fabswingers.com ? | |||
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"You talk rubbish 99% of the time anyway." Who does ? | |||
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"Many are saying it's a swingers site. Maybe that's why it's called fabswingers.com ?" Please clarify your meaning? | |||
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"Works for me. " cool I can see lol | |||
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"Have you tried a swingers club in the last ten years?" no sorry not for a long time. Is that ok? | |||
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"Have you tried a swingers club in the last ten years? no sorry not for a long time. Is that ok?" Of course it’s ok, just suggesting that might be a better place to meet people | |||
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"You talk rubbish 99% of the time anyway." If you use reply+quote we'll know who you're upset with. | |||
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"Maybe it’s not working for you, it’s certainly working for other single guys. It really depends what your expectations, effort level and general personality is like as to whether it will be a success for you. " I think there are to many variables for a man on here and for that reason false pretence for a man to think what they will end up getting. Sorry just my view not here to juggle opinions... | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that?" It's worth being on for a laugh at the predictable | |||
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"It works fine for those who understand it and people and are respectful " I guess fake pics or profiles don't help..  | |||
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"You talk rubbish 99% of the time anyway. If you use reply+quote we'll know who you're upset with." you | |||
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"You talk rubbish 99% of the time anyway. If you use reply+quote we'll know who you're upset with.you "Oh dear. How sad. Never mind  | |||
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"There are plenty of single males that the site works for. Don't get me wrong there are 100's that bring the site down by thinking its #instashag and make no effort whatsoever which do put the majority off." Thanks for your input, but no published veris on your profile? Are you another free subscriber? | |||
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"You talk rubbish 99% of the time anyway. If you use reply+quote we'll know who you're upset with.you
Oh dear. How sad. Never mind "we spoke before and you didn't like what I said so you blocked me... | |||
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"There are plenty of single males that the site works for. Don't get me wrong there are 100's that bring the site down by thinking its #instashag and make no effort whatsoever which do put the majority off. Thanks for your input, but no published veris on your profile? Are you another free subscriber?" What difference does it make if my veris show or not...the green tick on my profile shows that I have been verified. Who I've met has nothing to do with anyone else. | |||
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Oh dear. How sad. Never mind we spoke before and you didn't like what I said so you blocked me... "I don't think we're supposed to talk about blocks on the forum. I just engage with people and what they're saying 🤷♀️ | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that?" It works perfectly fine for some men...Especially men that understand and invest time in the lifestyle (going to socials/clubs etc) and men that invest time in their profiles and exercise patience. Your profile and photos are very generic, bio is uninspiring and you cannot accommodate (a red flag for many).... It's likely that you just don't stand out enough but you may also have expectations that don't meet reality. We are swingers, we couple swap and also we meet single guys, but a lot of guys here are not right for us. If we were to calculate the amount of guys we've met off here vs the amount of messages from guys, the odds of a meet are probably less than 0.0001% | |||
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"Look at it this way it’s supply and demand, there is a vast excess of men on this site (supply) but very little demand for them and when you factor in this equation then you can get a better understanding of it. There is still the notion that a single man can join a site such as this and get all the sex he wants which is not the case which in itself leaves a lot to be said." Algebra is a branch of plus and minus and other alternatives too... | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that?" Maybe it's the piss poor attitude and the negativity. I see you made a similar post over a year ago, didn't learn much from that did you? Also commenting "waste of time" on some of the more fun, interactive threads people have got going on, really doesn't create a good image. I've been here a while, I'll admit that, but that's my fault, I didn't try. You don't see me crying about it. Now I'm trying to be a bit more active, and who knows what will happen. If you're only looking for hookups, then please delete your account and go try tinder instead | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that? It works perfectly fine for some men...Especially men that understand and invest time in the lifestyle (going to socials/clubs etc) and men that invest time in their profiles and exercise patience. Your profile and photos are very generic, bio is uninspiring and you cannot accommodate (a red flag for many).... It's likely that you just don't stand out enough but you may also have expectations that don't meet reality. We are swingers, we couple swap and also we meet single guys, but a lot of guys here are not right for us. If we were to calculate the amount of guys we've met off here vs the amount of messages from guys, the odds of a meet are probably less than 0.0001% " Guys thanks for your comment back. What you have said in your response confirms my initial comment to this post. Free profile setups = crap. As we say in the IT industry "GIBO" - Garbage In Garbage Out. | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that? It works perfectly fine for some men...Especially men that understand and invest time in the lifestyle (going to socials/clubs etc) and men that invest time in their profiles and exercise patience. Your profile and photos are very generic, bio is uninspiring and you cannot accommodate (a red flag for many).... It's likely that you just don't stand out enough but you may also have expectations that don't meet reality. We are swingers, we couple swap and also we meet single guys, but a lot of guys here are not right for us. If we were to calculate the amount of guys we've met off here vs the amount of messages from guys, the odds of a meet are probably less than 0.0001% Guys thanks for your comment back. What you have said in your response confirms my initial comment to this post. Free profile setups = crap. As we say in the IT industry "GIBO" - Garbage In Garbage Out." So why you still here? Garbage needs to get out | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that?" • It does work for single men. Your perceived lack of success isn't an indication that "this site does not work". Single guys do just fine. Even guys like me who subscribe to a vanilla life on here and I'm not even a swinger in any shape or form. | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that? It works perfectly fine for some men...Especially men that understand and invest time in the lifestyle (going to socials/clubs etc) and men that invest time in their profiles and exercise patience. Your profile and photos are very generic, bio is uninspiring and you cannot accommodate (a red flag for many).... It's likely that you just don't stand out enough but you may also have expectations that don't meet reality. We are swingers, we couple swap and also we meet single guys, but a lot of guys here are not right for us. If we were to calculate the amount of guys we've met off here vs the amount of messages from guys, the odds of a meet are probably less than 0.0001% Guys thanks for your comment back. What you have said in your response confirms my initial comment to this post. Free profile setups = crap. As we say in the IT industry "GIBO" - Garbage In Garbage Out. So why you still here? Garbage needs to get out" Another freebie with no veris? | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that? It works perfectly fine for some men...Especially men that understand and invest time in the lifestyle (going to socials/clubs etc) and men that invest time in their profiles and exercise patience. Your profile and photos are very generic, bio is uninspiring and you cannot accommodate (a red flag for many).... It's likely that you just don't stand out enough but you may also have expectations that don't meet reality. We are swingers, we couple swap and also we meet single guys, but a lot of guys here are not right for us. If we were to calculate the amount of guys we've met off here vs the amount of messages from guys, the odds of a meet are probably less than 0.0001% Guys thanks for your comment back. What you have said in your response confirms my initial comment to this post. Free profile setups = crap. As we say in the IT industry "GIBO" - Garbage In Garbage Out. So why you still here? Garbage needs to get out Another freebie with no veris?" Actually no, I paid for my account and I might only have one in person verification, but I did explain above that I have been here a while, just didn't try | |||
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"Single men can be successful here It doesn't mean that each 1 is successful with everyone he wants to be successful with." What do you play as! | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that? It works perfectly fine for some men...Especially men that understand and invest time in the lifestyle (going to socials/clubs etc) and men that invest time in their profiles and exercise patience. Your profile and photos are very generic, bio is uninspiring and you cannot accommodate (a red flag for many).... It's likely that you just don't stand out enough but you may also have expectations that don't meet reality. We are swingers, we couple swap and also we meet single guys, but a lot of guys here are not right for us. If we were to calculate the amount of guys we've met off here vs the amount of messages from guys, the odds of a meet are probably less than 0.0001% Guys thanks for your comment back. What you have said in your response confirms my initial comment to this post. Free profile setups = crap. As we say in the IT industry "GIBO" - Garbage In Garbage Out. So why you still here? Garbage needs to get out Another freebie with no veris? Actually no, I paid for my account and I might only have one in person verification, but I did explain above that I have been here a while, just didn't try" Your veri is also 9 years newer than some people's most recent. I know which we'd see more as a real veri | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that? • It does work for single men. Your perceived lack of success isn't an indication that "this site does not work". Single guys do just fine. Even guys like me who subscribe to a vanilla life on here and I'm not even a swinger in any shape or form." What's your secret? | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that? • It does work for single men. Your perceived lack of success isn't an indication that "this site does not work". Single guys do just fine. Even guys like me who subscribe to a vanilla life on here and I'm not even a swinger in any shape or form. · What's your secret?" • Necromancy. | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that? • It does work for single men. Your perceived lack of success isn't an indication that "this site does not work". Single guys do just fine. Even guys like me who subscribe to a vanilla life on here and I'm not even a swinger in any shape or form. What's your secret?" He's not a dick | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that? It works perfectly fine for some men...Especially men that understand and invest time in the lifestyle (going to socials/clubs etc) and men that invest time in their profiles and exercise patience. Your profile and photos are very generic, bio is uninspiring and you cannot accommodate (a red flag for many).... It's likely that you just don't stand out enough but you may also have expectations that don't meet reality. We are swingers, we couple swap and also we meet single guys, but a lot of guys here are not right for us. If we were to calculate the amount of guys we've met off here vs the amount of messages from guys, the odds of a meet are probably less than 0.0001% Guys thanks for your comment back. What you have said in your response confirms my initial comment to this post. Free profile setups = crap. As we say in the IT industry "GIBO" - Garbage In Garbage Out. So why you still here? Garbage needs to get out Another freebie with no veris? Actually no, I paid for my account and I might only have one in person verification, but I did explain above that I have been here a while, just didn't try Your veri is also 9 years newer than some people's most recent. I know which we'd see more as a real veri" Thank you 😊 | |||
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"I get the feeling that the only responses in this chat that will be considered are the ones that feed into the OPs mentality. " Quite 🤷♀️ Why try to learn from others when you can beat your chest and dig yourself in further? | |||
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"Awww he blocked me now " what did I block you? No one else is blocked | |||
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"Awww he blocked me now " Hope it's not hurt you to much 🤣🤣 | |||
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"Awww he blocked me now Hope it's not hurt you to much 🤣🤣" no veris you just relax now.. | |||
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"Awww he blocked me now Hope it's not hurt you to much 🤣🤣" Oh I'm sure I'll survive 😜 | |||
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" Guys thanks for your comment back. What you have said in your response confirms my initial comment to this post. Free profile setups = crap. As we say in the IT industry "GIBO" - Garbage In Garbage Out." Not quite sure what you mean by free profile setup = crap. Isn't it just a case of crap profile = crap? Also...if GIBO is an abbreviation of "Garbage in Garbage out"....where does the letter B come into it? | |||
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"Awww he blocked me now Hope it's not hurt you to much 🤣🤣no veris you just relax now.." No veris on show you mean 🤣🤣🥰 | |||
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"There are plenty of single males that the site works for. Don't get me wrong there are 100's that bring the site down by thinking its #instashag and make no effort whatsoever which do put the majority off. Thanks for your input, but no published veris on your profile? Are you another free subscriber?" She doesn’t have to publish them for them to exist. And you can easily see who’s a site supporter. | |||
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"Awww he blocked me now Hope it's not hurt you to much 🤣🤣no veris you just relax now.." Neither have you if you follow the thought of your personality overhaul every 7-10 years | |||
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"Awww he blocked me now Hope it's not hurt you to much 🤣🤣 Oh I'm sure I'll survive 😜" He probably wanted all the replies to be along the lines of "because all the women are fake etc etc etc... | |||
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"Awww he blocked me now Hope it's not hurt you to much 🤣🤣 Oh I'm sure I'll survive 😜 He probably wanted all the replies to be along the lines of "because all the women are fake etc etc etc..." Oh I know, giving real Tate vibes out here 🤣 | |||
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"Awww he blocked me now Hope it's not hurt you to much 🤣🤣 Oh I'm sure I'll survive 😜 He probably wanted all the replies to be along the lines of "because all the women are fake etc etc etc..." no not at all just like to see people's views | |||
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"There are plenty of single males that the site works for. Don't get me wrong there are 100's that bring the site down by thinking its #instashag and make no effort whatsoever which do put the majority off. Thanks for your input, but no published veris on your profile? Are you another free subscriber? She doesn’t have to publish them for them to exist. And you can easily see who’s a site supporter. " Makes me laugh considering his last was 10 years ago 🤣🤣 | |||
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"Awww he blocked me now Hope it's not hurt you to much 🤣🤣 Oh I'm sure I'll survive 😜 He probably wanted all the replies to be along the lines of "because all the women are fake etc etc etc...no not at all just like to see people's views" You have basically insulted most who have answered......why?? | |||
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"Awww he blocked me now Hope it's not hurt you to much 🤣🤣 Oh I'm sure I'll survive 😜 He probably wanted all the replies to be along the lines of "because all the women are fake etc etc etc...no not at all just like to see people's views You have basically insulted most who have answered......why??" leave it out | |||
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"Awww he blocked me now Hope it's not hurt you to much 🤣🤣 Oh I'm sure I'll survive 😜 He probably wanted all the replies to be along the lines of "because all the women are fake etc etc etc...no not at all just like to see people's views You have basically insulted most who have answered......why??" Because they didn't agree with him | |||
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" As we say in the IT industry "GIBO" - Garbage In Garbage Out." Oh, the irony. | |||
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"Awww he blocked me now Hope it's not hurt you to much 🤣🤣 Oh I'm sure I'll survive 😜 He probably wanted all the replies to be along the lines of "because all the women are fake etc etc etc...no not at all just like to see people's views You have basically insulted most who have answered......why?? Because they didn't agree with him" Or its the closest he can get to actual interaction 🤷 | |||
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"There are plenty of single males that the site works for. Don't get me wrong there are 100's that bring the site down by thinking its #instashag and make no effort whatsoever which do put the majority off. Thanks for your input, but no published veris on your profile? Are you another free subscriber? She doesn’t have to publish them for them to exist. And you can easily see who’s a site supporter. Makes me laugh considering his last was 10 years ago 🤣🤣" And your profile isn't relevant to his question. His question might lead one to offer him profile advice to help him succeed. But profile advice or critique of women or couples won't answer his question. | |||
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"Awww he blocked me now Hope it's not hurt you to much 🤣🤣 Oh I'm sure I'll survive 😜 He probably wanted all the replies to be along the lines of "because all the women are fake etc etc etc...no not at all just like to see people's views You have basically insulted most who have answered......why?? Because they didn't agree with him" 100%....probably the most interaction he has had in ages. | |||
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"Awww he blocked me now Hope it's not hurt you to much 🤣🤣 Oh I'm sure I'll survive 😜 He probably wanted all the replies to be along the lines of "because all the women are fake etc etc etc...no not at all just like to see people's views You have basically insulted most who have answered......why?? Because they didn't agree with him Or its the closest he can get to actual interaction 🤷" Hit the nail on the head here | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that?" Seems to work well enough for the single guys we meet through Fab, and apart from a couple of randoms that P brought back after being out for the night all of our meets have been from Fab. | |||
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"Did I hit a nerve or two with some? It wasn't my intention if I did.." Not in the slightest...your replies were expected | |||
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"Did I hit a nerve or two with some? It wasn't my intention if I did.. Not in the slightest...your replies were expected "Yeah, same shit different day. | |||
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"Worried about free profiles? Wait until OP hears single women get in free to a lot of clubs and couples pay sometimes less than single guys. Simple facts if you want a local hookup there are far easier and better apps than Fab. Try any dating app, there are people who are only looking to hookup for ons. Obviously the reason I imagine single guys are on here rather than those dating apps is those dating apps mainly require a face pic. And a local search could reveal their desire to play away to a friend or relation of their partner. As I often say on these threads a single lady if they want can easily find a quick hookup and will be able to find a willing man to help in that endeavour. Not so much for a single guy, you will always have to work harder for that easy no strings attached fun. And as for the ladies that are on here rather than those dating apps, well maybe they enjoy the anonymity the variety, and as a fair few single women profiles say “no single guys” it is safe to assume that they are here to meet likeminded ladies. So yes single guys on here have it hard. You could whinge about it, or you could move on, or you could visit a club or a social and people will get to know you, and you will get veris and then you may meet more people. You never know, it could be you and not the site that is the problem." Sounds like either a templated or AI response. Sorry to say... | |||
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"Worried about free profiles? Wait until OP hears single women get in free to a lot of clubs and couples pay sometimes less than single guys. Simple facts if you want a local hookup there are far easier and better apps than Fab. Try any dating app, there are people who are only looking to hookup for ons. Obviously the reason I imagine single guys are on here rather than those dating apps is those dating apps mainly require a face pic. And a local search could reveal their desire to play away to a friend or relation of their partner. As I often say on these threads a single lady if they want can easily find a quick hookup and will be able to find a willing man to help in that endeavour. Not so much for a single guy, you will always have to work harder for that easy no strings attached fun. And as for the ladies that are on here rather than those dating apps, well maybe they enjoy the anonymity the variety, and as a fair few single women profiles say “no single guys” it is safe to assume that they are here to meet likeminded ladies. So yes single guys on here have it hard. You could whinge about it, or you could move on, or you could visit a club or a social and people will get to know you, and you will get veris and then you may meet more people. You never know, it could be you and not the site that is the problem." All that, plus the blatantly obvious 'supply and demand' element many guys seem to not grasp . The site worked well for me when I was a single guy. 😉 | |||
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"Sounds like either a templated or AI response. Sorry to say..." Sounds like someone is bitter…..sorry to say. | |||
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"We are predominantly here for single Men for Mrs M. " thanks for letting me know | |||
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"Sounds like either a templated or AI response. Sorry to say... Sounds like someone is bitter…..sorry to say." just saying what I think. Not here to feel bitter lol | |||
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"Sounds like either a templated or AI response. Sorry to say... Sounds like someone is bitter…..sorry to say.just saying what I think. Not here to feel bitter lol" Look clearly everyone has their own opinions and you are entitled to yours but this site isn’t set up for single men to use it for casual sex , it absolutely can work that way and will continue to work that way but it’s not the core. | |||
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"Sounds like either a templated or AI response. Sorry to say... Sounds like someone is bitter…..sorry to say." Oh but it makes it sooo much easier to block, doesn't it x | |||
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"There's a term (several in fact) used for a certain kind of men in clubs. Seems to fit. " ....... Dead? 😉 | |||
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"There's a term (several in fact) used for a certain kind of men in clubs. Seems to fit. " • She's fit.......................^ | |||
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"There's a term (several in fact) used for a certain kind of men in clubs. Seems to fit. ....... Dead? 😉" Really | |||
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"There's a term (several in fact) used for a certain kind of men in clubs. Seems to fit. " Yes yes yes.... | |||
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"The problem isn’t the single men… it’s the business model. Single men are the largest source of income for the site. There is therefore no incentive to moderate or police poor behaviour, including ghosting, fakes, and abusive communication. Over time, this has poisoned the experience for many genuine people here, including guys who are actually single and available, rather than in a relationship and living a fantasy life. We’ve pushed for negative feedback many times over the years, but it always gets shot down. But until the fundamental model changes, the site will continue to deteriorate for genuine swingers. " I do totally agree with you.. | |||
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"Been here 9 months had a full profile when I joined and pics made a lot of effort with my profile! sent messages to members I liked and 9 times out of 10 just read or deleted and to be honest this site as knocked my confidence big time! Over this period so yes the site don't work for everyone... my experience so far" Your veris say otherwise. You have met with someone | |||
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"Been here 9 months had a full profile when I joined and pics made a lot of effort with my profile! sent messages to members I liked and 9 times out of 10 just read or deleted and to be honest this site as knocked my confidence big time! Over this period so yes the site don't work for everyone... my experience so far Your veris say otherwise. You have met with someone" Back in 2016 … | |||
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"There's a term (several in fact) used for a certain kind of men in clubs. Seems to fit. ....... Dead? 😉 "It's a no count response lol.. | |||
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"There's a term (several in fact) used for a certain kind of men in clubs. Seems to fit. ....... Dead? 😉 It's a no count response lol.."It's a green arrow and block 😘 | |||
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" It's a green arrow and block 😘" Never knew what that green arrow did……🙈 | |||
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"Worried about free profiles? Wait until OP hears single women get in free to a lot of clubs and couples pay sometimes less than single guys. Simple facts if you want a local hookup there are far easier and better apps than Fab. Try any dating app, there are people who are only looking to hookup for ons. Obviously the reason I imagine single guys are on here rather than those dating apps is those dating apps mainly require a face pic. And a local search could reveal their desire to play away to a friend or relation of their partner. As I often say on these threads a single lady if they want can easily find a quick hookup and will be able to find a willing man to help in that endeavour. Not so much for a single guy, you will always have to work harder for that easy no strings attached fun. And as for the ladies that are on here rather than those dating apps, well maybe they enjoy the anonymity the variety, and as a fair few single women profiles say “no single guys” it is safe to assume that they are here to meet likeminded ladies. So yes single guys on here have it hard. You could whinge about it, or you could move on, or you could visit a club or a social and people will get to know you, and you will get veris and then you may meet more people. You never know, it could be you and not the site that is the problem. Sounds like either a templated or AI response. Sorry to say..." Read as a well put together polite heads up to me, someone willing to put a little time and effort in to a great response in thread. I’m a single guy and find it very hard on here, but as Spanking couple has explained very clearly. It is what it is. As a single guy, accept that, and don’t be rude to people that are actually engaging with you and trying to give some insight to your OP. | |||
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"What do the green arrows mean? " Clicking on the green arrow means you can see every thread a person has posted on | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that?" Its not just single males, in the years we have been on fab we have only met a few people from the site, most of our meets are from going to clubs and socials | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that? It’s a swingers site not a hook up site…" It used to be, sadly these days it's a site predominantly for people who are cheating, want to cheat or fantasists talking about cheating. Actual swinger's are in the minority. Singles treat it like a dating site ignoring and marginalising couples in favour of trying to meet a long term single person. And of all of those it's mainly men talking about wanking and how big their cock is or isn't and how no-one wants to meet them . | |||
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"It's a green arrow and block 😘 Never knew what that green arrow did……🙈" Au fait with it now? Handy for judging 'input' on the forum's 😉😘" Very. | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that?" Not all swingers require single males, and the ones that do have a lot of options. Admittedly I’m an average looking guy rather than an exceptional one but I’ve never had a meet from fab that came from me initiating contact via dm, all of my meets have been from couples that had initiated contact with me. If I wanted a quick shag I could 100% find it quicker and easier on tinder than fab | |||
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"We get loads of messages from single guys who within one or two messages are asking if Kitty meets alone. They aren't here to swing they are here looking for an easy shag. They are the ones you want to take issue with." I'd agree with Kitty's comments. It's all about the singles making the time and effort to communicate with other members. | |||
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"We get loads of messages from single guys who within one or two messages are asking if Kitty meets alone. They aren't here to swing they are here looking for an easy shag. They are the ones you want to take issue with." They missing out | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that?" Fab does work! There’s one single female in each of the four corners of the UK, and they usually meet someone! Just be in one of those corners 😁👍 | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that?" It works for those guys who work at it. No complaints here | |||
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"Nothing worse then seeing this kind of thread and then seeing no effort in there profile. You can't complain about not having meets if you haven't put in any effort to make yourself look good in your profile " No, that’s never the reason, it’s that Fab doesn’t work! | |||
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"Oh no, women aren't lining up to throw themselves at me. I've made no effort on my profile, but I can't be the problem, so it must be the site that doesn't work. I know. Instead of asking for advice, I'll complain in a forum post because that'll make me sound much more endearing and not like an entitled ass at all.. 🙄 " And then be rude to the people who reply, that'll increase my appeal! | |||
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"Oh no, women aren't lining up to throw themselves at me. I've made no effort on my profile, but I can't be the problem, so it must be the site that doesn't work. I know. Instead of asking for advice, I'll complain in a forum post because that'll make me sound much more endearing and not like an entitled ass at all.. 🙄 " 🤣👏👏 | |||
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"Nothing worse then seeing this kind of thread and then seeing no effort in there profile. You can't complain about not having meets if you haven't put in any effort to make yourself look good in your profile No, that’s never the reason, it’s that Fab doesn’t work!" my mistake 😂😂 | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that?" Well, it does. I've met single men and they've met other women and couples, so that implies a success rate of some degree for the overpopulated single male. Why do you think it doesn't work? | |||
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"This site works for some single males. I regularly meet up with one who has 500 verifications. " If you were to separate those 500 veris between club meets and purely Fab meets, how many are purely Fab meets? To remain relevant to the OP……? | |||
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Op I suggest getting your brain cell serviced at some point maybe even check temu for a new one……
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"For single males.... So why is that?" From our perspective it's because so many men come across absolutely dreadfully here, be it photos, messages or profile text. | |||
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"For single males.... So why is that?" Works better if you add in just one word. For SOME single males.... So why is that? | |||
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"I just rebooted it. It's working fine now. ▪️🩶▪️" Only two more posts left for this thread, then we can put this to bed. All sorted, thank you Nero 😎👍 | |||
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